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Thomas Alaxanian Obituary

Alaxanian, Thomas J. DEFREESTVILLE Thomas J. Alaxanian Sr., 81, formerly of Watervliet, died suddenly Tuesday evening, November 17, 2009 at Albany Memorial Hospital after being stricken at home. Born in Watervliet on May 16, 1928, he was the son of the late Aram and Anna Connors Alaxanian. He attended St. Patrick's School and School 3 in Watervliet and was a 1947 graduate of LaSalle Institute in Troy. He was a US Army veteran of the Korean War. Upon returning home, he entered the apprentice machinist program at the Watervliet Arsenal and became a machinist. Later, he was the chief of order service and procurement at the Watervliet Arsenal before retiring in 1981 after 35 years of service. He was also appointed to the Production Hall of Fame. He was instrumental in the development of the Marine Drive Unit, which was a portable bridge that folded out for tanks to cross over water. Tom was very active in sports, playing basketball, football and softball. He was the manager for 23 years for the Mackey Motors in the Watervliet Little League. He was a lifelong NY Yankee and Notre Dame fan. He was a member of the Watervliet Elks, the Watervliet Knights of Columbus, the CRS Post and the American Legion. He enjoyed hunting, fishing and summers at Brant Lake. He is the beloved husband of Margaret "Peg" Roblin Illenberg Alaxanian and the late Ruby M. Young Alaxanian who died in 1983, Devoted father of Thomas J. Alaxanian Jr. of Rensselaer, David M. (Cheryl) Alaxanian of Cohoes, Beth L. (late Jack) Madden of Colonie, Craig C. (Maria) Alaxanian of Latham, Scott S. (Sandra) Alaxanian of North Greenbush and Todd S. (Jessica) Alaxanian of Colonie; proud grandfather of 21 grandchildren and four great-grandchildren; brother of Mike (Marion) Alaxanian of Watervliet and the late Mary and Bud Alaxanian, Lucille Yamin, Jean Shippee and Ann Trianni; stepfather of Timothy, Peter (Elisabeth), Michael and Christina Illenberg; son-in-law of Walter K. Roblin. He is also survived by three step-grandchildren and several nieces and nephews. The funeral will be Saturday at 8:45 a.m. from the Parker Bros. Memorial, 2013 Broadway, Watervliet and at 9:30 a.m. at St. Patrick's Church, Watervliet where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated. Interment, St. Patrick's Cemetery, Watervliet. Relatives and friends are invited and may call at the funeral home on Friday from 4-8 p.m. Contributions may be made to the Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish Food Pantry, 2416 7th Avenue, Watervliet, NY 12189. Condolence book at ParkerBrosMemorial.com

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Published by Albany Times Union from Nov. 19 to Nov. 20, 2009.

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Shelley

December 9, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are never alone. Turn to the Holy Scriptures for guidance and to help soothe your heart. Psalms 34;18 assures us that God is near to those broken at heart and crushed in spirit. Please accept my deepest sympathies

Michael

November 23, 2009

My sincerest condolences. I was shocked and saddened to hear of Uncle Tom's passing. I have many fond memories of him, especially the carefree summer days at Aunt Jeans, in particular I recall him gently introducing me into the pool following recovery from my burns, like a true loving uncle. He always seemed to be there in times of need. May you find comfort in the knowledge that he positively touched the lives of so many people.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

brandt robideau

November 22, 2009

uncle tommy i send my deepest sympathies to your and your family. my prayers are with you.

November 22, 2009

To The Alaxanian Family,

So sorry about the passing of your Dad. We will remember him fondly.
Bill and Donna Gorman

Tim Alund

November 22, 2009

To the Alaxanian Family,
My deepest sympathies.....Your dad was a great guy and a wonderful influence in my life at an early age. He guided a lot of us on that little league ballfield like he was our own father. You were truly blessed to be able to call him 'Dad'. I remember all of you as wonderful people, and the mark of your parents is always upon you.
I wish all of you the very best, with my sincerest condolences.

Frank Carpinello,Joe Angelo Electric City Riders

November 22, 2009

Tom and family, you are in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.

peggy robideau

November 21, 2009

Tom jr i send my deepest sympathies to you and your family

November 21, 2009

tom so sorry to here about your dad

Sheila Snay-Bennett

November 21, 2009

Tommy,
I send my deepest sympathies to you and your family. I hope all the fond memories of your father will help comfort you.

Carole Bodo

November 20, 2009

Todd & Family so sorry about your loss. He was a great man

Dolly & Maria Goyer

November 20, 2009

DAVE
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. Memories are comforting.

RUTH LIVINGSTON

November 20, 2009

TOM AND BOYS,SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR DAD AND GRANDFATHER'S PASSING ,MAY YOUR MEMORIES HELP YOU THRU THIS SAD TIME.YOU'RE IN MY PRAYERS..

John Raila Jr

November 20, 2009

Tom&Family. I am very sorry for your loss. I remember your dad in my grand parents store, and the simpler times of 6th ave. Good luck to all Tommy you always have been a good friend to myself & family.

November 20, 2009

Tommy,
Our thoughts are with you
Mike & Crissy Artese

Natalie

November 20, 2009

Beth and family- I am so sorry for your loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I am here if you guys need anything!

Paul Duncan

November 20, 2009

It was honor knowing you. You brought joy and happiness into people lives and will be sadly missed by all that knew you.

Joe Curran

November 20, 2009

To the Alaxanian Family:

I was shocked and saddened by the news of Tom's passing. I worked closely with Tom for 20 years at the Arsenal and also played some basketball with him. He was loved and respected by all who knew him. I feel that I have lost a great friend. My deepest sympathy and condolences to all the family. My prayers are with you all.

moira geracitano

November 20, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss- he was a wonderful man- with some pretty wonderful kids and grandkids. I am honored to have known him.

Alaxanian

November 20, 2009

Dear Craig,
Through the years, each time I thought of your dad, I had to smile. The memories were always pleasant. To you I say, I am sorry for your loss.
To Dad I say, Thanks for the smiles.

November 20, 2009

Tom, TJ and the boys:
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. John Ray Higgins sends his regards and will keep your family in his prayers. Rest In Peace
Lesa, John Ray Higgins

Patte Livingston

November 20, 2009

Tom and boys, I am so sorry to hear of your Father and Grandfathers passing.You are all in my thoughts and prayers..

November 20, 2009

Todd and Family,
How very saddened I was to read of your dad's passing this morning. He was a wonderful man with so much love for you. He had such a kind heart and gentle way about him. I was very lucky to have become your neighbors back in 6th grade. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Stacy Hayes Layman

November 20, 2009

Tom and Family, Sorry for your loss.
Love And Respect.
Mardo Highwaymen MC

November 20, 2009

Tom,Our prayers are with you and your family. Our deepest sympathy.

Boozefighters Mountain Chapter, Troy,NY
Z

November 20, 2009

Tom sorry to hear the loss of your dad, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,
L&R

SLICK/SECT.

UN-EASYRIDERS MC

Robert Guynup

November 20, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

JERRY & JACKIE TREACY

November 19, 2009

TODD & FAMILY,So sorry to hear about your DAD, OUR PRAYERS & THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME.

Shannon and Paulie Bacon

November 19, 2009

Tom so sorry to hear of your Dads passing. Our best to you, the boys and your family. God Speed.
Love & Respect

November 19, 2009

Tom and family,
So sorry for your loss, hope the good memories help to ease the pain.


ron, bladesmen mc

November 19, 2009

Tom and Family' Your in my prayers ,call on me if you need anything. All my love, Marie Brooks

November 19, 2009

Eve,
Your Family At Target send our condolences to you and your family for your loss.

Faith Battaglia

November 19, 2009

Dear Craig, Maria and family-

Craig, I'm truly sorry to hear of the loss of your father.
You have my deepest sympathy and love. Faith

Dee Abney

November 19, 2009

Tom very sorry for your loss. I know your Dad was very dear to you. May your days be filled with happy memories and I pray God gives you and your family comfort in this time of sorrow. Love and Respect my friend

November 19, 2009

Tom and family
Sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with yous


Carol and Phil Sayers

Jamie Slater

November 19, 2009

Tom Jr.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this very sad time.
Love and Respect to you all.
Jamie, AKA Tail Light, Boozefighters MC, Mountain 60

November 19, 2009

May the creator guide you on your new journey, may the sacred eagles carry your spirit to the heavens above, always be remembered and loved.
Love and Respect to my brother Tom Jr a.k.a. The Bomb
Your brother forever Timmy a.k.a. Guardrail and all the Native American Brotherhood MC

Colleen Murray-Heffner

November 19, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Bob O'Keefe

November 19, 2009

Dear Alaxanian Family,

I played for the Mackey Motors many years ago. May God comfort you in your time of sorrow.
May God bless you.

November 19, 2009

Tom, David, Craig, Scott, Beth and Todd...so sorry to hear about your loss--my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
And we all do have our wonderful memories--mostly of being
with your parents and Grandfather at his camp every summer. Love, Evelyn Young Sperry(Cousin)

Todd Baldwin

November 19, 2009

I am truly sorry for your loss.

November 19, 2009

Tommy
I am praying for you and your family. I know we haven't seen each other in many years, but it seems like only yesterday. May the Lord and bless and keep you and make his face shine upon you, may you understand his salvation and be filled with his peace.

Jim Waltersdorf

November 19, 2009

We are deeply saddened by the loss of your father. Our prayers and deepest sympathy to all of the Alaxanian family.

Donna Snay & Summer and Brittany Coil

AMY ROCKENSTIRE

November 19, 2009

CRAIG, AND FAMILY IM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

Heather

November 19, 2009

Thomas James,

I am so very sorry to hear of your grandfathers passing! I will keep you in my prayers!

The Cotugno Family

November 19, 2009

Todd, Jess and family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Pat Sibincich

November 19, 2009

Peg and family,

Sorry to hear of Tom's passing.
Lets not be too sad but lets celebrate
what a wonderful person he was.
I had great admiration for his warmth and welcoming way.He was a special person.

Tom Brennan

November 19, 2009

Dave, My family and i send our deepest sympathies to you and your family during your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you

Tom Brennan

November 19, 2009

Dave, My family and i send our deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss

Michele Guynup

November 19, 2009

Tom,

We are so sorry about the loss of your father. Our deepest sympathies and prayers to you and your family.

Brian and Michele Guynup

Lou Carol Comley

November 19, 2009

To The Alaxanian Family - I have been fortunate to work with two daughter-in-laws of Tom. I know they both adore their husbands and have wonderful families. This I believe is a direct result of the "upbringing" of Craig and Todd. So...your Dad has left a great legacy in his children that will go on for many generations. His love will show in the things you all do. May the memories comfort you and may your Dad, Father-in-law rest in peace.

Jeff Beattie

November 19, 2009

Dave,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Michele Harris

November 19, 2009

Mr Alaxanian
With a heavy heart I write to you
I am so sad that you are gone and my girls are too

When I heard the news of you going to heaven that day
I immediately cried and thought of how you touched our lives in so many ways

I don’t even think you realize how much we were touched
You always cheered on Katrina and encouraged her so much

I have always had so much respect for you; you were the biggest fan the kids had
You were such a great husband, grandfather, friend and dad

You cheered them on, yelled at refs and all
You even got kicked out of a playoff game but continued to watch from the hall

You were loved so much by everyone you knew
Even though you were Eden’s grandfather, Katrina loved and respected you so much too

You were the type of man the younger generation should strive to be
You always put your family first and that always impressed me
You always smiled and were so positive to talk to
You were a great role model; I look at Todd and see so much of you

You will be missed so much more that you know
Especially at all the sports games you used to go

Please look down and take care of all of us
Remind us life is short and we need to slow down and not make such a fuss

You are now in heaven and some day we will meet again
I feel privileged that you were a big influence in my life, my kid’s lives but most of all that I could call you friend

Mr Alaxanian, most of all I want to thank you
For making us feel like a part of your family too

You were such an important part of Katrina’s life for the past 11 years
When I told her you went to heaven, she could not control her tears

It didn’t matter how she played
You were always there to give her praise

I appreciate how you encouraged her and made her feel
You always made her feel like she was a truly a big deal

I cannot explain how heartbroken everyone is
But I guess the Lord knows best and the choice is His

You are in heaven now where it is beautiful and we all strive to be
You better run when I get there because you will definitely be getting a big hug from me.

Love Michele

Linda Durocher

November 19, 2009

I'm truly sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Jeanne, Rob and Marisa Heiserman

November 19, 2009

Scott, Sandy and Family,
We are so very sorry to hear of your father's passing. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

With sincere sympathy,
Jeanne, Rob and Marisa Heiserman

Tina Barber

November 19, 2009

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family in this time of sorrow. I hope fond memories will comfort all of you.

DT

November 19, 2009

I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THE TIMES YOU, ME, UNCLE MIKE,UNCLE BUD,AND DAVE USED TO GO HUNTING AT CHARLIE'S CAMP, THE STATE PARK AND BERLIN. THOSE ARE SOME OF THE MOST FONDEST MEMORIES THAT I HOLD ON TOO IN THIS SHORT LIFE OF OURS. I WISH OTHERS IN THE FAMILY COULD HAVE EXPERIENCED THEM. THEY WERE FUNNY(AT MY EXPENSE MOSTLY),HAPPY TIMES THAT I WILL ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL TO HAVE BEEN PART OF WITH THE FOUR OF YOU. THOUGH THERE WERE BAD TIMES IN LIFE ALSO, THE MEMORIES OF THOSE GOOD ONES HAVE ALWAYS SEEMED TO BE ETCHED DEEP IN MY HEART FOR SOME REASON AND I KNOW THEY ALWAYS WILL.

Bob Guynup

November 19, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

The Staff of Parker Bros. Memorial Funeral Home

November 19, 2009

Offering our deepest sympathies during this time.

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