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Robert Gardner Obituary

Robert Sartor Gardner, 72, of St. Augustine, Florida passed away peacefully on Wednesday, May 1, 2019, surrounded by those who knew and loved him best: his wife, Bonnie Beth, and a close circle of his life-long friends. Rob would have wanted it no other way. Born in Jacksonville, Florida, to Howard L. and Willetta (Sartor) Gardner, Jr., Rob was raised in Palatka, Florida. As a youth his favorite times were spent on the St. Johns River with summers at Crescent Beach. Rob's happiest early adult years were spent seated at a piano and later-- in the mid-1960s to early 1970s -- standing behind an electric organ in the rock band The Illusions. Those early days of Beatles and Beach Boys influenced Rob as only those who grew up in that time period can fully appreciate. Rob's love of music and music-making took him many places and gave him countless forever-friends. To know gentle Rob was to love him and nothing made him smile larger than gathering with his friends. After band years Rob settled in Dallas eventually owning and managing The Abbey, a honkytonk bar and grill well-known for The Abbey Burger. In Texas a restaurant having popularity due to the taste of a hamburger is really saying something. Rob loved that: the people, the music, the food. In 1984 Rob returned home to Palatka as the marketing/showroom manager for Florida Furniture, Inc. in permanent showrooms in North Carolina, Georgia and Texas. Rob's friendship spread equally to factory workers, office staff, showroom personnel, company reps and furniture store owners as he authentically cared about people. Rob enjoyed Atlanta--a city he explored in his youth with his Grandfather Sartor who once arranged for Rob to play the mammoth organ at the famous Fox Theatre. Always the threads of family, friends and music wove together to make Rob's life full and privately meaningful.
Rob was preceded in death by his parents, Howard (Gabby) and Willetta, whom he actively, tenderly cared for in their last years. His dad in typical businessman style lovingly, laughingly called Rob his Purchasing Agent. We should all be so blessed with such times and memories. Rob is survived by his wife, Bonnie Beth and a brother, Howard L. Gardner, III, and Howard's extended family. Plus Singer-The-Cat who walked up off the street and adopted Rob years ago, leaving Rob's side only when absolutely necessary.
A Life Celebration to be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please honor Rob's love of animals by donating to The Humane Society or honor his love of music by listening to some Hank Williams.

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Published by St. Augustine Record from May 10 to May 31, 2019.

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Hank Spencer

June 26, 2022

To Bonnie Beth: I knew Robert through music. I was the keyboard player with the Ravens out of Jax Fl. The Illusions helped us in Palatka and we got them started in Jax . Both bands were friends and enjoyed each other. Always meant to track Robert down now I'm very sorry I never did (Today's date 6/26/2022) My condolences Just found out today.

Judie Snyder

June 15, 2019

Bonnie, although I did not know your love, I can see why he was exactly that...your love. Your special one. You have the most beautiful memories, and Singer to share them with you. Sending hugs. Judie

May 29, 2019

When someone we love falls asleep in death the memories we have of them become our treasure. May these cherished memories of a life well lived and God's promise at (John 6:40) bring you a measure of comfort. My deepest sympathy.

Tina Barnett

May 16, 2019

I will miss seeing Rob every month to give him a haircut. What a gentle and sweet man. Always a kind word for everybody. My condolences to you Bonnie.

Tami Mcleod-Trump

May 15, 2019

Bonnie, my love and prayers are with you always.
Tami Mcleod-Trump

May 14, 2019

Bonnie, Thinking of you and Singer during these challenging days....We will miss seeing Rob sit on his front porch, while Singer played in the yard. Tim and Sharon Phillips

Cindy Popp

May 11, 2019

Rest in peace Rob
My deepest condolences Bonnie
Love
Cindy Popp

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