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Samuel Whitefield Stevenson

1936 - 2022

Samuel Whitefield Stevenson obituary, 1936-2022, Richmond, CT

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Samuel Stevenson Obituary

STEVENSON, Samuel Whitefield, On March 28, 2022, Samuel Whitefield Stevenson Jr. of Richmond, Va. and South Yarmouth, Mass., went to be with his beloved and loving family: his late wife, Helen Holbrook Stevenson (1935 to 2008); and son, Philip Carlysle Stevenson (1961 to 1984). As he had wished, his death was peaceful and he was surrounded by love, which endures. Born on May 5, 1936, in Richmond, Virginia to Samuel Whitefield Stevenson and Alice Ruth MacDonald Stevenson, and raised there, he attended St. Christopher's School and Princeton University, where he taught Italian for a year after graduation. In 1960, he was appointed to the faculty of the now Loomis Chaffee School in Windsor, Conn., where he initially taught French. In 1962, he switched to teaching English and continued that until his retirement in 2006. In addition to teaching, Stevie served as a dorm head for decades, and coached several sports, including track, football, soccer and basketball, especially enjoying his years coaching girls' JV basketball. After retiring, he divided his time between a long-time home in South Yarmouth, Mass., where he could indulge his love of kayaking and fishing, and a new home in his hometown Richmond, where he was delighted to be near his family. His love of reading and opera continued no matter where he was, and it was impossible to find him without multiple books in progress. He is deeply mourned by his dear family: sister, Ruth Stevenson; nephews, William Hendricks and his wife, Amanda Wadsworth and Andrew Nicol and his partner, Leonard Gobin; nieces, Genevieve Hendricks, Sarah Hendricks and her husband, Kevin Badgett and Heather Nicol and her husband, Michael Morse; his great-nieces and nephew, Eleanor and Adeline Badgett, Cecilia Hendricks and Kathryn and Andrew Morse; and several cousins, including Robert and Ross Leckie, Annie Hall, Bette Ann Trask, Barbara Norton and Anne McCabe. A true gentleman and gentle man – but with a wicked sense of humor and love of a good story - Stevie was a wonderful friend, mentor and teacher, and is also deeply mourned by several long-time loving and beloved friends, especially Ted Medrek and Patricia Novak; as well as countless students, whose lives he enriched and who remembered him fondly. He was so happy to meet former students and hear their updates. He loved all his students, perhaps especially those he saw struggling and whom he could help. While ostensibly teaching English, his real goal was to teach his students to think, and he was delighted when they figured that out. His love for his family and friends was boundless, and he maintained that the most important things in life were to be loved and - perhaps even more importantly - to have people to love; additionally, that love was never divided, but expanded infinitely. His passing leaves a hole in many hearts. Family and friends are invited to a memorial service Saturday, August 20, 2022, at 1 p.m. in the Chapel at Loomis Chaffee School in Windsor, Conn. He will be buried privately in Palisado Cemetery in Windsor, reunited with his beloved wife and son, whom he missed for so many years. Contributions in his memory may be made payable to The Loomis Chaffee School, Alumni/Development, 4 Batchelder Rd., Windsor, Conn. 06095; please note in the memo field Steve Stevenson. The Carmon Windsor Funeral Home is caring for the arrangements. For condolences or directions, please visit carmonfuneralhome.com.
Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Apr. 3, 2022.

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Jeff Parent LC '93

August 29, 2022

My heartfelt condolences to Stevie's family. Gentle in spirit, intelligent, and often hilarious, he will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Stevie was my English teacher at LC, as well as my advisor. I could go on and on about what a wonderful teacher he was - and he truly was - but for me, what set him apart was his kindness during an intensely challenging time in my life. In my junior and senior years, as I struggled with depression and felt like a colossal disappointment to everyone I loved and especially myself, Stevie somehow believed in me. He saw something that I could not see, and his steadfast faith in me pulled me through some of my darkest times. I am forever grateful for everything he taught me, not just about writing essays and understanding Shakespeare, but about persevering when I want to quit, learning from my failures, and being gracious to myself and others. I count myself blessed to have known him.

Michael Bernaski

July 25, 2022

Even though I graduated from Loomis nearly 40 years ago I am still learning from Mr Stevenson. The classics I am still trying to get my arms around are certainly part of that influence. His incredible written script (and wonderful Mont Blanc fountain pen - I have several of them but cannot come close to his script) made his critiques more palatable. And his sense of humor. "Squeaky" "Euripides? Why, Eumenides?" I waited too long to reach out and thank him.

Jeff Cohan, LCS '70

April 29, 2022

I am so sorry to hear of Sam's passing, and I offer my condolences to his family. Sam was one of my favorite teachers at Loomis - which is something, considering how stellar the faculty was. To the extent that I can write good at all (joke), I owe much of that to Sam. He preached "less is more" before that was a thing. He was funny and present and sharp as a tack. I'll never forget his (frequent) invocations of "Arbuckle's Law" (You Get What You Pay For!) in a feigned Scottish accent that was more northern Maine than central Highland. And then there was his (again frequent) pitch that by teaching us to write concisely, he was going to make us all millionaires: according to Sam, we were all going to be titans of industry, and we could save lots of money by making our telegrams short. I had the pleasure of reconnecting with him by phone in October 2015. He remembered me immediately. Sam was one of a kind.

Carrie Waldron-Brown, LC '88

April 6, 2022

Stevie was a wonderful influence on me for MANY reasons--so much more than teacher, he had the ability to cut through and empower, embolden, and nurture the the soul. He made me (us) laugh uproariously (and at times somewhat inappropriately!) as I fumbled toward some hard-won maturity. When I was facing a particularly devastating pain my senior year, he saw an opportunity to literally sit with me on the stoop of Carter Dorm, facing out toward the fields while I was teary, and not only listen, but rock my foundation with kind and rich words of his own hard-won wisdom: "Kid, sometimes things do not appear to happen for a reason. Dig deep, and then you MAKE the reason." I send my deepest sympathies to the lucky community that Stevie loved and impacted.

Tina Catalano

April 5, 2022

My heartfelt condolences to all family and friends. What a beautiful tribute to such a kind & gentle man. Wonderful stories and a great laugh. He was my longtime friend, I loved him and I will truly miss him. I hope you're with Helen & Phillip and at peace.

Jim Collins

April 5, 2022

I had "Sam" Stevenson in class, but knew him best from our many collaborations on Allyn sports in the 1960s. We won championships in basketball and football together and they remain among my best memories of Loomis. Who could forget Mickey Culver marveling to Coach Stevenson that we were throwing, and completing, forward passes? Or his friendly rivalry with the late, great Al Beebe? My sincere condolences to the family: thanks for sharing him with us.

Carol Gobin

April 4, 2022

My condolences to the entire family. I always look forward to hearing all the wonderful stories of uncle Stevie from Leonard and Andy after their annual visit. May your soul Rest In Peace uncle Stevie.

Larry Engel

April 4, 2022

I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Stevenson's passing. He was one of my all-time favorite teachers, anywhere. He was also my coach for intramural football, and I never had a better coach, nor more fun playing any team sport. A very short story: He urged me to play offense and defense as everyone else did. I said no and threatened to quit. He asked why I wouldn't play offense and I replied that I thought at the heart of football is the concept of disrupting the plan and I didn't want to be part of the plan. I wanted only to be part of opposing it. He let me play only defense. (He also created the best trick plays ever, and used to bring a bamboo rubberband-powered airplane to practice.) 1963-67.

Rest in peace.

Michael D. Klett '01

April 3, 2022

I'm so terribly sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Stevenson, one of my all-time favorite teachers at Loomis Chaffee. In his class, learning truly felt like a collaborative effort. He wanted his students to succeed, and his quick wit and sense of humor kept us delightfully amused and engaged. It's been over 20 years, but the "hard hitting and dynamic" lessons from that class are as vivid today as they were back then. I'd also have a laugh every time Mr. Stevenson would ask me for my latest hot stock tip ("What am I buying, Klett-o?"). I'm not sure if any of my picks ever made an impact on his investment portfolio, but he certainly made a lasting impact on all of us.

Ann Rebello

April 3, 2022

My heart goes out to Steve's family and friends. A huge sense of loss and grief fills my heart as i know it does for all who were lucky enough to know Steve. He was such a gentle-man and treasured friend. I loved our visits and shared dinners together, and especially loved listening to his stories and memories of his life. He touched my heart deeply with his genuine love for all who were so dear to him. I pray he is at peace now with Hellen and Phillip in his arms. He was a VERY special man and i loved him with all my heart. I am filled with sadness and a huge sense of loss but my memories of this wonderful, special, kind, and inspiring man will live in me forever. I am so grateful to have known him and to have had him in my life. I will miss him terribly.

Jenine Culligan

April 3, 2022

Sincere condolences to the entire family. Thinking of you Genevieve and sending hugs.

Carmon Windsor Funeral Home

April 3, 2022

With deepest sympathy during this time of difficulty.

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