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Christopher Thomas Crow

1987 - 2006

BORN

1987

DIED

2006

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Buena High School

Christopher Crow Obituary

Christopher Thomas Crow, 18, of Ventura took his life Monday, Jan. 23, 2005, to find peace in the presence of his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Christopher was born April 8, 1987, to Colleen and Greg Crow of Ventura. He attended Grace Lutheran Christian Day School, Anacapa Middle School, and Buena High School.

Christopher shied away from athletics but was a member of the freshman wrestling team. We were so proud of him and still cherish his gold medal.

His favorite class was metal shop, and he dreamed of someday becoming an underwater welder.

Christopher was in the student intern program at Southern California Edison and greatly valued his experience and the mentoring he received there. He was currently employed at Thin Gap Technologies in Ventura.

Christopher will be deeply missed by all who knew him as a sensitive and caring young man who was just beginning to explore life as an adult, but suffered most of his life from the internal stresses of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and depression.

Christopher was a brave young man who surrendered his life not to a drunken driver, a faulty product, or other physical hazards that most parents fear, but to demons inside that we failed to recognize.

In our hearts he will always remembered as "our tiger man," who spent many hours playing with his LEGOs and video games, and being mischievous with his older sister, Chelsea. He loved taking care of the family pets, Odie and Nay Nay.

Christopher is survived by loving parents, Colleen and Greg; older sister, Chelsea, and her fiance;, Garth Gaughan; grandparents Joyce Garner and Arthur Habich; aunts, Myrldean Jones, Jowana Campos, Alisa Cox and husband "Uncle" Emmit; and cousins, Jonathan Campos and his wife, Dawnall, Robert Campos, Laura Martin, and Kenneth Jones.

He was preceded in death by grandparents Myrl and Neva Crow, Edward Papier and Clinton "Buck" Garner.

In lieu of flowers, the Crow family asks that you make donations in Christopher's memory to The Jason Foundation Inc. JFI is a nationally recognized leader in teen suicide awareness and prevention. Donations can be sent to 116 Maple Row Blvd., Suite C, Henderson, TN 37075.

Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m. Friday, Jan. 27, at the Conejo Mountain Funeral Home chapel. Burial will follow in the Conejo Mountain Memorial Park.

Arrangements are under the care of the Conejo Mountain Memorial Park and Funeral Home, 2052 Howard Road, Camarillo.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Ventura County Star from Jan. 27 to Jan. 30, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Christopher Crow

38 Entries

Megan Cervantes

February 7, 2006

Dearest Crow Family,

My prayers are with you. Chris and I weren't close friends but i will remember him most for always making me smile at Anacapa and for being one of my few friends at Buena. His memorie is forever cherished in my heart and my thoughts and prayers with his family.

Cyndy Ovalle

February 3, 2006

Dear Colleen and Bill:

I have been holding you and your family in prayer since reading of the loss of your precious boy.

As good parents, I know that you did everything you could to show your child love and understanding.

There really are no words of comfort at this time---but please know your willingness to share your burdens will help others in our community.

I pray for your family's peace and healing.

God bless you.

Your friend from ACHS, Cyndy Ovalle, Ventura

Jose Aldrete

February 2, 2006

Greg,

My family and I want to express our deepest condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jose Aldrete

KMK

February 1, 2006

At the edge of every shadow there is a silver lining-but when it unravels, it's hard to catch before the darkness settles over a life that just couldn't manage to mend the splintered threads. Christopher: I wish you would have let someone know the threads were so fast gone.

Jennifer Hutton

January 31, 2006

Dear Crow Family:

I am very sorry for your loss. My stepmom told me about Chris' passing. I remember babysitting him and Chelsea and I can only remember the blond, happy, curly headed boy that grew up into a beautiful young man. I know you have strength to get you through these difficult times. Thank you for your most personal of obituaries, it appears as though many appreciate you. God Bless!

Jennifer Hutton

Jennifer Hutton

January 31, 2006

Dear Crow Family:

I am very sorry for your loss. My stepmom told me about Chris' passing. I remember babysitting him and Chelsea and I can only remember the blond, happy, curly headed boy that grew up into a beautiful young man. Time heals, and I hope you have strength to get you through these difficult times. Thank you for your most personal of obituaries, it appears as though many appreciate you. God Bless!

Jennifer Hutton

Susan

January 31, 2006

I too felt I needed to send my sympathies after reading your well written obituary in the paper...you have touched many lives of people you will never even know by the way this is written..My heart goes out to you

Ruth

January 31, 2006

Greg and Colleen, Although life itself is never fair, the ONLY thing we can do it look to JESUS. He is our strength and hope and although it will be awhile till your pain subsides, IT WILL someday get better and all the wonderful memories you had of your son will be the only thing you think about instead of the grief and pain you are feeling now. A lot of people are and will be blessed by your testimony and your honesty and if it helps just ONE person, then chris' death was not in vain. Proverbs 3:5-6 TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL THINE HEART AND LEAN NOT UNTO THINE OWN UNDERSTANDING. IN all THY WAYS ACKNOWLEDGE HIM AND HE WILL DIRECT YOUR PATH. God Bless you and keep you in His arms always!

Lori Martinez

January 31, 2006

Chris,

I have known you for many years and for those years you were the kindest most caring person i have ever known. You saved my life so many times, you were there for me when i needed someone to lean on and you always had a way to put a smile on my face when i was feeling down. You touched my life and my heart. You are and will always be my best friend. I know your up there looking down on everyone and i know you'll make someone a great gaurdian angel. you'll always have a place in my heart. I love u chris.

sara luna

January 31, 2006

Dear the Crow family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Chris was a great friend and a great PE partner my sophmore year, he was always making me laugh and run. I got a chance to get to know your son Chris's sweet heart and unforgetable smile, he will be missed and remembered. May he rest in peace and may God Bless your family in this time of greif. _Chris thanks for your wonderful friendship it will always be remembered_

Laura Jones

January 30, 2006

Chris and I have been friends since the seventh grade. We went to Anacapa together and at lunch we would always go to the chess club. At Buena High School, in our sophmore year, Chris and I would walk home everyday together. We would talk about everything. When he go his green mustang, he would take me to school everyday. Sometimes he would take me home, and even then we would talk about everything you could think of. My parents would always tell me that one day, Chris and I would eventually date. I miss you so much Chris. As a friend, I love you and you will be deeply missed.

Karel Placencia

January 30, 2006

Dear Colleen and Greg - as so many people have expressed - there are no words to say how sorry I am and I search for the right words to say that will comfort you. The words you both expressed for Christopher at his funeral have truly touched my soul and will forever be etched in my memory. You have both been so brave through your sorrow and I know that God is faithful and will see you both through this. I have precious memories of Christopher growing up and our special talks we shared when I picked him up from school. We can only walk through this life so far with our loved ones and then it is their turn to walk with God and be wrapped in his love. You are not alone through this, God is holding you through the arms of your friends and family.

Love Karel

Judy & Bob

January 29, 2006

Your precious son's obituary touched us deeply. What a handsome, angelic young man. And what great courage it took for you to write his story. I know that the love and honesty with which you wrote it will benefit more people than you can imagine.

We, too, lost our precious son almost a year ago. He suffered with ADD, as well. Although the circumstances surrounding his death differed, he was plagued with those same stresses and depression. What a blessing to know that both of our sons are in Heaven (maybe talking with one another!) and that some bright day we will be reunited with them! God Bless You.

Lena Lanum

January 29, 2006

My daughters, Amanda and Katherine, attended Grace Lutheran Day School when Chris attended. Our family holds your family in our thoughts and prayers. Colleen, you may remember me as I used to visit with you and Crystal at her shop and met you again later at Bible Fellowship Church on Sat. evenings. May God be with you all and give you peace.

Heidi and Larry Carlin

January 29, 2006

To the Crow family, may the Lord watch over you and guide you through this painful time. We were ever so touched by your writings. We are so thankful you brought this to everyone's attention. And as parents we need to look more closely and listen to our children a.d.d or a.d.h.d is just a part of it there are more signs and you have woken up the county, I am sure to look deeper into our own family members. Our prayers and thoughts are with you, we found it hard to even read all your responses. You have great strength and we appreciate what you have done. We hope it will become easier for you and your family in time. Hopefully you will find strength in all these signings and know the entire county is with you in this time of sorrow. With all our love and sympathy.

Crystal Thomas

January 28, 2006

Colleen and Greg I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers are with you. I trust and pray that someday it will get eaiser. yes, Colleen I have moved back.

Michelle

January 28, 2006

The obituary you so couragously have written has touched many lives here in Ventura and I am sure elsewhere. I did not know your son nor do I know your family, however, the loving words and tribute you chose to share with the community shows the true strength you possess at a time that is the hardest part of your lives. You have taught me to hug my 14 year old a little bit harder and to be more aware of his ups and downs. You have also given voice to suicide and the devastating effects it has on those left behind. I have shared your words with my son and I want to thank you as well as assure you that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Phillip Crow

January 28, 2006

Dear Greg, Colleen, and all of your family, our sincere sympathy and condolences are being sent to you at this time of great sorrow and loss of Christopher.

MELVA MARTINEZ

January 28, 2006

CHRIS

THANK YOU FOR TOUCHING MY DAUGHTER LORI,S LIFE WITH YOUR FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE .WE KNEW YOU FOR A LONG TIME AND WE HAVE ALOT OF MEMORIES TO HELP US EASE THE PAIN OF LOOSING YOU TOO SOON. YOU WERE LORI,S BEST FRIEND AND SHE MISSES YOU SO MUCH. YOU WERE LIKE A SON TO US.BUT YOU ARE IN HEAVEN NOW. SO SPREAD YOUR WINGS AND FLY. THANK YOU FOR LETTING US GET TO KNOW YOU CHRIS.

LOVE THE MARTINEZ FAMILY

christina fisher

January 27, 2006

Greg, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. This must be so devastating to you. You and your family are in both my prayers and in the prayers of your co-workers back at the office. I hope things can get better for you soon.

Felita Garcia

January 27, 2006

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. May god give you strength in this time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Erin Jimenez

January 27, 2006

I am so sorry for your loss. It's amazing to me that even in this tough time you have chosen to take this experience and use it to help others by becoming involved with the Jason Foundation. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

nicole placencia

January 27, 2006

Christopher,

I've known you since the day you were born. We were kids and now adults and I know you will be missed by many. They say everyone's life has it's story written from the day they are born, but it's not how long the book is it's the words that are written. You have written a beautiful story that so many have read and will always remember. love you always

Amanda Garriss

January 27, 2006

I only knew chris as a young child, but I will never forget the sparkle in his eyes. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sandi E

January 27, 2006

Colleen,

I care deeply for you as I have known you for such a long time. I want you to know that I am praying for Gods peace for you and your family.

heather

January 27, 2006

no parent should have to say goodbye to their children like this. my sincere condolences on your loss, god bless.

Loretta Collet

January 27, 2006

What a beautiful tribute to Christopher from his loving family! I'm so sorry for your loss. May you hold happy memories close to you heart.

Rosie M

January 27, 2006

First & foremost I'd like to give the Crow Family my most heartfelt condolences. I'd also like to applaud your strength in notifying the public that Christopher took his own life. Many people prefer to say that a death by suicide was caused by a brief illness. In going public with recognizing the fact that Christopher suffered from ADHD & depression, you've given others an opportunity to open the lines of communication with their children. I hope that in time you will find a way to come to terms with your loss, please know that Christopher's obituary may have helped to save many lives.

God Bless,

Rosie M

Teri

January 27, 2006

Your son's story parallels my son's, including ADD, video games, an older sister and two family pets. Because of your honesty in writing this obit, I will be paying especially closer attention to his life. Thank you.

Charles Yuncker

January 27, 2006

Chris did a good job in our internship program at Edison. I can still picture that great smile of his when I was making visits to the service center where he was working. His picture with his graduating internship group is still on display here in our Career Center. I will pray a Rosary for him. With Sympathy, Chuck Yuncker

Jeannie &Leo Wood

January 27, 2006

Sorry to hear of you loss of your loved one. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Betty Hutton

January 27, 2006

My heart aches for you and your loss. You are in my prayers.

Joanna

January 27, 2006

I do not know your family or your precious loved one who has passed on. Please do not feel that you did not regonize his demons. How thoughtful that in his most vulnerable moments he still thought to shield his loved ones from his pain. You as family and friends would have wanted to have a chance to help him. But think of all the loving moments you did share. He loved you so much that in his mind he probaly thought he this was doing the right thing. Again I do not know you but do feel your loss. I to lost a loved one about 2 months ago.Think not of what if, But of tomorrow.You can not change what has already happened.

With Sympathy

Shelly

January 27, 2006

It breaks my heart when a young one leaves us all too soon. Please accept my condolences. Your son is at peace away from his pain. May he rest in the arms of the lord forever. God Bless his family during this most difficult time. You are in my prayers.

Mary

January 27, 2006

The death of a young person is not easy, nor can say I understand. I only know that it would hurt to the full depth of my soul to lose a child. I hope you and your family find some peace in knowing that people are thinking of you and praying for you. My deepest sympathy to all who loved him.

Katy McConica

January 27, 2006

I met you a couple times. Dont know if you would remember me, but I met you with With Max and then Aaron. You seemed really cool. And I remember I thought you had a cool car too. And you had a loving girlfriend and friends that cared about you alot. I know Aaron and Danielle miss you greatly. And you will be missed by many.

-Katy

Patricia Hunt

January 27, 2006

I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Patty

Will Munoz

January 27, 2006

I only met you once ......but i know you were good friends with my best friend....you never knew it but i thought you were a cool guy....from what Aaron would tell me about you.....

-Will

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