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Gloria velasquez
December 28, 2015
Pat: I attended the funeral services for Ben Laflin yesterday. It was nice hearing the stories about him, from his children and yourself. I also enjoyed the slideshow. Treasure the memories. God Bless, Gloria Limon Velasquez (I grew up in Thermal)
Loray Grant Dewett
December 27, 2015
Our condolences for the loss of a fine man.  Many good memories of trips to the Date Garden and time with the family at church functions over the years. Your family has a special place in our hearts.  
Leslie Grant - Colorado Springs CO
JF
December 27, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Peter Nelson
December 27, 2015
What a Blessing to have known Ben. A Man with a Strong Handshake, a strong Wife Pat, a strong drive, a strong love for people, and a strong Love for God! God Bless the Laflins.
David DaVall
December 25, 2015
I remember going to their ranch with my father and I'm 62 and getting a date saddle. Ben custom made them. Condolences to the Laflin family from the DaValls. P.S. I here Ben leads a monthly meeting of Date pioneers in heaven.
Dave Ison
December 24, 2015
I was so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. His lifetime of service to our community, his deep knowledge of the date industry, and his love for our valley was noticed by all that were privileged to know him. I send my deepest condolences to the family.
December 24, 2015
So sorry to hear about Ben.  I have so many fond memories of hanging out at the ranch as a child.  Seems like yesterday I was over there laughing all the time with Diane and visiting Lucy at the house next door.  So many good times.  My heart goes out to all of you.  Love you all and miss you much. 
April Shepard & Family
The Aspell Family
December 21, 2015
Pat we are so sorry to hear about your great loss. Ben and Pat were such good people and were a big part of why we choose to join St. Andrew's in 1990 when we came to the desert they showed us as young parents the meaning of Faith and Love!
December 16, 2015
My family and I wish to extend our most sincere condolences to you and your family.  Being a homegrown Thermal boy, I have many memories of the Laflin family.  In Coachella Valley, Mr. Laflin's exceptional work in agriculture, business, and as a humanitarian, stands alone.  He will be greatly missed.  Once again, our sincere condolences.
Stan Triplett and the Triplett family of Thermal

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Cara Tower
December 15, 2015
Although I never had the privilege of meeting Ben, I feel connected to him. I sell all of his date varieites in the Mar Vista, Brentwood and Calabasas farmer's markets. The customers are totally in love with them. They say the dates have changed their lives and hold a special place in their homes. I love them too! The date farm he left behind is one of a kind! I am so grateful to him.
Richard Davis
December 12, 2015
On Behalf of the Coachella Masonic Lodge please accept our condolences on your loss.  Should we be able to serve you further please contact us at 760 219-7083.
Richard F. Davis PM
Coachella Lodge 476 F&AM
Hector Martinez
December 7, 2015
I am sorry to hear about your loss. May you find comfort in the beautiful memories you have of your father. My deepest condolences.
Steven Codekas
December 6, 2015
I am sorry to hear of this loss. Mr. Laflin was a very good man and always kind. Solace to his family.
Georgia Goodwin
December 4, 2015
I am so very sorry for your loss. My mom, Mary Lee Goodwin, taught at Wilson with Mr. Laflin and was in the women's group with Pat Laflin. The Laflin name conjures fond memories for me. May the sadness in your hearts be comforted by the loving and happy memories of sharing this man's incredible life. Blessings.
Prentiss & Danielle Sprueill
December 4, 2015
Ben, a true pioneer. Our condolences to Pat and family from the Sprueills.
Adriana Velasquez
December 4, 2015
May you find Eternal Peace, Surrounded in Gods Eternal Light of Love Mr.Laflin.funny I was down memory lane( I'm 53 now) you were in my thoughts and all I want to say is "You were a Great Teacher,I Learned Alot and You made Life Science Truly Come Alive and FuN" Thank You for Caring Enough to Teach All of Us Who were Fortunate to have You as a "Teacher" RIP Mr.Laflin" former student Woodro Wilson Middle School. 
   
Adriana Velasquez
Leticia Vidrio Rodriguez
December 3, 2015
On behalf of the Vidrio family, our most heart felt condolences to the Laflin Family. The opportunities given to our family will never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
December 3, 2015
Our deepest condolences to the Laflin family. Always remembered. From all the Romero Family from Thermal, California.
Sharon Mills
December 3, 2015
A great community leader, teacher, friend, father. Susan & family please accept our condolences from the Mills family. May you find peace in all the wonderful memories you hold. Jr & Sharon Mills & family
Becki Jamerson
December 2, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Laflin family during this difficult time. From the Darrell & Delores Degenhart Family, former owners of the Coachella Valley Sun
Stephan Kanlian
December 1, 2015
To Mrs. Laflin, the Laflin family, and Diane: The legacy that Mr. Laflin has left is one that you all must be so proud to share. He was always such a learned and dear man. I remember his inspiring lectures on his global travels and agricultural development work, with Mrs. Laflin, which I had the pleasure to attend when Diane and I were in HS and college. My deepest sympathies to the family. Mr. Laflin made a tremendous intellectual contribution to the Agriculture industry.
Dean and Bonnie Matzick
December 1, 2015
Dear Pat and all the family, 
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of Ben.
We so enjoyed our visits both in Montana and Bermuda Dunes. We admired his knowledge as a date grower and teacher and best of all a wonderful grandpa.  We will surely miss him as so will the world he made so much better because he was here. God's Blessings on the family
Stephanie Sobotka
December 1, 2015
My condolences to Pat and the rest of Ben's family. What a full and amazing life he lived. His contributions to the date industry and the Coachella Valley will be felt for years to come.
Gilbert Guevara
December 1, 2015
To a great man and leader of the Coachella Valley that I greatly admired. I recently return to the Coachella Valley to retired in the valley that we both loved. Thank you for being such a great role model.
Efren Tenorio
December 1, 2015
Our sincerest condolences to the family in the loss of Mr. Laflin. My wife and I were both students of his in the 70's at W.W.M.S. and learn we did. He was an outstanding teacher and his approach to science, plants, animals or whatever was on the schedule that day was amazing because he loved his work. It was a privilege and fun being taught by him. May your faith and memories sustain you until we see him again.
Pat Southard
December 1, 2015
Ben, Your life was an inspiration to those that knew you. Tacy and I will miss your your selfless way of sharing your ideas of community fraternity. The community has lost a dynamic leader. You will live on in your eternal rest. Our condolences to your family.
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