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BORN
7/3/1960
DIED
11/7/2021
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Robert Appleby Obituary
He graduated from St. Mary Star of Sea Catholic School and later from New London High School, class of 1978. During his high school years, he excelled in varsity soccer, and was named in the High School All American 1977. He started his career at Electric Boat but was a carpenter by trade which led to Robert owning and operating Appleby's Woodworking and Remodeling along with his son Joshua for many years. His talents were instrumental in designing and building some of the finest restaurants in the area along with many house remodels in New London County.
He served for several years on the Salem Parks and Recreation Committee, and Planning and Zoning Board. His love for soccer brought soccer to Salem in 2001 and was the President of the Salem Soccer Club for many years. He was a coach and a mentor, and he dedicated his time to several committees in the town of Salem that benefited the children in which he received Salem Unsung Hero for all the countless hours of volunteering in 2011. He was a most selfless person you could meet; nothing was ever too much for him. He was larger than life and the world is a little less bright without him.
Besides his mother, Robert is survived by, his loving companion of many years Judy (Secchiaroli) Appleby; his son, Joshua Appleby of New London; stepdaughter, Corey Gawronski of New Haven; three siblings, Sherry Appleby of Quaker Hill, John R. Appleby Jr. of West Haven and Susan Appleby Stewart of East Lyme; nephews, Jason and Jacob; and nieces, Kim and Katie.
His family will receive relatives and friends from 1 to 4 p.m. Monday, Nov. 15, at the Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montauk Ave., New London. Interment will be private. Robert was a heart transplant recipient from 1992. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to a charity of your choice, or please consider becoming an organ donor so others can benefit from the gift of life as Robert did.
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Joanne Olsen
November 24, 2021
Judy,
My sincere condolences on your loss. May great memories help you through these difficult days ahead.
Joanne Olsen
Steve Z
November 20, 2021
Bob had more empathy than most people you meet, he had a way of not looking at a person but thru them, evaluating, measuring, finding a way to interact with them and assist anyway he could. When he first started to use social media many people were What?, I always thought it was just an extension of who he always was - teacher, sharer, friend.
Condolences Marie, Judy, Josh and Corey
Monica Villegas
November 17, 2021
Dear Judy & family, our deepest condolences on your loss. Bruno and I were reminiscing about what a great time we had when you visited us in New Orleans and we got to share a traditional southern meal with you. Bob was so great. He made you feel like you were old friends catching up from back in the day....he really was very special. We will never forget that time with y´all. Our prayers and love to you Judy. Call if you need anything. Monica & Bruno Villegas-Matricciano
Kenney Austin
November 17, 2021
I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. My heart goes out to his family. I knew Bobby from high school (NLHS, 78) and he was a great friend to hang with. May you forever Rest in Peace my friend.
Ann Uguccioni Miller
November 16, 2021
Sherry,
Sending my sympathies to you, your family and all those whose lives were touched by Bob. Such an incredible loss. May your memories bring you comfort in the days ahead,
Bill long
November 16, 2021
Marie & Sue,so sorry I couldn´t make the calling hours,my thoughts and prayers are with you both,thinking of you,Bill
Wayne Turley
November 16, 2021
My Condolences to the Family. I went to High School with Bob and he was a good Dude.
Randi Margolis
November 15, 2021
My deepest sympathy and condolences. May your memories be a source of strength as you journey forward. All my love, Randi
Stephanie Carnaroli
November 15, 2021
He sounds like he was a beautiful man. Sorry for your loss. Immensely difficult. You are my thoughts
Jon Gilman
November 15, 2021
Bob was a great man and I am very sad to hear of his passing. He was my soccer coach for the vast majority of my childhood and was one of the driving factors that kept me coming back to play year after year. I have many fond memories of him on and off the field and I remember him as a very selfless person who was always spending his time to improve the lives of others. A real staple of the community and I'm sure he will be missed by many. Wishing Josh, Judy, Corey and the rest of his family the best during this difficult time.
Mike, Rosemary, Matthew & Adam Collins
November 15, 2021
Our condolences to Judy, Josh & Corey and the Appleby family. When we moved to Salem Bob had just set up the fledgling Salem Surge Soccer club. Our boys (Matthew & Adam) immediately joined and under Bob´s leadership, direction and sense of fun both they and the teams thrived. Adam has fond memories of trips to Gillette stadium to watch the New England Revolution, soccer tournaments on the Cape and summer holidays out to Block Island. Bob was passionate about his family, friends, work, soccer and his beloved Manchester United. He will be sadly missed but fondly remembered by all those who knew him.
Lori Occhionero-Ryan
November 15, 2021
Met Bobby when I owned my Deli in New London, was such a nice person, your family will be in our thoughts and prayers, Lori and John Ryan
Judith Walsh
November 15, 2021
I was so sorry to hear about Bob's death. I can't imagine your grief. Jon and I will pray for your comfort and healing.
Eileen Monroe NLHS Class of 1978
November 15, 2021
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mark Christiansen
November 14, 2021
We have lost a great man. Rest in Peace Bobby!
Margaret Saunders Cotnoir
November 14, 2021
Marie & family, I am so sorry. Sincerely, Margaret
Steve Pearson
November 14, 2021
Sorry for your loss
patrick w maurice
November 14, 2021
Bob was one of the nicest person I have ever met
Kevin Sylvester
November 14, 2021
My sincere condolences to the family. I attended NLHS & played soccer with him in 77' & 78'. An all around good guy who was well liked & respected by all. Rest peacefully Bobby, till we meet again.
Deb hutchinson
November 14, 2021
I met Bob and Judy briefly when I helped them with there lost dog . They were the nicest people I had ever worked with . I am so sorry for your loss .
Moira and Don Griffiths
November 13, 2021
Our deepest sympathies to the Appleby family. Bob was a very special friend and will be deeply missed by family, friends and the local community.
We have very special memories of Bob on the soccer fields, as a coach, mentor and promoter of soccer in Salem. Our children all benefited from his enthusiasm, passion and commitment.
Bob was also very creative with his hands and built up a trusted local business that we utilized many times. He was generous with his knowledge and you could rely on him to deliver.
May he Rest In Peace
Mike McGuinness
November 12, 2021
I'm very sorry for your loss. I always Bob was a cheerful person.
Kim Hawkins Casey
November 12, 2021
So sorry to hear about Bob´s passing. The family will be in my prayers.
Gail Demmiston
November 12, 2021
You probably don't remember me but I worked with your mother Anne at the courts. I just would like to send my condolences to, prayers to you all.
Kelley & David McCarthy
November 11, 2021
Judy , so truly saddened to hear this . Been keeping you & all your beautiful family in our thoughts . Rest In Peace Bob
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