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Sally Yoder
September 14, 2011
I was so shocked to hear of Lois' passing. My prayers are with all of you. I always enjoyed Lois' visits to the post office with her funny stories!
January 4, 2011
Dear Mr. Gundrum and family,
Please accept my condolences in the death of Lois. She was a classmate and good friend when we were in High School.
Carolyn (Brown) Thibodeau, Charleston, SC
January 4, 2011
Gundrum & Eaton Families:
Cherish all of your memories; they are forever.
Patricia M. Wade (fisher)
Class of l961
Michelle Slayton (Brogue)
January 2, 2011
Rynard, Ingrid, RG,
I was so sorry to hear about Lois/your mom; my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
I pass by the sawmill twice a year on my way to mom and dads' and it always makes me smile to remember some of the good times our families shared!
Susan Thomas Walters
January 2, 2011
Dear Rynard, RJ, & Ingrid,
I was very sorry to hear of the loss of your wife and mom. I got to know your mom when I was a member of the Berlin Rescue Squad and she was with Grafton. She was a very kind and passionate person. She will be sorely missed as a fine person and an awesome EMT. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
January 1, 2011
Dear Rynard and family: We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We always enjoyed talking to Lois and the help she gave us on keeping Dyken Pond as we love it.
bonnie Maxon and Ron Kaczor
Berlin, Dyken Pond
Neil Normandin
January 1, 2011
To the Gundrum and Eaton families...I am so sorry to hear of your loss...Lois was a classmate at SHS and I know that all of us from the class of 1961 are deeply saddened..
Wayne & Chris Schillinger
January 1, 2011
Rynard & Family, We pray the wonderul memories you all have of your beautiful Lois will sustain and comfort you in the days to come. She has made a lasting impression on all who knew her. She and Hilda were two "steel magnolias," making a difference wherever they went. She will be greatly missed.
Knick Nunnemacher
January 1, 2011
To the Gundrums and Eatons: My sincerest sympathies on your loss. It has been a number of years since I last saw Lois. Although she was short in stature she was not easily overlooked due to her laugh, smile and friendly nature.
December 31, 2010
Ingrid & Family:
Our deepest sympathy to all of you for your loss. Our hope is that you can find comfort in knowing that Lois lived her life to the fullest and will be missed by many. She now enjoys eternal life.
Larry, Tracy, & Brittany
Kevin Wright
December 31, 2010
An Earthly Angel has completed her work here and now will sit beside God and watch over us all! A wonderful gift from God will be missed! RIP Lois
Barry & Carol MacDonald
December 31, 2010
To Rynard and family, please accept our deepest sympathies on Lois's passing. She was indeed a wonderful person and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shelly Bedford
December 31, 2010
Rynard and family,
We cannot express deeply enough our sympathies and prayers for your family. Lois was a wonderful woman who will be deeply missed by all. Perhaps she is even now in spirited conversation with our parents. That thought brings a hint of a smile. So sorry we missed the wake, we did not know until today...
John Decker,Shelly Bedford & family
Susan Voter
December 31, 2010
Alta and the Eaton family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time, along with your many, many friends at the "Village". As a long time member of the OSV "Family", you have the care and support from all your friends here during this very difficult time.
God Bless
Sue & Milt and Family
Bradley Eaton
December 30, 2010
To the Gundrum and Eaton family. Our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Brad and Jane Eaton
Rocco & Christine Oppedisano
December 30, 2010
Rynard,Ingrid,RJ and Family, We are so very sorry to hear about Lois. She was a caring and sincere woman who will be missed by all who knew her.Our prayers are with you.
Sincerly,
Talin Nalbandian
December 30, 2010
Although its difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow. Lois was one of my favorite customers when I worked for Fleet Bank on Hoosick St.We always exchanged stories of her grandkids and my triplets everytime she came in to the bank. She was indeed a wonderful woman and will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
December 30, 2010
Rynard and family we are so sad to hear of Lois's passing, we will always remember the times we shared. You are in our thoughts and prayers. June and Russ Paff
Gail (Gundrum) & Ray Gosnell
December 30, 2010
Rynard, Ingrid and Rynard, Jr. The news of Lois's passing is shocking to all who knew and loved her; none more than you, her family. Speaking for myself, and as her former sister-in-law, she was always there whenever I felt I needed her. ALWAYS smiling; always full of life. She was a good and caring woman with a wonderful sense of humor who will not be forgotten. I remember her years ago sitting in the middle of a pile of old tires in your yard--patiently and carefully removing the weights from those old tires. I could not believe she was doing it but it was all for her family and the business. That's a woman of fortitude and stamina if I ever saw one. Raymond fondly remembers how nice and welcoming she always was to him and Glen when they moved to Grafton. We both extend our deepest, deepest sympathy to each of you. Remember all the good times because that is what she would want you to do.
The Bruno Family
December 30, 2010
Rynard & Family - We are so sorry to hear of Lois' passing. She will be dearly missed by all those who knew her. The many fond and loving memories will help you through this difficult time and carry you beyond as you remember the wonderful woman that she was. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ed White
December 30, 2010
Rynard. Very sorry to hear about Lois. I always enjoyed talking to her. I haven't had the opportunity to talk to either of you in years, but I have thought of you both on numerous occasions. She will be missed.
Bonesteel/Crandall
December 30, 2010
To The Gundrum Family. We are sorry to hear of your loss. Lois was an amazing dedicated woman to the community and her family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
~Barry, Diane, Amber and Courtney
Roger Buckley
December 29, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Dick Quinn
December 29, 2010
Rynard, So sorry to hear about Lois. All our sympathy and prayers are with you.
Bev & Dick Quinn
presently in NC
Sandy Blodgett
December 29, 2010
Ingrid, Im so sorry to hear of your mom passing she was a great lady and an asset to the residence of Rensselaer County. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
December 29, 2010
Rynard, Ingrid....we are so sory to hear of Lois passing. She was some wonderful person and will be missed by many
Darlene and George Reischuck
Marcy Jewett
December 29, 2010
To the entire Gundrum family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Jewett's
Marcy, Alyssa, and Aaron
Robert Nelson
December 29, 2010
To the Gundrum family, are heartfelt sympathy, from Robert & Gloria Nelson and family. We'll miss her too.
mary eddy
December 29, 2010
Lois you will be misses so much ...I will always remember your smile and friendship. You were a beautiful person inside and out..
God has called anthor angel home may you rest in eternal peace. Our prayers are with your family .....
j goyer
December 29, 2010
I am sorry for your loss.
Pat and Frank, Ryan
December 29, 2010
Rynard and family we are deeply sadened by Lois passing. I remember all the days and conversations at the Post Office, she will be missed.
Christine Honiker
December 29, 2010
Lois was a strong, funny & loving woman whos presence will be greatly missed. My deepest condolences to Rynard,Ingrid, Rye & family. We love you.
Lynn and Patti Sbrega
December 29, 2010
Rynard and Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We hope you can find comfort in the warm embrace of fond memories.
Sincerely,
Lynn and Patti Sbrega
December 29, 2010
Rye,Sue,Francesca,Olivia,Tyler,Rynard and Ingrid-Our heartfelt sympathy to all of you. May Lois rest in peace-With all our Love Harry & Harriet
Connie LaFond
December 29, 2010
Rynard and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Lois was always a wonderful and caring friend. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
December 29, 2010
We were blessed to have known Lois. Her passing leaves a great hole in our hearts, her warmth and generosity live on in each of us who knew her love and mourn her. Our time shared with her and her family on Dykon Pond is priceless, a place where athleticism was encouraged with, fresh air, clean water and friendship. Susanne, David and Christy Koban, Berne, NY
Barbara Wells
December 29, 2010
Rynard,
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time and that the love of friends and family will carry you through your grief.
chris wilson
December 29, 2010
Ingrid,
sorry to hear of your loss
You are in my thoughts at this difficult time, memories of your mom will always be with you
David Andrews
December 29, 2010
Rynard, I'm sorry for your loss, I remember Lois being a kind and honest person. You will be in my prayers and thoughts.
Stan & Robin Brownell
December 29, 2010
The Gundrum family,
I will never forget Lois's guidance the first few years in office, she will never be forgotten. To the Gundrum family, Lois will be definitely missed by the Grafton community and it's neighbors, thank you for sharing her with us. We will be out of town for the services. So sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.
December 29, 2010
To Rynard and to the Gundrum family. I am so sorry for your loss. A wonderful woman has gone to heaven! I will always remember Lois as she came to the bank and spent extra time sharing stories of her family. Always with a smile on her face and as she left a skip in her step.I looked forward to Lois coming into the bank because you knew she would have yet another wonderful story of her weekend boat trips with grandkids, horse n buggy rides with friends, ski trips & the Lumber yard.These will be the memories we can return to keeping Lois in our hearts. She will be GREATLY missed! Diane Robertson NBT BANK
Kristina Jewett
December 29, 2010
My sincere condolences go out to everyone whose life was touched by Lois. She was a wonderful person and we were all blessed to have had her in our lives. She will truly be missed.
Jay Price
December 29, 2010
To Rynard & The Gundrum Family. Sorry to see that Lois has past. She was a spark plug for Grafton and always fun to be with. My thoughts will be with you and the family.
Lorraine Stevens (almost)
December 29, 2010
Dearest Ry, Sue, Francesca, Olivia & Tyler, our thoughts and prayers are with as you navigate this tragic loss. We will all remember Lois' smile and her hearty attitude towards life. She is at peace now and all of your memories will carry you through the days of your journey ahead.
With much love,
Lorraine, Dante & Glen
Richard Agan
December 29, 2010
To Rynard
Sorry to hear of your loss.
Joan Biski
December 29, 2010
Ingrid & Family,
Sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you.
Robert & Jane Moon
December 29, 2010
To the whole family, our prayers are with you, Cherish your memories.
December 29, 2010
I will miss Lois. My brother George said it best she was more of a sister than a sister-in-law. And she truly was, she was tough but always fair and she always, always had a smile for you. We have a big empty space in our hearts that Lois used to fill. I deel such a deep saddness for my brother Rynard and his family. Susan Dayton Cropseyville.
December 29, 2010
I will miss my sister-in-law Lois. She was more of a sister to myself and my brother George than in-law. She was always ready with a smile and an ear to listen. She was tough but fair and devoted her life to her husband and children. She was one in a million I will miss her.
David Buckley
December 29, 2010
To Rynard, Ingrid ,RJ, and the Gundrum Families. We extend our sincere condolonces and offer our sympathy of the loss of your Wife and Mother. Lois's commitment to public service to the Town of Grafton community is only surpassed by her dedication and love for her family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. The Buckley Families
Joe and Gayle Magisano
December 29, 2010
Rynard and family ~ our deepest sympathy your loss ~ Joe always enjoyed working for Lois. While she is safely in heaven, the love and memories you shared will never die. May God grant you peace and strength during this time and the year of "firsts" without her. You are in our prayers.
"When some one you Love
Becomes a Memory
That Memory becomes a Treasure"
PJ Higgitt
December 29, 2010
Rynard, Ingrid & Family: My thoughts and prayers are with you all. She was a very special woman. Deepest sympathies to you and yours during this time.
Jill ODell
December 29, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you Ingrid. Deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Pat Pafford
December 29, 2010
To the Gundrum family, my deepest sympathy. Lois ran the show and did a great job. She will be missed by all.
The Staff of Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home
December 29, 2010
Offering our deepest sympathies during this time.
Barbara Balascio
December 28, 2010
To Rynard & The Gundrum Family - I am sorry to hear of your loss. Lois was an integral part of Grafton history. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Barbara Bonesteel Balascio (Former McChesney Av. Brunswick resident)
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