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Ten years ago, Ranjit Singh, 49, came to the United States for better opportunities. Once here, he made it his responsibility to take care of everyone who visited the temple.
The temple's secretary, 56-year-old Inderjeet Singh Dhillon, said Monday that Singh made sure guests were well fed, even if he couldn't always express it in English. Dhillon remembered an occasion when five English-speaking visitors stopped in and Singh insisted — using only gestures that made those at the temple who knew him laugh — on "food for everybody."
It was the same with Singh's brother, 41-year-old Sita Singh, who had arrived in the United States a year ago. Though Sita Singh was quieter than his brother, he was no less dedicated to the temple's visitors. Both men lived at the temple.
Dhillon said that the younger Singh would wake up every morning between 4:30 and 5 to read the Sikh holy book. Afterward, he would see which visitors had come in and ensure all had prasad, the food offering given at the end of every prayer session.
"It was very important to him that whoever came always left with prasad," Dhillon said.
The elder Singh brother became a mentor to some of the temple members, including Shehbazdeep Kaleka, a 19-year-old from Racine and the nephew of the temple president.
Kaleka said Monday that he turned to Ranjit Singh when he was down and needed advice, because Singh was a positive person.
Singh's most common advice to the 19-year-old was to sing and sing loudly — it didn't matter what or how well — and that would lift his spirits.
"It worked every time," Kaleka said, pausing. "He was a very good and honest man. He didn't deserve to die."
DINESH RAMDE,Associated Press
GRETCHEN EHLKE,Associated Press
Copyright © 2012 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.
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B.P
December 30, 2013
To the family of SITA SINGH, even though life goes on, your loved one will always be remembered for his positive spirit and welcoming of others. May your faith be strengthen and peace be with you. GOD bless your family.
Vasilios Emmanuel Glimidakis
November 9, 2012
Dear Singh and other families,
I am sorry for your loss. God bless him and his family.
Amanjeet Kaleka
August 9, 2012
For all you had done for the gurudwara and seva, we all appreciate it but perhaps didn't get the chance to tell you. I hope you are proud in knowing what the next generation of sikhi will do in honor of you, your brother, chachaji, and the other victims of 8/5/12. waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh.
Beverly
August 9, 2012
Dear Family: Rely on friends: Do not hesitate to let others help if they offer to do so and you can really use some assistance. Understand that it may be their way of showing you how they feel, perhaps they cannot find the right words. Proverbs 18:24 There exist companions disposed to break one another to pieces, but there exists a friend sticking closer than a brother. May the God of comfort continue to comfort you in these difficult times.
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