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Patricia Finnegan Obituary

Age 52, devoted wife of Stephen, and loving mother of Kyle and Roch, of Fairfield, CT. Passed away peacefully in her home on March 21, 2010. In addition to her beloved husband of 20 years and her two sons, whom she was so proud of, Patricia's memory will be cherished by her parents, Lawrence and Jean McNulty Holland, of St. Paul; two sisters, Ann Marie Holland, of St. Paul, Colleen DeLuca, and her husband, Steven, of Apple Valley; three brothers, William Holland, and his fiancee, Amy Weirtz, of St.Paul, Daniel Holland, and his wife, Robyn, of Apple Valley, Mark Holland, and his wife, Kim, of Lakeville, MN; members of the Finnegan family including Stephen's mother, Paula Loffredo, and her husband, Robert, of Narragansett, RI; his three sisters, Lori Vine, and her husband, Thomas, of Plainville, MA, Mary Beth Poirier, and her husband, Joel, of North Attleborough, MA, Linda Miller, and her husband, David, of Glen Ridge, NJ; his two brothers, William Finnegan, and his wife, Patricia, of North Attleborough, Robert Finnegan, and his wife, Susan, of Leominster, MA; many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends, all of whom she so positively touched throughout her life's journey. She was predeceased by her father-in-law, William Finnegan, Sr. Born and raised in St. Paul, Minnesota, she graduated from Hill-Murray High School in 1976. Pati resided in White Plains, NY for several years until moving to Fairfield with her family in 1999. Never forgetting her St. Paul roots, she made yearly visits home, spending time on Square Lake, and "loved all things Minnesota". Playing on the beaches of Narragansett with her family and friends, listening to an array of music, and shopping almost anywhere were some of her favorite past times. Pati loved being with people, always seizing opportunities to nurture new friendships and strengthen her established ones. She embraced her community as an active volunteer in several organizations including the Fairfield Pop Warner Football and Cheerleading program, Fairfield Ludlowe High School Goal Line Club, and was a former member of the Gaelic American Club. In addition to her dedication as a homemaker, she was a talented jewelry designer and owner of Busy Bead Jewelry. Calling hours will be held on Friday from 3 to 8 PM in the Lesko & Polke Funeral Home, in Fairfield Center. Her Mass of Christian Burial will take place on Saturday at 1030 AM in St. Thomas Church, Fairfield. Her interment will follow in Oak Lawn Cemetery, Fairfield. On Tuesday, April 13th at 10 AM, a Memorial Mass for Patricia will be held in Assumption Catholic Church, 51 West 7th Street, in St. Paul. Memorial Contributions may be made to either: The Finnegan Family Education Fund c/o: Fairfield Junior Football Program, Inc., P.O.Box 404, Fairfield, CT 06824 or Vitas- Innovative Hospice Care, 777 Commerce Drive (suite 220), Fairfield, CT 06825. For directions to the services or to sign an online register, please visit www.LeskoPolkeFuneralHome.com.

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Published by Pioneer Press on Mar. 25, 2010.

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December 3, 2010

Pati was one of the most amazing people I was ever blessed to meet. She definitely put her footprint on life. Her smile, her laugh, and just her all around presence was an honor to know and experience. You will be missed by everyone who ever met you. My heart goes out to the family of Pati.
Love Diana Thompsen White Plains, NY

Ruth Szalapski Olean

April 14, 2010

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy and condolences on the loss of Pati. I hope that the love of God, along with the love and prayers of your family, friends, and community, both sustains you and lifts you up during this very difficult time.

Natalie Johnson

April 12, 2010

Pati was literally my favorite person on earth. I remember being a little girl when she come to my grandpa's house to pick up my aunt Beeb. Grandpa and I would get so excited to see her! I will always treasure our summer days at Square Lake...My heart goes out to her family. Life will never be as bright without her Sunshine smile.

Paul & Becky Soler

April 6, 2010

To the Holland family, sorry to hear about the loss of Patti as she will surely be missed. All of you will be in our prayers.

March 31, 2010

I came to know Pati from her mother-in-law Paula. When St. Mary Star of the Sea Church started its Prayer Shawl Ministry, Pati's was one of the first shawls that I made. Pati sent me a beautiful thank-you note and one of her finest bracelets. I was so touched that with all she was going through she had the time to think of me. Whenever I wear the bracelet, I get so many compliments. I tell everyone about the special person that made it for me. She must be very busy making bracelets for everyone she is meeting in heaven.

Maureen Mossey, Narragansett, RI

Barb (Holl) Schmank

March 28, 2010

I went to Hill-Murray with Pati & was always so happy to see her in the morning, her locker was next to mine. For all of my life every time I use baby lotion I think of her, she always had a bottle in her locker that she would slather on her face!! What a character she was! She was so full of life & happiness. I'm sure she is making a lot of people smile in heaven. I will keep her & your family in my prayers.

Colleen Hartigan O'Malley

March 26, 2010

The joy and energy that Pati brought to everyone she met and everything she did will be deeply missed. She was as close to a sister to me, as my own sisters. How lucky we all are to have had her in our lives. My sympathy goes out to Steve, Kyle, Roch and the entire Holland & Finnegan families.

March 26, 2010

Dear Holland and Finnegan families

This light of this world will be dimmer without Patty. She would light up the room with her presence. My father Sam and Uncle Tony will be awaiting her arrival in heaven with open arms, they both adored you Patty. I am so glad that I got to see you last summer at Square Lake and I will always remember you with a happy heart.

Celeste Chicone Burke

March 26, 2010

I offer my heartfelt condolence & prayers to Patty's Family.
Patty's enlightened presence touched many hearts.
Patty will be dearly missed by all, but never forgotten.

Tony Ferraro

March 26, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through this time of grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you Steve, Roch and Kyle.

Sandi

Kathy Duke

March 26, 2010

Dear Steve and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you while you are dealing with this tragic loss.

Kathy & Michael Duke

March 26, 2010

Our deepest sympathy, thoughts and our prayers are with you, The Gabriel Family

Jody Reeves

March 26, 2010

Holland/Flannegan Families, I went to Tranny with Patty and remeber her as a kind and funny person. She made the room light up with her smile. I am deeply sorry for your loss My prayers and thoughts are with you.

The Staff of Lesko-Polke Funeral Home

March 26, 2010

Offering our sympathies at this time.

Colleen ` Ueland-Fiandaca

March 25, 2010

To the Finnegan and Holland Family. I am so sorry for your loss. I went to grade school with Patty at Tranny. She was always so full of life and just a little bit zaney but we loved and enjoyed her spirit so much. My prayers are with you all.

March 25, 2010

Patti,life will never be the same without you on this earth. In heaven you will be a shinning light to all those that you come in contact with just as you did here on earth. I will miss you, you have been more than anyone could have wished for as a friend You have always been there for me, no matter what. Ilove you with all my heart. BEEB

March 25, 2010

Steve and family

With our heartfelt condolences, our very deepest sympathy.

The girls at McNamara and Kenney

Carolyn Xifaras

March 25, 2010

Dear Steve and Boys,
My deepest sympathy to you and to all of your family. Pati would always bring a smile to my face each time she walked through the door of my bead store....Our friendship grew over the last few years....even to the point where I would personally deliver bead to her home. She was a wonderful person and friend...I will miss her greatly.

Kim Hays(Ross)

March 25, 2010

My deepest sympathy to the Holland/Finnegan family. I went to grade school with Colleen and know that she was very close with Patty. You are all in my thoughts.

Tommy and Alisha Weber

March 25, 2010

Dear Steve and Boys,
There is not anything anyone can say to ease your pain of patty, she is and always will be my best friend for life. we are so saddened by that patty has left us so soon, we can take comfort in knowing that part of her will remain with all who have been touched by her amazing aura. we love you all! keep her memory shining!

Richard & Lynn Soler

March 25, 2010

My deepest sympathy to the Holland family,and the Finnegan family, my family grew up with the Holland family. and I know she will be missed very much, so sorry for your loss.

Karen Benway

March 24, 2010

I was so sad to hear of Pati's passing. With all that she was going through for so many years, she continued to smile and brighten our world. It was my pleasure, and honor, to call Pati my friend. I will treasure the lovely bracelet she handmade for me and remember her fondly. God bless you, Steve, Kyle and Roch; I am so sorry for your loss.

March 23, 2010

Steve,Roch and Kyle there aren't the proper words to express our sorrow at your loss.Very rarely do you come across a character like Patty my family will miss her. She will be in our prayers.

Pat and LeAnne Caulfield and Family

Michelle Springer

March 23, 2010

Sorry for you loss Steve may god bless you and the boys our prayers are with all of you God Bless you all, Deepest Sympathy. Michelle and Taylor Springer

March 23, 2010

Dear Steve, Kyle and Roch

Our deepest sympathies for all of you. The Simpson are truly blessed to have known Patty, she always brought brightness to our lives.

Our love and thoughts are with you.

Jason, Cheryl and Ray.

Sarah Vigneron

March 23, 2010

Dear Steve, Kyle and Roch,

Please accept our deepest sympathies. May your happy memories comfort you and may she live on in your hearts.

We are blessed to have known her.

Sincerely, Sarah, Andy, Kelly and Blair

March 23, 2010

With deepest sympathy in the passing of Patty. May God bless you all.

John and Susan Kamovitch and family

Mary Holland

March 23, 2010

I remember Patty as someone having an immense zest for life and a great love for her family. I am so sorry for your loss.

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