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Rowland Barnes Obituary

Judge remembered as fair, warm-hearted

By KEN FOSKETT and MARK BIXLER
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Published on: 03/11/05

Colleagues of Fulton County Superior Court Judge Rowland Barnes recalled him Friday morning as a kind, warm-hearted jurist who earned a reputation for fairness.

"He was one of the most gentle people I've ever known," said Superior Court Judge John J. Goger. "And he had just a wonderful common sense about him. He just wanted to be a judge."

A gunman shot and killed Judge Barnes in his courtroom Friday morning. A court reporter and sheriff's deputies were also shot and killed. Another deputy was wounded.

News raced by phone and e-mail through metro Atlanta's legal community.

Kim Dymecki, an Atlanta lawyer, said Barnes mentored her early in her career.

"He was very good and kind to the young lawyers. He was just the kind of guy who would foster you along," she said. "When he got appointed to the bench, everybody breathed a sigh of relief. We knew he would make a fine Superior Court judge."

She recalled a judicious man who always seemed to have a smile and hug when he wasn't on the bench.

Barnes has presided over several high profile trials and proceedings, including the vehicular homicide case against Dany Heatley, a forward for the Atlanta Thrashers. In February, he sentenced a woman accused of killing her newborn child to a medical sterilization to avoid prison. In 2002, he validated a proposed $822 million bond issue to fund a controversial transportation initiative.

Named to the Fulton bench by former governor Zell Miller, Barnes served as a Fulton magistrate judge and had a private practice in College Park, his home, before joining the court in 1998.

Gov. Miller was impressed with Judge Barnes' organizational skills and how he managed cases. Miller believed those attributes would serve him well on the Fulton bench, recalled Judge Cynthia Wright, who served as Miller's executive counsel.

"He always wanted to be a judge," said Wright. "I know he was so happy when he received the appointment."

Judge Barnes was one of the first to call Judge Tom Campbell when Campbell was named to the bench last year.

"He took me under his wing," said Campbell. "He never seemed to be impressed with himself as a judge. That never seemed to go to his head. He was very level headed, and a regular fellow."
Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Mar. 11, 2005.

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Don Herman

April 9, 2018

My mother (Mary Alice Barnes Herman) was Rowland's first cousin and grew up with him in Cheyenne. She was so saddened by the news of his death. I remember as a child Uncle Wayne and Aunt Hazel visiting us in Pine Bluffs several times. Mary passed away herself in 2011. My condolences to you all.

lenny jones

October 7, 2013

god bless you sir, you are respected

David

September 24, 2012

I lived one street over from the Barnes family on rugby st, I was out for a walk one sommer day and I seen a white 1965 vw bug in a drive way, so I I went up to the house and talked to Rowland about it and He decided to sell it to me, He and his wife invited me into their home, Rowland was very kind and caring, I drove that car all over Atlanta.
Thoughts and prayers to the family.
RIP

Claudia Barnes

July 12, 2009

Hello, Darling: Even though I have felt your loss tremendously every single day that you have been gone and never thought I could miss you any more, lately I have been replaying the past four years without you like the broken records we played over and over hoping that one of the times would play smoothly. We would have been married 13 years this week, then add the three more we dated. You used to laugh and carry on every year past number three, as you said it was a record for you! And, you were hoping to have as many years together as my parents....knowing that was not possible, but it was a nice "warm and fuzzy" goal anyway. Working in the yard brings orange butterflies to my arms, head and body, and I make sure to recognize them out loud, vocalizing many of our favorite phrases. I have NEVER been as fortunate to see all of the red birds (kissing the hem of my dresses), blue birds and hummingbirds that pause almost in my face as if they are looking at me. I can't seem to keep enough light bulbs in the house, and I would surely miss the usual flickering of lights at home, in stores and restaurants if they ceased after all of these years. I love you with all of my heart, as I told you many times every day, but I miss the sound of your voice even more. The "love of your life", Claudia.

Janet Spix

December 15, 2008

Dear Claudia: You are in my thoughts and prayers, may you find peace even though you have now twice had to suffer an injustice and loss of which the rest of us cannot even imagine. God bless you and your family this Christmas and comming new year.

Stacey J.

December 14, 2008

May God continue to hold the family in His arms...and keep holding on. Evil has NOT won! I know how it feels to lose someone so very suddenly.It's okay to cry and even throw fits. In the end, think of the memories...I assure you'll end up laughing and smiling. Always in our thoughts.

Ivy Faber

November 7, 2008

So sorry for the loss of your loved one.
May you find comfort in knowing that one day soon God promises to do away with all sickness, pain, suffering and even death.
Respectfully,

Chuck Holton

October 30, 2008

The man who spoke the eulogy at Rollie's memorial service nailed it when he said Barnes had the gift to make you feel like you were HIS special friend and he was truly happy to see you. He was a man of infinite humor and boundless compassion. I did not feel the loss of a friend, it was more like when I have lost close family members. He left a hole in my life that feels like hunger.

Allison Roberts

September 26, 2008

I did not personally know Mr. Barnes; however, I feel for his family and friends. I know current events have brought back painful memories and the road ahead will be difficult. I offer this quote by Eleanor Roosevelt hoping it will be of some comfort:

"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do. "

My prayers are with all of his family and friends during this difficult time.

Nancy Gilman

September 25, 2008

Kiley and Holly,

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers daily especially through this difficult time. I do know how much he loved his daughters. I know he looks down on both of you with pride in his heart because he knows your hearts.

Love, Nancy

Robert Akers

September 23, 2008

Claudia, My Thoughts and prayers are with you everyday. What a wonderful man Rowland must have been. I see his picture and wish I could have known him. Always know that you are love by many.

Tina Ford

September 22, 2008

Aunt Claudia,
I am so sorry for your loss!! I have just found this page online and it has touched me so! Jesse and Lonnie and your comments broke my heart!! Judge Barnes sounds like he was an amazing man!!! Love you all and my prayers and thoughts are with you!! Love Tina Ford

Jesse Ford

April 26, 2008

Rowland,
Thank you for everything. I know now what it means to take pride in myself and never take people for granted. I used to complain when you made me do lawn work and help you with the smallest things. I regret that. I should have jumped at the chance to help you with anything you needed because you went above and beyond to do that for me. I have so many memories of you but my favorite has always been your sitting at the kitchen table in the mornings looking at paperwork and my walking by you to go out the back door to drive to school. Every morning you would always say, "Study hard." I should have. I always felt guilty when you said that because I knew I wasn't trying my best. I was hardly studying at all. You above all people knew what it meant to work hard, study hard, and more than anything, play hard. You were the perfect example for any young person to live by, and I never realized it until you were gone. I could have done so many things so much better, but the great thing about you was that it didn't matter what I did, you were always so proud of me and so proud that I was your stepson. Although I never told you, I always felt proud when you told someone "That's my boy." I'm picking up the slack now and making myself and Mom proud. I can now honestly say for the first time in my life that I am doing my best. I'm trying my hardest in everything that I do. I know that you are watching me and I know that you are proud of me. My life was full of blessings because of everything that you did for me and I am still extremely blessed even now that you are gone because of the preparations you made every single day to equip me for the life you wanted me to have. You made a dynamic impact on so many peoples lives, especially mine. Thank you for everything you did for me. The biggest blessing you left me with is the constant ability to never take anything for granted. We all miss you, Rowland. I'm not sure if I ever even told you this, but I love you. Always have, always will.
Love, Jesse

Jayne B

April 25, 2008

Happy Birthday, Rowland!
Thinking of you and all the fun times we shared. Your lovely bride and love of your life continues to make you proud daily by keeping your memory alive. I know you are watching and enjoying her quest to do so. Know you are keeping all the other angels happy and smiling as you did for us here on earth.
Love ya!

Your "bride, soulmate and one and only love", Claudia Barnes

April 25, 2008

Dearest Rowland, my true love - Happy Birthday to you today. So many remember and celebrate your life. I miss you in my life so much each day. When I have cake and ice cream tonight and laugh with my family and friends over past birthday parties, I will light a candle in your honor. I miss our constant laughter, holding hands, playing in the dirt together, our quiet times, your special words to me, but especially your voice. I love you with all of my heart.

Gail Higgins

April 24, 2008

I am still trying to just understand why...when i read so many thoughtful and emoitional salutations , i just say why...Peace be still...Gail Higgins ATL GA (a concerned citizen)

christen shaughnessy

April 23, 2008

sorry about your loss

Alyssa Turner

March 25, 2008

Dear Butch,

Our family is very sad you were taken. My father tells me of memories and stories of you every once in a while. We all miss you and pray for your family. Your cousin's daughter, Alyssa (originally San Diego, CA).

Autumn Ward

March 11, 2008

Hi Grandpa Rowland, today is the 3 year anniversary that your precious life was taken from us. A very sad day for our family. We miss you so much! The Trial is suppose to begin in July of this year. I have faith that Justice will be served.
I know you are in a better place and you will always be in my heart.
Love your Granddaughter Autumn

February 18, 2008

Mrs. Barnes and Family:

Fear not; stand firm and see the salvation of the Lord, which He will work for you today.
Exodus 14:13

Your Wife and Soulmate, Claudia Barnes

February 16, 2008

To my one and only Valentine --- Just a written reminder of how much I love you and our lifetime of 12 wonderful and loving years together. I bought myself an armful of flowers like those you bought me weekly with "that special smell". The sweet odor has filled up the house and is a constant reminder of our love. I've read and re-read the Valentine cards you've given me, and I still cry and cherish them. My special reminder for the day was that you are still watching over me - I received a special photograph right on time from a friend, and it made me laugh. I'm thankful each day that I got to spoil you, laugh uncontrollably with you, ride to work with you, make dozens of trips to Barnes and Nobles with you, and to have you spoil me as well, as we had the perfect relationship that not many others can match or have had the pleasure of experiencing. I love you, Rowland, "this much and forever and ever. Thank you for making my life complete" - your favorite words to me. And, I will always miss you.

Your Baby, Kiley E. Barnes

November 19, 2007

Daddy,
You are so missed and loved,words just simply can't describe.Things have not been easy,but I'm better now,and I'll make you so proud.You are still my hero.

Lonnie Ford

October 29, 2007

I miss you Rowland. Life simply is not the same without you here among us. Dylan misses Papa Rowland, too; you are with his Daddy-Bob now. Talk to them up there, as it is becoming difficult down here by the day. Mom is not the same anymore, and sometimes it seems like nobody is. Thank you for being there for me. I know I'm not the sucess you wanted me to become, but I have changed a lot for the best. I hope that you smile when you look down on me, knowing my heart now. I never got the chance to thank you for many things, and so now perhaps you hear me Judge. I am still amazed and intrigued by your work. Perhaps that is what brought me to this site tonight. I loved you very much Rowland, and miss you. Your eldest step-son, LSF.

SABRINA COOK

July 21, 2007

MAY GOD BE WITH YOUR FAMILY AT THIS MOMENT AND EVERY MOMENT. GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Anita McCorvey

June 17, 2007

My heart aches for you, Claudia. I can't recall a couple so right for each other. But I know you're very strong too. Just wanted to say I think of all of y'all.

Holly

June 16, 2007

Happy Father's Day Rowland. I miss you dearly and love you very, very much. your daughter, Holly

paula taylor

May 13, 2007

He was a lovely, thoughtful man who touched my heart when I was in his court room. He is with God. And God be with us during our loss. Judge Barnes you lived a life worth living. I am so proud of you and think of you every time I am in court.

Ken Wilson

January 27, 2007

My name is Ken Wilson, I am Holly Dittmar's half brother (his daughter). I met Roland only once when he came to Michigan to visit my sister for her wedding some 20 years ago. I've heard his name through out the years and I remember very much liking the man.
We played football in the park behind our house. I went with my sister and niece's to Georgia when he was killed and discovered what a truely great man he was. I heard so many stories of what a wonderful person he was. I became saddend that I did not know him better but my tears turned to joy from hearing these truely wonderful stories about him. I really did not know him but only of him and because of what I learned I know I will miss him. My sympathlies and condolences go to everyone who did know this great man. He will truley be missed. I want to Thank all of Georgia for the support you gave my extended family while we were there. Your kindness was well appreciated by all of us. God
Bless each and every one of you.

Wife and soul mate, Claudia Barnes

June 18, 2006

"Good morning, love of my life. Happy Father's Day." I miss you with all of my heart and soul. Jesse and I often sit and talk about what a wonderful person you were, how you influenced our lives, and how you welcomed him as your step-son (he was 11 years of age then) into your life with smiles and open arms. He talks of how you cried when he spoke before a group of people and mentioned in that speech that he wanted to thank you for stepping in and being the father to him that he never had. After a year of mourning (you know how serious he can be and how sentimental), his change in major in school was because of you. He admired you so and was so happy when you said, "He's the son that I never had. I had a step-dad who raised me as well, you know, and he was one of the best influences in my life." You would be very proud of his school commitment now and his renewal of reading. The picture you used to laugh so much over each time you saw it of you and Jesse propped up in bed reading is even more of a treasure at this point in our lives. My Dad (as well as my whole family) especially misses you at the head of his table on days like this. So know that today, "poor sweet baby", as you used to tell me, that we will have lots of laughs over our Rowland stories and will shed tears of love as well. We love you dearly. My heart is still broken and aches for you each and every day. Your

June 1, 2006

Hi grandpa, thinking about you everyday. Wishing we would have known eachother better, especailly now that I'm an adult. Always smiling to your smile. Lovin you lots. Amba Dawn

Janel Woods

May 24, 2006

To the Barnes Family,

My condolences to you and your family as you continue the journey of grievance. Such a loving and kind man. God Bless Each of you

Claudia Barnes

April 24, 2006

Dear love of my life ---- "happy day before birthday". I miss you terribly, but I know from the orange butterflies that are already here at home that you are near and watching over me. Your "bride, soul mate and love of your life".....Claudia

Harland Stanley

April 18, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with the Barnes family.

eileen ferguson

April 8, 2006

Millions, Loved and Respect the hard working, loving, gently Judge Barnes. You have a pouring out of love in these many signings of the gust book for the family and close loved ones, relatives. May I take just a few moments to have the privledge to express my deepest regrets and sympathy upon his loss. I turly am sorry for such a sinister act. I know that this loved one is resting, in a sleeplike condition at this time, awaiting a time when the Almighty God will reinstate him to life. No more sorrow, tears, pain anymore, Coming from the Holy Writings we can rest anything God has a hand in is sure to come to pass. John 5:28,29 and Revelation 21:3,4 Sincerely, Eileen of Ohio

Bonnie

March 29, 2006

Dear Claudia, I have known you and Rowland for many years and I'm saddened during this one-year anniversary. Seems like years without him and without you as a couple in the lives of others. Because MY heart is totally broken, I cannot fathom how you must feel without the love of your life. Rowland adored you so, as well as his life with you. I remember how excited and proud he was when he said he had finally met the woman of his dreams and when you said you would marry him. He was ALWAYS talking about you and beaming, even after so many years together. You made him laugh constantly and put a wide smile on his face - something only you were able to do. It was nice to always see you two holding hands. He taught me by example how to treat and appreciate a soul mate. He also told how exciting and easy life was because of you. After watching the TV specials, you need to know how proud others were of you, as you displayed much dignity, beauty, intelligence and strength. You have been a rock to others who are grieving, and I admire you for all that you are. Be proud of the fact that you made Rowland complete, proud and VERY happy for the first time ever. Having lost more than one loved one, I know the difficult times you are now having, and will continue to face in the future. I don't know how you do all that you do, except through your faith. You are, and always will be, a shining example to others, a class act, and always in many prayers. You can always count on me. Much love to you.

Les Riordan

March 27, 2006

Thoughts and paryers to your family. Les Riordan

bandele browne

March 27, 2006

May the lord always be with you and your family

James Peacock

March 21, 2006

Dear Kiley,

I know this has taken me way to long. I know that you are a great person.I am glad to have you as a friend. I know that your father would be proud of you knowing that despite all the pain, you have perservered, to find faith in the system we have both learned so much about. The criminal justice system is what you know. It is only a matter of time, before you are living out your dreams of going to law school and raising the bar. I do not have any doubt that your goals will be met, and you will follow the great example your father has set for you and many other men and women.

It was a pleasure in my past, to have met such a leader as Judge Barnes. The love of the criminal justice system radiated as he preached the truth, that he practiced daily. When he had completed his words of wisdom, I got the pleasure of talking with him for my one and only time. I enjoyed the hour or so that I got to spend with you Kiley, and your father. It was special to know that he was a down to earth man, that loved you with all his heart.

Well, I just wanted to reflect on this time we had spent together. I know that I am 4000 miles away, but all it takes is a phone call. I hope you will not hesitate to call me when you need a friend to talk to. Just think about the good times we had, just wanting to get through school at NGCSU, and the fun times we had when class was over.

Love, Jamie Peacock

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Robbie Levin

March 18, 2006

a great judge... a wonderful man... loved, respected and missed by so many.

The "apple of your eye" Kiley E. Barnes

March 16, 2006

My heart remains broken.

My pain remains unspoken,

words that would soften a hard heart.

I never thought we'd be apart.



But destiny,it changed,that tragic day.

Who would've ever thought,from me you'd be taken away?



So suddenly, violently, senslessly it was.

Makes us wonder what good the Criminal Justice System does.



I wonder why you were called above,

when you were only doing the job you loved?



You worked so hard, you were born to be a Judge.

You treated everyone the same,

even criminals with no grudge.



But if you could, you'd tell me not to be sad.

Even though I know this,it's still the worst pain I've ever had.



Daddy,YOU were the one who always mended my broken heart.

Now that you're not here, where do I even start?



My heart still remains broken.

Your loving words remain unspoken.



{You were my mentor and my best friend.Daddy I love you with all my heart, and to the core of my soul.}

karan barnes

March 14, 2006

Dear Kiley and Holly,

This has been a long, tough year but through God's help we have made it. Your Dad was so very proud of both of you, his loving daughters. You will never know how much he truly loved you but you can be assured he knew you loved him. He will always live in our hearts and he will always be with you.

I love you both very much and am honored to have you in my life. Together we can. . .

All my love,

Mom (Kiley)

Karan (Holly)

Nancy Gilman

March 13, 2006

To: Mrs Barnes, Kiley and Holly, You all have suffered much this past year through your terrible loss. Please know that each of you are being prayed for daily. May God bless you. Sincerest hope for comfort.

Kathy Arnold

March 13, 2006

I saw the CNN special over the weekend and I admire the strength and courage you displayed in the interviews. I believe you will find much comfort from your little dachschund, as I found from my dog when my son died. I pray that God will continue to sustain you daily, and that in time, you will have peace in your life once again. There are no words that can take away the sting of your deep loss. God bless you.

Marcus Myrick

March 13, 2006

To Mrs. Barnes and the family. You are a strong woman! Keep holding on. Dont let go of your faith in God. He will get you through this. And keep remembering the great times you had with your husband. May God bless and keep you.

Put hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. 1 Timothy 6:17

LORI GUYTON

March 11, 2006

TO THE BARNES FAMILY,

MY FAMILY AND I DIDN'T KNOW JUDGE BARNES OR ANY OF THE OTHERS WHO LOST THEIR LIVES 1 YEAR AGO. BUT IT IS A DAY NONE OF US WILL EVER FORGET, NOR WILL WE FORGET THE FACES OF JUDGE BARNES OR THE OTHERS.IT WAS A VERY SAD DAY FOR GEORGIA.OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE FOR YOUR FAMILY.GOD BLESS YOU!!!!

Autumn Ward

March 11, 2006

Dear Grandpa Rowland,

It has been a year since your death and I love you and miss you very much.

Love Autumn

Jane Williams

March 9, 2006

I was in Judge Barnes' court for jury duty. He was a kind and understanding Judge.

Stephanie Kennedy

March 8, 2006

It is coming up on a year that you have left us, you are truly missed by your courthouse family and we will keep you and your family in our prayers. Stay strong your loved one is always with you.

mary johnson

March 7, 2006

May God continue to bless each of you. Although it has been 1 year please remember that you are not forgotten by God or others who thought so much of your husband and father. I did not know him personally, but he was a child of God as we all are.



Mary F. Johnson

Jeff Walker

February 26, 2006

I can honestly say, “He made the biggest influence pertaining to the person I am today.” I send my love and up most respect out to all the people whom he held dear. I am sorry for your loss, and may God bless you all.

Anonymous

February 24, 2006

The Barnes Family,

It's been almost a year since this tragedy.I did not know Rowland Barnes personally, but my boyfriend did. He told me how kind hearted he was, but just looking at the pictures of him you can tell he was a good man. I just want to say how sorry I am for your loss. I hope God has helped you cope during these past months. My prayers go out to whole family. God bless you all.

Nancy B

February 17, 2006

Judge Barns was one of my moms good friends. He let her drive his cars. She watched every hour of the news when he was shot. I wish all of his family and friends the best. We pray for you and we will love you forever. Rest In Peace. I love you.

PAMELA JENKINS-JORDAN

February 12, 2006

JUDGE BARNES WAS ONE OF THE BEST JUDGES WE HAD IN THE CITY OF COLLEGE, HE WILL BE MISSED ALOT.I COULD ALWAYS CALL HIM IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT TO SIGN WARRANTS, AND HE WOULD SAY COME ON OVER. WE WILL MISS HIM DEARLY.MAY GOD BLESSING BE WITH HIS FAMILY.



DEEPEST SYMPATHY

Deborah Teasley

December 13, 2005

Claudia & Family:



My family would like to extend a wish to you and your family for a happy holiday season!



I know this is a difficult time for all of us, but continue to pray for strength and guidance through another step in your lives. Not a day goes by that I don't think about our love ones! May God give you peace and happiness always!



Thanks for your well wishes!



Your Friends,

The Teasleys

claudia barnes

December 5, 2005

Dearest Rowland: As you would say, "Good morning, love of my life." I miss you every minute of every day, and my heart aches over this tragedy. Your words: "Thank you for marrying me and for taking care of me", and "Have I told you lately how much I love you?" are constant companions now. "I love these quiet times together, being home and doing nothing, sitting on the couch and cuddling, watching a movie and grilling a steak." are greatly missed also. You always felt that you had finally met your soul mate. Thank you for making me laugh each day,for loving me,for appreciating the "shirt fairy visits", for bragging on " our wedding being the most fun ever known to man" and for spoiling "your bride." I miss you with all of my heart, and will always love you "this much".

maura weiner

October 19, 2005

hello im 16 i went to the memorial service of judge barnes which was something i will never forget!he will never be forgotten by my family!my mother teresa weiner new him b4 he became a judge!!!im deeply sadin by his death and his family has my condolenses!!!we love u judge barnes!!!

Donna

October 17, 2005

To the Honorable Rowland Barnes. Thank you for all the years and hard work serving Fulton County as Superior Court Judge. You are "SUPERIOR". May you rest in peace with God and the rest of his angels.

Tajhiek Baoll- Wares

September 15, 2005

We have not forgotten you, Judge Barnes. The College Park Elementary faculty, staff and students continue to lift your family up in prayer.

vickie pringle

August 17, 2005

To the family of Judge Barnes, may God give you strength and comfort in your heart, to know that there is nothing in the world that He can't heal. My deepest condolences to all the friends and family. God Bless,

Vickie Pringle

Houston Texas

J.A. Townsend

June 27, 2005

I was working at Pickens County Courthouse when Judge Rowland Barnes was the visiting judge. I got to know him. He was a good hearted judge and always loved to kid around when he wasn't busy. I will certainly miss him.



J.A. Townsend

David Plant

June 10, 2005

Judge Rowland Barnes had a gift from God, and that was could see the soul of a pearson and not just the outer shell. You are in my prayers . God bless and keep you close.

George Tolbert III

June 2, 2005

With my deepest sympathy

Class of 75

Jonathan Hibbert

May 28, 2005

Rowland Barnes was my friend. As a young lawyer getting started, Judge Barnes treated me as a beloved younger brother. His radiant kindness would light up the room. Justice came naturally to him. As the years progressed, Judge Barnes' qualities propelled his advance to higher courts of law. Regardless of how his career advanced, he never succumbed to "black robe-itis". He maintained his humanity and always helped me re-affirm my own.

It is my hope that the cruel irony of his murder with no justice, no kindness, no understanding, no love for fellow man, where Rowland Barnes shared all of these qualities with EVERY life he touched, can stand as an illustration of what we must be about in this life. Roland Barnes was always the picture of the qualities of character that make life for us all, worth living. He's one of the first people I hope to see when I cross over.

Greg Pitts

May 24, 2005

I knew Judge Barnes for almost 20 years. I was in his courtroom many, many times. I have been to his residence in the middle of the night to have warrants signed. He was a wonderful man and I will miss him. I have been heart sick since this happened. May God bless you Roland and watch over your family.

Guan Martin

May 21, 2005

I did not know Judge Barnes personally, but all I read and heard about him said he was a caring, unselfish, just and fair man. I believe that to be true and our society is at a loss without him. God bless and comfort his family, and all those who were close to him.

Kimberly Rooks

May 6, 2005

my heart goes out to the family i feel bad for the family i wanted yall to know that yall are in my prayers and thoughts always

Marcus Myrick

April 29, 2005

To the Barnes family from the Myrick family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. Keep your strength in the Lord.

"If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, nothing will be impossible for you".

Matthew 17:20

Kathy Hardis Fraeman

April 27, 2005

I was a friend of the Judge's brother Mark back in high school. I remember how Mark always spoke so fondly of his older brother Butch, who was in law school in Atlanta during our high school years.



I saw Mark a few years ago, and I remembered him mentioning that Butch was now a judge in Atlanta. It has taken me this long to realize, with both shock and extreme sadness, that the Judge Barnes I had read about last month in the newspapers was Mark's brother Butch.



On behalf of Mark's many friends from high school, I would like to extend our sincere condolences and sympathy to the Barnes family. And we would also like to extend our condolences and comfort to Mark, you are in our thoughts.

Pamela jefferson

April 19, 2005

I am from Atlanta and I was home on Vacation when I heard the news that tragic day, I have heard so many Wonderful things about Judge Barnes, that he was a fair and just Judge,I'm sure he will be very much missed, my God grant the family Peace.......during their times of Sorrow.

N Eggleston

April 15, 2005

I had the pleasure of working for Judge Barnes as a fill-in for his case manager. They all were such a family. He was a truly fair man and had such a great sense of humor. He will be sorely missed.

Mandi Braswell

April 12, 2005

Dear Kiley,

I am so sorry for the loss of your father. He was such a wonderful man, and I know how you admired him so. I know that years are between us, but please don't ever hesitate to contact me for anything. I am praying for you.



Love,

Mandi

Kelly Helms

April 6, 2005

I knew Judge Barnes when he had a private practice in College Park, GA. I worked for a mortgage company and dealt with him often. He was such a nice man with a great ability to make you at ease with his wonderful sense of humor. I was so glad to see him go so far in life! May God bless him and his family.

Deborah Long

April 6, 2005

My deepest sympathy to the Barnes family. May God Bless your family.

Sharon Townsend

March 30, 2005

My family and I were very sadden by the death of Judge Rowland Barnes. My father was the bailiff at Pickens County Courthouse when Judge Barnes was up here. I cannot tell you how much we will miss him.

karan rice

March 29, 2005

Rowland,

Thank you for giving me Kiley. We will miss you.

karan

Cheryl Dyer

March 28, 2005

Edwin and family,



You know how truly sorry I am about your loss.

Howard Barnes

March 28, 2005

Rowland, I am so sorry you are gone from us. We lived together in San Jose for a short time while both in the Air Force. Rowland was a great friend, a humorous guy and an all round good fellow. Once he left the service in 1969 I never got to see him again; only spoke once on the phone and exchanged a letter or two. I was so proud of him when he informed me he had been appointed as a judge. Claudia and family, I am so sorry for your loss -- he was a good, good man.

HELEN REMPPEL

March 28, 2005

SAFELY HOME



I AM HOME IN HEAVEN, DEAR ONES:

OH, SO HAPPY AND SO BRIGHT!

THERE IS PERFECT JOY AND BEAUTY

IN THIS EVERLASTING LIGHT.



ALL THE PAIN AND GRIEF IS OVER,

EVERY RESTLESS TOSSING PASSED.

I AM NOW AT PEACE FOREVER.

SAFELY HOME IN HEAVEN AT LAST.



THEN YOU MUST NOT GRIEVE SO SORELY,

FOR I LOVE YOU DEARLY STILL;

TRY TO LOOK BEYOND EARTH'S SHADOWS,

PRAY TO TRUST OUR FATHER'S WILL.



REST IN PEACE ROWLAND

Katherine Battle

March 24, 2005

Best wishes to the family. My heart goes out to you all.

Rhonda Price

March 23, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and the familys of the others who were taken on the terrible day. What a loss to the world and especially to you. I hope you find the strenght to go on as Im sure he would want you to do.

Robert Neale

March 23, 2005

Official website dedicated to the memory of Judge Rowland W. Barnes

http://www.rowlandbarnes.org



Rowland Barnes was a good friend to me as he was to many of us. I was fortunate enough to have known Judge Barnes for about 3 short years.



I cherished his friendship, his good heart, his laughter, his wisdom and his respect for others. Those are but a few of the many great qualities he possessed.



I knew Rowland as a man who always shared a kind word and a friendly voice to everyone he met, even those who came before his bench. He yielded a firm but compassionate hand as a servant of justice. He was well loved and respected by everyone who knew him and his uncommon alacrity charmed and enlightened us all.



There are good men; there are great men, and then there are those who stand out among great men. Judge Rowland W. Barnes was one of the exceptional few who shined among great men. He was truly... One in a million.



A most precious gem was tragically lost on March 11th, 2005. I know that I will never forget him or the impact he had in my life.



Good bye my dear friend. I will surely miss you, but you will always be remembered.

Amelia Craig

March 23, 2005

To the Barnes family and friends:

I hope you can find comfort knowing you are in the prayers and thoughts of many during your time of sorrow.

May God Bless You

Autumn Ward

March 23, 2005

I want to thank all of you for your condolences. My Grandfather was a wonderful and loved man. I miss him very much.

Autumn Ward Rowland's Granddaughter.

Sylvia McCarley

March 23, 2005

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Judge Barnes and to all the others affected by the horrible tragedy.

Sylvia McCarley

Neil Saiontz

March 23, 2005

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Barnes family for their loss. Your tragedy has reached us in Austin Texas and we are greatly saddened.

Carl Alexander

March 22, 2005

Goodbye to a fellow 1956-57 Frankfurt eagle football player. I served 28 years in law enforcement for the state of Oklahoma, and I know the risk that our Judges face across America.

May the hand of God be with your family always.

Carl Alexander

Class of 1958

Indira Vaughn

March 22, 2005

May God Bless Rowland W. Barnes

and his famiy. You will be in my prayers.

Many Blessings,

Indira Vaughn and Family

Anne Washington Monterio

March 22, 2005

I'm a 1956 graduate and never had the pleasure of meeting Judge Barnes. My friends in the Atlanta area say that he was a terrific person. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Robert Reid

March 22, 2005

May God be with Rowland and with his family. I didn't know him personally, but being an Frankfurt High School graduate, Class of 54, and a FHS football player, I feel as though I have lost a brother. The Eagles are saddened by the loss. Fly high with them, Rowland and we'll meet you there some day at the FHS Reunion in the sky.

Connie Briley

March 22, 2005

What a terrible loss of life. So many innocent people died, and for WHAT? My thoughts and prayers go out to the families of everyone affected by the insanity that terible day. God bless you.

Jean Sturgeon

March 22, 2005

Even though I did not know Judge Barnes, I wish to express my sympathy and condolences to his family and friends. Someone who cares.

Kathy (Albaugh) Hile

March 22, 2005

To the Barnes family, my deepest condolences for their terrible loss. I knew Rollie at Frankfurt American High School in Germany. He was kind, intelligent, considerate and a leader even then. How sad to lose such a man to such a senseless tragedy.

Neil Albaugh

March 22, 2005

My sincere sympathy to the Barnes family. The loss of Judge Barnes is deeply felt by the entire country. Rollie was a classmate at Frankfurt American High School in Frankfurt, Germany and he was quarterback for the Eagles. Via con dios.

Dawn King

March 21, 2005

Your Honor, being a former employee of the court system in AZ, I know the daily trials and mercies put in your path each day here in GA. Your sense of fair-play was evident in your judgements and your mercies will not be forgotten. Thank you, Judge Barnes, for being the man you were. God Bless your family during this time.

Bruce & Sandra McDaniel

March 21, 2005

My husband Bruce, your classmate at Frankfurt Highschool, and I, would like to send our condolences to his family..we searched for many years for you Rowland, and we finally found you, but too late and for that we are truly saddened...we would have loved to have gotten to know the "Judge" Rowland Barnes for we have heard he was quite some fellow.

God Bless you all

Bruce '58 and Sandie '60

McDaniel

Pamela

March 21, 2005

My heart and prayers goes out to the family of Judge Barnes. I pray for the family strength and courage through the lost of your loved one.God Bless

Melissa Prentice

March 21, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you! May God Bless you all!

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