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Mary Schmidt Obituary
Elmira - Age 94, peacefully passed away, surrounded by her loving family, on Wednesday, March 18, 2020 at St. Joseph's Hospital. Mary, a lifelong resident of Elmira, NY, was the daughter of Paul and Anna Kelly Titus. She was predeceased by her brothers, John (Ruth) Titus and James (Jean) Titus; sisters, Kathleen (Paul) Kane and Jean (Robert) Jung; and great grandson Sean E. Marshall. Mary is survived by her husband of 72 years, John R. Schmidt, her children, Kathleen (Paul) Hansen of CA, Mary Lou (Charlie) Adams of TX, Martin, Margaret (Edward) Greatsinger, Daniel (Colleen) all of Elmira, Joseph (Marcie) of FL, John (Eliza) of ID, Teresa (David) Schmidt-Wiggs of WA, Michael (Jennifer McCallum) of Endicott, David (Martine Barnaby) of Vestal and Steven (Diane Paulo) of WA, 20 grandchildren, 11 great grandchildren, and many nieces, nephews and dear friends. A longtime communicant of St. Patrick's Church, Mary was a devout Catholic who practiced her faith in her daily life. Mary was a loving, kind, and generous wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend with a quick wit and a twinkle in her eye. Mary loved reading, lilacs, lavender, playing the piano and good grammar; she was a wonderful dancer and was very proud of her Irish heritage. An inspiration to all, Mary was always ready to lend a helping hand, listen without judgement, and offer sensible advice when asked. To her children, Mary was a saint. She and John created a home where all were welcome, filled with the love and laughter of family and lifelong friends, including the Poker Club, Polka Gliders, White Eagle Singers and College Ave. neighbors. Many considered the Schmidt house their second home. Services for Mary will be private. A celebration of Mary's life will be held at a future date. The family expresses sincere gratitude to the staff of Woodbrook and to the staffs of A5 and C5 at St. Joseph's Hospital for the loving care they provided Mary. In lieu of flowers or donations, please honor Mary's memory with an act of kindness and remember, "There but for the grace of God go you."
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March 29, 2020
My prayers and sympathies to JR and the Schmidt family. I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Mary Alice, a wonderful and wise woman that I had the privilege of knowing as I grew up with Peggy. I was always impressed by the strength and unity of the Schmidt family and College Ave was often a home away from home. May your love for each other and memories help you through this difficult time.
Fondly, Rosie Ervin Sheldon
Deb and Tom Narde
March 23, 2020
My deepest sympathy to uncle john and my cousins,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss ,Aunt Mary was a wonderful lady and I have many fond memories .
March 21, 2020
Dear Mary Lou and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Cherish the lifetime of memories to get through this difficult time. Sincerely,
The Giammichele Family
Pat, Ria, Joe and Nick
Jay Raymond
March 20, 2020
Dan&Colleen and family, I'm sorry to read of the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sally Donahue
March 20, 2020
Peggy and family--I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I always thought the world of your mom and have many fond memories of spending time at the "Schmidts" during my high school years. May God bless her and may she rest in peace.
Sally (Ridosh) Donahue
Lindsay Thurston
March 20, 2020
Mary was such a wonderful person. I truly cherished time spent with her when I worked at SNF. Mary always could put a smile on my face! She was a true blessing to know and I was truly privileged knowing her and the family I met! I am thinking of you all during this time. Shine bright Mary and know you will be truly missed.
Teresa and Dick Reidy
March 20, 2020
To the Schmidt Family
We are so sorry to hear about your Mothers passing
It seems like the College Ave Schmidt Family was always around. I enjoyed seeing Mary on St Joseph's 5th floor while visiting my Brother Harry
May she Rest In Peace.
March 20, 2020
My deepest sympathy for the Schmidt Family. I really enjoyed not only Mary but her family as well! She had a great smile and chuckle! May she rest in God's love and grace.
Gary Durfee
Retired Dietary Director of Woodbrook
March 19, 2020
Schmidt FamiIy ,
Very sorry to hear about your Mom. Wonderful Lady. Our prayers are with you and your family. God bless you all.
RICK Milazzo
Bonnie Hart
March 19, 2020
To The Schmidt Family -
Mary was the best. She had a wonderful sense of humor and raised wonderful human beings. May your joyful memories of her carry you through the upcoming months.
Very Sincerely,
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