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Noeleen Barbara "Noey" Parker

1936 - 2020

BORN

1936

DIED

2020

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Niantic, Connecticut

Noeleen Parker Obituary

Mystic - Noeleen "Noey" Barbara Geno Parker, passed away Thursday, April 9, 2020, at home in Mystic. She was born in Lisbon. She is predeceased by her parents; her three sisters; and her husband, Bill Parker. She is survived by her daughters, Dr. Peri-Anne Chobot and her partner Mark Dennis of Elkridge, Md. and Dr. Pollyanna Parker and her husband Brett Parker of San Salvador, El Salvador; and three granddaughters, Jennifer Chapman and her husband James Chapman of Norwich, Samantha Peterson of Dallas, Texas and Elizabeth Peterson of California; and a step-granddaughter Maggie Parker of Flagstaff, Ariz.

Noey was a retired elementary school teacher, retiring from Waterford Public Schools, where she was a second grade teacher at Cohanzie Elementary School for the majority of her career. She was also a very proud alumna of Connecticut College, where she received her master's degree. It was not uncommon for former students of all ages to recognize Mrs. Parker and share a wonderful memory of their time in her class. She recognized and remembered each student that she encountered, too. She loved being a teacher and took great pride in her career.

She and Bill travelled extensively in their retirement; however, after a decade of living in Florida, she returned to Connecticut ten years ago. She was a very generous and kind friend and maintained core groups of close friends from high school, college and her time at Cohanzie. She was very well read; and she had a sharp and biting wit, that never ceased to amaze all of those who loved her.

Haunted in her later years by debilitating depression, she was a staunch advocate for people suffering from depression and anxiety; and spoke frequently about the need to remove the stigma associated with mental health issues. She will be missed by all who loved her and she will be remembered as one-of-a-kind.

At Noey's request, there will be no service; instead there will be a celebration of Noey's life later this year. The Thomas Neilan & Sons Funeral Home is in charge of the immediate arrangements. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Noey's name to the New London Area Food Coalition, 106 Truman Street, New London, CT 06320, one of the many important charities that she supported.

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Published by The Day on Apr. 12, 2020.

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Carol Shasha

April 15, 2020

No words can express the sadness and emptiness that have resulted from Noey's death.
The only consolation is that the isolation she hated and that we continue to experience because of the corona virus is over for her.
I loved her as my sister and send hugs and love to you with regrets that we cannot be together for awhile.

April 13, 2020

Noey was a wonderful neighbor and friend to us for years. She will not easily be forgotten! Condolences to her daughters.
Barbara and Joe Dlubac

Kyla Coale

April 12, 2020

Such sad news today. Noey will be greatly missed. Sending my thoughts and love to Peri, Polly and the entire family.

April 12, 2020

Peri-Anne and Pollyanna... your mother was my mother's sister. I send you my condolences. I hadn't seen her since her eldest sister's funeral many years ago (Our Aunt Gloria Geno). Did she have any old family photos of her parents and her grand-parents? While I do remember her parents (my grandparents) I have never seen any photos of her grandparents, Charles E. Fox and Mary (Doyle) Fox . I would appreciate seeing such photos if they exist.

Roslyn Haney

April 12, 2020

To Peri and Polly,
I am deeply saddened to read about your Mom's death. What great times we both had teaching at Cohanzie School for many years. She was truly a wonderful friend to me. My thoughts are with both of you at this difficult time.

Nadine Lipman

April 12, 2020

Noey was a wonderful person and teacher.She had two of my sons as students, and notified me that she was retiring just before the third ( I always hoped it wasn't his reputation that made up her mind!) I had the pleasure of bumping into her at the Waterford Public Library, where I worked, and was fortunate to see her occasionally to chat. She will be missed....

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