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Marisa Valdez-Mejia
June 22, 2008
Lydia: There is not one day that I'm not reminded of the wonderful small memories  I shared growing up around the twins and my  cousin's, Chris, JD,  Anthony and Leslie. I remember the first time I met Jay, Jason and Stephanie, it was when we would visit my aunt Sylvia.  We would all get together and play in the yard.  I couldn't get this amazing thought out of my head, "How could two boys look alike?"  I was only four years old at the time.  I grew up thinking they were my cousin's too.  
As we moved further away from the family, the boy's website was the only way I could keep up with their joyous life. I had the opportunity to praise the twins for their great talent and they're accomplishments. 
I can also remember Melissa's beautiful smile and her cheerful spirit. A few years ago I  met her at your house.  She also shared with me the dream she had to become a Nurse;I believe it was when she had just begun her studies. Though her life was short, she fulfilled her dream. 
They will  all be missed but I will continue to keep them in my heart.  I'm also praying that through the beautiful memories each one left behind, it will give you and the family strength to carry on. God Bless You and the family, take care of yourself.  Love
Michelle, Tim, Brendon and Brittany O'Shields
June 13, 2008
Even though we've lost touch in the last 5 years, I've always felt a special bond between our families when you babysat my daughter Brittany. So sorry to hear about your tragic lost. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You have such a loving and supportive family to help you through this. God Bless.
Wilma Noriega
June 11, 2008
Tito, Lydia and Families:
Sincere condolences.  May God grant you strength to endure and peace in your hearts.  You are in my prayers.
Manuel & Mona Gonzales
June 8, 2008
Our prayers go out to you and your familia.
Nancy Hansen
June 5, 2008
To the Hernandez family and friends,
We were so shocked and saddened to hear about Jason and Jay. As two of their former teachers, we remember them as being very kind and well-liked. You are in our thoughts.
Wendy Hall and Nancy Hansen of Pomeroy Elementary
Enrique & Helen Guerrero
June 3, 2008
Tito & Lydia, we are very sorry for your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Deborah Dease
June 2, 2008
Bill
I am so sorry to learn of your loss.  You and your family are in my prayers.  God Bless you all.
Sean, Susie, Sarah and Spencer Kelley
June 2, 2008
Lydia and Tito,
I just heard today of your terrible loss.  Please know that all of you are in our prayers and can count on us for anything you need.
Grew up in C-TOWN
June 2, 2008
"PALS"
Jim, Martha Noriega
June 1, 2008
Our deepest condolences to Bill, Yolanda and the Hernandez family. May GOD bless your family during and after these difficult times.
David & Ana Martinez
May 30, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Connie and Angel Romero (DES/Former OSI)
May 30, 2008
Bill and Yolanda,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.  May your memories bring you comfort.
Mavis -Guerrero Family
May 30, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May 30, 2008
I want to express my condolences to your family. Just know that your boys are still together and now watching over your family. You have not 1 but 2 angels to protect you. God bless.
Beatriz "Bati" Sanchez-Searcy
May 30, 2008
Bill, Lydia & entire family
I just heard of the loss of your 2 son's & your niece Melissa. I have no words..I am at a loss for nothing I say will ease your pain. May GOD BLESS YOU all. All 3 will forever live in your hearts.
Ashley Bernal
May 30, 2008
Bill & Yolanda,
 
My deepest feelings and sympathy's are with you, and have been since the night your son's went with god. I have been thinking of you and your family, and cannot get your two sons out of my head. I have experienced the same tragedy that your family is feeling and going through with my own, and experienced it again that very night with your sons on my way to Rocky Pointe.It will get easier. Just look to god to relieve this pain from your hearts.  I am praying for all of you, and deeply send my condollences for your loss's.If you have any questions or need anything please feel free to contact me via email.
Melissa Forti
May 30, 2008
I worked with Jay & Jason. I just wanted to tell you all what an honor it has been to know your sons. I think if we measure life in the amount of friend's made, or the heart's touched... your son's are priceless. I want to assure you that they will remain in my fond memories as long as I live.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family and loved one's.
 Sincerely,
 Melissa Forti
Linda Blessing
May 30, 2008
Dear Bill and family:
I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your twin boys.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  May you find peace.
Michael Kunzelmann
May 30, 2008
I wish to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. As a parent, I can imagine no greater pain. May God bless you with fond memories and the strength to get through this most difficult time.
Dennis Doherty
May 30, 2008
Bill and Family,
There really are no words to help you bear the sorrow you feel. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Take comfort from the family and friends that surround you.
Keep close your precious memories of Jason and Jay.
With deepest sympathy,
Vangie Chavez (Contreras)
May 30, 2008
My son James went to school with Jay and Jason from Pomeroy through Dobson High School. James would mention the "twins" every once in awhile and although I didn't personally know them, I knew of them because of the stories my son would tell me..When James told me about the tragedy I felt a numbness come over me because the greatest fear a parent has is that their children are not always safe. I know the pain to loose a child and I understand the heart break you are all enduring today. May God Bless You and reach out and touch and embrace your hearts bringing you peace.
Mimi Bandin-Ibarra(Henry & Armida's daughter)
May 30, 2008
Bill and Family. Our deepest sympathy for the lost of your precious sons. Our prayers are with you at this time and hope that the love and memories of them will help you in this time of great sorrow. From all the Bandin family in Guadalupe.
Shari Pozniak
May 30, 2008
Stephanie and family,
I am so sorry for your loss.  My heart goes out to you and your family.  May you find the comfort and support from your loved ones during this time of need.
A Friend from DES
May 30, 2008
Dear Bill and Yolanda:My prayers are with you and your family during this time. Have faith in our Lord God and he will help you through this time. Your sons will always look down and shine upon you. Treasure the memories of their life and hold them in your heart. My deepest condolences to you both.
Anita Sandoval
May 30, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of suffering and sorrow.
Tom Colombo
May 29, 2008
Bill,
I am sorry to hear of your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Toni and Richard Diaz
May 29, 2008
Lydia, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of great loss.
Henie Backhouse
May 29, 2008
Dear Bill and Family,
I am terribly sorry to hear about your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Danielle Ruiz
May 29, 2008
my prayers go out to friends and family of Jay and Jason Hernandez.
Rachel Valdez
May 29, 2008
Billy & Lydia:
I am so sorry for your loss. I have no words that could even compare with the pain you are enduring in this present moment. The healing process will be through your own special ways and we know that takes it's own timing.  There is nothing more devastating than the loss of your children. Nothing in life prepares you for the death of a loved one, not alone having left too early. The unanticipated early deaths cut through what we have assumed is a natural order of things only shaking the foundation of our own life. All we  believe comes into question, and we feel helpless, angry, and sad; almost as if we had no reason to go on.  We find ourselves into a period of sudden confusion, and numbness. It steals from your plans, with your dreams just being shattered. The loss of our children attack our understanding of life's rhythm and purpose, leaving us wondering. 
Yes, Gods calling came early for Jay, Jason, and Melissa, but I know that GOD WAS THERE TO EMBRACE THEM. All those that have gone before us were also there to help guide them. You have to trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean on him, he will guide your path and give you strength. Ask the Lord to help you accept those things that we can't change.  I know it won't be easy because I know what it was to lose my sister.  I took one day at a time and that's all you can do. UN DIA LA VES.
IT IS SO TRUE, THEY HAVE BECOME YOUR ANGELS NOW . They only left for a short time, they left before you to get that special place ready for when it's your call. The boys will be there to embrace you too.
MY PRAYERS WILL CONTINUE TO BE WITH YOU AND THE FAMILY. I send my Love.
Zipporah Buitimea
May 29, 2008
Bill & Family
I was sadden to hear of the loss of your sons.  May god be with you to comfort you and your family in this very difficult time.  My prayers and thoughts will be with you and your family.  God Bless you
Steve and Irma Hernandez
May 29, 2008
Bill, 
We were saddened to hear of your loss.  May you find Peace one day again.  We will pray for all your families. Our heartfelt sympathy goes
out to you and yours, during these trying times
nancy escobar
May 29, 2008
To the parents of Jayson and Jay.  I am trully sorry for your loss of your wonderful sons. I myself had the pleasure of working with Jason, and trully miss him calling me  to deal with some work problem. He will trully be missed.
Nancy Escobar
Kevin Biesty
May 29, 2008
Bill,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of sorrow.
Manuel & Mona Gonzales
May 29, 2008
May God Bless you and your family. We will keep you in our prayers. Let God help you all get through these rought times. Your children are in heaven and are the newest Angels watching over the entire Hernandez family. God Bless all of you.
Veronica Valenzuela
May 29, 2008
May god be with you always.
May 29, 2008
Familias Hernandez y Gallaro:
Con el pésame más profundo y las beniciones de Dios por la perdida de sus queridos hijos.  
Cuando se nos va un ser querido nos sentimos tan solos…pero el espiritu de esos seres queridos sigen vivos en nuestros recuerdos y nuestros corazónes.
Ustedes estan en nuestros pensamientos y en nuestras oraciónes.
Qué Dios los bendiga,
Dina y Lalo Jaramillo
Ruben V. Hernandez Family
May 29, 2008
We are extremely saddened by your precious loss and will pray all of you. Our entire family offers our sincerest condolences.
Rudy Navarro
May 29, 2008
Bill and family at times like this there are no words to bring you comfort, but assured that at this very moment our Lord is with you and your family.  Not only has he received your two boys with open arms, He as well has embraced your family during this time of such indescribable pain.  When times get real heavy Psalm 23 will bring some kind of comfort.
Rudy Navarro
David S Hernandez
May 29, 2008
Primo Bill my condolences to you and your family
Otilia Gutierrez
May 29, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family and friends of Jason and Jay.
                           With Deep Sympathy Otilia Gutierrez And Family
R MARQUEZ MILLER
May 29, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family, friends and all those affected by the tragic loss of Jason and Jay Hernandez.
ROB AND NADINE MONTOYA
May 29, 2008
WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS! WE JUST CAN'T BELEIVE THIS HAS HAPPENED. OUR PRAYERS GO OUT TO ALL THE FAMILY. TAKE CONFORT IN KNOWING THAT JAY, JASON AND MELISSA ARE SAFE AND THEIR SPIRIT WILL BE WITH YOU ALWAYS. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND HELP YOU THROUGH THIS TIME.
Annie Martin
May 29, 2008
Dear Billy and Family,
We were so sad to hear about your boys.  You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.  God bless you all.
Your Ninos Manuel and Annie Martin
Lindsey Shirley
May 29, 2008
Lydia, Tito & Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your sons and your niece Melissa. May you find comfort knowing they are with God watching over you as guardian angels. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
FTMD Tribal Court
May 29, 2008
Bill, we are truly sorry for your loss. Our prays and thoughts are with you and your family in this time of sorrow and grief.
Gina and Paul avila
May 29, 2008
Tito and Lydia me and my family are truely sorry for your loss and we want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Charlene Jackson
May 29, 2008
Bill,  Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.  We will keep you and your family in our prayers.  
Charlene Jackson & family
Rozelda Valdez
May 29, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Brenda Flores
May 29, 2008
Billy, Lydia and Family
I'm so sorry for your lost. I know it really hurts, I lost a loved one very recently and I still feel the pain. I know for a fact, there are two Angels in Heaven waiting with open arms.  I truly miss those two Heavenly Angels, myself. God Bless you and your Family.  Your Blessed Parents will love & care for your Loving Boys.
Ken R
May 29, 2008
When I first heard the news, I was in shock. I couldn’t believe this happened. Jay and Jason were two very special people. They have touched a lot of people’s lives and their memory will live on always and they will be missed. I am truly sorry for the pain your family must be going through and send out my deepest condolences.
Armando, Leticia, & girls Ortega
May 29, 2008
Lydia and Uncle Tito, we are deeply saddened by your losses of the twins. We are sorry we could not be there in person to offer our sincere condolences. The two of you along with your families are very special to us and we love and will continue to pray that god carries you through this difficult time. God bless all of you! Mando, Letty, Abriana, and Marina Ortega
Shannon Scally
May 29, 2008
Jason...my love....I will never know what words to say to express how much I love you, and how much you will be missed. I was asked how to describe our relationship, and all I could say was that you were my soul mate. Although we strayed at times, we always ended up together in the end. Your smile, your charisma, and the way that you unconditionally loved me will be cherished forever. And my Jay, you were like my second little brother. We fought like it was our only purpose in eachother's lives, and then we loved the next day. Whenever I was in need you were there, and whenever you needed I had open arms. I have never met someone I wanted to hit and hug all in the same moment. 
Lydia and Billy, the relationship that we now have will never be lost, you have truly made me feel as though I am a part of your family; and we will make it through this together.
Eddie Vallin
May 28, 2008
my deepest sympothy to entire family the loss of 3 angels Jason Jay and Melissa they will be missed but never forgoten may god bless you 
       
         Eddie Vallin and Family
Maria "Malena" Hernandez
May 28, 2008
Billy, I was saddened to hear the news on the loss of your two sons. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. God bless.
Michelle Alexander
May 28, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this time of need.
Robin and Steve Simmons
May 28, 2008
Steve and I  will always remember Jay and Jason they were two very special young men. Always willing to help, always fun loving. We would have loved to share more than a few parties and/ days at work with these two. Jay and Jason will be missed. 
A poem for the family of these wonderful young men, from someone who has also lost a loved one recently and lost close friends in the past. May you find comfort in these words and find that although you feel alone in your grief you have those of us that are here for you.  
*** Remember that your loss is shared by many friends who care and that you're in our
thoughts and hearts and in our every prayer May you find the courage to face tomorrow
in the love that surrounds you today. At this time of sorrow may these truths sustain you.
It will be the little things that you will remember the quiet moments, the smiles, their laughter. Although it may seem hard right now, it will be the memory of these little things that help to push away the pain and bring the smiles back again. 
God Bless. 
Simmons Family
Wassaja Memorial Health Center Staff
May 28, 2008
Our deepest sympathy for your tremendous loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Demetra Barr
May 28, 2008
My condolesences to Bill, Yolanda and the rest of the Hernandez family during this difficult time. You are in my prayers.
Felicia Geisler
May 28, 2008
You two will truly be missed. You will be here everyday in our hearts until we hug again. May you guys rest in a better place.
May 28, 2008
Words are very hard to express at times like these, but be sure our thoughts and prayers are with you .May God comfort you. Our deepest condolances.
Tony Patruno and family
Balderaz Family
May 28, 2008
Dear Bill and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We are sorry for your loss. 
Love, Alicia and family
Pat Kalicki
May 28, 2008
Bill, my deep and sincere condolences go out to you and your family during this traumatic time.
Desiree Baltierrez
May 28, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. You are Beautiful Angels watching us from above. Creep Tip, one of my favorite songs, and through your music you will live on.
Castaneda-Del Rio Family
May 28, 2008
Our condolences and our prayers go out to you and your family. May god confort you and your family.
Alla Stratton
May 28, 2008
I am very sorry to hear of your great loss, there are no words to ease your pain but my prayers are with you Bill and your whole family.
Christine & Seneca Peters
May 28, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Fort McDowell Prosecutor Employees FMYN
May 28, 2008
We are deeply sorry for your loss and your family is in our prayers.
Gwen & Tony Bahe
May 28, 2008
Bill & Yolanda, here is a special prayer for you:
Bless those who mourn, eternal God, with the comfort of your love
that they may face each new day with hope
and the certainty that nothing can destroy the good that has been given.  
May their memories become joyful, and their lives encircled by your love.
Amen.
Heartbroken and Lonely In
May 28, 2008
Hand in Hand they entered this world together and hand in hand they departed together. What a beautiful way too come and go! Know that they are with each other and not feeling the emptiness of not having the other. You will be blessed having 2 angels guiding you and protecting you. The loss and pain you have endured is none other than indescribable, but you will find comfort in God, trust in him and have faith..No one is granted eternity here, we are all here on borrowed time..just know that their tasks were complete and god called his angels home...Take comfort in these words "Only in death do we part for in mine we shall be together again"....
MaryHelen Abril
May 28, 2008
May the love you all shared and the memories made bring you comfort. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sandra Bufford
May 28, 2008
Bill,
My sincere condolences to you and your family. Bless you all during this sensitive time in your lives. May your transition to a new season be guided by Angels to ease your sorrow.
angelina biondi
May 28, 2008
jay n jason words can not express how deeply you will be missed. its so hard to believe your gone. i think back to jr high when jason u and i dated and grew distant and odd as it was later dated again broke each others hearts and u even broke ur hand...though through it all we still loved and were there for one another. jay i loved u too we never really saw eye to eye but friends we were always remained. we never got a chance to say goodbye ever though through the grace of god we reunited time and time again. well when i come home we will once again be together. loving you now missing you always. angelina biondi
L Estrada
May 28, 2008
Jay and Jason your smiling face(s) will be missed, you will always be in our thoughts. We will continue to pray for loved ones who are filled with emptiness and sadness. May your memories forever live on, in our hearts and in our minds. May God bless your family and friends through this difficult time. Good-bye our friends.
Leon Brown
May 28, 2008
My life has been enriched as a result of experiencing the Hernandez brothers. May many more be touched even in your absence. Truly your lives were not in vain. Long live Jay and Jason in the hearts of all who knew you!
marcianna daley & all the crew at gila river casino
May 28, 2008
jason and jay will be missed very very much by all of us here at wild horse casino. they were always so pleasent and kind it was a shock to us all. we want to express our deepest sympathy to your family and may god comfort you in this time of great loss.
Greg Wetz
May 28, 2008
Bill, am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts. Wishing comfort for you in this most difficult time.
Angie Cates
May 28, 2008
You will be missed. God Bless
Natasha Stocks
May 28, 2008
You will both be missed so much. I'm so glad I had the opportunity to get to know you both.
MIKE (AKA MIKEY) WILLIAMS
May 28, 2008
JAY & JAYSON WE GREW UP TOGETHER, WE WENT TO POMEROY TOGETHER THATS HOW FAR BACK WE GO. WE DIDNT CHILL AS MUCH AS WE SHOULD HAVE MAINLY MY FUALT, WHICH I REALLY REGRET NOW. YOU BOTH WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED NEVER FORGOTTEN. MAY YOU BOTH REST IN PEACE, TILL WE MEET AGAIN. MY MEMORIES OF US TOGETHER WHEN WE WERE YOUNG AND WE ALWAYS STAYED NIGHT AT EACH OTHERS HOUSE AND PLAYED VIDEO GAMES ALL NIGHT JUST HAVING FUN. THOSE WERE THE DAYS! GOD BLESS YOU BOTH AND YOUR FAMILY.
Aspden Family
May 28, 2008
To Bill, Yolanda, and family:
Please accept my family’s deepest condolences on the loss of your two sons.  Please know that we are thinking of you and you all are in our prayers.  No words can express our sorrow for your loss.  
May God Bless You All
mark acuna, family
May 28, 2008
our prayers are with you , god bless
May 28, 2008
Lydia & Tito & family
The loss of your sons and wonderful niece has truly touched our hearts.All we can do right now is pray for you and your family. You are such wonderful people and they we all so lucky to have you in their lives. God Bless you always.
Carole & Tom Boles   Santa Fe, NM
Julie Beck
May 28, 2008
Lydia and family, we are so sorry for your loss.  It's so hard to believe that your beautiful boys are gone.
You are in our prayers.
Julie and Scott Beck
Brenda Hartle
May 28, 2008
We have lost a piece of our heart. They will be truly truly missed by all!
Murillo Family
May 28, 2008
Our deepest condolences to the entire Hernandez family, there are no words that could take away your pain and emptiness during this very difficult time, we have you in our prayers. Please find peace in knowing that your family has 3 guardian angels watching you from above.
Jimmy Sr. Molina & Family
May 28, 2008
Bill, we have known your family for many years and we feel, for your loss.  May God comfort all of you, as you face these challenges that you are going through.  
God Bless
Doug Williams
May 28, 2008
Hey you guys are truely missed and loved. We misss you guys!!!
Jeff & Tammy Lutjen
May 28, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time.
Deongelo Cayce
May 28, 2008
Wow! I just heard about this and im still in disbelief. My prayers are with you and your familys! U will be missed! U two were put on the world to make others happy by your music! Ya'll did a great job of it! U are in a better place now! Miss u guys!
david rosales
May 28, 2008
you guys are missed already love you both till we meet again
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