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Harriet Gardiner Obituary

GARDINER Harriet Gibbs Gardiner was 89 years old when she died on July 27, 2009 in the care of Community Hospice - Hadlow Center. Born Harriet Crossman Gibbs in 1920 to Judge George Couper Gibbs and Leonora Warnock Gibbs, Mrs. Gardiner was their third child and joined an extensive Gibbs family with historic roots in northeastern Florida dating back to Florida when it was a territory of the United States. She was a member of the first graduating class of the Bartram School which her parents co-founded and then went on to Vassar College, graduating in 1941. In 1942 amidst WWII, Harriet was introduced by a family friend to Asa Bird Gardiner of Baltimore, MD, and they became engaged just before he departed for Europe. While awaiting his return, Harriet kept busy as a caseworker for the American Red Cross and as an active volunteer. Harriet Crossman Gibbs and Asa Bird Gardiner were married at Riverside Presbyterian Church on September 28, 1945. After a brief time in Baltimore, the Gardiners returned to Jacksonville, raising three sons in Riverside Manor. The Gardiners became active members of St. Johns Presbyterian Church where Harriet continued to be a leader until the recent decline in her health. She became St. Johns' first woman Elder, for many years directed the St. Johns Kindergarten and was Bible Moderator for St. Johns' adult education. In 1967 Harriet returned to Bartram School as a history and geography teacher, helped direct school performances, and served on the Board of Trustees. With a long history of family community involvement, Mrs. Gardiner joined the Jacksonville Urban League in 1962 and served as its Chairperson in 1975. Among her other important activities were Lay Renewal Ministries, Common Cause, Youth with a Mission, the Jacksonville Historical Society and Lutheran Social Services. She helped start Meals-on- Wheels in Jacksonville, and regularly visited grieving families through Community Hospice of Northeast Florida. Mrs. Gardiner was a member of the Junior League of Jacksonville, Colonial Dames, and the Florida Yacht Club, and she also enjoyed Alliance Franaise, the Jacksonville Symphony, and the Cummer Museum of Art. Harriet Gardiner is survived by her three sons, Philip Parkhurst Gardiner (The Netherlands), Stephen Hopkins Gardiner (Quincy, MA), and George Couper Gibbs Gardiner (Cincinnati, OH), eight grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren, all of whom celebrate her enriching and loving life. A memorial service will be held at St. Johns Presbyterian Church on a date to be announced shortly. In lieu of flowers, those wishing to remember Harriet Gardiner may choose to make a donation to St. Johns Presbyterian Church or Community Hospice of Northeast Florida. Please Sign the Guestbook @ Jacksonville.com

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Published by Florida Times-Union on Jul. 30, 2009.

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Susan Tison Farmer

August 29, 2009

Dear Gardiner Family, What a blessing your Mother was to the many lives she touched, especially to me and our family. She was Christian Grace in action. My prayers are with you.

Jim and Sally Holsonback

August 27, 2009

Harriett and Asa were the firt people to extend the hand of friendship at St. Johns to us. What wonderful Christians! She hada beautiful spirit that made a difference in so many lives. We feel fortunate to have known her.

Donald Brodmerkel

August 24, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Shirley Brodmerkel

August 24, 2009

Harriet was a close friend of our family & a very dedicated church member. Her gifts will be missed by everyone.

Vallrie Sheftall-Good

August 21, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of Mrs. Gardiner's passing. She was a lovely lady and a wonderful neighbor for many,many years. My condolences and prayers are with you all at this time.

Sharon Tanner

August 21, 2009

To Harriet's family: She was one of my very favorite ladies at St. Johns Presbyterian Church where I was a member for many years. Her deep faith and great wisdom were a source of inspiration for me. Always a kind word for everyone and gentle spirit of humility evident, she was my dear deceased mother-in-law's sunday school teacher for more than 15 years. I'm grateful for her life.

Sharon Tanner

August 21, 2009

To Harriet's family: She was one of my very favorite ladies at St. Johns Presbyterian Church where I was a member for many years. Her deep faith and great wisdom were a source of inspiration for me. Always a kind word and gentle spirit, she was my dear deceased mother-in-law's sunday school teacher for more than 15 years. I'm grateful for her life. Sharon Tanner
Jacksonville, FL

Richard Danford

August 17, 2009

The Jacksonville Urban League extends our sympathy to the family of Ms. Harriett Gibbs Gardiner. We will forever be greatful for her dedication and service as a member of our board of directors. She was committed to making our community better and worked tirelessly to improve the quality of life of the many individuals that the Jacksonville Urban League served.

August 12, 2009

A very dear friend for many years, Harriet will be missed by those of us who learned from her teaching. Her life was a wonderful example of Christian faith and love in action.

William and Diane McFadden

Sandra Sapinski

August 9, 2009

Harriet ( "Miss Gardiner" as John lovingly called her), devoted her life to the education of children. Her high standards and personal commitment to excellence will carry on through the hundreds of young lives she touched, and who will continue to honor her memory with their own superior and remarkable accomplishments - a tribute to her wonderful, long life of loving Christian discipleship.
Our sincere sympathy and gratitude.
The Sapinski Family, Jacksonville, FL

Harry deMontmollin

August 5, 2009

I am so sorry to learn of Harriet's passing. I thoroughly enjoyed her company and working with her on Bartram Bolles issues and concerns. She was a first class lady by every measure.

Harry deMontmollin

Lyn Corry

July 31, 2009

Dear Gardiner Family,
Mrs. Gardiner was such a regal looking lady and always such a well spoken person. I always remember the great times at St. Johns with the guys growing up. We had such great times at Day Camp. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Lyn Springer Corry, Bostic, NC.

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