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John Peabody Obituary
Born in Middletown, CT on June 7, 1955 he was the son of the late Thomas H. Peabody, Sr., and Nancy L. (Saunders) Peabody-Herrick.
John was a carpenter at Electric Boat Groton, CT for over 34 years. He was a member of Carpenters Union, North Stonington Recreation League, North Stonington Fair Committee and North Stonington Senior Center.
John will be remembered by many as ""Coach"" during his many years working with the Wheeler Soccer Team. He offered a helping hand to all those in need and was a friend to everyone he met.
John will be sadly missed by his daughter; MaRanda L. Villella and her husband Angelo of Warwick, R.I. He was the loving ""Poppy"" of Brandon, Dominick, Nevaeh and Ariana. He was the brother of Rosalind Crowley (Fran) of North Stonington, CT, Susan Pelcher (David, Jr.) of West Warwick, R.I. and Thomas H. Peabody, Jr. of North Stonington, CT. He also leaves his former wife Hattie (Geer) Peabody-Lewis and many loving nieces and nephews.
A celebration of John's life will be held on Saturday at Noon time at the Buckler-Johnston Funeral Home, 121 Main St., Westerly. Calling hours will precede the service from 10-12.
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Memories and Condolences
for John Peabody
Paul Spada
July 17, 2019
John .... My day came to a sudden stopWhen I realized this was the day of your passing. The memories flooded back on how much fun we had an electric boat and how much fun we had out on the road working for electric boat in different states. You know how close we were. I miss you dearly and I know youre in heaven making God laugh rest in peace my dear friend
August 2, 2014
To the Family of John:
I send you all my most sincere thoughts and condolences. I fully planned to speak to each of you but a miscommunication keep me from the services. I truly am sorry for that.
I want to relate to you one of the incidents that captured my great respect for John..and there were many.)
IT was class night and John was president of his class.He had welcomed his audience to the program. Suddenly he arose, stepped to the microphone and said "excuse Me, I will be right back." Eyes followed him to the back of the gym where one of his classmates was standing in the doorway looking very distressed as she had been delayed by having to walk quite a distance to attend the ceremony, and now was too late to walk in with her class. With great presence of mind, John hurried to her side, and with even greater class, he took her by the arm and, head held high, walked her down the aisle to her seat. I still admire that style that was John's, and wanted to share the story with you.
To any to all of you, if there is anything I can do to ease these days of sorrow, I am as close as the phone.
You are in my heart.
Love,
Mrs. Banker
ROZ
July 31, 2014
John my brother, I'm sitting here wondering why. At your viewing you could see how much you touched people I respect you and will always miss you ,Tom yourself and me got real close after mom died we stuck together like family should. Tom and me will continue to stick to gather til we meet again I love you. Take care of mom love you both.
Ray Jones, Jr.
July 30, 2014
Miranda, Tom & the entire Peabody family:
I was truly saddened to hear about John's death. John always had an encouraging word for me both as a kid and as an adult when I would run into him in town. I have great memories of him from my years playing soccer at Wheeler. He had the perfect disposition for working with kids. I can still hear him saying "Gentlemen" when he wanted to get our attention on the field.
I am sorry for your loss. I know he leaves a big hole in your hearts. I will certainly be praying for God's grace and peace as you grieve.
Ken DelaCruz
July 29, 2014
John was a very thoughtful and caring man. Everyone that knew him loved him, he will live on in our hearts.
Condolence to the family.
RIP my friend
Bill & Heidi Curry
July 28, 2014
Linda Arzamarski
July 28, 2014
My condolences to your family. He was a kind man and a good friend of my late husband, Jimmy. We took John to Dover to the Nascar race, what great memories we made!
Paul & Donna Gould
July 27, 2014
John Bod, the personification of Wheeler High spirit. Always there as a friend and team mate, never giving up when the chips were down. One of Wheelers soccer legends in the back field. You were there John when it all started off with Tommy Hurd. We played our hearts out, and you were there to encourage us as we played in that low golden light that use to paint the field on those autumn days so long ago… but wasn't it really only just yesterday… What a joy to meet up with you just a few years ago with our dear friend Don Lonsway when you were working over in Portsmouth. It was as if no time had passed at all. There is something very special that we all experienced in those years that we listened to Simon and Garfunkel, and you John were one of those people that was at the very center of it all for us. We will meet again old friend, but until then we will remember you and smile. Much love to your family.
- Paul & Donna (Schaffer) Gould
Elaine Avery Effman
July 27, 2014
To the family of John, So sorry for your loss. The world lost a wonderful person, father, grandfather, brother and friend. My best memories of North Stonington are of John, and his fellow classmates at North Stonington Elementary...what a way to start a teaching career (and of course the used Camaro)...Heartfelt condolences, blessings and peace to all of you.
Bill & Heidi Curry
July 26, 2014
John was truly a wonderful person! MaRanda and her kids can rest assured he will be watching over them from above. Rest in peace my friend.
Melissa K
July 26, 2014
John was a great guy with a huge heart. I met him at EB and whenever we would run into each other he always took the time to catch up. He was a wonderful man who always had a smile for you, he will be missed. I am so sorry for your loss.
Lynda Gleason
July 25, 2014
To the Peabody Family ~ There was no better classmate than John. He was good for so many laughs and memories, but most of all he was kind. Take comfort in knowing that John's memory will remain in so many people's hearts. God bless JHP and your family.
With Our Sincerest Sympathy ~
Tom and Lynda (Villanova) Gleason
Fred & Nancy Souza
July 25, 2014
My memories of John are of a great guy with a winning disposition all the time, but my fondest memory will always be him showing up at my door on the second day of my teaching career and begging me to help out his class by being a chaperone for the weekend dance--I said "yes" and it led to 35 years of dances and proms and advisorships that are among my fondest memories. For Maranda, Tommy, and all his sisters, take comfort in knowing that he left here to be with "Mom" and in all the wonderful memories you shared. Sympathy and love to you all!
Lance Leonaitis
July 25, 2014
John Peabody was a very very caring and giving man. I know this because he was my soccer for many years at Wheeler High School .
I had never heard an ill thing said of him and in the years I knew him from being my coach I can certainly see why.
He will be greatly missed .
Rest in Peace COACH Peabody.
Gregg Rubio and Family
July 25, 2014
I can honestly say that You (JOHN), were the only one who believed and cared in us soccer players when seemed down and out. Your heart and passion rubbed off on so many people and helped Wheeler WIN!I will always be thankful for what you represent. Love you!
Julie Sullivan
July 24, 2014
Dear John,
What a wonderful class president and classmate you were at Wheeler. So sorry we have lost your physical presence on this planet. I was hoping to see you at the reunion. Despite the years and the miles--- you will be remembered my friend as someone who could make so many of us laugh and smile! You had a gift my friend and you were a gift to us all. Love to your family.
Melanie May
July 24, 2014
Tom, I am so very sorry for the loss of your brother. My heart breaks for you and I know how much pain in, but you know we are all there for you. My prayers go out to your whole family. You will always have the memories. I will see you soon. Call if you need anything my new phone number is 860-910-7245
Larry Bailey
July 24, 2014
To a friend and a co-worker who will always be remembered for his laugh kindness. Never forgotten!
July 24, 2014
Dear John,
I am so glad that I had the chance to run into you a few weeks back. I will treasure that conversation. To All of John's friends and family, I grieve with you.
A True Gentleman. You will be forever missed.
Sharon Eng-Marsie
Paul & Sabrina Buehler
July 24, 2014
Tom, Roz and family,
OMG Our deepest sympathy goes out to you all and the community of friends who knew John. Take comfort in knowing he is at peace. John and I were good friends since the 3rd grade. My best memories with John were running laps after soccer when we'd quit because of darkness - unfinished ! The phrase " the Peabod shuffle" came out of those runs. John will be sadly missed, but will be in our hearts forever.
Trish Collis
July 24, 2014
To the Peabody Family,
I grew up knowing John thru my sister Cindy who was a classmate of his. Would run into him down in the yard at EB from time to time and would sit at the picnic table in the shop area he worked and catch up for a few on life and family. His wonderful smile and kind heart will be missed. May God comfort you at this time of sorrow.
Carlton Stedman
July 24, 2014
I will miss our encounters every couple of years when we would catch up on our lives & family. You will be dearly missed, my friend.
Patty Robinson
July 23, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of meeting Mr Peabody last year when he coached our grandson team. I so enjoyed watching him interact with the kiddos. Will send prayers along. May the precious memories of him help you thru the days ahead!
Lynn Watkins
July 23, 2014
My deepest condolences to Roz and Sue on the loss of their brother John. May he rest in peace.
Bonnie Collins Powell
July 23, 2014
Roz,
I'm so sorry to hear of John's passing. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Joe White
July 23, 2014
To the PEABODY FAMILY, John was a great man with the worlds biggest Heart, he was the greatest friend to have would do anything for your, John you will always be missed. my Heart and prayers go out to you and your Family I love ya brother....
July 23, 2014
To the Peabody family; So sorry to read of your loss. John was always such a kind and caring young man. Never had a bad word to say about anyone. Was always willing to help in anyway he could. God called him to soon, but he is among the angels and his departed family. May he rest in peace. Keep the Love and Memories in your hearts forever.
Lorraine (Baker) Joiner and family.
July 23, 2014
To Roz and Family
I am sorry to hear this news. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Carole Klingerman and Pete Chenail, Griswold
Kathryn Voyles
July 23, 2014
A good man. RIP, John. The Marcinkiewicz Family.
Paul Spada
July 23, 2014
We could never be serious, and we laughed so many times, we both went out of our way to talk and it was such a treat to know Mr Peabody as I always called him. "Right back at you ", he would say when I told him that he was the best looking guy in the shipyard. To his family I wish to express my deepest condolences.He was a very very special person and became very dear to me.I am very thankful for my time with him. I know Mr.Peabody is getting to know everyone in heaven.I'm very sure God told John he is in heaven for being a good guy.....and I bet John said back to God ," right back at ya" and they both laughed.
Peggy Sue Long
July 23, 2014
To Roz and Tom,
So very sorry for your huge loss! John was one of the best! Will never forget his smile and laugh and his willingness to help with whatever he could do for anyone!
With Much Love and Deepest Sympathy,
Peggy Sue, Dave and Billy
The Costanza Family
July 23, 2014
We will miss John so much in our town... his friendly smile, his hello, his genuine interest in our lives and in our children.... So glad we got to spend time chatting with you at the NS Memorial Day Parade, John! RIP, sweet man....
Carol Burdick
July 23, 2014
I remember John many years ago. N.S. schools and driving to soccer games. John if he could not say a good word about someone he was silent.I ran into John at the restaurant on Rte. 2 in May of 2013 and he brought breakfast for Jeremy,Brenda,Judie and myself what a great guy and honest and true as friends should be. You are safe in God's Hands. Say hello to Ron and Jamie in heaven. God bless the Peabody family and Ralph.
Always a friend
Carol B.
Judie L.
Roland Allard
July 23, 2014
The Peabody Family, John was a great friend and awesome to be around with his passing brings a lot of sadness. With sincere sympathy from my family to all of yours.
Tina Chapman
July 23, 2014
Thoughts and prayers go out to johns family. God bless
Don Mayhew
July 23, 2014
I know John from Maria and her family but I also got to know him at E.B. A nicer persons I have yet to meet. He was one of a kind truely.
Gidget Harris
July 23, 2014
You were an Angel in the flesh sent to us from up above. You touched our very hearts and souls and taught us about love.
When you went away, you left a void that time will never fill, yet every moment of every day, we feel your presence still.
Though tears may still flow and nothing seems the same, we were truly blessed to know you and so very glad you came.
Gidget Harris
July 23, 2014
John taught me the true meaning of friendship and love without uttering a single word.
For me, he will never be gone. I will hear his voice in the wind, see his face in the sun and I shall always feel his presence within my heart and soul.
Sending all of my deepest love and heartfelt sympathy to all of his family and friends, today and always.
victoria lee
July 23, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with john's family..I'm sorry for the loss of a wonderful man.he was such a gentle soul.
Andrew Agney
July 23, 2014
JP was truly an amazing person. He was always there when I needed to talk. He had a huge heart that would give you the shirt off his back! he will be in my thoughts forever. You will be missed by so many JP. RIP
david& audrey hill
July 23, 2014
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
We Love you !
Barry Lee
July 23, 2014
Roz and Family,
I also worked with John but to me he will always be remembered as the man who gave you away at your wedding. I'm sure he treasured that. It was nice to see him have such a good time at your reception. Smile when you think of him because he's there Smiling down at you. Our love goes out to you and your Family. May GOD Love him and keep him.
Dee & Barry
Debbbie Stedman
July 23, 2014
the gentle giant with a heart of gold. The loss will be big for family and friends, everyone that knew him
was gifted by his never ending kindness. sorrow for your sudden departure thankful there was no suffering. Your memory will live on. RIP John say Hi to Ma
Steven / Ruth Perkins
July 23, 2014
I was Johns first partner at EB.He always treated my family like we were his own.We will miss him greatly.What a good friend.
Eva Greenwood
July 23, 2014
My deepest sympathy to all relatives. It was a pleasure to have John as a tenant. He will be sadly missed.
Nancy
July 23, 2014
Rest in peace my friend. Haven't seen you since the last reunion we attended together but I'll never forget you or the great times we had. So many laughs. You were a good true friend for sure. Thoughts & prayers with your family. XOXO
kelli abbruzzese
July 23, 2014
He will be missed by many ...hugs n prayers
Hattie Lewis
July 23, 2014
for maranda your dad was a great man we may not of worked out but I can say without no doubt he was a great DAD AND GRANDFATHER!!!!!!!!!!!!! HERE FOR YOU ANYTIME
Charles Noyce Sr.
July 23, 2014
Dear MaRanda and Tommy from myself and my family send our deepest sympathies and condolences and prayers be with you and all your family
Kenneth White
July 23, 2014
RIP John. I worked with John at EB, I also worked with his sister Roz and I went to school with his brother Tommy. My condolences to the entire family.
Joan Vandale
July 23, 2014
such a gentle person, so kind with his words, losing you goes deep into my heart, prayers to the Peabody family, may God give you the strength to endure such a loss, and for you my friend, I will miss your hugs and your beautiful smile
Mary Britton
July 23, 2014
John was a great man..he was an uncle although it has been a while since I have seen him he will be greatly missed. He may be resting in heaven now but he will always be there with his daughter and grandchildren... Keeping the family in my thoughts and prayers
Debbie Lisee Beard
July 23, 2014
John was a very good friend to all of us who had the opportunity to have him in our lives. To his family, my prayers go out to you. Remember this, he will be watching all of us from above.
Betsy Mercer
July 23, 2014
My heartfelt sympathy to Maranda and family.
I remember your dad well. He was such a great person, kind and generous, a friend and coach at Wheeler for many years.
Betsy Mercer
Winifred (Pattison) Wong
July 23, 2014
John was a great person as a coach and a town person. Always say Hi to everyone. Will be truly missed but will be in my heart. May The Lord our God watch over you at this time of sorrow and healing.
Glenda Miner
July 23, 2014
Roz, Sue and Tommy, I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. My heart breaks for all of you.He was always smiling and a pleasure to be around.He was a friend to everyone and everyone knew him.You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
betty. mayer
July 23, 2014
My thoughts and love to all of johns family, he was a great man ,and will be missed by many. Love Ya John R.I.P
William Clark
July 23, 2014
Back in the late 80's I worked with John @ E.B. We had some great times and always laughter .. He's one of the Carpenters I will never forget..
Tracy Stedman
July 23, 2014
You said it best..."A friend to everyone he met" and always with a smile on his face! He is fondly remembered and without a dought, missed by many. My sincere condolences to the whole family. John now has "Angle Wings".
Remembered with a smile and not tears.
God Bless,
Tracy Main Stedman and Family
Bob and Patty Buttermore
July 23, 2014
Sorry to hear of John's passing. He was a great co-worker and friend. We always had lots of fun.
Bob & Jody Whipple
July 23, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you during this difficult time. John was a good man. Always a smile and a positive outlook. I will miss his morning greeting here at work. May you each find comfort in the memories and life that John brought in to everyone's lives.
Heather Scotti
July 23, 2014
MaRanda and family, I am terribly sorry for your unexpected loss! You are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that you take comfort in the fact that he is at peace!
Richard McFarland
July 23, 2014
To the Peabody Family, John always took the time to talk to me at work about his family, children, grandchildren and their accomplishments. He always asked about my family. I will sorely miss those conversations. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Our sincerest condolences to you. He will be missed here at EB and in his community.
carrie blanton
July 23, 2014
my thoughts and prayers are with you Tom, and to his children and grand children
Dave Gervais
July 23, 2014
My deepest sympathies to John Henry's family. He was a great guy with a big heart.
July 23, 2014
I will always remember as a new 12 year old girl to North Stonington how kind John was. He was a great guy - Denece Dickinson
Lori Swain Blackburn
July 23, 2014
The Peabody family is in my thoughts and prayers. I will always remember John fondly.
David J Aiello
July 23, 2014
My sincere condolences for the whole family and friends.
Van Brown
July 23, 2014
John had a good and giving heart. He never prejudged anyone. He was a good friend and I truly enjoyed seeing his smiling face at Goodies. Rest in Peace John. You did well. Van Brown
RIP John... always a smile, always a kind word. You will be greatly missed
Jody Whipple
July 23, 2014
Mark Ciliano
July 23, 2014
To the Peabody Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. RIP John.
Stephen Voronuk
July 23, 2014
John was a real nice guy with a great heart.John was a coworker and friend we laughed a lot together,He will be remembered and missed, God Bless!!!
Charlie Recchia
July 23, 2014
Very sorry for your loss. John Henry was just awesome in every way. A lot of good memories in and out of EB.
Joy Zendzian
July 22, 2014
~Seems like my old home town is grieving for great guys lately. It's sad...my deepest sympathy to John's sisters; Roz & Sue, his brother and his daughter & family. No sadness when John was around tho - when I remember John all I can remember is happiness! So friendly, cheerful and helpful .... Fun ~With a mischievous smile! I was glad to know him...glad we shared high school memories. Heaven's gain - Earth's loss - Love you John~
July 22, 2014
Roz and Tom, I am so sorry to learn of John's passing. He was always so nice to me and always made me laugh. May God bless the entire family.
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