Joyce Brothers

Joyce Brothers

Joyce Brothers Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 13, 2013.
LOS ANGELES (AP) - Joyce Brothers, the pop psychologist who pioneered the television advice show in the 1950s and enjoyed a long and prolific career as a syndicated columnist, author, and television and film personality, has died. She was 85.

Brothers died Monday in New York City, according to her longtime publicist, Sanford Brokaw. The cause of death was not immediately made public.

Brothers first gained fame on a game show and went on to publish 15 books and make cameo appearances on popular shows including "Happy Days" and "The Simpsons." She visited Johnny Carson on "The Tonight Show" nearly 100 times.

The way Brothers liked to tell it, her multimedia career came about "because we were hungry."

It was 1955. Her husband, Milton Brothers, was still in medical school and Brothers had just given up her teaching positions at Hunter College and Columbia University to be home with her newborn, firmly believing a child's development depend ed on it.

But the young family found itself struggling on her husband's residency income. So Brothers came up with the idea of entering a television quiz show as a contestant.

"The $64,000 Question" quizzed contestants in their chosen area of expertise. She memorized 20 volumes of a boxing encyclopedia - and, with that as her subject, became the only woman and the second person to ever win the show's top prize.

Brothers tried her luck again on the superseding "$64,000 Challenge," answering each question correctly and earning the dubious distinction as one of the biggest winners in the history of television quiz shows. She later denied any knowledge of cheating, and during a 1959 hearing in the quiz show scandal, a producer exonerated her of involvement.

Her celebrity opened up doors. In 1956, she became co-host of "Sports Showcast" and frequently appeared on talk shows.

Two years later, NBC offered her a trial on an afternoon television program i n which she advised on love, marriage, sex and child-rearing. Its success led to a nationally telecast program, and subsequent late-night shows that addressed such taboo subjects as menopause, frigidity, impotence and sexual enjoyment.

She also dispensed advice on several phone-in radio programs, sometimes going live. She was criticized by some for giving out advice without knowing her callers' histories. But Brothers responded that she was not practicing therapy on the air and that she advised callers to seek professional help when needed.

Despite criticism of the format, the call-in show took off, and by 1985, the Association of Media Psychologists was created to monitor for abuses.

For almost four decades, Brothers was a columnist for Good Housekeeping. She also wrote a daily syndicated advice column that appeared in more than 350 newspapers. Briefly, in 1961, she was host of her own television program.

Later, Brothers branched out into film, playin g herself in more than a dozen movies, including "Analyze That" (2002), "Beethoven's 4th" (2001), "Lover's Knot" (1996) and "Dear God" (1996).

She was also an advocate for women. In the 1970s, Brothers called for changing textbooks to remove sexist bias, noting that nonsexist cultures tend to be less warlike.

The quiz show scandal of 1958-59 was one of the biggest scandals in the history of television. It erupted in 1958 when it was revealed that quiz show producers had been rigging the outcome of some shows, including "The $64,000 Question," by giving favored contestants the answers in advance.

Brothers was one of a number of big winners who told an Associated Press survey in November 1959 that they knew nothing of any cheating.

At a House hearing that month, associate producer Mort Koplin also said Brothers was among those not involved in cheating. But he also described how contestants, who were carefully interviewed in advance, could be affected unk nowingly as producers tried to manipulate the outcome of shows by tailoring questions to benefit favored ones and oust less-favored ones.

According to the testimony, Brothers applied to be a "64,000 Question" contestant as an expert in home economics and psychology. The producers, looking for an audience-pleasing oddity, suggested the pretty young woman try boxing as her specialty. She learned the subject so well, Koplin said, she kept on winning even after the producers "threw the book" at her with tough questions aimed at eliminating her.

Born Joyce Diane Bauer in New York, Brothers earned her bachelor's degree from Cornell University and a Ph.D. in psychology from Columbia.

She wrote numerous advice books, including "Ten Days To A Successful Memory" (1964), "Positive Plus: The Practical Plan for Liking Yourself Better" (1995) and "Widowed" (1992), a guide to dealing with grief written after the death of her husband in 1990.

Brothers is survived by s ister Elaine Goldsmith, daughter Lisa Brothers Arbisser, four grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

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ULA ILNYTZKY, Associated Press

AP Entertainment Writer Sandy Cohen contributed to this report.


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January 9, 2015

Please accept my sincere condolences and sincere prayers that go out to the surviving family and friends. May the God of comfort continue to bless you and yours especially after such an untimely loss of a very precious life please accept my deepest sympathies. (2 Cor. 1:2, 3).

March 4, 2014

A gracious and respectable person such as Dr Joyce Brothers whose work has done so much to bring so much joy to many of us in these troubled times hard to deal with (2 Tim 3;1). Perhaps more will continue to have positive experiences from a wonderful work that has an impactful contribution to life and its anxieties.

Long Family

December 30, 2013

Brothers Family,
May "the God of tender mercies" sustain you during your bereavement. 1 Cor. 1:2,3

Lisa Weiner

December 9, 2013

To Joyce Brothers,
You were a wonderful therapist for people who needed help. My prayers go to you and your family. Lisa Weiner

Valerie Gilbert

September 21, 2013

I met Dr. Joyce Brothers at an event in Little Rock, Arkasas in the mid 70's and I remembered that she complimented me on my name and said it was" beautiful". I shall always cherish her memory.

June 13, 2013

Let the Almighty God of Peace strengthen you during this great loss. Romans 15:33

Annette

May 23, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Annmmarie Hennis

May 21, 2013

She was an amazing woman and the obituary was written extremely well. May God grant the family comfort in these hard times.

Carmen B

May 19, 2013

To the Brothers family: May the memories you cherish fill your heart with peace today and give you strength and courage to sustain you on your way. Deuteronomy 31:6

CH(MAJ) Randy Perry

May 18, 2013

"Blessed in the sight of the LORD is the death of His saints."
Psalm 116:15
RIP

May 18, 2013

Our family adored Dr. Brothers.
We wish you the best
Dana Scott

loved the blue house our favorite time for many years our whole family would stay there don

richard sunnenberg

May 18, 2013

frances nichols

May 18, 2013

To/joyce/familyandfriendsihavereadyourcolumthatiamsorryyoualllostagoodpersonmaygodblessyoualliamfromthestateofwestvirginia

Erica Broadway

May 18, 2013

It is comforting to know that Jesus, the ruler of God's kingdom, is called the "Prince of Peace", and he will ensure that " to peace there will be no end ."- Isaiah 9:6,7

May 18, 2013

My condolence

Kathy Binkley

May 18, 2013

Rest in peace.

Dan/Shirl Davidson

May 18, 2013

Thanks for the insight...RIP

May 17, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Keli

May 17, 2013

May peace be with the family of Dr. Brothers.

Judith Mittelberg

May 17, 2013

My husband died sixteen years ago - he, 56 and I, 54. Joyce Brothers' book, Widowed, was the first of many that I read through those early months. Perhaps because we are both Jewish, I found such a connection with her feelings as she walked through the death of her own husband. Any time I find that book at a second hand store, I buy it. In this journey known as life, there is always a new member of the club - not one we choose to join - and Widowed is a comforting and easy read. My deepest condolences to the children, grandchildren, and many family and friends of this remarkable woman.

Laurie Carey

May 17, 2013

Thoughts & prayers to your family & friends. Wonderful & thoughtful advise through the years. You certainly made a difference in so many lives. You will be dearly missed by many!

Jennifer Steel

May 17, 2013

May you be embraced by a Heavenly host of Angels and brought into the Kingdom of God.

Thank you for your love and care, for so many suffering, yet strong and hopeful souls.

May you be fondly remembered forever.

Jeanette

May 17, 2013

Rest in Peace.

Nancy Wuitschick

May 16, 2013

Rest in peace lovely lady. You have inspired more then you and your family will ever realize. Thank you.

A. LEWIS

May 16, 2013

GOD BLESS YOU DR. BROTHERS
YOU WILL TRULY BE MISSED AND
THANKS FOR ALL OF THE ADVICE
THAT YOU HAD GIVEN TO CALLERS
OVER THE YEARS.

Tanya Sturrock

May 16, 2013

Enjoy Heaven

Cheryl

May 16, 2013

Never forgotten!

Jacquelyn Stjules

May 16, 2013

You will be missed

Linda H.Carroll

May 16, 2013

Rest in Peace my friend,Thank You for your Advice. Linda

Delbert "Dellie Goose" Hutchinson

May 16, 2013

I Used To Watch Living Easy With Dr.Joyce Brothers On KTVW Channel 13 In The 1970's.

DEBORAH

May 16, 2013

my the God of comfort be with your family at this sad time ISAIAH 61:2

antoinette brumley

May 16, 2013

you was the greatest

EL

May 16, 2013

I WANT TO OFFER MY CONDOLENCES TO YOUR FAMILY IN THE LOSS OF YOUR DEAR LOVED ONE. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

bf osborne

May 16, 2013

Exceptional human being. Prayers of comfort to the family.

becky chapman

May 16, 2013

Omg!! I'm so sorry to here. I remember her from when I was a young as 13!!!! She always was nice and kind to all she dealt with..

Vangie Moffett

May 16, 2013

Didn't know her personally only through tv but made an impact every time she spoke. I will truly miss her voice.

Dr. JD Cleveland

May 16, 2013

I remember watching the black and white tv when Dr. Brothers was on the 64K. What a role model for a young girl that a woman could be so smart and about a "boy" interest. Then she came back and PROVED that she did NOT CHEAT!!!
Integrity is something the Y generation (and some X's too) could learn from this woman's life.
She had a sense of humor - look at her acting roles, a sense of community, and was a leader in a field that often takes itself way to seriously.
Thank you for all you did, Dr. Brothers. You will be missed. And thank you to your family for sharing her with the Nation.

May 16, 2013

My deepest condolences for your loss. God comforts all the mourning ones. May he provide you with comfort and strength at this most difficult time.
Isaiah 61:2

Prof. Milburn Cleaver

May 16, 2013

ALthough I did not always agree with Dr. Brothers or her methods, there is no question but that she was a trailblazer. Without her Dr. Phil,etc. would not have been possible. MY heartfelt sympathies to her family.

May 16, 2013

A very intelligent lady who took TV talk shows to a new level...Rest In Peace...

V.Coates Columbus OH

JWormley

May 16, 2013

Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your dear mother. No one can begin to know how you feel, but God knows and he tell us to throw our burden upon him, because he cares for us. So pour out your feelings to the God who promises to comfort our hearts.

Ms. Seymour

May 16, 2013

She had an outstanding career. I know she will be missed by thousands. Her family who loved and knew her best will be in my prayers.

Edith Slater-Sherman

May 16, 2013

A brighter star just entered the galaxy, which will always light the path for all to see.

Rebecca Beeler

May 16, 2013

Please accept my sympathies. She was a trail blazer for women! May God bless your family during this difficult time.
-Rebecca Beeler

BRENDA TOUSSAINT HARRELL

May 16, 2013

FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF DR. JOYCE BROTHERS
MAY YOU HAVE COMFORT: PHILIPPIANS 4:4-9.
DR. JOYCE BROTHERS WAS MY INTRODUCTION TO A THERAPIST. DISCUSSING PROBLEMS, AQUIRING INTERVENTION METHODS, AND REQUESTING COUNSELING WAS FOREIGN TO
THE RURAL HAMLET I LIVED IN. I WAS ESTACTIC TO KNOW A PERFECT STRANGER THAT I PERFERRED TO BE A STRANGER WOULD AND COULD GIVE FREE COUNSELING.
YES, I WROTE TO DR. BROTHERS, AND HER
ANSWERS WAS REVELANT FOR A SHY TEEN. THANKS TO DR. BROTHER A WHOLE NEW WORLD OF CONFIDENCE OPENED UP, AND I WAS ABLE TO BE A GLOBAL/CONNECT WITH
PEOPLE OF DIFFERENT CULTRAL AND DIVERSE
BACKGROUNDS.
SINCERE SYMPATHY AND PRAYERS, AND THANKS FOR BEING THE PIONEER OF MEDIA
OPRAH AND DR. PHIL

Donna Cuthbertson

May 16, 2013

I grew up listening,watching, & learning. Thank you for all that you have taught me

Stacy Lovelace

May 16, 2013

I HAVE READ,AND HEARD ABOUT YOU ALL MY LIFE!YOU WILL NE SORELY MISSED BY ALL WHO NEW YOU!R.I.H. DR.JOYCE BROTHERS

Marie Rotz

May 16, 2013

Please accept my condolences. - Psalm 65:2

May 16, 2013

Dr. Brothers was a fine person. Liked and respected by all. May you find comfort in your fond memories of her. Sincere condolences.

May 16, 2013

My sincere condolences to the family.

Janis Gallagher

May 15, 2013

Dr. Brothers book "Widowed" helped me survive the loss of my beloved husband. I have shared this magnificent book with many who have struggled after the loss of their spouse. What a legacy Dr. Brothers left for us. We should all live with the grace she exhibited. My since sympathies at this time.

michelle perone

May 15, 2013

Elaine, so sorry for your loss.

Avis Vigna

May 15, 2013

Dr. Lisa, You were so great with your operations on my husband's eyes. You have my sincere sympathy.

Tonya campbell

May 15, 2013

The whole world will miss u.

Carmon jpnes

May 15, 2013

What a great loss too all women r.i.p

Barbara Quinones

May 15, 2013

Dr.Brothers, you will be greatly missed, RIP.

maureen

May 15, 2013

Dr Brothers so sorry that you have passed you will be missed...

May 15, 2013

I am so sorry for your great loss. May the God of all comfort continue to sustain you during this most difficult time. (Rom. 15:5) Again, my deepest sympathies.

John

May 15, 2013

Thanks Dr. Brothers for all the timely advice you gave us...

Ronald Bredemeyer

May 15, 2013

We have had another of our famous,great people to pass away. I remember her on the $64,000.00 Question Show, and always enjoyed her appearences on The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson and Ed McMahon. Rest in peace Joyce. And may GOD bless her Family and many,many friends.

Michael Nemeth

May 15, 2013

This planet was graced thus far by her wonderous efforts, and her voice carried in the back of my mind for all these years. Now I carry her memory forward.

Wendy McCollum

May 15, 2013

May she rest in peace! My condolences to the family!

May 15, 2013

Good lady

Katrina webley

May 15, 2013

I have read your column for years you Will be missed

michelle plakas-kaiser

May 15, 2013

rip

Sharon Travers

May 15, 2013

Thank you for many years of good asvice and hope, God speed.

Dorothy George

May 15, 2013

wish u guys payers

May 15, 2013

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

marie spec

May 15, 2013

My has time flown. Why it seems only yesterday when I turned on the tv and there was bubbly, bopped blond Dr. Joyce Brothers sharing her information. I watched her as a child and as a young adult. Boy what these kids today have missed! Though the things she talked about wouldn't be ' taboo' anymore. Well I lost my own mother last year - and I truly feel we are losing a generation of great wisdom- God speed.
Mlspeck FL

Maria

May 15, 2013

Sorry for your loss, There is a Hope that we have for the future and I would like to share this with you is the book Revelation chapter 21:3,4.

Bob Soloway

May 15, 2013

Dr. Brothers was a very nice lady.I will remember her as a good person.

Ray Allen

May 15, 2013

Sympathy & kindest regards to the Brothers family & multitude of friends wherever they may be. We remember when times were a bit less complex & TV was black & white. God bless 1 & all. Take care.

May 15, 2013

May God grant you peace during your time of sorrow. Psalms 55:22

May 15, 2013

thank you for the way you showed us and help along it/prs

Harry Simpson

May 15, 2013

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

lisa harvey

May 15, 2013

you were truly an inspiration

Michael John-Myers

May 15, 2013

I did'nt know Dr.Joyce but by t.v and reading however, she has been a part of mylife and has helped me with her wisdon and care. My paryers are with the Borthers, may God keep you in the hollow of his hands.

M. & G. Williams

May 15, 2013

Greetings To The Family: May ALLAH Have Mercy On YoU & Your Family. TO GOD WE BELONG TO GOD IS OUR RETURN:

TERESA DOBBINS MARSHALL

May 15, 2013

R.I.P. DOCTOR JOYCE BROTHERS. YOU WERE A TRUE PIONEER IN YOUR FIELD. YOU EDUCATED ALL OF US AND ENTERTAINED US IN THE PROCESS. YOU WILL BE MISSED BY MILLIONS.

Linda Ligons

May 15, 2013

Loved listening to her down through the years. R I P and my prayers to the family

May 15, 2013

You will be long loved and remembered.

May 15, 2013

May the God of comfort bring you peace.

May 15, 2013

My condolences to the Brothers family. May the God of all comfort, comfort you during this difficult time.

Rhondi Orgeron

May 15, 2013

The world has lost a wonderful person. She was such a gracious person. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. Just know she is at peace and sitting at the right hand of God looking over you as she never could before. She will forever remain in your heart as well as all her fans.

May 15, 2013

May God be with you and your family during this time of grief and sorrow.

Bankston

May 15, 2013

We offer our sincere condolences.Her knowledge and wisdom will be dearly missed.Take comfort in God's promise to swallow up death forever.

m.j

May 15, 2013

I am so sorry for the loss of Joyce, may her family find encouragement in thought and prayers of relatives and friends and may God sustain you all comfort and strenght during the difficult time. 2 cor.1:4.

T Crawford

May 15, 2013

To the Brothers family:
My deepest sympathies for the loss of Joyce. May God's Word strengthen you during this difficult time. (Isa. 41:10,13)

May 15, 2013

May you find comfort in the Hearer of prayer at this time. Psalm 65:2

Class of "74"

May 15, 2013

Thank You Dr.Joyce,
What an insperation you were to young women. Never met you personally but, I think you were ahead of the times as a women. I remember when you were on TV my mom would say to me, "listen to her she voices her opion" and someday she whished that I could do the same. I THANK GOD that I did. Thanks to your insperation I had the opportunity that I had two great teachers at Garfield High School.(Akron,OH ) They did their job as teachers, always told me to use my brain and not to waste it. I in my older years,THANK YOU and my MOM, Mr. John Wroe, and Ms.Susan. How eles would I left for ALASKA and surived! THANKS FOR THE KNOWLEDGE! GOD SPEED.

CAC

May 15, 2013

May the family find peace in the difficult days ahead.

Mary Turner-Gooding

May 14, 2013

RIP. You made a difference. May God Bless the family and friends with His Devine Peace!!!!!!!!!!! Turner-Gooding Family

gerty martin

May 14, 2013

I Totally Love Her...Gona Bee Missed...tears Thx 4the Love,Ms Brothers

lil eng

May 14, 2013

what a wonderful life joyce had and how comforting to family and friends that she will return to her youthful vigor as promised at job 33:25.

Margaret

May 14, 2013

I always enjoyed your knowledgeable advice rest in peace.

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