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BYRNINA SOCOLOFSKY Obituary

Byrnina Brooks Socolofsky Byrnina Brooks Socolofsky, 97, passed away peacefully in her home on July 14, 2015. She was graduated cum laude from Ottawa University in Kansas with a BA in music, studying violin, viola and conducting with Everett Fetter. Later, she studied viola with Harry Zaratzian, principal violist of the Philadelphia Orchestra, and with Leonard Magill, also of the Philadelphia Orchestra. She played violin and viola professionally, including participating for eight years in conducting workshops of the American Symphony Orchestra League in Virginia and California. She was a founding member and principal viola of the Woodbury Symphony for fourteen years and principal viola of the Haddonfield Symphony for three years. In 1960, Mrs. Socolofsky organized a string program in the Glassboro Public Schools, and the same year, started the Glassboro High School Orchestra. In 1965, this orchestra was chosen by competitive audition to represent New Jersey at the Eastern Division of the Music Educators National Conference held in Buffalo, NY. In January of 1983, Mrs. Socolofsky conducted the All South Jersey High School Orchestra the first woman to have this honor. Later that year, in conjunction with members of the music faculty of Glassboro State College (now Rowan University), she organized the Youth Orchestra at GSC, with a membership of 83 students. She conducted this orchestra for three years. In later years, when she was in her 80's, she performed with The Philharmonic of Southern New Jersey as a member of the viola section. In 2013, Mrs. Socolofsky received an award from the Gloucester County Education Association for outstanding service to the students and employees of the Gloucester County Public Schools. In 2014, Mrs. Socolofsky was a finalist for the first Ovation Award, given by the Philadelphia Youth Orchestra, for inspirational leadership in music education. Mrs. Socolofsky was a member of MENC, had twice been a member of the New Jersey State Board of Directors for the American String Teachers Association, and was a member of the New Jersey All State Orchestra Procedures Committee for four years. Mrs. Socolofsky taught string music, primarily viola and violin, for more than 70 years! In fact, she taught until illness forced her to retire a few months shy of her 94th birthday! Hundreds of fine viola and violin performers and music educators trace their roots to years of intense and well-prepared lessons in Mrs. Socolofsky's studio. In addition to teaching students how to play well, she also gave them many life lessons, such as the value of hard work, determination, confidence, and mastery of the English language. An inspiration to everyone, she was a stickler for hard work and success, and she always got it, not only from her students, but especially from herself. She was preceded in death by her husband, John F. Socolofsky, who was involved in the development of the first synthetic oil for the automobile, Mobil 1, at Mobil Research and Development in Paulsboro, NJ. She was also preceded in death by her older sister, Alberta Brooks Fogdall, of Lake Oswego, OR. She is survived by her loving and devoted children, Diane and David. Funeral services at Hillcrest Memorial Park will be private. A public memorial service will be scheduled for a later date. Please check Kelley Funeral Home website at www.kelleyfhpitman.com for the memorial service details to be announced at a later date and to leave a condolence for the family. In lieu of flowers, the family requests a donation to Rowan University Foundation, 201 Mullica Hill Road, Glassboro, NJ 08028, directed to the Byrnina B. Socolofsky Memorial Music Scholarship Fund SJB17socolofsky.jpg.jpgKelley Funeral Home 125 Pitman Ave. Pitman, NJ 08071 856-589-6308

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Published by South Jersey Times on Jul. 19, 2015.

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Kathleen

July 14, 2025

Byrnina will always hold a special place in my heart for so many reasons........a loving friend, and one who always had a twinkle in her eye!! Miss you!! Love, Kathy

Tim Hwu

December 14, 2024

Ms Socolofsky was only my viola teacher for one year and was one of the toughest teachers I had in my life. She demanded hard work and instilled a level of excellence in me that I didn't fully appreciate until mich later in life. I am only finding this 9 years late but want to thank her for what she was able to teach me in that short period of time.

Kathleen Beatty

July 13, 2021

Byrnina, you will always be in my heart, and never forgotten; miss you dear friend!!!!

Kathleen M Beatty c/o Beatty

July 15, 2020

Byrnina will always hold a special place in my heart. She was a wonderful friend to me, along with being an amazing educator and musician to so many who were fortunate enough to have crossed paths with her. I will love and miss her always........Kathy

Kathleen Beatty

December 12, 2015

Dear Diane and & David,
As your mother's birthday is Dec. 14th, please know she will not be forgotten, and will be thought of in the hearts of the many lives' she has touched. I miss her, and will have a toast in her honor on the 14th with her favorite... Gewurztraminer. Kathy

John Venturini

August 30, 2015

Mrs. Soc was an inspiration and taking lessons with her was the bright spot in my week. She was truly one-of-a-kind. My condolences and deepest sympathies are with her family as they go through this difficult time.

Maria Lombardo-Arlotta

August 27, 2015

Mrs. Soc influenced so many of us during her time in the Glassboro Public Schools. She will be missed!

August 7, 2015

Diane and David,
Your mother was a wonderful and lovely person. Very sorry for your loss.
Tina

Micki Henderson Mossbrucker

July 22, 2015

My family, the Henderson family of Turnersville, NJ, knew this wonderful woman, musician and educator through her professional association with our father, Harold W. Henderson, Sr., (deceased 2004). former Vocal Director and music teacher at Glassboro High School, and through dear mutual friends, Earl and Mary Saul, also formerly of Glassboro. I do believe that our brother, H. Wayne Henderson and his wife, Bonnieanne, also knew Mrs. Socolofsky as students of music at Glassboro State (now Rowan University) and as music educators and performers. In the decades of our family's acquaintance with Mrs. Socolofsky, her name arose frequently in conversation. She was always spoken of with the highest regard for her personal and professional integrity, her devotion to her students and to excellence, and her kindness. We are so sorry for your loss but rejoice with you in Heaven's gain.

Sally Drissel Hemingway

July 21, 2015

Mrs Soc you are one of a kind! Love you!!!

Jeanette Block

July 20, 2015

Have wonderful memories of my lessons. Thanks to Mrs Soc, I am still playing the violin.

Marta Schindler

July 20, 2015

To my teacher, neighbor, and friend. I treasure the love of music you instilled in me. Thank you for giving me confidence when I needed it the most and for being so kind and generous to me and my family. How wonderful to leave such an outstanding legacy.

Bevin Serey

July 20, 2015

It was a privilege to work with her she will be missed in the music world

Greg Joannides

July 19, 2015

A wonderful and charming woman. Style, class, character and talent which she shared with all.

Susan (Ott) Spatzier

July 19, 2015

Most people will never realize what a brilliant person Mrs. Soc was in both life and music! Perfect pitch and perfect timing, exuding the ultimate in class. Heaven has a new teacher, and the orchestra will be astounded.

Martha Frampton

July 19, 2015

Mrs. Soc was a fine teacher and inspiring person. She was the inspiration for the excellent violists from this area.

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