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Mary Jester Obituary

Mary Jester June 11, 1946 - May 9, 2014 SOUTH BEND - Mary A. Jester, 67, of South Bend passed away Friday, May 9 at Hospice House in Roseland surrounded by ALL of her children and loving husband. Mary was born to James Grant Montieth and Mary Marguarite Miller on June 11, 1946. She lived in South Bend most of her life. Mary went to Riley High School. On June 29, 1964 Mary married her high school sweet heart, Larry A Jester, Sr who survives-they would have been married for 50 years in June. Eternal love. Mary is also survived by 3 sons and 2 daughters, Jim -Laura (Mo) Jester of South Bend, Scott-Sherri Jester of South Bend, Lori-Kevin MIlls of South Bend, Greg-Joanne Jester of South Bend, and Becky-Jason Jester of South Bend; Two sisters, Maggie (Jane)-Sam Noe of Missiouri, and Sue-Ken James of South Bend. Mary was proceeded in death by her loving son, Larry A. Jester Sr. (momma and you are together in Heaven forever and ever). Mary had 25 grandchildren that she loved dearly and 2 great grand children. Mary worked for the City of South Bend for 29 plus years as a radio room operator and secretary for the Street Dept in South Bend before retiring from the city. Mary enjoyed yard work, camping, her children, and grandchildren. She loved talking with good friends, her dog Charlie, and she devoted her life to her wonderful husband of 49 years of marriage. The Family is planning a Celebration of Life Cermony for the immediate family. Kaniewski Funeral Home is handling arrangements. Mom your life was too short as they always are but your family loves you and will miss you-we will meet again someday. I know your spirit lives inside all of us, but we wish you were still here. We love you.

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Published by South Bend Tribune on May 12, 2014.

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Randy Fish

May 6, 2023

With fond memories...RIP Mary.........

Larry Jester

December 25, 2016

Today is Christmas Day and I envy you for being able to spend it with Jesus Christ. It must be beautiful in heaven especially at this time of year. I want you to know that your spot in my heart will never be filled by another. I know you can see what's going on and I know it hurts you but like in the talk we had last night I have to see if there's anything there or not. I love you and I always will there is no changing that but I am still here with a very empty spot in my life. I don't want your blessing I just don't want you to hate me either

Larry Jester

June 11, 2016

Today is your birthday. I hope the Angels will have a party for you ,I sure wish I could. You are always in my thoughts and my heart and I keep holding on to your strength to make it through each day. I still can't believe ours lives turned out separated this way,but my love for you is stronger now than ever. Party good. I know you are well in Gods hands and for that I am happy. I love you

Larry Jester

May 7, 2016

Monday it will be two years since you passed. It seems like only yesterday. With each day that goes by I miss you more ,there is a giant hole in my heart that will never be filled by any other. The 50 plus years we were together was not enough. The things we have together have turned to just stuff. I am very fortunate to have had the time we had together. My memories of you being here are something I will never lose. I love you and some day we will be side by side forever.

Lori Mills

June 11, 2015

Happy birthday mom!!! I miss you more than ever!!! I love you!

Maggie Noe

May 9, 2015

You were the best sister ever and I will admit it took several years to realize that. I miss you so much and more than I thought I would. I know you are with the Lord and so healthy now but would give anything to see you, hug you, pick on you, tell you just how much I love you and then send you back home to your peace and Jesus. We are watching over Larry for you. He misses you, its be hard but he is managing it. You would be proud.

Larry Jester

May 9, 2015

It has been a year today since you passed and I miss you more now .Time will never lessen the pain because each day I think of something more that I miss about you, it's funny how love can still grow.I wish there is more I could of done so you would still be here with me. I know I'm greedy but that's only because I Love You way beyond any kind of words could explain.You have shown me several times you are still here with me and you will forever be in my heart. It's not a mountain too but it's here for everyone to see and read, I Love You.

Linda Andersen

March 21, 2015

You should look at Larry he is looking good and healthy. Mary I know you're watching him from heaven. Keep and eye on him the family is doing their best. They all love you very much and miss you, so do I my friend.

Maggie Noe

December 25, 2014

Merry Christmas Mary Alice. I love you.

Lori

December 15, 2014

Mom I think about you often and have so much I wish I could say, but I think you know what is in my heart and what weighs on my mind. Know that I am truly great full for the time we had and that I love you bunches and bunches!

December 13, 2014

Love & miss ya. Remembering the good ol days on Fellows St. and all the trouble we got into with our parents. LOL
Miss your smile and wits but they will be with us till the end ! Nobody could ever get a word in edgewise for you were always running your motor mouth. Your laugh was contagious! We all knew how that was. You always seemed to know what direction you were going (good or bad).
By the grace of God We will see ya soon so we can pick up where we left off…
Bruce & Bev Ward

Maggie Noe

December 12, 2014

You are indeed missed so terribly and this time of year will be so difficult with out you. I know if you were here you would love my hair..lol I love you sis!!

October 7, 2014

I never met you but I know you have a very strong, sweet, and amazing lady you call daughter. She loves so much and works hard! Which to me makes you one amazing lady! I am so blessed to know your daughter and call her my friend. Thank you for her. Rest in heaven.

sherri

June 27, 2014

I have thought of you ALOT lately.I plant beautiful flowers in the yard you raised your children.I smile at the thought of how you loved pulling weeds.We all love and miss you Ma.

Maggie Noe

June 11, 2014

Happy Birthday sis! I love you always.

May 26, 2014

Sis I miss you every day and talk to you just like we always did. I set up a little memorial in front (your favoite place. I knew you smiled when I got done. I spend time there with you. If tears could bring about a memory lane I would bring you back again, this time healthy and we could pick on each other again! I love you more than even I could ever imagine. See you soon, your youngest sister.....LOL Gottcha!!!

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camping days

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May 14, 2014

I cried when I found out that you had gone to be with the Lord. You are at peace now with the Lord and one day we will see each other again. Your sister,Sue

Kelli R.

May 14, 2014

Mama Jester.... I did not see you often, but when I had the pleasure, it was always a time to remember. Thank you for all the laughs & nothing but good memories.
~Rest in heaven

May 14, 2014

I have been thinking about Mary lately not knowing how sick she must have been. My sincere sympathy to you all. I worked with Mary at the Street Department, we were really good friends. I will always treasure her friendship. Love, Mary Ann Somers

Cheryl D.

May 13, 2014

It was my pleasure to help take care of such a wonderful lady.

Lou Grounds

May 13, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time of sorrow. I worked for Equipment Services and worked with Mary on several occasions
throughout the years that we worked for the City.

David Slocum

May 13, 2014

you will be miss very much and love you.. you are great woman and i am proud to call you mom when i loss my owned love you all as family my prayers with you all

david slocum

May 13, 2014

you will be miss very much and you are a great woman and i love you very much i am happy for you be my mom the time you where here love you mary(mom)jester

Ginger Mccarty

May 13, 2014

I will miss hearing, "You were always my favorite". (Favorite WHAT I was never sure...LOL). Always accompanied by a giggle, kiss & a hug if I was within reach.. She always made sure I knew just how much I was loved & that is a priceless gift. I will miss her.

Lori Mills

May 13, 2014

Mom we Jester's are as hard headed as they come but I will be forever greatful for these last 10 months! I wanted 23 more years but I must take comfort in knowing I will always have you in my heart! Right now that isn't enough but just know I love you more that you will ever know and having you in my life was a gift that I will be enternally grateful for! I wish for a lot right now and having you back is one of them! Please please know I love you and my heart hurts but I will be o.k. I love you mom!

Maggie "Jane" Noe

May 13, 2014

I miss you my BIG sister. You & I have been through a lot but one thing I knew was that we loved each other bunches & bunches. You are in my heart always until I see you again. I love you soooo very much

Becky Jester

May 13, 2014

momma I love you..I imagine from the first moment we laid eyes on each other it was love at first sight..sure you had 5 other little ones but I was your last. I miss you..I know you're with me everyday..but its not the same..I know I told you everyday for as long as I can remember that I love you. I'm glad your suffering is over and that you can breath easy again..we will all take care of dad for you..I will keep you close always..continue to guide me..I love you more than all the grains of sand in the whole wide world Momma..I know it was your time..you were chosen..rest easy and tell Larry I said hi and I love him too.

Sherri Jester

May 13, 2014

Mom,you will extremely missed! You were my guidebook to understanding your son!! I will cherish our talks,coffee times, and especially camping. Thank you for blessing my life with your presence .

Randy Fish

May 13, 2014

Sincere condolences to Larry and the whole family. Will remember Mary fondly from 55 years ago, to today and tomorrow..R.I.P...

Larry Jester

May 12, 2014

I wish there was more I could of given You would still be here today you left a giant hole in my heart but everything is done on Gods time not ours I will love you forever you will always be in the lives of our children and mine. For anyone that did not know you, they missed a Great Woman, Mother and Wife You are truly missed and I LOVE YOU

Kathie Burger-Corban

May 12, 2014

Greg, Becky, Lori and family, I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Beverly Smigielski-Chapman

May 12, 2014

Very sorry to hear of the loss of your mom...prayers for your family's comfort during this time.

Pat Correll

May 12, 2014

Larry and all, I am so very sorry to hear that Mary has passed. After being her hair stylist for so many years, there is one thing that I am absolutely sure of, her family was everything. I know you will all miss her more than can be expressed. But know you have an angel up there watching over all of you, just as she did on earth. My deepest sympathy.

May 12, 2014

May you find comfort in the arms of an angel.
Sincerely & Respectfully,
Ron & Evelyn Cesavice

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