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Mark Gardner Obituary

Montville - Mark Gardner, 38, of Uncasville, husband, father, son, brother, and friend, passed away unexpectedly on Friday Jan. 17, 2014.

He was preceded in death by his mother and father, Lloyd and Lillian Gardner of Bristol.

He is survived by wife, Melissa Lewis-Gardner; sons, Ryan and Mason Gardner of Uncasville; and daughter, Dylan Gardner of Crossville, Tenn.; sisters, Carla Rojas, Jesse Rodrigue and her husband, Eric, both of Bristol, and Debby Gardner of Lake Tahoe, Nev. He was uncle to six nieces and three nephews.

Mark was a U.S. Army veteran having graduated from the elite special operations 2nd Ranger Battalion's Airborne Ranger Company training and becoming part of the 101st Airborne Division. He was a member of NLCC and an avid music and motorcycle enthusiast.

Calling hours are from 6 to 8 p.m. on Thursday at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home, 48 Grand St., Niantic. There will be a funeral service conducted at 8 p.m. after the calling hours. Interment in Jordan Cemetery will be private at a later date.

Condolence messages may be left on Mark's memorial page at neilanfuneralhome.com.

In lieu of flowers, please use those funds to spend and enjoy time with your family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jan. 22, 2014.

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Robert Edwards

January 29, 2014

Mark you will be missed it was Great to have grown with you as classmates and friends. One day I will see you again my friend R.I.P

Alane Cook

January 23, 2014

Melissa and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Praying that the joyful memories you and your boys share will help to bring you some peace and comfort in the time ahead.
Bobby & Alane

Dean Howell

January 23, 2014

Now you can be with your parents in peace. You can also spend time with grammy Gardner. She love you very much
You will truly be missed Aunt Dean

Fredra Chamberlain

January 23, 2014

I am so sorry Melissa. praying for you and the family at this difficult time

Debby Gardner

January 23, 2014

I love and miss you Mark.

Tracy Leavitt

January 22, 2014

my prayers and thoughts are with the family I am so sorry for your loss,mark will be missed so much,love Tracy(Marks cousin)

Laura Mazzera

January 22, 2014

Sorry it said Jesus it was ment to say jessy.

Laura Mazzera

January 22, 2014

Debbie,Carla,Jesus so sorry to hear about Mark, I can remember Mark as being one of the cutest babies when he was born, then seeing him as an adult he turned out to be one of the nicest people and always seemed to have a smile when he was around family....love your cousin LAURA

Laura Mazzera

January 22, 2014

So sorry to hear about Mark.Our hearts and prayers are with you I remember as him being one of the cutest babies I saw and growing up to be one of the nicest people to talk to always seemed to be very family oriented and always smiling when he was around family love your cousin laura

Kyle Lake

January 22, 2014

From my family to yours we are all thinking about you stay strong cuz we are sending prayers Kyle ,Erica , Kalli , and Alexis

January 22, 2014

Uncle Ruland and Aunt Pat

Mike and Dottie Concascia

January 22, 2014

Dear Melissa, I am so sorry to hear of the untimely death of your husband Mark. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the days to come as you go through your grieving period. Find comfort in your little boys and focus on them as you move on. God Bless all of you

sheila lake

January 22, 2014

Prayers and thoughts are with u. Love to all

vic and jamee menor

January 22, 2014

So sad to hear this. Our hearts and prayers are with the family. Really hard to believe :( I'm so sorry. You will be missed mark.

January 22, 2014

With our deepest sympathy Melissa, boys and family

Dennis & Donna Sheehan and Family, East Lyme, Ct.

Donna De Los santos

January 22, 2014

Dear Melissa Mason,Ryan
And all of your family--My family will keep all of you and all of your family in ours prayers.. Stay strong and hold onto your wonderful memories-Your an amazingly strong person and especially strong mother --keep doing what you've been doing with those gorgeous boys and keep the faith

January 22, 2014

We are so very sorry to hear of Mark's passing. We remember him as a small child when he use to play with our children when we went to Conn. Our deepest sympathy to Debby and Carla and their families, to his wife and children. May the Lord comfort you at this time. Love Uncle Roger and Aunt Patsy

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