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Jean Hildebrandt Obituary

Hildebrandt, Jean R. TROY Jean R. Hildebrandt, 87, of Winter Street and formerly of Waterford, died on Thursday February 27, 2014, surrounded by her loving family at Samaritan Hospital. Born in Troy, she was the daughter of the late Harry and Lillian Hayford Baker. She was a graduate of Waterford High School and Mildred Elley College in Albany. Jean had worked as sales manager for Ernest F. Fullam, Inc., in Colonie and retired in the early 1980s. In her earlier years, she was employed by the New York State Department of Education in Albany. For a number of years she volunteered at both St. Mary's Hospital and the former Leonard Hospital in Troy. She enjoyed walking and was often seen "walking the loop" from her home through the village of Waterford, through Lansingburgh and then over the 112th Street Bridge to Cohoes and back to Waterford. Known for her baking abilities, she always said she had to live up to her maiden name. At gatherings, she and her late husband Ray were always on the dance floor and were noted for their steps. Jean also enjoyed knitting and poetry. She filled the lives of her loved ones with warm sweaters, wonderful desserts and thoughtful poems. But Jean's greatest love was for her family and she devoted her life to her children. She was the widow of Raymond J. Hildebrandt, who died in 1996. She was the devoted mother of Daniel P. Hildebrandt (Marta) of Wynantskill and Danette M. Gratton (late Edward) of Troy. She was the proud grandmother of Ryan, Devon and Taylor Gratton, Gabriel and Sara Hildebrandt. Several nieces and nephews also survive. Funeral services will be Thursday, March 6, 2014 at 11:15 a.m. from the Philip J. Brendese Funeral Home, 133 Broad St. (Route 32), Waterford and at 12 p.m. at Our Lady of Victory Church in Troy. Interment will be in Memory Gardens, Colonie. Relatives and friends may visit at the funeral home on Thursday prior to the funeral from 9 to 11:15 a.m. Those who wish may make contributions to the Neurosciences Institute in care of the funeral home office. To express your sympathy or share a treasured memory, please visit Brendesefuneralhome.com.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Mar. 4, 2014.

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Gayle Shinder

March 10, 2014

Dan, With deepest sympathy

March 6, 2014

Dear Danette,
How lucky your mom was to have you and Ed and your children to care for her later in her life. You were a wonderful daughter to her. Please accept our sincerest sympathy at her loss.
Maryrita and Joe

Heidi Corina

March 5, 2014

Danette,
Jean will always cherish how well you took care of her over all these years. You, your husband and children sacrificed a part of your lives to take good care of your mother. Those who know you well will agree. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Ryan, Devon and Taylor and Dan and family. I'll always remember "Grandma" Jean and her sense of humor, memories of years ago, and playing along with your kids/and mine while they were at your house. She was an amazing woman and I see where you get that from...your Mom. We are here for you. God Bless!

JOAN MURPHY

March 5, 2014

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Gina Pollack

March 5, 2014

Dan, so very sorry for the loss of your mother. My condolences to you and your entire family.

John Gerry

March 5, 2014

Danette,

So sorry for your loss. Diane and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

March 4, 2014

Danette and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Your mom was a sweet, funny lady. Our prayers are with you all. Much love,
Nina, Fio, Robert and Olivia

March 4, 2014

My Deepest condolences to you and your Family Dan. God Bless Her. - VJ

Pooja Jayaram

March 4, 2014

heartfelt condolences to you and your family Dan.

Gene Spevak

March 4, 2014

Dan & Denette, Sorry to hear of the passing of your mom !

March 4, 2014

danette and dan,what a great woman your mom was and john and I were happy to have had spent so much time with her,you have a wonderful family and ed and jean are looking down on all of you like angels on your shoulders,,lot of love and prayers Darlene and john,,dinette please call when you get the time and are ready,i am always here for you

Matt Teiper

March 4, 2014

Dan and family, my deepest condolences for your loss. You are all in my thoughts during this difficult time.

March 4, 2014

Dan & Denette,Sorry to hear of the passing of your mom ! I have a lot of fond memory's of you and your mom growing up across the street from you guy's ! May the prepetual light shine upon Jean and may she rest in peace !
Dennis Schoonmaker

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