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Thomas Eugene Howard, a resident of East Norwalk for the past 13 years, passed away at home on May 19, 2009. Born in Oak Ridge TN, he was the son of the late Donald and Mary Hazelwood Howard. He was 57.

Thomas graduated from Greenwich High School in 1969. He was also a graduate of Sacred Heart University and went onto receive an MBA from the University of Bridgeport. He then worked in sales at Olin Corporation for 32 years before starting his own company, Resource Consulting LLC. Thomas was the past secretary and treasurer of the Rowayton Sail and Power Squadron. In addition, he was an accomplished musician who played the piano, bass, drums and vocals in several local bands.

Thomas is survived by his wife Heather Lennon Howard of East Norwalk, two brothers, John Howard of Cleveland, TN and James Howard of Leesberg, FL. He is also survived by two nieces and two nephews.

Friends may call the Lawrence Funeral Home, 2119 Boston Post Rd, Darien on Friday, May 22, 2009 from 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to PAWS, 504 Main Ave., Norwalk, CT 06851.

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Published by The Hour on May 20, 2009.

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john brace

May 26, 2009

My name is John Brace, I was a friend of Tom's from Touchstone group. I have a great memory of Tom and I wanted to share it with you. Several years ago I came into the meeting with my son Zachary, he was about 5 at the time. We sat next to Tom and he talked with Zach quite a bit. The next meeting I saw Tom he had a Shrek watch with him and told me it was a gift for my son. Of course, Zach loved the watch and wore it for like a month straight. Anyway, I'll always remember Tom for what a nice person he was.

I'll miss him, and I'm very, very sorry for your loss.

John Howard

May 25, 2009

I am both surprised and pleased to see that so many of Tom's friends have posted messages of condolence. Tom was a wonderful brother and friend, just the best ever. He and I remained close our whole lives. We had the rare priveledge of working together at Olin in Stamford, CT for 25 years, lunch together most days, and even after I moved to Tennessee, we were in touch so often that we could still finish each others sentences. His last message to me was an effort to plan a get together this fall. Thanks again to everyone for the support and good wishes. It means a lot.

Lainie Stergion

May 24, 2009

To The Howard Family: I worked with Tom in the mid-1970's at Olin Corp. on Long Ridge Road in Stamford. He was a true gentleman and always had a bright disposition and wonderful sense of humor. What a terrible loss and so young (I'm 5 years older). It makes us realize how precious each day is. My sincere condolences.

Bea Pomeraniec

May 23, 2009

My deepest condolences to Heather, John, Jim, and the entire family. This is a sad day and a huge loss. Tom was a great boss and friend. He will be missed. May he rest in eternal peace.

Atlanta, GA

Skip Zornow

May 22, 2009

I also was a friend and band-mate of Tom's during GHS and after. We all drifted apart as we moved on with our lives, but he has always been part of my happiest memories.
God, he could never tell a joke without starting to laugh way before the punch line...made us crazy! He was always the anchor amidst our lunacy.

My most sincere condolences...he will surely be missed.

Paul Gattuso

May 22, 2009

I'm a GHS friend of Tom. We never stayed in touch after HS. Long story. I can't tell you how sad I am to hear about his passing. He was a really great guy, and a really good friend. I think of our adventures every now and then. And they will still make me smile.

Loved the garage door on Daffodil Lane. And oh my that Chevy Malibu Convertible.

My most sincere condolences.

Jody Sloat

May 22, 2009

I was shocked to hear of Tom's passing. I knew Tom from high school & we recently became friends on Facebook. My condolences to all. Sincerely, Jody Coleman Sloat

Edwin Leach

May 22, 2009

Heather, John, James, and Friends... I remember Tom well for his love for music, his infectious smile, and his easy and relaxed personality. It's been 40 years since I last saw Tom but his loving memory will always have a home in my sympathetic heart. I share in your mourning and your loss.

John Pasquarelli

May 21, 2009

Heather, John and James. Over the years Tom and I drifted apart but he never left my heart. I will always remember his humor, music, smile and most of all loving heart shared through our music and laughing together. My condolences on your loss. With all my heart...

Tom Haley

May 20, 2009

Heather, John & James--thoughts and prayers and sincere condolences from our family to yours. Tom & I were old GHS classmates and bandmates and, most of all, friends...and a good friend he was.

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