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Renee Mayer Obituary

MAYER Renee Grace Mayer Attorney, bar association president Renee Grace Mayer (nee Miller), attorney, loving wife of 52 years, mother and grandmother, passed away on Friday, March 7, 2008, at the Weill Cornell Medical Center in New York City, surrounded by her family. Services will be held at Bernheim-Apter-Kreitzman Suburban Funeral Chapel, 68 Old Short Hills Rd., Livingston, (800) 938-6372, on Monday, March 10, 2008, at 11 a.m. Burial will follow at Beth David Memorial Park in Kenilworth. Born in Newark to Harry and Bertha Miller on April 17, 1933, Renee grew up in Elizabeth and was valedictorian of her Battin High School graduating class. She attended the International and Labor Relations School at Cornell University and graduated with the Class of 1955. She later went on to Hofstra University School of Law, where she served as an editor of The Law Review. As an attorney she had many accomplishments, notably the resolution of disputes during the air traffic controller crisis. Renee was president of the Nassau County Womens Bar Association from 1985 to 1986 and president of the Nassau Lawyers Association of Long Island from 1996 to 1997. She served as a law guardian and was active in local Democratic politics, including serving as a zone leader in Port Washington, N.Y., from 1980 to 1993. She also volunteered as an alumni interviewer for Cornell University. As much as she was a zealous advocate for her clients, Renee was an inspiration and champion for her children, grandchildren and other friends and family. She is survived by her husband, Joseph C. Mayer, M.D.; her four children, Douglas P. Mayer, Esq., Julie Mayer, Psy.D., Amy Lazar, M.D., and Andy Mayer, Ph.D., their spouses and 10 grandchildren. DEATH NOTICES

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Published by The Star-Ledger on Mar. 9, 2008.

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Dan Schechter

March 11, 2008

We miss our Aunt Cookie (aka Aunt Renee) so much that we can only think of all the wonderful ways that she helped and supported us and our family. This is such a great loss!
As Uncle Joe (aka Uncle Cake per Janni and Filip) said so wisely yesterday, "The amount of loss felt after her death is proportional to the gifts of happiness that she so thoughtfully gave during her life." She and Joe have been role models for us all. Our love for and memories of our Aunt and beloved Sister we will treasure for the rest of our lives. Love, Dan, Christine, Jan, Filip, Lori, Marty, and especially from Evelyn (Quote: "I can't say anything more-- it's so sad-- but "Oh, God...I love you all so much! I loved Cookie so much! I love you all! I wish you all the best!"

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