GUARNIERI, PATRICIA LOUISE
Of Great Falls, VA on Friday, August 27, 2004. Beloved wife of Frank C. Guarnieri; devoted mother of Carlyn Guarnieri, Craig (Diane) Guarnieri, David (Liane) Guarnieri, Lisa (Doug Fernandez) Guarnieri and Kevin Guarnieri; sister of James (Sandy) Bufalini; grandmother of Michelle, Sophia and David. Friends my call at the MONEY AND KING FUNERAL HOME, 171 W. Maple Ave., Vienna, VA on Tuesday, August 31, 6 to 8:30 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, September 1, at 2 p.m. at St. Catherine of Siena Catholic Church, 1020 Springvale Rd., Great Falls, VA. Interment will follow at Arnon Cemetery. The family strongly request you consider organ donation. In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to the American Diabetes Association; or the Lifenet Memorial Donor Foundation at www.lifenet.org
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Linda Elliott
March 19, 2025
I sat next to Pat in Piemont Airlines training and we became instant friends and helped one another. We were both older with little computer experience, so that part was a challenge.
Pat was slways beautifully and professionally dressed. The customets loved her warmth and helpfulness. All of her coworkers adored her. She knew everyone!!!
Pat was so proud of her husband and how hard he worked. She talked about her children all the time. Her family was most important.  I still get together with my Piedmont sisters and we still remember her and smile. I lost touch with Pat after our office closed and was sad to learn she died and I missed her funeral. She popped into my head today and I googled her.  I know no one will see this, but I just wantrd to share I loved Pat and still miss her. I know she is doing her best to watch over her loved ones.
Cathy Molumby
September 24, 2006
I know that it has been a while since Pat's death but want you to know that I still think of her often and even start picking up the phone to give her a call. She was a wonderful person and I really miss her. God Bless you all.
Lisa
May 15, 2006
Happy Mother's Day Mommy Moo!
I'm a day late with this entry, but that doesn't mean I forgot.
We all miss you so much!
I love you.
Lisa
February 15, 2006
Happy Valentine's Day Mommy Moo!
You're the greatest Valentine I ever knew!
XXOO,
Love Lisa
Dave Guarnieri
January 13, 2006
Happy Birthday Mom!!  Another year goes by and we miss you more and more. We all love you and miss you. Sophia says she misses you “very much” 
Love you Nonnie-
Kevin Guarnieri
January 2, 2006
Happy New Year Mom.  Seems silly to say but (as usual) we missed you this Christmas.  I could sit and write for hours but instead I'll say a prayer for you.
Your legacy of wonderful Christmases past was continued again this year.  Christmas Eve was a family get together at Lisa's followed by Dinner at Chez Francois. Christmas Day wa brunch at Dad's and your house and dinner at Craig's in Round Hill.
You have your husband, wonderful daughters and oldest son to thank for the logistics.  I miss you more at the holidays and to be quite honest, our home is turning into a house. Thanks for making our past Christmases so special and teaching us it's about family, not gifts.  Sorry, Patrice we broke tradition and didnt save any wrapping paper.
I love you.  I miss you dearly and there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about you.  Please smile down on all of us and lend us a guiding hand when we need it.  
I leave for L.A. tomorrow and I still remember vividly you standing on the front porch waving goodbye with tears in your eyes.  I'm sure I'll have tears in mine.
Mom, I know you're in a better place but I sometimes breakdown thinking about the times we shared together. I'll do my best to follow in your footsteps.
Get up of the sofa, turn off the TV and get some much needed rest.  You'd be really proud of Lisa (I certainly am) she learned from the best on how to make Christmas more about family gatherings and memories and less about presents and for that, I thank you both.   
Dad's retiring soon and we all sincerely hope he enjoys the time and money he earned.  
I'm thinking about you Patty.  I always am.  With all the love in my heart,  Kevin (Momma's boy).
P.S. - Can you help the Redskins beat Tampa Bay Next week?  If you have some pull...we'd all appreciate it.
Lisa
December 28, 2005
Hi Mom,
It was wonderful spending time with you on Christmas Eve! Did you like the champagne?
I think of you every day!
I love you!
Love Lisa
Lisa
August 28, 2005
Mom,
Thanks for the rainbow!
I love you more!
Craig Guarnieri
August 27, 2005
Mom, I was out on the bike today and really didn't know where I was going to ride.  I left the house on Warwickshire and all roads led to your memorial site, so I did not resist. 
I miss you, I love you and I thank you every day for believing in me, when it seemed everybody else had given up.
You are the best and I am forever grateful to have you as a mother.
Love,
Craig
Carlyn Guarnieri
August 23, 2005
Mommy Moo... 
 
In some ways, I feel like it has been just a few weeks that you have been gone....I think to pick up the phone to tell you some funny story or about some fabulous Marshalls find...then I remember that you are not at the end of THAT phone line. Other times I remember how much you suffered and your humor and courage while you were "up against" your illness.....and think you fought for so long...too long...and did that for us. So we could say our goodbyes, and you could be sure we would hang together, and let you go. 
 
Then you finally had to leave..and did so quietly...which as I actually think now was not really characteristic of you...the considerate part yes...but the quiet part, um, well.... 
 
 
 
In writing this I am struck with the belief that your quiet goodbye was a sign that "Elvis has not left the building"! 
 
I still feel your presence daily, hear you talking in my ear, and see you in my dreams and meditations often. Usually giving me good advice...(the winning lotto numbers would be nice too, hint, hint) 
 
 
 
I miss your infectious smile, laughter, zaniness, and your constant wide armed welcome and total acceptance. 
 
I find myself taking life LESS seriously since you left...adopting Patty's attitude of "Tomorow is another day, and it will be better" so let's just go shopping and have some fun! 
 
 
 
What an amazing legacy, as a mother, and as a friend, you have left. We all miss you terribly and love you more than ever, as we come to understand how much you meant to us...and we are STlLL learning from you! I know you love that...I sure do...thanks! 
 
 
 
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
 
 
 
 
 
I love you Mommy Moo! 
 
 
 
Carlyn

One of my favorites.
Kevin Guarnieri
July 27, 2005
Weird... Eleven months goes by so fast. It seems like just yesterday I was standing at the head of the bed rubbing peppermint oil into your scalp. Some days are better than others Patrice. Today rather sucked. Today was one of those days where everything reminded me of you. I miss you Mom. I miss you so much lately that I'm often reduced to tears. Sorry Mom, the courage you displayed to us just a year ago is way beyond my comprehension. Not a day goes by where I don't think about how much I love you and miss you. Many days I can just sit and think back and smile about the way you touched my life. Last week I was asked to describe you to someone you had never met. I was at a loss for words so I just smiled...they got it. You started appearing in some of my dreams in the past few months, and I wake up either overjoyed or pretty saddened. I don't mind the sadness Patty. It reminds me I'm still here with a heart beating in my chest. You are beautiful Mom. if I never said it to you while you were here on earth then forgive me. I'd give it all to be able to hear your voice again. I hope you make another cameo in my dreams tonight. I'll trade a flood of tears for a small trickle of inaccessible memories anyday.
Much MUCH love.
Kev
Kevin Guarnieri
May 8, 2005
Happy Mother's Day Moo Mao, 
 
 
 
Another sunny day in L.A. must mean you're smiling down on me from above. I never was a big celebrator of Mother's Day, but there's no time like the present. We love you and miss you but slowly the sadness recedes and reveals fantastic memories that bring a smile to my face. So today is your day, but in all honesty...every day is yours my dear. 
 
 
 
Much love and many hugs. 
 
 
 
Your FAVORITE son. 
 
 
 
Kev
Dave
May 8, 2005
Mom, 
 
 
 
Just thinking about you on your day. Sophia made Liane a mother’s day card just like we use to make for you. You know the ones with all the stick figures, hearts and the words “Love” in big letters. I miss you and think about you all the time. Happy Mothers Day. 
 
 
 
Love ya mommy :)

The family (sans Francois) Christmas 2005.
Kevin Guarnieri
January 13, 2005
Happy Birthday Patrice!!
We all love you and missed your beautiful smile at Christmas. Not a day goes by that you're not in our thoughts and prayers. I imagine you're sitting on the back porch of Joy's house in Maine right now (having magically transformed the weather into a lovely, sunny 70 degree day) with a cup of decaf and a good book. Enjoy yourself Moo Mao...you deserve it.
Much love, many kisses.
Kevin
Dave
January 13, 2005
Happy Birthday Mom. We love you and miss you terribly.
Lisa
January 13, 2005
Happy Birthday Mom! 
 
I miss you! and I love you!
Johnny Powell
September 11, 2004
Dear Guarnieri Family, 
 
You are in my prayers. May God give you his gift of grace and accept Pat in His heavenly family. 
 
God Bless, 
 
Johnny
Jim Bufalini
September 6, 2004
Patty, 
 
It has taken me a few days to put this together. I am still in denial that this has even happened. 
 
 
 
You were blessed with the best qualities of Mom and Dad. Mom's gentleness and kindness and Dad's winning personality and confidence. 
 
 
 
You were a pillar of strength your entire life. Getting through the most difficult of times and circumstances. Tackling the toughest problems. 
 
 
 
I will always be sorry that I rarely accepted your invitations for holiday visits, but I am glad we became much closer over the last ten years. 
 
 
 
I will miss the weekly phone calls and your questions about a 1940's song, or what our dinner would be that evening or who attended the family reunion in Detroit. 
 
 
 
Oh, and one thing more. Keep looking over your shoulder up there. Our cat Cushie is there now and he still is carrying a two-ton grudge. 
 
 
 
Love forever, your brother
Sandy (San-da-la) Bufalini
September 5, 2004
Patty, 
 
I could not have asked for a finer sister-in-law. I will always be thinking of the special memories we shared. Pat, our loss here on earth is the Lord's gain in heaven. I am going to miss you very much. I love you.
Pacer, Nicpon Familes
September 5, 2004
Dear Frank and family, 
 
 
 
To let you know that you are being remembered and prayed for in your time of loss.
Cathy Molumby
September 4, 2004
Dear Guarnieri Family: 
 
 
 
I first met Pat when we started class at Piedmont in 1984 and remember her big smile and that twinkle in her eye. She was always such fun and made our trips to Atlantic City more memorable with her singing and dancing in the isles of the train. What a fun person. Her children and later her grandchildren were her life and she was always talking about what they were doing and had accomplished. She was such a proud mom and grandmother. Pat will be missed by everyone she met because she left such a happy impression on them. Love and Prayers to you all and God Bless
Andy Pfau
September 3, 2004
Dear Frank, Carlyn, Craig, Lis, Dave, and Kev, 
 
 
 
I am so sorry for your loss and you have my deepest sympathies, thoughts, and prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do...I will always be here for you. 
 
 
 
Dear Mrs G. 
 
 
 
You are the best. 
 
 
 
Thanks for being everybody's Mom. The Mom that everyone else admired, the Mom that everyone could talk to, the Mom that listened, the Mom that laughed, and the Mom that understood. 
 
 
 
Your sense of humor, compassion, and encouragement was so instrumental in the lives of so many people...you must have known. Everybody else did. 
 
 
 
You will be missed but never forgotten. Your children are fantastic examples of your wonderful, loving, and giving legacy. 
 
 
 
Again...thank you. 
 
 
 
Andy
Sees Pfau
September 3, 2004
Dear Mr. Guarnieri, Carlin, Craig, Dave, Lisa and Kev, 
 
 
 
First of all, my heart and thoughts are with all of you. 
 
 
 
Pat was one of a kind and people with her love for life, open heart and a smile for everyone are a rarity, and a gift to all who had the honor of meeting her. 
 
 
 
I was lucky enough to have the honor of not only meeting her but for a time, practically living with her (and Dave and Lisa and Kev….). I’m a better person for it. 
 
 
 
I knew Pat was special from the get go. When Dave and I became friends in 8th grade, I was invited to spend the night at his house. As soon as I walked in the door, Pat treated me like one of the family. So, after I walked in that door, I felt like one of the family. I have ever since. 
 
 
 
But to be honest, what really impressed me at the time was the fact that she, a *Mom* actually knew who Mick Jagger was. Upon this discovery, I was convinced that Dave and his siblings were the luckiest kids I knew! Nothing has changed that opinion to this day. 
 
 
 
Since that first visit, I began to spend more and more time over at the Guarnieri’s home and Pat became more and more my second Mom. She was always happy to see me. Always! It’s a nice feeling to know you’re always welcome in someone’s home. She always took time to ask how I was doing and had a genuine interest in what was going on in my life. She was always a source of encouragement. I have never heard Pat tell me or any of her kids that there’s something we couldn’t do. She encouraged all of us to pursue our interests, whatever they may be. No judging, just enthusiasm. 
 
 
 
Here’s the amazing thing: As I got older, Pat seemed to get younger. 
 
 
 
What I mean by that is – as I got older Pat treated me accordingly. So eventually, as I went through high school, college and after college she became more of a trusted peer than my friends Mom. Now that I think about it, I think she actually became more fun than her kids. (Sorry guys but you know it’s true!) Always upbeat, positive and full of energy! Her enthusiasm for life was contagious. 
 
 
 
However, from what I can tell her crowning achievement isn’t the way she treated me, but the finished product of her own kids. People like Carlin, Craig, Dave, Lisa and Kev don’t turn out to be decent, kind, fun, caring and intelligent people by accident. 
 
 
 
I was lucky enough to experience first hand how Pat created an environment of unconditional love in her home that instilled a love for life and the confidence to chase your dreams. 
 
 
 
I thank her for her love and I will always love her. 
 
 
 
Sees
Hal and Beth Guarnieri
September 3, 2004
Buffy, 
 
You were always so kind and thoughtful, I will remember you as Buffy though it may not be the best name.. to me it spoke volumes of a sweet and loving person. 
 
Hal and Beth
Patti Anne Guarnieri
September 2, 2004
Uncle Frank, Lisa, Carlyn, Craig, David and Kevin- 
 
 
 
I am so sorry for your loss. I have the privilege of sharing Aunt Pat's name, but I wish that I had the opportunity to share more time, laughs, and memories with her as well. When I moved down to DC almost four years ago, she was so quick to reach out to me and invite me over. I hope to get to know more about Aunt Pat through all of you. You were all so strong and graceful yesterday. I know she is proud. 
 
 
 
Aunt Pat, I love you very much and I will miss you. 
 
 
 
Love, 
 
Patti Anne
Paul Carr
September 2, 2004
Mrs. "G", 
 
 Where do I begin? You are like a second Mom to me.I will always remember your welcoming smile and kindness.The way you always made sure we had something to eat or if you could lend a hand to help in whatever we were doing.Your incredible hospitality which was matched by none. 
 
 From the days we spent at your house when we were kids,to the days we spent together at the beach, to that day we spent cleaning your basement,to the famous kareokee nights and gatherings,to the yard sales and flea markets,New Years Eve when we were "on fire", the list goes on and on.You always were looking after us.I will never forget you and cherish the memories forever.I miss you very much and know you are in heaven looking down and continuing to take care of us all.Thank you for everything and I am sure you are just the perfect angel in heaven as you were here. 
 
 Love Always,Paul
joann mcinnis
September 2, 2004
Dear Guarnieri Family, 
 
How very lucky you all were to be blessed with such a fabulous "spirit" in your lives. Once Pat discovered that we shared the same birthday - 1/13, she was always so kind to find the time to send me a card and best wishes. At the events yesterday I continued to think about how much she seemed to touch so many lives, and that more of us should use that selfless inspiration to guide our own actions each day. ...How much more pleasurable the world would be. I will think of her often - particularly each January 13th and smile.
Kath Lynch
September 2, 2004
Dear Mrs. Guarnieri, 
 
 
 
I drove past your old house on Beverly on Sunday. It was not the first time I have driven by over the last 25 years, but certainly the most memorable. It’s not grey any longer it is now yellow with a hunter green door and hunter green shutters. As I slowed down California Girls came on the radio – I must confess this hit me a little hard and I had to pull over for fear of crashing into a mailbox. 
 
 
 
There was a mom tending the flowers in the front. I was flooded with memories. 
 
Memories of: You carrying a huge bowl of popcorn around when popcorn was the new diet fad, long before Atkins. Your family’s first Honda and waving at other Honda drivers not because you knew them but because they were driving the unheard of Honda! The MANY shopping outings to Woodfield and the new designer outlet store Marshall’s. You combing over Barrington’s yearbooks for endless boyfriend suggestions; Carlyn and I using endless acronyms so you WOULDN’T know what boys we liked.  Kevin sliding down Deadman’s hill and breaking both of his wrists. Lisa biting her fingers and saying Carlyn had slammed them in the door. Callie. Harlequin romance novels.  Craig constantly on the go. David’s cute smile. Mr. Guarnieri’s 25th anniversary Corvette. The Beach Boys and the Bee Gees.  But mostly of your genuine smile and hugs. 
 
 
 
I eventually got my self together and continued down Beverly, it still loops around so when you come back around you see the back and side of your old house and there in the driveway were a bunch of kiddies with their dad piling into a Honda. 
 
 
 
S.W.A.K. 
 
 
 
Kath (Horslev) Lynch
evie powers
September 2, 2004
My dear neices and nephews, 
 
 
 
You have shown a strength and fiber that can only be a testament to your parents. More importantly though, you took the lesson and made it your own. You were a font of hope for your Mom and spurred her on. I have no doubt. It allowed all of you to say good-bye each in your own unique way. It also allowed your Mom to see that you were all going to be ok. I am only an aunt but I can't express how very proud I am of all of you. You have bonded together, and are always there for each other. That demonstration of love is something every Mother wants for her kids and you reassured her of that reality throughout these many months. 
 
Your Mom was my confirmation sponsor and I took her middle name as my confirmation name. She bought me a beautiful cultured pearl on a delicate chain. I was so proud of that necklace that one of the worse school pictures I have is one of me sticking out my scrawny neck to make sure that the necklace was captured!She wrapped it with great attention to detail and painstakenly attached seed pearls in the form of a cross on the front of the package. Perfectly symmetrical and very artistic! 
 
Please keep in touch and I will try to do the same. We have a lot to learn from each other. I love you all! 
 
Evie
Pierre Welch
September 2, 2004
Dear Mrs. G. 
 
 
 
The service and the reception yesterday were incredible, an appropriate tribute for an incredible human being. 
 
 
 
I have nothing but fond memories of you. Craig really hit the nail on the head when he said you were very cool. I couldn’t agree any more. There were no other moms out there that my friends and I truly enjoyed hanging out with. You were really “part of the club.” The incredible part is that this held true even during our vulnerable high school years! That says quite a bit about you. You were fun, pleasant, and always the optimist. The same character traits held true to the bitter end. 
 
 
 
I will miss you, but I have learned from you. 
 
 
 
Much love, 
 
 
 
Pierre Welch
Joy Runyon
September 2, 2004
Dear Pat, 
 
You will be missed, but I only have to spend a moment with the family you have left, to feel your spirit, to hear you voice 
 
and to know the party will go on. If you want to give them a hug I am here to carry out 
 
your wishes. I feel truely blessed to feel a part of your family. I love them too.
Hazel and Ron Canevari
September 1, 2004
Dear Frank, Carlyn, Lisa, David, Craig, Kevin and Families: 
 
 
 
First let us thank you for being such a wonderful family. We were in awe at how much support you were to your mother. How you kept her spirits up and were always by her side. Surely, you were a great help to her and she was very proud of all of you. 
 
 
 
When I last spoke to her she sounded content. She was strong in her belief in God and was at peace in following whatever He had in mind for her. I thought how very wonderful that was. Yes, I do believe she is at peace and waiting for us. 
 
 
 
Memories --- Yes, though the distance kept us physically apart, we have many wonderful and precious memories and even though our years together in California were way too few, a phone call and it was as if we lived next door. I was not the writer but Pat always kept me aprised at Christmas time and this last year when I did not hear from her I knew something was up. Ron had kept in touch through e-mail so she knew what I had gone through whereas I did not know what she was going through. When I called the first thing from her was "How are YOU!!! I feel so bad for YOU!!" After hearing about all that she was going through I wondered how what I had gone through could have such importance. Well, Pat, we will always remember you as the angel your children remember you as. Your laughter was infectious. Your eyes lit up as much as your gorgeous smile. We have great memories here in California. Going out on the town with Frank. Our forever dieting. (You did well, I didn't.) We had a few crazy diet doctors, but we had fun! I still fix some of your recepies. 
 
 
 
We had a special visit to your home in Chicago. The kids grew and some got married. You and I spent an evening in Los Angeles when you were working for the Airlines. Somehow we did not communicate very often but when we did it was special! 
 
 
 
We have a daughter-in-law who reminds us so much of you. I have often told her she reminds me of my friend back East. Her eyes light up when she smiles just like yours. She will continue to bring your laughter and smile to my mind. --- Her name is Angel! We love you Pat! 
 
 
 
Dear Special Family, you are in our prayers that these memories and all you have gathered on your own will help through this most difficult time. Pat is at peace. We wish you God's peace. 
 
 
 
Love, 
 
Hazel and Ron
Bob Abruzzi
September 1, 2004
Dear Patty, 
 
Sorry couldn't make it Virginia to say goodbye. So much going on at the restaurant with our 65th anniversary. Patty, you were one great baby-sitter for Dick and me. We would sit calmly watching TV and all of a sudden you "would see" someone or some think peeking through the window. Many a sweater I wore was stretched by you as you gripped in fear of these "monsters". You did the same thing when we all went to movies together. There are so many other things I could relate but too numerous for now. Your enthusiasm about anything and everything will remain a vivid memory. I certainly must thank you for your tremendous help to your Aunt Olga when she had to take care of Uncle Ray for a week after Aunt Virge died. We know you are in a better place and please pray for us.
Marna Zanoff
September 1, 2004
One only has to look at the incredible love and support shared by the entire Guarnieri family to understand Pat's gift to life. How lucky were all that knew her.
Sheila Holland-Malone
September 1, 2004
As an old friend of the family, I have known Mrs. Guarnieri for almost 25 years, and will miss her terribly. I'll miss her warm, animated stories, her characteristic laugh and her open, hospitable arms whenever I came back to the U.S. to visit. I extend my deepest, heart-felt sympathy to Lisa and family, and am thinking of you all. 
 
Love, 
 
Sheila
Jon D'Andrea
September 1, 2004
Dear Guarnieri Family, 
 
 
 
I had the pleasure of talking with Pat for just a few short hours at her grandson's birthday party some time ago. It was as if we had known each other for years, talking about the old days, holiday meals and her loving family. 
 
 
 
I walked away from our talk wishing I was part of her family. 
 
 
 
I wish her family the best during this sorrowful time. 
 
 
 
A friend of the family, 
 
Jon
Sheila Duffy
September 1, 2004
Dear Pat, 
 
 
 
Thank you for the memories, unconditional kindness, never ending optimism and true warmth. Your children were your life’s mission, and I feel fortunate to know them. I see a part of you in each and every one of them. 
 
It was hard to see you suffer, so I’m glad you’re finally at peace. I know you’re still with us in spirit, laughing, chatting and kicking up your heels. 
 
 
 
Love, 
 
She-ra
Alida Roberts
September 1, 2004
Pat, 
 
I want to thank you for your wonderful children, they are an extension of you and they have made my life more full as you have. When I first met you I was greeted with the priceless Family Vase that fell to the floor along with my heart. From that moment on your love and laughter was always with me. I will take that with me as I move on through life and will think of you often and smile as I remember your sweet and funny ways. 
 
God bless you and one day we will meet again in Heaven. 
 
We will all miss you till then.
Mario Facella
September 1, 2004
Mrs. G always made me feel so comfortable at her home. She was so kind and always welcomed me with open arms and a smile. She had such a great sense of humor with her kids always joking around and playing those famous Guarnieri pranks around the house. I will remember the holidays most of all, as she helped to make them so special for all her family and friends. Thanks for everything Mrs. G. You will always be in my heart and memories.
James Cleveland, MD
September 1, 2004
Dear Pat: 
 
We were in the middle of our usual hectic Tuesday afternoon, you remember, the "he's two hours behind," kind of Tuesday afternoon when we received word that our Pat, the brave one, the one with the never ending smile, the laugh that made us all have a better day, no, a better week, was gone. 
 
 
 
Now peace has come to you, a peace that takes away all of your suffering and rewards you with all the love and grace that you deserve. 
 
 
 
We all stopped and took a moment to reflect on you, Pat, on all of your charm, the greatness of your family legacy, and your good life. 
 
 
 
All our love to your family, we will miss you, 
 
 
 
Dr. James Cleveland, Suzanne, Jocelyn, George, Stuart and all the Staff at IMG of NVA.
Holly Polgreen
August 31, 2004
Dear Guarnieri Family, 
 
 
 
As I was thinking about all the wonderful things that I could say about Pat, what struck me as her most generous quality was her ability to make people feel good about themselves. She quietly but always deliberately made sure to tell me that she loved me and that she was proud of me. 
 
Why this always meant so much to me was that I lost my very special mother ten years ago. Patty instinctively knew that I missed hearing my mothers cheerleading and never missed a chance to let me know that she cared. Her simple gesture and kind words will stay with me always. 
 
 
 
I know that Pat and my mother are somewhere together laughing, singing , and yes dancing on the coffee table. 
 
 
 
Thanks to my dear friend Carlyn and all Pat's fabulous children for letting me be a part of this extraordinary extended family. 
 
 
 
It has meant so much to me. 
 
 
 
 
 
Love, 
 
 
 
Holly
Steve Sidwell
August 31, 2004
Frank & family: 
 
 
 
So sorry to hear of your loss, our prayers will be with you. 
 
 
 
Steve
Debra Betters
August 31, 2004
Dear Patty, We just want to say how very much you will be missed by all of us. You were always so energetic and full of life. Your spirit will never leave us. Your zest for life is eternal. We are at peace knowing that you are with Aunt Vi & Uncle Buff & God in Heaven. Love Cousins Debbie & Ron, Aunt Jean & Aunt Mamie
Michele White
August 31, 2004
While my meetings with Pat were brief, it is through her children that I knew her best. Her daughters were full of life and compassion for others, her sons polite, gentlemanly and kind. I know her children loved her dearly through their passion for their relationship with her, their commitment to regaining her health and their unwavering loyalty to family. She will be missed but her life continues through her children and grandchildren.
Kim Nuss
August 31, 2004
Dear APat, 
 
There are no words to express how much I will miss your warm smile and cheerful voice. I'm greatful for all the fun times we shared and for the wonderful memories we made over the years on my many visits to Virginia from getting up at the crack of dawn to run off to a garage sale or TJ Maxx(this after Lisa kept me up until 3am at the bars!) to helping us get ready for Dave's famous halloween parties (thanks to your granny bag, long white gloves and bright red lipstick Carlyn was the most beautiful Queen Elizabeth ever! And who could forget the costume you and Lisa made me wear one year...the famous nun in a compromising situation or the funky accessories you gave to Craig to complete his Greg Brady look), to the countless hours we spent trying to guess the artists to the songs Kevin played for us on the stereo, to the times we spent at the club having dinner with everyone laughing and joking around to the special time you, Warren and I shared at our wedding. I will cherish these memories forever and will always keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Much love, Kim
Martha Hasenfratz
August 31, 2004
Dear Patricia, Although I have never met you or talked to you, I feel that I do know you through your son Kevin & my daughter Angie. They introduced you to me with such love & respect, that I knew I wanted to meet you one day. Alas, it was not to be, but know, because of the legacy of love & care you left behind, that you will never be very far from your loving son Kevin, who worshiped & loved you so very, very much....... 
 
 
 
When your hearts are heavy, 
 
And you feel that you are all alone, 
 
Just reach down deep inside of you, 
 
For your heart is now my home. 
 
 
 
 
 
I will always be with you, 
 
I will never go away, 
 
For I will live on in your hearts, 
 
Forever and a day 
 
 
 
MAY PEACE BE WITH YOU TODAY & ALWAYS, LOVE & HUGS, THE VIRAG FAMILY (MAMA 'V')
Brandon Coleman
August 31, 2004
Mama Guarnieri, 
 
 
 
You will be missed dearly, but you should rest easy knowing that you have touched many people, and that the warmth and kindness that you showed so many will live on through your loving family.
Sherin Baday
August 31, 2004
It has been my honor to know and love such a special person. You welcomed me into your family with open arms and for that I couldn't be more blessed. How we laughed and sang and danced until dawn. You've created a legacy that will carry on your laughter, your voice and your spirit through your children, your grandchildren and many generations to follow. Thank you for your love and constant well wishes. They always meant the world to me. You will be missed dearly and daily, but remembered with a sparkling smile. All my love to you, forever.
David Guarnieri
August 31, 2004
Nonnie- 
 
 
 
I miss you so much. I want you to feel better in heaven. I love you Nonnie. 
 
 
 
Love, 
 
Dootsie
Sophia Guarnieri
August 31, 2004
Nonnie- 
 
 
 
I miss you a lot. I know you're in heaven. I love you really much. I hope you feel better. 
 
 
 
Love, 
 
Sophia
Charity Lomax
August 31, 2004
Mrs. Guarnieri, although I never had the opportunity to meet you face to face; I did enjoy our Days of Our Lives talks....you were the one to told me who the Salem Stalker was! You will be missed but, you will always be with us in our memories and when we look at your children and grandchildren. 
 
 
 
All my love, 
 
Charity
Liane Guarnieri
August 31, 2004
Dave, Lisa, Craig, Carlyn, Kevin & Frank- 
 
 
 
I can't begin to express how sorry I am for your loss. I can't even imagine what you are going through. I want you to know that I am here for you. Pat was a wonderful person who had a great way of making people feel special. I would always talk to her and she would always say how Dave was her special guy. I know she said and felt this way about anyone she spoke of. Everybody was special to her and it did not matter what they were doing, Pat was very proud. I know she is proud of all of you. 
 
 
 
Pat- 
 
 
 
I am going to miss you terribly. You were a great friend and a wonderful mother-in-law. I could not have asked for a better one. You were always so kind and understanding. I thank you for all the support you have given me and all of the advice. You always made me feel that I was doing a good job at being a wife and mother, even when I didn't. Thank you. 
 
 
 
I will always remember the first time I met you at Lisa's house on the Pike. Everyone was on the deck getting ready for dinner and you looked wonderful. Your smile was so warm and inviting. I loved talking to you that night and all the days after. I will miss talking to you about everything and nothing at all. God definitely gave us the gift of gab. 
 
 
 
I am sorry that you can't be here to watch Sophia and David grow but I know you will be watching over them. They loved you and they will miss you. I am happy to know they were able to speak to you in the end. 
 
 
 
I love you Pat. 
 
Liane
Craig Guarnieri
August 31, 2004
Thank you mom for your constant support and unconditional love. 
 
You never lost faith in me if I took the wrong path and you always knew I would find my way home. 
 
I now know how strong you really are and will miss you dearly, but am comforted knowing that you will be with me always, walking alongside, ready, with a supportive hand, if I reach out. 
 
 
 
You are the best mother I could have ever imagined, a true angel. 
 
 
 
Love forever, 
 
Craig
Kyle Remissong
August 31, 2004
Please accept my most sincere and heartfelt condolences. I know there is nothing to be said at a time like this to really give comfort, but know that if it were to exist it would be included herein. 
 
 
 
Love, 
 
Kyle
Angie Virag
August 31, 2004
Although our meeting was brief, I was overwhelmed instantly by your love and smile. Your legacy will live on with the 5 incredible children that you raised. You were an angel on earth and an angel forever in all the lives that you touched. Angie
Mary Richards
August 31, 2004
Pat - you were a true angel. You will be missed by family & friends and I will miss our many phone conversations where we always enjoyed discussing our children together. Thanks for all the prayers you bestowed upon me during my times of sorrow. You will be greatly missed.
Kevin Guarnieri
August 31, 2004
Mom, 
 
 
 
What can I possibly say that won't be echoed for many years to come? You left a legacy of grace, style and eternal hope. I miss you more than I can possibly convey but I am comforted knowing that you don't have to struggle anymore. Nothing will ever be the same and I wish I could see your beautiful smile and sparkling eyes again. 
 
 
 
Thank you for your boundless faith in me and the unconditional love you constantly gave. You were by far the most selfless, generous person I have ever known and it is an honor to be your son. 
 
 
 
I love you so very much and am so proud of your courage and spirit. I will always think about you and one day I will kiss you and hug you again. Goodnight, Patrice. 
 
 
 
Kev
Dave Guarnieri
August 30, 2004
Mom- I love you. You are the best and I can’t thank you enough for everything you have done for me. There won’t be a day that goes by that I won’t think of you and know you are still helping me though life watching and protecting me. I know there will come a day when I will see you again and I can’t wait until that day. I will greet you with a huge hug and kiss. Your sprit continues to grow in everyone’s heart that you met so I know I will see you everyday since everybody loved you. Mom, I miss you terribly and love you more than anyone could ever imagine. Dave
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