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Patricia Scaperdine
May 26, 2018
Thinking of my sweet , JACOB more than ever today!!
I know you are having the time of your life with all the butterflies and flowers!
You are truly grams, joy! Love you sweet child!
D'Yanna Kloog
August 16, 2017
I used to go to longwood with Jacob. We were in the same class for 3rd grade. I remember I would always have to go to the nurse and take my inhaler and Jacob would go too to check his levels. He was my nurse buddy! We would always joke around and laugh while he drank the juice boxes. He was an amazing friend and loved everyone around him. He will be missed.
Patricia Scaperdine
September 20, 2015
Today September 20, 2015 grandma has very extra special thoughts of our sweet Angel, Jacob. 12-18-1998 to 11-17-2010.
Always in grandma Pat's heart , I love you my sweet , angel Jacob forever!
Patricia Scaperdine
July 4, 2014
Natalie, Kurt,
Zak and Alex.
Another 4th of July and rib fest celebrations! I remember Jimmy's happy thoughts of Jacob joining his family at fest! Brings smiles to gram's heart knowing the fun our Jacob experienced! Love you forever Jacob!
12-18-1998
11-17-2010
Love to all,
grandma
Patricia Scaperdine
November 29, 2013
Natalie, Kurt, Zak and Alex
Yesterday (11-28-2013) was Thanksgiving Day and we were all together! Jacob was there in my mind, heart and soul! I am grateful for my angel grandchild Jacob and remembering his HUGE HUGS and KISSES - and grandchildren Zak and Alex and all their love and for their mommy and daddy!
I love you all
grandma Pat.
November 17, 2013
November 17, 2013
Dearest Natalie Kurt Zachary And Alex
Grandma loves you all not just today but everyday! Your heavenly angel, Jacob, will always be watching over all of you.
We love you Jacob.
December 18, 1998
November 17, 2010.
love
grandma Pat
Patricia Scaperdine
March 31, 2013
Easter Sunday, March 31, 2013
Jacob grandma so misses you, yet each time I look at your picture I am reminded of your perservance, loving everyone and everything. Loving life to its fullest at such a young age, With these remembrances a smile springs forth yet tears in my heart. You are spending Easter with Jesus! Love you forever my sweet grandchild. Love, grandma
HAPPY HEAVENLY EASTER MY JACOB-MY grandson!
Patricia Scaperdine
December 25, 2012
Happy Heavenly Christmas Jacob. You are with Baby Jesus and I know watching over your mommy and daddy and Zak and Alex! Love you our precious grandson! grandpa and grandma
Patricia Scaperdine
December 18, 2012
12-18-1998
11-17-2010
Natalie, Kurt, Zak and Alex
Grandma is joining in remembering your son-your brother on his heavenly birthday. I have no pumpkin pie--but I have ritz crackers and cheese--so you know what I will be celebrating with today on this my grandson's, Jacob's, heavenly birthday!
love you all,
love grams
Patricia Scaperdine
November 20, 2012
November 20-2012
JACOB
"Always Missing you
Always Loving You
and Thinking of you daily
with a smile on my face
and tears in my heart."
Love you forever my angel
my grandson,
love you
grams and grandpa
Patricia Scaperdine
November 17, 2012
Natalie, Kurt Zak and Allie
12-18-1998
11-17-2010
Today our 2nd anniversary of your loss of Jacob. REMEMBERING Jake will be with you always. Remember his sweetness and yes his antics,and his huge hugs also. Remember most of all his love for all of you.
my love to my precious family
mom
Marsha Hillson Gerace
November 4, 2012
Dear Natalie, Kurt, Zack & Alex—I was thinking about Jacob yesterday during the pancake breakfast, and have been thinking about him, and your family, the last few weeks during these current tragedities of Devin, Justin & Olivia. I cannot imagine how these parents and friends are coping with their loss, but I'm sure that Jacob has warmly welcomed all 3 of them into the Kindom of Heaven.
Stacy Burgoon
November 3, 2012
You are in our thoughts and memories, take care.
Patricia Scaperdine
November 2, 2012
November 2, 2012
Remembering my sweet-sweet grandson especially today--like everyday of my life. Jacob, "grams" loves you and misses you! I miss your smiles-your jokes - your hugs!!!!! I am proud to be your "grams".
Love you Jacob forever and ever!
grams
Patricia Scaperdine
December 18, 2011
Natalie, Kurt, Zak and Alex
December 18, 1998 , Jacob, your sweet son, your mischievous brother my precious grandson was "loaned" to us for a time--an earthly time. He will be in my heart, mind and soul forever. I will always remember his giant bear hugs and I hold his special memories close in my heart. Remembering our Jacob today as well as everyday with love!
Love you forever, Jake.
love
gram
The Lohman Family
November 24, 2011
We are thinking of Jacob today, on Thanksgiving Day.
Patricia Scaperdine
November 18, 2011
Natalie Kurt -Zak and Alex
11-17-2011 one year
Gram is remembering our Jacob with loving memories and thoughts. He taught grandma to be kind and not to judge -wait until I personally know the true facts in any situation-I am still "a work in progress_ I am positive without a doubt Jacob sends his hugs--remember how he LOVED hugs? and Jacob loves his mommy, daddy, big brother Zak and little sister Alex. May these memories bring comfort to you all and me, too! Love , grandma
Tanner Elenbaas
October 24, 2011
Dear Storey Family, I miss Jacob a lot especially after being in a troop with him for about 9 months. I really liked him a lot and he always knew what he was doing when it came to cooking on the camp outs. During the week of CFL summer camp he was always the first on up and out of his tent and was ready to go! He had really loved scouting and I miss him a lot. Someone that I know for sure that cared for Jacob the most in our troop was Jacob Bernardi, If anyone mentions some about Jacob to him he will start to cry because he misses him a lot and was his best friends in the whole world! That is what I have to remember about my friend Jacob Storey
Chris Martersteck
November 24, 2010
Dear Storey Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I sometimes forget that life is a gift, and that every day is a blessing. Type 1 diabetes is so hard to deal with. Our son Matthew has had it since he was 2. I'm just sitting here crying because I am so sorry that your wonderful son passed away. You will be in my prayers and we will donate to JDRF in Jacob's name.
Bill, Chris, Matthew, and Daniel Martersteck (Naperville, IL)
Chris and Kathy Pelkey
November 23, 2010
Natalie, Kurtis, and Storey family,
We are so sorry for the loss of Jacob to your family and all his friends. It is truly heart wrenching and we know this will take years to get over but you must get through this time. Remember the memories and enjoy them, share them, keep them alive. I'm glad someone like Jacob is resting next to our daughter Bethani Werner who passed October 24th. Jacob's death is out of order with what we expect just as Bethani's was. May God be with you and your family, you will be in our prayers.
Chris and Kathy Pelkey, Winfield, IL
Karen Schnorr
November 22, 2010
Dear Storey Family,
As a regular substitute teacher at Longwood, I was fortunate to get to know Jacob through the years. I will always remember him as a sweet boy with a kind heart. Please know that I have and will continue to keep you in my prayers.
Veena Shankar
November 22, 2010
Dear Storey family,
Our deepest condolences to your entire family during this difficult time. Maya was in class with him for a few years and talked about how nice and thoughtful he was. May he rest in peace.
The Shankar family
November 22, 2010
May God bless and comfort you during this difficult time and may happy memories of Jacob soon replace your tears with smiles. Our thoughts and prayers are with you!
Your Longwood neighbors,
Steve, Kathy and Jason Gasser
Dylan Maciejewski
November 22, 2010
All of us maciejewski's are very saddened at what happened with jacob.We wish all of are prayers with the Storey family.I consider Jacob a really good friend of mine. Even though i wasn't' on the same team as him this year i was really good friends with him at Longwood also.He will be missed but he will never be forgotten. Yours truly, Dylan Maciejewski and my family.
Sarah Gura
November 22, 2010
I'm so sorry for your loss. Love, Sarah Gura
Ron, Jackie, James & Josh Campion
November 22, 2010
Our sympathy and prayers are with you. We know there are no words that can console you at a time like this but we rest in the knowledge that Jacob was loved. Jacob may have only been on this earth 11 years but his life has touched more people than most of us will in a full lifetime. His life has caused people to re-examine their lives and their priorities. His life has drawn people closer to God for hope and comfort. And his life will continue to provide inspiration and encouragement to many. God bless and keep you.
Andy Friedman
November 22, 2010
Natalie, please accept my deepest condolences on the terrible loss of Jacob. May your many happy memories of him sustain you in your bereavement.
Donna Wandke
November 22, 2010
Dear Storey Family,
We are a family of three Scouts and it warms my heart to see so many Scouting families supporting you in this difficult time. Although I did not know Jacob it appears that he shared one wonderful quality with Jacob from the Bible - he was determined and willing to work long and hard. Remember God's words in Jacob's dream: "I am with you, and I will protect you wherever you go...I will not leave you until I have finished giving you everything I have promised you." (Genesis 28:15)
Blessings through this difficult time.
The Wandke Family
Laura Hilliard
November 22, 2010
We salute your Scout. Our condolences for your loss and gratitude for your loved one's service to the Scouting Community. We didn't know Jacob personally, but hope you will be comforted knowing he is now with The Great Scoutmaster of All Scouts.
Mr. Martin
November 22, 2010
Jacob will always be a cherished student. My heart goes out to his family and I pray that God help them comfort.
Diane Doninger
November 22, 2010
Storey Family. Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of Jacob. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this extremely difficult period.
The Doninger Family - Joe, Diane, Maddie and Bailey
Catherine Gura-Leach
November 22, 2010
I was so shocked to read of this in the paper. I am so sorry cousin, my heart goes out to you and your family.
Randy Bauer
November 22, 2010
We are truly sorry for your loss. Although we did not know Jacob or your family, we are a Scout Family and we feel blessed to know so many wonderful Scout families. We also have a friend and Scout who has Juvenile Diabetes and I will forward this to him. May God be with you in these hard times.
Sue Belovich
November 21, 2010
Words cannot express how very sorry I am for your loss. My son was in Jacob's class, he can cannot help but smile when he speaks of Jacob and the funny things he did. May you find peace and comfort in one another. Know that you are not alone and will remain in our prayers.
Randall Kraujalis
November 21, 2010
We will always remember you Jacob.
Peter Sierra
November 21, 2010
I am saddened by your loss. My prayers are with you.
November 21, 2010
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Mary Ann Smith
November 21, 2010
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Karen & Matthew Labedz
November 21, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Mr. D
November 21, 2010
Dear Storey Family,
So many things that Jacob would say or do at Longwood would make me laugh just like that. He knew that humor was the way to your heart and made the world a better place. We will miss him dearly. Take comfort in each other, in the compassion and support from family and friends, and reflect on how he touched us all. Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy. God bless.
Kristin Brown
November 21, 2010
Storey Family,
I am so saddened to hear about your loss. I will be praying for all of you during this difficult time.
Denny Wowra
November 21, 2010
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Storey, my most sincere thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time. I cannot express how sorry I am for your loss of hope that God will give you comfort and peace. I am sorry did not know Jacob as I’m sure my life would have been better for it. God be with you … always. Denny Wowra
November 21, 2010
Dear Storey Family,
Our family grieves for you over the loss of Jacob. We were blessed to have known him through Troop 101. The Great Scoutmaster is holding his hand now.
Peace and Prayers,
The Hunt Family
Durkin Family
November 21, 2010
To the Storey family, we are deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Jacob. He was a great kid, and remember that we are just across the fairway from you in case you need anything.
Joe, Marsha & Stephanie Gerace
November 21, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
megan hinkle
November 20, 2010
Jacob was a good kid. Everyone on 6-1 is missing you terribly. We wish you never have died. He was a great kid. Your family of 120 brothers and sister (team 6-1)will miss you a lot. My thoughts and prayers are with you. ~your friend megan
Sandy Fenili
November 20, 2010
No words can ever fill the void in your life on your loss, but God is always near and will take you by the hand and show you his grace, mercy and most of all his love!
My deepest smypathy!
Love You!
Always! Sandy Fenili (Gura) and Family
Kellee, Curt and Ryan Malone
November 20, 2010
We are deeply saddened by Jacob's passing. Scouting was never dull with Jacob around with his never ending energy and smiles. We were blessed to have been in scouts with him for these past few years and to have had the chance to know him....will truly miss him. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you as you walk this path. We are here if you need anything....
November 20, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we share this virtual candle as a symbol of the indomitable spirit that Jacob had during his short but impactful life. Each member of our family was touched by Jacob during his scouting career and the lasting impression he left was his incredible scout spirit. He not only recited those words each week, he lived them each day and we will certainly miss that, but will also use it to inspire us always.
Ken, Lori, Justin, Matthew, & Brianna Evans
Celeste Dempsey
November 20, 2010
Dear Storey family,
I know from experience that there is no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. My heart aches for you and your family Jacob was a wonderful child and Troop 101 will miss him terribly. I just recently had the pleasure of doing his Board of Review to "Tenderfoot" he sure loved scouts and the outdoors. May your heart and soul find peace and comfort.
Peace, Prayers and Blessings,
The Dempsey Family - Celeste, Paul, and Max
The Laskey Family
November 20, 2010
Natalie and Kurtis,
Our family is extremly saddened by the loss of Jacob. I fondly remember him running around on the playground at Longwood after school enjoying being outside. We hiked the long trails of Starved Rock with the Cub Scouts enjoying God's world around us. I know that Jacob is no longer ill and in God's loving arms. May His comfort bring you peace as you go through these difficult days. Our prayers are with your family during this most difficult time.
Craig, Carol, Aaron, Steven, Alexis, and Gabriella
Patti Ruffo
November 20, 2010
As Jimmy Ruffo's Grandma I can tell you that Dan, Collen, Jordan and especially Jimmy are devasted by your loss of Jacob and their concern for you. My prayers and thoughts are with your family and selfishly for Jimmy also. He's going to have a hard road ahead of him. May God by with you and give you peace.
Jennifer Piske
November 20, 2010
The Storey Family-We are all deeply saddened by the loss of Jacob. He was such great kid and always made you laugh. He loved life so much.
Our entire family is here for you during this difficult time. We will continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Please take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. He is enjoying a kit kat in that big campground in the sky.
Don't cry because he is gone. Smile because he was here.
Love your friends-
Glen, Jennifer, Jason, Jessica & Joshua Piske
Amy Murray
November 20, 2010
The Storey Family and Friends, I am deeply sadden by the loss of this amazing young man, he was funny, bright and loving. I am hoping that all the beautiful memories you all have will help to heal your pain in time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God must have needed an amazing Angel. We are all here for you to give you strength, please lean on us.
Jennifer Hansen ( Blatt)
November 20, 2010
Kurt, Natalie, Karen and Uncle Bill- We are so saddened to hear of the loss of Jacob. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time.
grampa and gram's Scaperdine
November 20, 2010
my sweet Natalie and Kurt and Zak and Alex,
I know without a doubt Jacob is giggling at "gram's" !!! This is my 3rd try -trying to send our love---Jacob knows his "gram's" and computers!!!!
We love you Jacob!!! Jacob you taught gram's so many things---the biggest is not to judge others and have patience and understanding of others !!!! Jacob you are our hero!!!!
grampa (dad) gram's (mom) send our love
November 20, 2010
Storey Family,
We are extremely saddened by your loss of Jacob. May the love and support of your family and friends carry you through this difficult time. We know that God's loving arms are around Jacob. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
The Freedlund Family
Kate Johnson
November 20, 2010
Storey Family-
You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I live with a family I nanny for, and their son was one of Jacob's classmates. I was saddened to hear the news the other day when their son came home from school. I'm praying for your family for comfort and strength during this most tragic and difficult time. You all are loved and cared for so much.
Meredith Trayser
November 19, 2010
Storey Family,
I am so saddened to hear about your loss of Jacob. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.
Ashton Long
November 19, 2010
He was a really good kid he was really funny and if you were feeling down he would cheer you up and he was always fun to be around he was a great kid and shouldn't have died this way no one should im sure he would have been a great person when he was older. His Friend, Ashton.
Nihal Rajan
November 19, 2010
Dear Storey family,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Jacob. I am a 4th grader at Longwood. We at Longwood all share your sorrow and pray that god gives you strength and courage to deal with this huge loss of dear Jacob.
Ec B
November 19, 2010
I was jacobs classmate, he was an awesome kid who always made everyone laugh.... Granger loves you Jacob rest in peace
Patti Huebner
November 19, 2010
We can't tell you how very sorry we are for your loss! Jacob was really a very special boy! I always noticed during cub scouts how he had so much energy and how full of life he was! He will be missed and our family will continue to keep your family in our prayers. He is an angel now!
Kindest regards-Patti, Greg, Zach Huebner
November 19, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. As parents of Scouts and a classmate of Zachary, we wish you strength during this time.
Paul and Vanessa Luchok, Naperville, IL
Robbie Malbon
November 19, 2010
I was only in class with Jacob for a short month, but I knew he was funny and he always came to school with a good attitude. My thoughts and prayers will be with him and his parents.
wayne Howard
November 19, 2010
Bill and Pat I am very sorry to hear of your loss . God bless . Wayne Howard
Tonya Braun
November 19, 2010
Although we have never met, as a mother of a child with diabetes my heart breaks for your loss. Our diabetes support group has been praying for your family and we will continue to pray for you all. My deepest sympathy to you all.
kim,christopher lindquist
November 19, 2010
We are very sadden by the loss of Jacob know that your family is in our prayers
Daniel LeGault
November 19, 2010
Please accept our deepest sympathies at the loss of Jacob. He was a wonderful scout and boy. Daniel and I enjoyed his company and he will be missed by all. Our prayers are for your family at this time to find strength and peace. The LeGault Familey, Daniel, Jean and Dan
Rich & Toni Sheppard
November 19, 2010
Natalie & Family: We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May the love of family and friends carry you through your grief.
November 19, 2010
Natalie, my deepest sympathy to you for your sudden loss. I know that no words can possibly capture what you and your family are feeling now but just wanted you to know that my heart goes out to you in this most difficult time. Scott Mayer (Denver, CO)
Gregg and Sari Sackrider
November 19, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of Jacob's passing. He and his family are foremost in our hearts and have our deepest sympathies.
November 19, 2010
"May GOD bless you and your family during this time. I pray you always remember his smile and laugh, the corny jokes he might have shared, and all of the other wonderful memories and joys that he brought into your lives. " Carey Thompson ( Area Labor Relations Specialist, Great Lakes Area)
Jackie Majka
November 19, 2010
Oh Natalie, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family and this extremely difficult time.
Deborah Carlson
November 19, 2010
Natalie and Family: My heartfelt condolences for your loss. Your "postal" family extends to you all our love and support.
Gina Lehman
November 19, 2010
i am so deeply sorry for your loss. May the fond memories of Jacob live on in your hearts.
Lizzie Nelson
November 19, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the entire Story family with a special emphasis to Natalie. My heart cannot express the pain I feel for you, but remeber, God is still in the blessing business and makes no mistakes. My prays continue for the healing of you and your family. Love Always.
Sam Brooks
November 19, 2010
I will continue to pray that you come to experience comfort, courage, strength, and peace as you deal with the agonizing loss of your dear son Jacob.
Anna Schweitz
November 19, 2010
Storey Family,
I am so saddened by this loss. My deepest sympathies to you all. Jacob's picture along with other Longwood choir alumn sits on my desk at my current school, and what a sweet reminder it is of his kind heart! My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Burgoon Family
November 19, 2010
All of our love and support to your family.
Tanya Kittle
November 19, 2010
Kurtis and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Jacob. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family, and my prayers are with you as well.
Cindy Kittle
November 19, 2010
Kurtis, I am so very sorry about the loss of your son Jacob. My prayers are with you and your entire family.
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