William Styron

William Styron

William Styron Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 1, 2006.
William Styron, the Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist whose explorations of the darkest corners of the human mind and experience were charged by his own near-suicidal demons, died Wednesday in Martha's Vineyard, Mass. He was 81.

Styron's daughter, Alexandra, said the author died of pneumonia at Martha's Vineyard Hospital. Styron, who had homes in Martha's Vineyard and Connecticut, had been in failing health for a long time.

A handsome, muscular man, with a strong chin and wavy dark hair that turned an elegant white, Styron was a Virginia native whose obsessions with race, class and personal guilt led to such tormented narratives as ''Lie Down In Darkness'' and ''The Confessions of Nat Turner,'' which won the Pulitzer despite protests that the book was racist and inaccurate.

His other works included ''Sophie's Choice,'' the award-winning novel about a Holocaust survivor from Poland, and ''A Tidewater Morning,'' a collection of fiction pieces. He also published a book of essays, ''This Quiet Dust,'' and the best-selling memoir ''Darkness Visible,'' in which Styron recalled nearly taking his own life.

Styron was a liberal long involved in public causes, from supporting a Connecticut teacher suspended for refusing to say the Pledge of Allegiance to advocating for human rights for Jews in the Soviet Union. In the 1990s, Styron was among a group of authors and historians who successfully opposed plans for a Disney theme park near the Manassas National Battlefield in northern Virginia.

Writing was an increasing struggle in his latter years. Styron was reportedly working on a military novel, yet published no full-length work of fiction after ''Sophie's Choice,'' which came out in 1979. He did remain well connected, whether socializing with President Clinton on Martha's Vineyard or joining Arthur Miller and Gabriel Garcia Marquez on a delegation that met with Cuban leader Fidel Castro in 2000.

The son of a shipbuilder, William C. Styron Jr. was born in Newport News, Va., to a family whose history extends to colonial Virginia. He was awed by the torrential fiction of fellow Southerner Thomas Wolfe and knew by his late teens he wanted to be a writer. His own life offered strong material.

At age 13, his mother died, transforming him into a ''hell raiser'' with an unhealable wound of guilt. He served as a lieutenant in the Marines during World War II and in 1945 was stationed in Okinawa. He was to take part in the invasion of Japan and didn't expect to come out alive.

The battle never took place; the United States dropped the atom bomb instead.

''Some of my problems I think came from a continuing anguish over my mother's death and if I had gotten shot it would have been, I suppose, some kind of completion. It's hard to say how that would have worked out,'' Styron told The Associated Press in a 1990 interview.

''When I was a young Marine platoon leader, there was this incredible sense of fate. The myth at that age is you're going to live forever. Well, I never believed that and my friends didn't. I thought I was going to die.''

Copyright 2006 The Associated Press

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Harry Simpson

November 1, 2015

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

Saepe Expertus, Semper Fidelis, Fratres Aeterni.

Often Tested, Always Faithful, Brothers Forever.

Thank you for your service to this nation.

Paul Olsen

February 24, 2011

I knew Bill Styron; we exchanged many letters. He was a guest on our campus twice, once for a commencement address, and once for two days of public readings and discussions with students. His intellectual depth and his grace as he engaged us in conversation touched everyone.
Rose accompanied him on his second trip to this Mississippi River City, and she and I and poet Rebecca Wee took an hour-long walk along the river. Rose's charming personality and the meaningful discussion about poetry and human rights will always be among my favorite memories.
I have included Sophie's Choice as the foundation for an upper division literature course for thirty years, and I attended the celebration in Richmond for "Sophie's Choice--All Virginia Reads." The class discussions of this classic novel are highlights of the academic year for me and for students. Bill's letters and memories of his personal visits continue to enrich the power of his writing and my personal devotion to a beautiful and powerful writer, a man of great courage and integrity, a principled and warm humanitarian, a friend.
For all of his family I wish peace,

March 30, 2010

For Bill...

Who could ever forget
Sophies Choice? You were
one of the best. This
is for you.


WEEP NOT FOR ME


Do not weep for me when I no longer dwell among the wonders of the earth; for my larger self is free, and my soul rejoices on the other side of pain...on the other side of darkness.

Do not weep for me, for I am a ray of sunshine that touches your skin, a tropical breeze upon your face, the hush of joy within your heart and the innocence of babes in mothers arms.

I am the hope in a darkened night. And, in your hour of need, I will be there to comfort you. I will share your tears, your joys, your fears, your disappointments and your triumphs.

Do not weep for me, for I am cradled
in the arms of God. I walk with the angels, and hear the music beyond the stars.

Do not weep for me, for I am within you;
I am peace, love, I am a soft wind that caresses the flowers. I am the calm that follows a raging storm. I am an autumns leaf that floats among the garden of God, and I am pure white snow that softly falls upon your hand.

Do not weep for me, for I shall never die, as long as you remember me...
with a smile and a sigh.


© Joe Fazio
~
[email protected] /Joe Fazio,
Beverly Hills, California

Oscar Silva Alvarez

November 11, 2006

Le debo mucho de lo mejor de mis horas de lectura

Virginia Boyd Coletti

November 8, 2006

Dear Rose and Children,
I have fond memories of Bill who was in my class in Hilton Village and Morrison High. He is so very talented, and I have all of his books. I enjoyed seeing him at the Herbst Theater in San Francisco a few years ago.
May God bless your family!
Love, Virginia Boyd Coletti

Author Debbie Ludwig (Galich)

November 6, 2006

Mrs. Styron was a master of his own writings and I am happy that I got to induldge in them. My sympathy and condolences go to his family. God bless!

Julie

November 5, 2006

To the Styron family:
My deepest sympathy and thoughts and prayers are with you. Mr. Styron was one of the greatest American writers. Even though I enjoyed reading all of his books, Sophie's Choice was my favorite.

Tami

November 5, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

REGIMOND MCKINNEY

November 5, 2006

Thank you, Mr Styron, for opening my eyes to a masterpiece in the "Confessions of Nat Turner".........GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY

Zoe Joseph

November 4, 2006

I had the pleasure of listening to you speak several years ago, and the honesty in which you spoke of your illness was truly moving. Your book has changed my life, and has also taught many in my life who were unaware of the seriousness of this illness how deadly it can be. No more stigma. Peace Mr. Styron. Peace.

Teresa McKimmey

November 4, 2006

I offer my heartfelt sympathy to the Styron family for their loss. Mr. Styron's memoir of depression, Darkness Visible, has been my medicine and comfort throughout my own struggle with depression, helping me understand my disease and get better. Its eloquent voice has become a trusted friend and fellow traveller in my life. I did not know Mr. Styron, but I thank him for this powerful gift. May he rest peacefully.

Tori Farah

November 4, 2006

My deepest regrets to the Styron family. Thank you Mr. Styron for Sophie's Choice; it was the book that taught me how to feel.

R. Davis

November 4, 2006

My deepest sympathy to the Styron Family. The bible holds out a sure hope for you to see your loved one again in wonderful health. At Acts 24:15 give us a promise " there is going to be a resurrection of both the righteous and the unrighteous" Instead of tears of sorrow , there will be tears of JOY. Just imagine having a warm reunion with William on a paradise earth the way Jehovah God meant for it to be.

Edward Arnold

November 3, 2006

"Darkness
Visible" was a true turning point for all of us who either work in the mental-health
field, or who are survivors of psychiatric illness. I personally appreciate
Mr. Styron's efforts to de-stigmatize that common-cold of psychiatric disorders
we call "depression". His candor and eloquence will be missed.

Chuck Moorman

November 3, 2006

Though I only read bits & pieces of Mr. Stryon's books, Sophie's Choice as a movie has to be one of the most moving movies I have ever viewed. This only highlights Mr. Styron's genius. I was also impressed to read that he was a Marine Corps officer. As one fellow Marine Corps officer to another "Semper Fi" and way to fight the good fight that he did battling his lifelong depression.

D. L. MacFadden

November 3, 2006

An absolute master of the language, he brought this reader along for many a ride, whether it was being fired from a hated job and "floating down the garish arroyo of Forty-second Street" in blissful escape, or being seven years old, stuck in an overheated jalopy with the rest of my family while my father blew his stack, threw his hat and fumed at a seething engine that boiled as madly as he. Many tears, many laughs, sheer joy.

Michael Reed

November 2, 2006

Mr. Styron will truly be remembered as a great American writer, unafraid to tackle the issues that make us all human. I have always respected his literary courage and will always take pleasure in reading his works. He has inspired me to dig deeper as a writer and will be remembered for having made my literary life better. God bless you sir and condolences to your family on their loss.

Michael and Julie d'Almeida-Warrington

November 2, 2006

Dear Styron Family,
Michael and I are so very sorry to read about the passing of Bill. I remember him fondly.
May he rest in peace.
love, Michael and Julie d'Almeida-Warrington

Jordan R.

November 2, 2006

Though you wrote few books, you were one of the greats: you took more care than almost any writer I've seen, and your pages are instilled with a life I've seen in almost no one else. Thank you for the greatness of Sophie's Choice and Darkness Visible, books that helped to save me.

Jason Cataldi

November 2, 2006

Dear Mr. Styron,
Before I read Sophie's Choice, I had never understood the pleasure and transmormative powers of literature. After that experience, I became obsessed with your other writings, style, form, and the sheer power of your language. I had the honor of meeting at you Cooper's Union after a reading, circa 2000. It was an honor. In my mind, you rest as the pre-eminent writer of the last 50 years. Your moral passion about difficult subjects, and your willingness to plumb the deepest corners of human existence and consciousness--especially, the depth and breadth--taught me things I did not know. And, what gets left about your writing is how your humor was so natural and effective to your work. I can't think of any writers that can make me laugh and cry on the same page! And the utter craftmanship. . . so refined; it's hard to fanthom the precision of your choice of word(s)--I never feel your writing overwrought, even with the density of your works. Thomas Wolffe was to you, what you are to me.
My condolences go out to the Styron family. It seems to me, your husband and father really grew to love you even more as he aged. In his memory, during your time of grief, remember you really admired how his family were proponents of social causes; please, when capable keep changing the world, as your father did. Rose, thank you for being so strong; no doubt, he leaned on you, loved you. In the end, from what I could gather, he felt like his greatest achievement was his marriage and having the fortune of having been blessed with strong and humane daughters in their own right.
He was a class act, and I am saddened by his passing. My heart is with your family right now.

Linda T.

November 2, 2006

Just finished reading Darkness Visible this morning and had been thinking of you when I heard this news. You painted a vivid picture of depression and provided insight for those of us who know/love someone in the midst of that darkness. Best wishes to Rose who gave you so much.

Hamlin Endicott

November 2, 2006

You will be greatly missed. Just last night I read of your immense generosity to others in Mewshaw's book "Do I Owe you Something".
You were genuine.
Take Care.

Jay Paul

November 2, 2006

Reading LIE DOWN IN DARKNESS in college was a formative experience for me, an inexperienced small-town northerner. I never forgot the powerful, sometimes bewildering prose; nor did I ever lose the images of southern places--the origins of which now surround me here in Mr. Styron's hometown. Teaching Styron and eventually meeting him remain highlights in my life. His passing has saddened me greatly.

Anna H.

November 2, 2006

Mr. Styron,
with your clear, honest, powerful words you have helped so many of us suffering from depression. Thank you. The world owes you a debt of gratitude.

Vicky Chapman

November 2, 2006

My sincere condolences to the Styron family. When I read Mr. Styron's book "Sophies Choice" I was so moved and to this day it is still one of my favorites.

Gail

November 2, 2006

Thank you for sharing your struggles with those of us who thought we were the only ones. May your family be comforted at this time by the Lord's grace and compassion.

Denise

November 1, 2006

I heard you speak in Atlanta a few years ago, with Mike Wallace and Art Buchwald. Thank you for traveling here when you were unwell. Sophie's Choice is a wonderful, extraordinary story. Thank you for all the literature and for the effort it took to produce it, given the struggles you have outlined elsewhere. I think of you with gratitude.

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