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Richard Van Der Wende Obituary

CENTREVILLE - Richard Peter Van Der Wende, 70, of Centreville, Md., passed away on Nov. 1, 2018, at his residence.
Born on Feb. 13, 1948, in Patterson, N.J., he was the son of the late Howard James Van Der Wende and Mildred Mattie O'Neal Van Der Wende. Rich attended Midvale Elementary and Haskell Schools, Lakeland Regional High School, Tarkio College and Glenville State College, where he received his B.A. in education in 1970. Rich also earned his Master of Arts degree from Washington College in 1980. He married his high school sweetheart, the late Susan (Sue) Carol Larson, on Sept. 2, 1967. Upon graduating from Glenville State, Rich and Sue moved to Centreville on the Eastern Shore of Maryland to begin his teaching career. He taught History at Queen Anne's County High School for 12 years, as well as coached baseball and wrestling, before exploring other careers in sales and restoration. He was most recently employed at Price & Gannon's Ace Hardware.
Some of his favorite times were spent with his daughter and son-in-law, granddaughters and his dog, Lucy. Rich enjoyed attending the theater with his late wife and brother and sister-in-law. He was an avid fan of the Baltimore Orioles and Baltimore Ravens. Rich was an early American history buff and loved to travel. He gave back to his community over the years through his membership in the Jaycees, Lions and Rotary Clubs. He was also a behind-the-scenes helper for the Girl Scouts.
Rich is survived by his loving daughter, Michelle (Shellie) Hagan and her husband Gary; two granddaughters, Jessica and Hannah Hagan of Centreville. He is also survived by his brother, Jim and his wife Nancy of Kill Devil Hills, N.C.; and seven nieces.
In addition to his wife, Susan, he is preceded in death by his brother, Stanley.
There is no way to express the full life of Rich Van Der Wende or the ways he touched so many people. He was truly a kind man with a generous heart and devotion to his family. He will be greatly missed by his family, his friends and the community.
A Celebration of Life for Rich will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, Nov. 17, at Fellows, Helfenbein & Newnam Funeral Home, 408 S. Liberty St., Centreville, MD 21617.
Following the celebration, a fellowship is planned and all are invited to join. Details will be shared after the service.
Memorial contributions may be made to American Heart Association, 217 E. Redwood St., Suite 1100, Baltimore, MD 21202.

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Published by The Star Democrat from Nov. 6 to Nov. 7, 2018.

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Delba Riddick

November 13, 2018

Dear Richard Peter Van Der Wende Family-

Sincere condolences in the loss of Mr. Van Der Wende. His obituary shares the story of a man with great devotion and love for friends and family. He certainly offered a special gift to the world. I extend my heartfelt sympathy to each member of the family and community.

Tina Bargiband/Saddler

November 6, 2018

There just are no words to describe a man like Mr Rich; both strong and such a gentle soul. His pleasant personality, great sense of humor and a sweet smile. Although the time I knew him was brief; he certainly touched my heart and left an impression on my soul for a lifetime. Soar high Mr Rich; although you will be greatly missed I feel better knowing you'll be watching over us all from above.

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