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John Guard Darrah
46, of Cambridge, Massachusetts died September 7, 2012, when he was struck by a boat while swimming in Flathead Lake near Polson, Montana. He was there with his wife Emily Newmann, their young daughters Maxine and Sadie, and many other family members who had gathered to honor the memory of Emily's stepfather, Ted Smith, who died September 1 in a hiking accident.
John was born in Stockton, California, on April 26, 1966. After graduating from Lincoln High School in Stockton, he moved to Maine, where he co-owned a bakery and lived in a teepee while studying at the College of the Atlantic. In 1986, John walked across the United States to promote nuclear disarmament as part of the Great Peace March. He then joined the Anarchist movement in the United States and Europe, eventually returning to the Bay Area to resume his education at UC Berkeley. There, known to his fellow activists as "Jonnie Vermont," John helped lead the student occupation of Barrington Hall and other major campus protests of the early 1990s. He had an indomitable spirit and sense of integrity and advocated strongly for social and economic justice, focusing in particular on the preservation of women's reproductive rights. While attending Cal, John also studied for a year in northern Vietnam. He graduated from Cal in 1993, magna cum laude and a member of Phi Beta Kappa.
After graduation, John developed low-income housing in San Francisco before obtaining his MBA in finance from the Sloan School of Management at MIT. John worked as a consultant for Mercer Management Consulting in New York and then on various projects in San Francisco before becoming a development manager for The General Investment & Development Company (GID) in Boston. John took great pride and satisfaction in his work at GID, where he was developing more than 12 million square feet of mixed-use projects across the country.
While living in New York, John met Emily Newmann, a social worker and artist, at a friend's wedding. John and Emily were married in San Francisco and lived there before settling in Cambridge, MA. John shared his passion for Southeast Asia with Emily, and they traveled together to Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia and Thailand. They enjoyed art, cooking, hiking and exploring the world together. John was a devoted and loving husband and father. He rode Maxine, 7, and Sadie, 4, to school every day on his bike, memorized new songs to sing to them at night, taught them to swim, made papier-mâché airplanes on rainy days, and laughed at all their antics.
John was an avid distance runner and had just completed his first two triathlons. He was equally at home in a tent in the Sierra Nevada or on the New York City subway; he loved the beauty and solitude of the wilderness but also the loud heartbeat, grit, creative surge and ironies of city life. He was engaged in Cambridge politics and was part of the Main Street North Cambridge group that worked on local zoning laws.
John was outspoken and kind-hearted, clear-thinking and passionate, and so full of life. He had a dry wit and contagious sense of humor that kept a smile on his face and those around him in stitches.
John is also survived by his father, the Honorable James (Judy Chambers) Darrah of Stockton; sister Jeanne (David Robinson) Darrah, nephews Guard and Bridge and niece Darrah Robinson of San Francisco; brother Peter (Amy) Darrah, nephew Douglas and niece Delia of Mountain View; Emily's sister Sara (Doug Sovern) Newmann of Berkeley; and many other relatives and friends. John's mother, the Honorable Joan V. Darrah, former Mayor of Stockton, preceded him in death, as did his in-laws John M. Newmann, Mary Misch Newmann and Ted Smith. A memorial service will be held in Cambridge on October 7 at a location to be determined. In lieu of flowers, please contribute in John's memory to Doctors Without Borders, the Center for Reproductive Rights, or the Democratic Natinal Committee.

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Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Sep. 15 to Sep. 16, 2012.

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Gregory 'gar' Russell

October 4, 2012

I knew John during his Johnny Vermont era at Cal and when he was active with ACT UP/East Bay in Berkeley/Oakland. He was indeed a live wire, an active, happy, vital person. And though I haven't seen him in many years, I still remember him fondly and I am shocked and saddened by news of his early passing. My condolences to all of his family.

Jonathan Winters

October 4, 2012

From Soweto to Berkeley to Hanoi to Montana, Thank You John for the kind smile and hearty laugh; thank you Nishinga & Paul for letting me know I'd never see or hear it again...sometimes it's better to know. Much love to the family, as we all share in this tragic loss.

Susan Rice

October 2, 2012

Just want to send my condolences to Emily and all the family. Though I didn't know John, he sounds like such a wonderful person and the kind who makes the world better for those he knows and for many he has never met. So sorry for your loss. Susan Rice, ( CCAE print studio)

John Crespi

September 24, 2012

John and I ran cross country together in High School. My mom sent me the obituary asking if I remembered him. Of course, I did. I wasn't surrpised to read that John's life after LHS was amazing and inspiring. I remember him as a truly nice guy with a great laugh, sense of humor, and a well-functioning moral compass. Sounds like he only improved on those qualities over the years. My prayers to his family.

Peter Megginson

September 22, 2012

I am so deeply saddened by your loss. Johnny was a sweet, intelligent, wonderful, kind, funny, genuine, and loving man. I will miss him too. He was my friend from the Peace March as well, and part of the Black Flag village from the start. John has been on my mind a great deal since I learned of his passing, and I wish your family solace from this great loss.

Sherri McCutchen

September 21, 2012

John and I traveled home from the Peace March together. It was a very sad and strange transition back into the world, and John's hearty joy in life and friendship helped ease the passage. I had often wondered what was up with him, and am delighted, but not surprised, at the beautiful paths he followed and the HUGE footprint he left. He lives on in many, many, many hearts. My deepest sympathies to Emily, Maxine, Sadie, family, and friends - he will be missed in the world, and remembered with great love - and not a little laughter.

dina petrillo-herz

September 20, 2012

John was one of the finest (and funniest) humans I have ever known. Decades later, memories persist of heated debates, creative irreverence and side-splitting antics. Meteoric and unforgettable John (Jonnie V.) running like a deer, dancing like a juggernaut, charging into battle, howling with laughter, roaring with conviction...his mane of orange dreadlocks blazing defiant and exuberant. A spirit that intrepid will not fade quickly or quietly. I resist saying farewell and be sure John will be toasted mightily here among old COA friends this coming Common Ground Fair weekend. My thoughts are with his family and dear ones. I am so very sorry for your loss.

DB

September 18, 2012

Dear family, please know that many prayers are with you during this very tragic time. Look to the God of all comfort for help to endure.

May your wonderful memories of John bring you a measure of peace.

Blake Ludwig

September 18, 2012

Wow John - You did a lot of good works during your life. I'm so proud of you. We had a great time walking across the USA on the peace march. remember how we tended sheep for Roberta Blackgoat on the Navajo reservation for a week with David, and she'd always know if we hadnt taken them out long enough?
Hhóka-Héy my friend

Jill Rosenheim Hurwitz

September 17, 2012

This wonderful description of John makes me feel as if I know him, and makes me sorry I didn't. My heart goes out to you for your unspeakable loss, and send love to my cousins and and their families and friends.

Ben Atherton-Zeman

September 17, 2012

I had the privilege of walking across the United States with John on the Great Peace March for Global Nuclear Disarmament - he and his long hair will be missed. We're all talking about him on the Peace March Facebook page - we're very sorry for your loss.

Linda Van den akker

September 17, 2012

John epitomized kindness, gentleness, and decency. A devastating loss for our family.

Ted Bartlett

September 17, 2012

John was a thoughtful, creative & positive friend who was a pleasure to work with developing affordable housing in San Francisco 1993-1994. I am stunned with the news and offer my condolence to his family. If there is a memorial gathering in SF or the Bay Area, please let me know. Thank you. Ted Bartlett [email protected] 415.254.0711

carole schmidt

September 17, 2012

Sad to learn of John's death. I met John on the GPM, while walking through Iowa. What a remarkable young guy with such conviction and passion--he really left me feeling wowed! Reading the latest on him, I marvel at all he's accomplished, such a wonderful mix of talents. To Emily and his daughters and all his family, our sincere condolences on this tragic loss. With love and peace to John...

Priscilla Burney

September 17, 2012

I had the pleasure to work alongside John when he first came to GID. We had many laughs-and it was certainly a pleasure to watch his family grow. It is unfair the world lost out this way. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts and heartfelt prayers go out to Emily, Maxine, and Sadie; and to everyone who is grieveing over this tragedy. We miss you, John!

Julia Gosztyla Ziobro

September 17, 2012

Johnny was a lovely friend on the Great Peace March and I will miss him very much. I'm so glad we had that year together. My heartfelt condolences to his whole family, take comfort in the laughter and warmth you shared.

September 17, 2012

My heart goes out to you . I am so sorry .
Love
Pamela Davis Kivelson

Julie Rasmussen

September 17, 2012

I'm so sad to hear this. I will never forget John. My condolences to his family and all those who had the pleasure to know him.

Victoria Coburn

September 16, 2012

I knew John in high school and am very saddened to hear of his early departure from this planet.

Tucker Pamella Farley

September 16, 2012

A beautiful human being. My condolences.

Cheryl Mitchell

September 16, 2012

I am so sorry the world has lost John. He stepped up to help bolster my spirits during a time where kindness was not shown to me. He didn't need to, yet it seemed important to him. I regret not telling him more completely how thankful I was for a few brief conversations that helped me to continue, when quitting seemed the only option.

Bless his soul, and those of his wife and daughters and remainder of his family.

David Spinner

September 15, 2012

What a remarkable man, husband and father.

Cynthia

September 15, 2012

When I read of the tragedy, I had to tell you how sorry I am. I do not believe there are enough words, to describe John. May his memories help soothe all the pain and sadness-have ow-and always. Cindy J a stranger and mom who cares. mom of Gus 32, Fred 30 and the late Frankie May-born 22 of August 1977 and passed away the 30th of October, after a long illness RIP Frankie May and John with Love NOW ad always your families, friends and all who knew you. all who knew this man .

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