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Josephine Nightingale Obituary

Josephine Anne Nightingale

June 27, 1926 - June 12, 2019

Josephine Anne Nightingale, cherished mother, left the stage peacefully on June 12, 2019, surrounded by her beloved family. She was just 15 days shy of her 93rd birthday.

Josie was born on June 27, 1926 to San Francisco natives, Antone and Mary Widmar. She was raised on Protero Hill amongst a tight knit family and community of fellow Slovenians. Josie's youth was spent immersed in dance, which became her lifelong passion.

After graduating from St Vincent's High School, Josie became a Helene Hughes dancer and worked for several years at the Bal Tavern and various camp shows entertaining the troops during WWII.

In 1956, Josie and Bill moved to Marin County where they raised their children and spent many years playing golf at Silverado Country Club with their many friends. After Bill's passing, Josie entered the world of retail at Gymboree where she spent the last years of her career as their top saleswoman, known to all as Grandma Josie, dressing the little "fashionistas" of Marin. Her final act over the last several years, however, was as CEO of her one-woman knitting company where Josie knitted her famous "Grandma Josie's booties and baby blankets" for a new generation.

Josie's most cherished roles in life were as a wife, mother, grandmother and friend. Her greatest joy was attending family gatherings with the Kockos family where she was surrounded by "her fans" who dearly loved her style and most of all, her stories. Josie enjoyed talking to and meeting new people and she always had a keen interest in everyone she met. We will remember her as a sweet, cheerful, generous and beautiful woman who will remain forever in our hearts.

Josie was preceded in death by her parents and by the two great Irish loves of her life, husbands Jack O'Leary (1952) and Bill "Rosie" Nightingale (1991). She was also predeceased by her beloved sister, Dorothy Wader (2016), and by numerous family members and friends.

Josie is survived by her loving children, Coleen Dziachan (David) and David Nightingale (Melissa); her five treasured grandchildren, Jonathan (Kianna), Derek and Brooke Nightingale; Christian and Mackensie Dziachan; her brothers-in-law, Dick Wader and Ray O'Leary, and many nieces, nephews and adopted grandchildren. She will also be remembered as the adored mother-in-law of Dr. David Alan Dziachan and Melissa Kockos Nightingale for over 45 years.

We are pretty sure there was a big welcome home party in Heaven, orchestrated by her buddy, P.K.

We will miss you Mom and may God hold you in the palm of his hand until we meet again.

Friends are invited to attend a memorial mass on Tuesday, June 25 at 12:30 pm at Our Lady of Angels Church in Burlingame. In lieu of flowers, a memorial contribution is preferred to the St. Jude Children's Research Hospital – 501 St Jude Place Memphis Tennessee 38105 or [email protected]

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Jun. 16 to Jun. 18, 2019.

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Mehvash

May 26, 2023

Dear Josie, thank you for knitting booties for my first born back in 2012 and sending me a care package after I left Marin. I worked with Josie at Gymboree and adored her. She shared wonderful stories of her life and was such a pleasure to work with. I will always cherish the time I spent with her and her favorite saying, "Son of a gun" :) Josie, I know you are in heaven smiling down at all of us. I was thinking of her and googled her name and found this. My condolences to the family. Josie was an incredible human being and so fun to be around. I will always remember Josie Sincerely, your Manager from Gymboree, Mehvash.

June 25, 2019

I am very sorry for your loss.

June 19, 2019

Josephine was a beautiful, caring and talented woman who kept us all entertained with her fantastic stories. She was generous with her love, and with her gifts. We are grateful for the time we had with her, and will miss her always. Josie definitely is lighting up Heaven, reuniting with PK and my Mom, Harriet!

June 16, 2019

May Almighty God and his son Jesus Christ bless and comfort your family in this time of sorrow. John 17:3

Sharon Ghilardi-Udovich

June 16, 2019

My deepest sympathy to Josephine's family. Such a lovely lady. Her smile was so bright.

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