J. Paul Getty III

J. Paul Getty III

J. Paul Getty Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 8, 2011.
LONDON (AP) - Great wealth became J. Paul Getty III's great curse.

At age 16, he was held for ransom for five months by captors who cut off his ear when his oil-rich grandfather balked at paying.

After his 1973 release, he became addicted to drugs and alcohol, diving deeper into a hippie counterculture that seemed the opposite of his family's capitalistic roots. He was only in his 20s when he suffered a devastating stroke that left him severely impaired and in a wheelchair for the rest of his life. He died Saturday at age 54.

Getty "never let his handicap keep him from living life to the fullest and he was an inspiration to all of us, showing us how to stand up to all adversity," his son, the actor Balthazar Getty, said in a statement.

The elder Getty died surrounded by his family at his country estate in Buckinghamshire northwest of London. The cause of death was not disclosed, but Getty had been gravely ill for some time.

Born in 1956 to oil wealth counted in the billions of dollars, Getty's life was upended when he was kidnapped in Rome in 1973. He was a tempting target - his grandfather was often said to be one of the world's first billionaires.

At the time of his abduction, Getty was known as the "golden hippie." He cut a dashing figure, with tight jeans, open shirts and long, flowing hair - resembling, at times, a young Mick Jagger. He hung out with young leftists and counterculture types in Piazza Navona, Campo dei Fiori and Piazza Farnese in Rome.

At first, some thought the kidnapping was staged to extract money from the grandfather. Friends at that time said the youngster had actually joked about such a tactic.

His mother, American actress Gail Harris, called journalists to her home one evening in the upscale Parioli section of Rome to announce the family had received a ransom demand of $17 million.

Getty's grandfather refused to pay. He was quoted as saying that he had 14 grandchildren "and if I pay for one, then I'll have 14 kidnapped grandchildren."

But his will was broken when a Rome newspaper received a plastic envelope with a severed ear inside and a warning that another would follow if the family didn't pay.

The teenager, missing an ear, was released after five months and was found wandering on a country road in southern Calabria. He was freed for a reported ransom of $2.7 million - far less than the kidnappers' original demands.

Several people were eventually convicted and sentenced to prison. Prosecutors blamed the Calabrian mob.

Most of the ransom money was never recovered.

Once freed from his ordeal, Getty enthusiastically embraced a life of drugs and parties, becoming a well-known member of the hippie subculture. He soon developed habits for drugs and alcohol.

He did not speak out in public and was not really a celebrity, but the fact that a grandson of an oil tycoon had embraced the flower power ethos did not go unnoticed.

Photographs told his story well, and soon enough he was pictured with a striking young brunette - her hair was shorter than his - who would in 1974 become his wife. She was known as Martine Zacher or Gisela Zacher before their union, which produced their son, Balthazar.

While undergoing treatment for alcohol abuse in 1981, Getty suffered a stroke that left him paralyzed, unable to speak and in need of around-the-clock care. Newspaper reports indicated the stroke was drug-related, but details were not released.

Getty's father had struggled with his own well-publicized drug addiction and his stepmother died from a drug overdose.

Getty's wife sued two drug companies, claiming that sedatives prescribed to treat a severe and debilitating medical condition caused permanent brain damage. The couple later divorced.

Getty was rarely seen in public after the stroke, and soon drifted from the public consciousness, too, sometimes remembered as one more hippie drug casualty even as his family name became associated with global philanthropy and the arts.

The family rose to global prominence with the success of his grandfather, J. Paul Getty, who built Getty Oil into a $6 billion fortune - making him one of the world's richest men in his day.

J. Paul Getty was known for his tightfisted approach, reportedly installing a pay telephone in one of his homes so that family and friends would not be able to place long distance calls at his expense.

He also built one of the world's great art collections, which formed the basis of the J. Paul Getty Museum - a cultural centerpiece in Los Angeles.

His son, the late John Paul Getty Jr., made charitable donations that totaled more than $200 million in Britain alone, to causes related to everything from cricket to needy children.

But this charitable generosity did not extend to his own family - the reclusive multimillionaire initially refused to pay for his son's steep monthly medical bills, agreeing to do so only in the face of a lawsuit from his first wife, Harris, with whom he had three other children.

Getty is survived by his two children, Balthazar and stepdaughter Anna, and six grandchildren. He is also survived by his mother and four siblings: Getty Images co-founder Mark Getty, prominent AIDS activist Aileen Getty, Ariadne Getty and his half-brother Tara Getty.

Balthazar Getty has starred in film and TV productions and is currently appearing on the ABC network drama "Brothers & Sisters."


Copyright © 2011 The Associated Press

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gloria

February 23, 2011

so sorry in the death of your father, i too lost my dad just last year not yet 5 months ago. prayers for you and your family.

February 11, 2011

My heart goes out to the family this is miss Sharon Paul Im going to miss u

Christy Stone

February 10, 2011

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Debra Salazar

February 10, 2011

Our sympathies to your family....You will be reunited two Gettys in heaven. God is with you always and to be loved and remembered by the people.

February 10, 2011

so sad so tragic so final

Dr Rebekka Freeman

February 10, 2011

May Your Lovely Spirit Bless This Earth Once More On A Much Happier, More Peaceful Journey.

February 10, 2011

I hope that you are dancing with angels and God
Vicki Rockford, IL

Trina king

February 10, 2011

may the God of comfort be with you 2Cor 1:3,4

Richard&Debbie Agnello

February 10, 2011

Dear Getty Family, we have never met; however, my wife and I are very sorry for your loss.

Charles Thomas

February 10, 2011

Happy Trails, God Bless

Stephanie Goates Lambring

February 10, 2011

May you find the Peace in death you did not find in life. God bless the family as they grieve their loss.

Sherry O'Hara

February 10, 2011

my heart & prayers go out to the Getty family, I remember the troubles this man endured, now he's @ peace. May GOD bless all family members in there time of grief.

Laura MacKenzie

February 10, 2011

Balthazar and family. I do not know any of you. But J. Paul's passing reminded me of when I was young seeing this kidnapping in the paper and it quickly was swiped away from me, I was coddled in life unfortunately. Not by money, but by facts of life. I don't forget a face. And I remember the newspapers. From what I read, NOW, it seems J. Paul (John????) was/is a very dear and loved person. My prayers are with you and your family who care and loved him. I am sorry for your loss. Imagine how happy he is right now! If it is what they say....no pain. But I am sure he hated leaving those he loved and knows who truly loved him. He reminds me of my 15 year old son. So care free, strong willed. Thank you for being there for your Dad. God Bless.

Just a person who remembers seeing the alarming news in 1973 when I was 8 and no one would fill me in until .... now. Families are something. xoxo Wish I met your Dad, from what I have read, I would have found him super cool.

T Wakefield

February 9, 2011

Earth has no sorrow, heaven cannot heal. May God comfort and sustain you during your time of bereavment

Eloise Jones

February 9, 2011

Rest in peace J. Paul Getty III.

Y.A.

February 9, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Cheri Klinefelter

February 9, 2011

God Bless You Paul, as a young kid I watched in horror your kidnap ordeal. You will be missed and we love you.

Lisa Coleman

February 9, 2011

May the Lord Jesus comfort your family during this time. You gave Mr. Getty the greatest gift one can give to another human being...loving him to the very end & allowing him to move on with him knowing how loved he was & continues to be.

The Robinson's

February 9, 2011

Please allow us to extend our heartfelt sympathy.The Bible teach that "God is love".(1John 4:16)Surely a God of love cares about you and your family at this time of grief. Take comfort in that love. You are in our prayers.

Rete Nitsal

February 9, 2011

I never got the opportunity to meet you; however, Than-X 4 ur contribution to the world and your inspiration!

Rete

Friend

February 9, 2011

To the family & friends of Mr. J. Paul Getty, I offer my sincere sympathy for your loss. May the God of all comfort and peace be with you during this most difficult time. (2 Cor. 1:3,4)

Gary Merritt

February 9, 2011

RIP, my friend.
With sincere sympathy,
Gary Merritt

Mary Veronica Spencer Baptiste

February 9, 2011

May your fond memories of your loved one sustain you during this period of your life. It is my prayer that GOD will bless and keep you in HIS arms.

Jennifer Petra-Potter

February 9, 2011

Prayers to the family. Jennifer Petra-Potter

A kind, intelligent and lovely man.

Lisa King

February 9, 2011

Paul was a good and wonderful friend to me when I lived in Los Angeles between 1996 to 2000. I only wish I could have attended his funeral or memorial service. I send his family my deepest condolences. The world has lost a truly lovely human being. Lisa King

John & Carole Conlon

February 9, 2011

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

CEW

February 9, 2011

GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Christine Walker

February 9, 2011

How many tragic things can one person deal with? He was amazing inspiration to his children, and I believe that God
has a special place in Heaven for him, right next to Him.

Christine Walker

w gillo

February 9, 2011

May GOD be with during this time of sorrow.. Peace be with you. Just remember Jesus loves you!!

Caroline Holland

February 9, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

February 9, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

February 9, 2011

R.I.P. WE have a simular situation with illness and it is tuff to deal with. He is in a better place and had a very tough life. May GOD be with Him and his family. The Perry,s Suffolk Va.

Long Family

February 9, 2011

Getty Family,
At times like these death is indeed an enemy. Look forward to the day when we all can say, "Death where is our victory? Death where is your sting? " (1 Cor. 15:55) Until that day arrives, may the God of all comfort sustain you during your bereavement.

Grace Kane

February 9, 2011

My deepest condolences to all who are mourning. May Gods Peace be with you and His strength comfort you.

Margherita Giordano

February 9, 2011

Dear Paul,
I will always remember you as the wonderful red-haired young man I first saw on the papers when I was twelve and you were kidnapped. You found peace at last... I'll never forget you.

Shirley Griffin

February 9, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss, may the God of all comfort be with you in your time of grief.

Daniels Family

February 9, 2011

Our sympathies are offered to the family. May you find comfort in your memories and in the God of all comfort.

February 9, 2011

MAY THE PEACE OF GOD SURROUND YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AT THIS TIME OF YOUR LOSS. MARILYN MONROE

Jane May

February 9, 2011

I read about the life of Mr. Getty in 1990 as a struggling college student and something really touched me. I have never met him but his story always lingered in my mind. My deepest condolences to his family.

Shyamasundar Das

February 9, 2011

Hare Krishna, Paul!

s m

February 9, 2011

May the knowledge that you will see him again bring you peace.

David Otto

February 8, 2011

My condolences to the Getty family on their loss. I had the pleasure of skiing with Mr. Getty for a day at Alpine Meadows California about 7 years ago. We all, his nurse, who was new on skiis, another instructor, Mr. Getty and I enjoyed the day. Mr. Getty, ever the thrill seeker requested that we take him to the top of the mountain which we did. We 'picked our way down' with Mr. Getty in a seated Bi-Ski with outriggers and tether from the Tahoe Adaptive Ski School TASS. On the chair lift Mr. Getty told us stories - with the adept translation of his nurse - about his youth, something about two lions and a Central Park West Apartment come to mind. He had a difficult life in some ways for sure. But it seems to me, that J. Paul Getty III, knew how to live. I am saddened to hear of his passing.

Michael Curran

February 8, 2011

May you find the peace and happiness you deserve in the next life.

Anonymous

February 8, 2011

It's very sad and tragic. Show no matter which walk of life one comes from bad times can happen to anyone. No one is spared over another. May he now have the peace he didn't have here on earth. May his family be comforted knowing he is no longer suffering.

kathy

February 8, 2011

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

R Golay

February 8, 2011

To the the family of J Paul Getty - May God give you peace and comfort through his word and the Lord Jesus Christ during this time of sorrow, I know that Mr Getty will be missed by many.

David J Bhaltazhar Esq

February 8, 2011

God Bless You.

Catherine Manning

February 8, 2011

What a tragic life and departure from what could have been. I am deeply and sincerly sorry for J.Paul Getty III.
I remember the kidnapping.
I will remember his survivors in my thoughts and prayers. He has been released from all that burdened him. I believe there is a beautiful spirit soaring to a wonderful and pleasing place in time.

Lawrence Morgan

February 8, 2011

May god rest your soul.

L.R.Morgan

Cheryl Polk

February 8, 2011

May God Comfort, Strengthen, and keep you now and in the days to come. Be assured that
He cares for you.
He will wipe your tears away
He will brighten up your day!

May He truly bless you is my prayer!

CHUCK GIOVANNINI

February 8, 2011

Deepest regrets to your family, You will sadly be missed by all.

The Giovannini Family

Patsy Corvi Kern

February 8, 2011

Dear Gail,
My heart goes out to you at this time, no parent should have to bury a child. I am sure your Mom was there to greet him with open arms. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Love you

February 8, 2011

I like to give my condolence to the getty family in the lost of your son,father and brother.may God bless and keep all of you in our time of sorrow. " New Orleans,La.

Gary Bailey

February 8, 2011

I like to give my condolence to the getty family in the lost of your son,father and brother.may God bless and keep all of you in our time of sorrow. " New Orleans,La.

Diggs Family

February 8, 2011

We light a candle and share a prayer with the Getty Family. RIP Mr Getty. Your troubles and trials are over. You have entered the gates of heaven and left this hell behind. See you on the other side.

Frankie Denise

February 8, 2011

I wish you peace for once. Please know that you are special. Rest in peace forever.

Mr. East

February 8, 2011

Isaiah 57:1 The righteous perisheth, and no man layeth it to heart: and merciful men are taken away, none considering that the righteous is taken away from the evil to come.

Cheryl A. Kenyon Morgan

February 8, 2011

Deepest symphathy to the family. RIP & God's Blessings Mr. Getty. Heaven's gain is the earth's loss.

Rosemary Pettigrew

February 8, 2011

To The Getty Family, our deepest condolences.

John 11:1-44

Phil Watkins

February 8, 2011

You were so beautiful and loved to party!.You fought a good fight , dear one.

Sheila Smith

February 8, 2011

Rest in Peace Mr. Getty.

SunnyHarbor

February 8, 2011

The true riches of this life are in the love of family. How proud JP III would be to hear the tribute from his son Balthazar. God bless and hold each of you in the palm of His hand through this most difficult time.

bob ney

February 8, 2011

To the Family of J.Paul Getty III
Deepest sympathy to you at your time of loss.
I appreciated the comment by Balthazar Getty about how his Father stood up to adversity. You have been a supportive family, my thoughts and prayers are with you

Bob Ney

bob slater

February 8, 2011

Deepest condolences for a nobel family's loss.

Gail Siegel

February 8, 2011

Condolences to the family for their loss. 54 is way too young to die.

May your memories of him always bring a smile to your faces & your hearts.

Linda Cassady

February 8, 2011

Money can't buy everything, you had a hard live god is with you nowgo into his arms...god bless you

Kathleen Penelli

February 8, 2011

To the Getty family

Sorry to hear about your loss, please accept my deepest sympathies.

Carol Brockman Castro

February 8, 2011

I was in Rome in 1973 when Mr. Getty was kidnapped. As a 19-year old, it was quite shocking and we prayed for his safe return. I pray for his comfort and peace and that of the family. My deepest condolences to you all.

Yvette Joseph

February 8, 2011

May he rest in Peace

Yvette Joseph

February 8, 2011

May he rest in peace.

Mary Beerman

February 8, 2011

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy to the Getty family. I remember when he was kidnapped and was so happy when he was finally released. So sad that he had to suffer through that. Rest in peace, J. Paul.

February 8, 2011

So sorry for your loss,but heavens gain,can help to ease the pain,may God bless you all. Phillip Manley
Florence,Alabama USA

Victoria&Andrew

February 8, 2011

What a life
courage of strong
Health GodBless you
thru the Journey~
In memory JPGetty`

tracy hunt

February 8, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

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