Betty Lou Fetter

Betty Fetter Obituary

FETTER -- Betty Lou, 82, passed away Saturday, August 19, 2006. She was preceded in death by: her parents; husband, Ralph Glenn Fetter, Jr.; 1 grandson; and 1 sister. She is survived by: son, Danny Fetter and Stephanie Burkett; daughter, Linda Whitney and husband, Dean; granddaughter, Dacia Flynn and husband, Jon; great-granddaughter, Alexis Flynn; brothers, Robert Peace, Jack Peace and wife, Etta and David Peace; sisters, Rachel Gabbert and husband, Gee and Sue McConnell. Memorial service will be held 11 a.m., Saturday, August 26, 2006, at First Presbyterian Church. Under the direction of Moore's Memory Chapel, (918) 583-6148.

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Published by Tulsa World on Aug. 24, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Betty Fetter

14 Entries

Glenn and Betty at Rockaway Beach, MO. They first met here in 1941

September 3, 2006

Betty Lou with son Danny and daughter Linda, Sept 2005

September 3, 2006

Linda Whitney

September 2, 2006

Thanks and mahalo to all of you for your fond memories of my Mom. And thank you to all of you who attended her memorial service to say good-bye for now. I, too, miss her desparately. Mom and my daughter, Dacia, are my very bests friends. I will always treasure the great times that we've had together. So grateful that Mom was able to meet and recognize her great grandaughter, Alexis Eileen (5 months of age), in August, just 2 weeks before Mom passed. I am truly honored to have Betty as my Mom. I agree, she truly is a wonderful, sincere, loving, and sweet, sweet person who touches so many lives in such a positive and long-lasting way--both while she was on this earth and beyond. God bless you Mom. Enjoy Paradise. We'll see you when we join you there. Oh that sweet reunion.

Glenda Williamson

August 29, 2006

I will truly miss Betty. She was a sweet person who always had a smile on her face. I feel grateful that I had a chance to work with her. She will always be remembered here at Parkside.

Ted Rogers

August 28, 2006

From my very first day on the job, Betty greeted me with a smile. I have worked with Betty for sixteen years and even though I did not realize it Betty was teaching me a few things about life in general, as an older adult I look back and see how she showed me a different part to life, God bless you Betty.

Debbie Davidson

August 26, 2006

Betty was an amazing person. I had the privilege of working with her for over 20 years beginning with the old Tulsa Psychiatric Center days. Betty weathered all the challenges and transitions - and there were so many - with the utmost of grace and integrity. She carried the oral history of that organization for what, well over 30 years? (She had some wild tales, too, of those early days!)

Over the years she shared wonderful stories of her family, tales of adventures with Glenn to car shows, countless cups of coffee (and she liked it strong...!), laughter, phenomenal strength and enduring patience.

Betty was one of the kindest persons I have ever met. I am so grateful for the guidance and support she gave me over the years. It is an honor to have known her.

My thoughts and prayers are with her family during this time of profound loss.

Paul Greever

August 25, 2006

It was my privilege to have worked with Betty at Parkside. Her talents were always amazing as was her memory of the history of TPC and Parkside. She always had a smile for everyone and brighened our days. She will be missed in all our lives.

Patty White

August 25, 2006

Betty was a special person. I really enjoyed working with her. We certainly saw quite a few changes at TPC/Parkside. She loved her family because she talked with me about them all the time. When she lost Glenn, it was especially difficult for her. She will be missed, especially her smile.

Greer Fites

August 25, 2006

When I think of Betty, I think of one of the most professional, organized and friendly women I have worked with. She was constant and reliable. She is missed.

Jon Flynn

August 25, 2006

I have had the great fortune of marrying Betty's Granddaughter, Dacia. Betty Lou was the most loving, wonderful person I could have ever imagined. I will miss her as a bright part of my life. I am happy that my daughter Alexis was able to spend time with her GREAT Grandma just a few weeks ago and a little bit of Betty will live on in her. We will always remember her!

Betty, Linda and Dacia

August 25, 2006

Betty & Glenn Fetter

August 25, 2006

Mary Ellen Clements

August 24, 2006

I had the privilege of working with Betty at the Tulsa Psychiatric Center for many years...she was one of my very favorite people. My sympathy to all of her family.

Dane Matthews

August 24, 2006

I will miss you and all the good and sometimes stressful work you did at Parkside. As a member of the board, I know that we couldn't have made it without you.

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