Polly Bergen

1930 - 2014

Polly Bergen

1930 - 2014

BORN

1930

DIED

2014

Polly Bergen Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 20, 2014.
NEW YORK (AP) - Emmy-winning actress and singer Polly Bergen, who in a long career played the terrorized wife in the original "Cape Fear" and the first woman president in "Kisses for My President," died Saturday, according to her publicist. She was 84.

Bergen died at her home in Southbury, Connecticut, from natural causes, said publicist Judy Katz, surrounded by family and close friends.

A brunette beauty with a warm, sultry singing voice, Bergen was a household name from her 20s onward. She made albums and played leading roles in films, stage musicals and TV dramas. She also hosted her own variety series, was a popular game show panelist, and founded a thriving beauty products company that bore her name.

In recent years, she played Felicity Huffman's mother on "Desperate Housewives" and the past mistress of Tony Soprano's late father on "The Sopranos."

Bergen won an Emmy in 1958 portraying the tragic singer Helen Morgan on the famed anthology series "Playhouse 90." She was nominated for another Emmy in 1989 for best supporting actress in a miniseries or special for "War and Remembrance."

Talking to women in a business group in 1968, she said her definition of success was "when you feel what you've done fulfills yourself, makes you happy and makes people around you happy."

Bergen was 20 and already an established singer when she starred with Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis in her first movie, "At War With the Army." She joined them in two more comedies, "That's My Boy" and "The Stooge."

In 1953, she made her Broadway debut with Harry Belafonte in the revue "John Murray Anderson's Almanac." In 1957-58 she starred on the musical-variety "The Polly Bergen Show" on NBC, closing every broadcast with her theme song, "The Party's Over." Also during the 1950s, she became a regular on the popular game show "To Tell the Truth."

Bergen published the first of her three advice books, "The Polly Bergen Book of Beauty, Fashion and Charm" in 1962. That led to her own cosmetics company, which earned her millions.

Bergen became a regular in TV movies and miniseries, most importantly in the 1983 epic "The Winds of War" and the 1988 sequel, "War and Remembrance." She appeared as the troubled wife of high-ranking Navy officer Pug Henry, played by Robert Mitchum.

Mitchum also had the key role in the landmark 1962 suspense film, "Cape Fear," as the sadistic ex-convict who terrorizes a lawyer (Gregory Peck) and his wife (Bergen) and daughter because he blames Peck for sending him to prison. The film was remade in 1991 by Martin Scorsese.

In 1964's "Kisses for My President," Bergen was cast as the first female U.S. president, with Fred MacMurray as First Gentleman. (In the end, the president quits when she gets pregnant.) When Geena Davis portrayed a first woman president in the 2005 TV drama "Commander in Chief," Bergen was cast as her mother.

Among her other films was "Move Over, Darling" (1963) with Doris Day and James Garner, Susan Seidelman's 1987 "Making Mr. Right," and John Waters' 1990 "Cry-Baby," with Johnny Depp.

A fierce ambition prevailed throughout Bergen's entertainment career and in her business life. She walked out of early contracts with Paramount and MGM because she thought her film roles were inadequate.

As the president of the Polly Bergen Co., founded in 1966, she arrived at her office at 9 a.m. and worked a full day. "It was very difficult at the beginning," she said in 2001, "because everybody considered me just another bubble-headed actress."

She sold the company in 1973 to Faberge, staying on for a couple of years afterward to run it as a Faberge subsidiary.

Bergen employed the same zeal in reviving her performing career after a series of personal setbacks of the 1990s. She played successful dates at cabarets in New York and Beverly Hills.

When she was refused an audition for the 2001 Broadway revival of "Follies," she contacted composer Stephen Sondheim. He auditioned her and gave her the role of a faded star who sings of her ups and downs in show business. The show-stopping song, "I'm Still Here," was reminiscent of Bergen's own saga. She was nominated for a Tony award for her role.

In 2002 she played a secondary role in the revival of "Cabaret" and the following year she was back on Broadway with the comedy "Six Dance Lessons in Six Weeks."

Nellie Paulina Burgin was born in 1930 in Knoxville, Tennessee, into a family that at times relied on welfare to survive. They family eventually moved to California, and Polly, as she was called, began her career singing on radio in her teens.

"I was fanatically ambitious," she recalled in 2001. "All I ever wanted to be was a star. I didn't want to be a singer. I didn't want to be an actress. I wanted to be a star."

But over the years, Bergen's personal life was not as smooth as her career. Her four-year marriage to actor Jerome Courtland ended in an acrimonious divorce in 1955. Her second marriage to super-agent and producer Freddie Fields. The couple divorced in 1975 after 18 years.

In 1982 she married entrepreneur Jeff Endervelt. She co-signed his loans and gave him millions to invest from her beauty company profits. She said in a 2001 New York Times interview: "He would come home and say, 'Honey, sign this.' I wouldn't even look at it. Because you trust your husband."

The stock market crash of the 1980s wiped out the investments. She divorced him in 1991, and she said he left her with so many debts she had to sell her New York apartment and other belongings to avoid bankruptcy. She also battled emphysema and other ailments in the late 1990s, a result of 50 years of smoking.

She is survived by her children Peter Fields, Kathy Lander and P.K. Fields and three grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers, her family is asking that donations be made to Planned Parenthood, said her publicist, Katz.

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JAKE PEARSON, Associated Press Writer

Biographical material in this story was written by The Associated Press' late Hollywood correspondent Bob Thomas.


Copyright © 2014 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.

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Stephen harris

August 31, 2021

I always loved Polly!!! RIP beautiful lady!!! Stephen M.Harris

Bonnie Scaia

January 31, 2015

Heaven is a more beautiful place because your in it...Love, Bonnie

Bonnie Scaia

January 31, 2015

I am a big fan of Polly believe it or not I bought like 5 of her fountain of youth face lift kits when I was in my 20s and its 2015 now and I am 49. I still am using the facelift products I don't care the products have all expired they still work I look amazing wrinkle free after, nothing I have tried works this amazing. I savor every bit of it... She was an amazing person and I hope her legacy lives on in her beauty. She truly knows how to preserve it and I wish I could tell her how wonderful I feel because of her products today after over 20 years it still works wonders...Love to her family and I hope you know she was a Brilliant Beauty...Sincerely, Bonnie

December 23, 2014

Please accept my sincere condolences and sincere prayers that go out to the surviving family and friends. May the God of comfort continue to bless you and yours especially after such a untimely loss of a precious life. Please accept my deepest sympathies. (2 Cor. 1:2, 3).

Brenda

October 10, 2014

Besides being such a fine actress, growing up I idolized her as the epitome of glamour on the panel and talk tv shows.....(I.e. To Tell the Truth, Merv Griffin, etc.) ...and. such great taste in clothes!!! You were special in a young girl's eyes, and remained so through the years. God bless...

October 9, 2014

To the family of Polly Bergen please accept my condolence on your loss. She was such a fine and beautiful actress.

Ross Fruci

October 7, 2014

Ross Fruci Niagara Falls Ontario Canada so sorry for your loss she was a great actress

T

October 3, 2014

My condolences to the Bergen family for the loss of Polly. May the God of comfort strengthen you through this difficult time.

October 2, 2014

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend or family. The bible can be of some comfort at John 3:16

October 1, 2014

To the family of Ms. Polly Bergen please accept my condolences for your loss. One can never be prepared for the empty void that's left when a loved one dies. She accomplish alot in her life and turly was a star. Our Creator promises to give you the strength to live each day. He says "I have heard your prayers, I have seen your tears". I will heal you. 2 Kings 20:5

Marcia

September 29, 2014

I offer my deepest sympathy to Ms. Bergen's family. May the “peace of God that excels all thought” bring you comfort during this difficult time --Philippians 4:7

Ephesians 5:28-33

September 29, 2014

So happy Polly's dream was realized. She became a star as a singer, an actress, and a successful business woman. Unfortunately, we all cannot be successful at everything. Uniting with a loving marriage mate can be difficult. However, all is not lost. In the promised Paradise, we will find exquisite delight in the abundance of peace. Marriage unions at that time will be truly approved and blessed by our Heavenly Father. Loved ones, treasure the time you shared with Polly. One could gleam many gems from her life story for Polly Bergen was indeed a star!

September 29, 2014

WHAT A FANTASTIC ACTRESS AND A BEAUTIFUL LADY, SHE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO HER FAMILY, VV WESTCHESTER, N.Y.

Mrs. Hadi

September 27, 2014

A Very Beautiful Lady. Hard to Believe She is Gone.

Patsy moore#

September 27, 2014

Send my condolences Rrv22:3,5

michelle plakas-kaiser

September 26, 2014

rip

Polly Bergen

September 26, 2014

September 26, 2014

To the family of Ms. Polly Bergen please accept my condolences for your loss. One can never be prepared for the empty void that's left when a loved one dies. She accomplish alot in her life and turly was a star. Our Creator promises to give you the strength to live each day. He says "I have heard your prayers, I have seen your tears". I will heal you. 2 Kings 20:5 –

September 25, 2014

Our hearts are grieved over the loss of such a great & talented lady, but also because she is a family member, a first cousin. Her mother & my husband's mother (Bertha Lawhorn Brown) were sisters. We always admired Polly & were so happy for her success. Sincerely, Robert Kenneth & Sandra Brown

M R

September 25, 2014

For Kathy Peter & P.K. I'm deeply sorry for your loss of your Mother;-( I though she was wonderful in Cape Fear one of my best Films ever! Well I'm very sorry all my Prayers too you.

September 24, 2014

Condolences to the Bergen family. May God
bless you and your family, and give you
His peace.

Henry MayLin

September 23, 2014

PollyB. was in many movies and tv shows. Ill remember her for the way she looked.

Shirl Jones

September 23, 2014

To the family and friends,of a beautiful lady,great singer and actress; my husband and I send you prayers.We are so sorry for your loss.

September 23, 2014

To Polly's family: Polly's performance in the original Cape Fear movie was memorable. She was a very talented lady. May you be surrounded by love at this very sad time. A Fan

September 23, 2014

I'm so sorry about your loss. Please take comfort in the scripture at 2 Corithains 1 : 3-4. God will help you get through this difficult time.

donald seymore

September 23, 2014

Rip ms polly

September 23, 2014

Bergen Family,

So sorry to hear of the loss of your dear mother, Our prayers go out to the whole family. She was a beautiful lady and a good actress. She will be missed.

Deepest Sympathy

R,r

September 23, 2014

My deepes Condolences

May you find real comfort in knowing that through his soon will bring complete end death

Grady Youngblood

September 23, 2014

Polly Bergen is the Greatest Actress on
Tv.

September 23, 2014

Unfortunate loss. She was a great actress. Please accept my sympathy. May the family receives inner peace that only our Heavenly Father can grant to those who are suffering the loss of a loved one.

Shirl

September 23, 2014

To the family and friends of Ms. Polly Bergman. I am so sorry for your lost; may God be be with you during this very difficult time.

Jake Sullivan

September 23, 2014

Your with our Lord, amen!

Pattie Lee

September 23, 2014

I am so sorry, for your lost, I want give your family my deepest condolences, may almighty, who created all thing, give your family peace.at this time and your life, psalm.83:18

Janice B

September 23, 2014

My Condolences, to the FAMILY sorry for your loss please let the God of all Comfort , sustain the family in their time of distress ROMANS15:33 God of all comfort.

September 23, 2014

My condolences to the Family of Polly Bergen, I always thought she was so beautiful. Your precious memories of your mother/grandmother will sustain you forever. Along with the peace and comfort of God and friends during the coming weeks, months and years as you return to your routine of life ~ Linda

September 23, 2014

May the Almighty God of comfort be with family and friends at this time of deep sorrow. God want you to draw close to Him for support and strength.

September 23, 2014

May the GOD who gives you peace be with you in your time of need. (Romans 16:33) I am sorry for your loss.

Ramellia Johnson

September 23, 2014

Thanks for the Years of Pleasure, watching such an Kind and Beautiful Actress.

Stan

September 23, 2014

Farewell to a lovely talented lady. Vaya con dios.

Debbie Foster

September 22, 2014

Very Sorry!! Like her acting Much!!Bless all of you. Debbie Jo

Shirley Carlberg

September 22, 2014

Your beauty and talent will be missed. I have been listening to your albums with your incredible rich vocals. Moonlight in Vermont is one of my favorites. Rest in peace.

DS

September 22, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

September 22, 2014

Soon death will be no more

September 22, 2014

Condolences to the family. May precious memories comfort you during this time.

Nancy Woodwell-Freedman

September 22, 2014

Prayers, thoughts & condolences go out to the family, friends and associates of Polly Bergen. She was a lovely lady and a fine actress and I remember her many t.v. appearences and movie roles over the years. I especially enjoyed her in "Move Over Darling" and her turn on "The Sopranos". She will be missed. May she rest in eternal peace.

September 22, 2014

My condolences to family, relatives and friends. Ms. Bergen was one "Classy Lady" - didn't have to go around removing her clothes to be appreciated in her films. She just had it all--beauty, talent, charisma wrapped into one lovely woman. RIP Ms. Bergen - another angel added to ones we have recently lost in Hollywood.

M.A.P. -
Manayunk, Philadelphia, PA 19127

Patti R

September 22, 2014

I had the pleasure of meeting Polly Bergen in NYC a few times over the years. I will cherish those memories. My thoughts and prayers go out to Polly's family, friends and fans.

Gloria

September 22, 2014

May the loving memories of Ms. Bergen provide solace and strength to you and your family during this difficult time. Please take comfort in the fact that our loving heavenly father understands our pain and promises to bring our loved ones back to life in a future paradise where "no one will say I am sick." Isa. 33:24

September 22, 2014

I'm sorry for your loss. May God be your strength in this time of sorrow, 1 Corinthians 15:26.

September 22, 2014

My sincere condolences to the Bergen family. At times like these God can give you power beyond what is normal to help you during this difficult time.

2 Corinthians 4:7

LAC

September 22, 2014

A great actress who will be missed by family and fans. Please accept my sincere condolences.

September 22, 2014

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

john lewis

September 22, 2014

Bless the Bergen family. Polly will be missed Greatly.

September 21, 2014

I always thought she was so beautiful and will remember seeing her in Elaine's. God bless.
Brooke

Lisa Centurelli

September 21, 2014

Always enjoyed your movies

M M

September 21, 2014

Thanks for the memories. Rest in peace

Colleen

September 21, 2014

Sad to hear of the passing of Miss Bergen; we enjoyed her performances on Desperate Housewives, and had enjoyed so many in years before that. Many of the younger performers who are displayed to excess could learn a great deal from her life story and examples. Take care, God Bless!

PG

September 21, 2014

My deepest condolences. May you continue to find comfort from family and friends at this time of great sorrow. And may you find comfort in knowing that when God restores Paradise, he will undo all causes of suffering. (Ps. 37:11) Then our tears of sorrow will become tears of great joy.

Katherine Leann Ladd

September 21, 2014

Saddened by the passing of Polly Bergen!!!! She was a great actress and I really enjoyed her in "The Winds Of War" and "War And Remembrance"!!!!

Condolences, thoughts and prayers to her family and friends!!

Rest in peace dear Polly - you were a grand lady!!!!

September 21, 2014

such an elegant lady. she will be missed.
joyce carlson,south carolina

Tandy Warwick

September 21, 2014

So sad to hear of her passing and was always a fan of hers, especially since I'm a Knoxville, TN native, and for her talent and her beauty. I adored her, and my Mom would take me with her to the Polly Bergen store in Gatlinburg. Many fond memories to treasure come from those days, and I will always remember Polly Bergen.

Cathy

September 21, 2014

How blest we were who enjoyed her many gifts. The happiness she gave will go on as she goes on to greater glory.
God bless Polly's loved ones at this difficult time.

The Carey Family

September 21, 2014

From Upstate N.Y. Deepest sympathy to family & friends of this great lady. Another great actress, gone but never forgotten. Such a wonderful actress, with such a beautiful voice. She's singing with the Angels now. May you find comfort in knowing others care & share your loss. Thoughts & prayers are with you all. God bless.

ryan armstrong

September 21, 2014

Always a class act. A wicked sense of humor. So very talented. Often underestimated. A true beauty.

louise wisinski

September 21, 2014

You were always so sophisticated; my kind of woman. Will miss you.

September 21, 2014

Our condolences to Polly Bergen's family. May your precious memories of her and her singing and acting help you all through this difficult time. Please know, God is a refuge and strength for us - Psalms

Jennifer Petra-Potter

September 21, 2014

Beautiful Lady

Nancy M.

September 21, 2014

Polly was always one of my favorite actresses, and such a beautiful, talented woman. My sympathy and prayers are with her friends and family. She will be missed.

Diane C Spitz

September 21, 2014

Ms Bergen was a real jewel in the acting community; she will be missed. My condolences.

September 21, 2014

My condolences to family may the God of comfort, comfort you in this sad time

September 21, 2014

Remember that you're not alone and that you're surrounded by people who love you and care for you.

September 21, 2014

Beloveds, may Jehovah, the God of tender mercies and comfort, be with you . . .

September 21, 2014

I am sorry for your loss please take comfort in knowing God Cares personally for you and your family. 1 Peter 5 : 7

Harts

September 21, 2014

Our heartfelt condolences for your loss. May our Heavenly Father the God of comfort and tender mercies be with you all. With deep sympathies.

Don

September 21, 2014

I am sorry for your loss.-Matthew 5:5

JERRY ARRAND

September 21, 2014

PETER & FAMILY:
I'AM SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR MOTHER, MAY SHE REST IN PEACE. JERRY ARRAND (FLINT MI)

September 21, 2014

To Family and Friends, I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. I pray that the God of comfort will give you the strength to endure. (Romans 15:33)

JH

September 21, 2014

What a great voice---beautiful vibrato! Love her ballads, torch songs, Broadway recordings. Physically stylish, distinctive, and beautiful too. And an enviable acting career. What a powerhouse of talent she was!

Sheila

September 21, 2014

Thank you for sharing your talent. Godspeed Polly.

September 20, 2014

I adored you when I was a little girl. I used to call you "Aunt Polly" in my imaginary world. May you Rest in Peace.

Thomas Scirocco

September 20, 2014

Polly. loved your movies and singing. another voice of the angels gone. R.I.P. T. Scirocco

September 20, 2014

ANN HLDDER MOSEELY

KIM TAYLOR
MONTY TAYLOR KIRCS TODD Paul

Beth

September 20, 2014

I just watched "Kisses for my President" last week. She was a wonderful actress and will be greatly missed.

Missy

September 20, 2014

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. Know that you can go to god in prayer to strengthen and comfort you. Psalms 121. We share your grief.

D & T Ulrich

September 20, 2014

Thank you for the gift of your art over the years. We have enjoyed the many musical numbers, the plays, the television and movie productions.

September 20, 2014

I always enjoyed her singing and my favorite album that I have is "The Party's Over" Loved her on TV singing Helen Morgan songs and she was a beautiful TV Star with great voice to match. May she sing for the Angels, condolences to all her friends & Family. GS from Calif.

kate

September 20, 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort give you the peace that surpasses all thought during this difficult time. (Philippians 4:6,7)

September 20, 2014

Miss Bergen,
you were more than a st
Thank you for giving us your talent.

September 20, 2014

My condolences goes out the the family of Polly Bergen.

September 20, 2014

Thank you, Polly. We hope it was a lot of fun! Sincerely, Bill & Jan, Kingston, NY USA

Amy Ortiz

September 20, 2014

I offer my sincerest condolences to the family. "... may the God who supplies endurance and comfort" be with you, and help you to endure this troubling time. (Romans 15:5)

Shirley Blanton

September 20, 2014

My sincere and heartfelt sympathy and condolences to the family of a much loved Star and a wonderful woman. May you RIP. She was truly special.

Donna James

September 20, 2014

Polly, you were one of the greatest actresses I ever saw on movies and TV. Now you are a new star shinning in Heaven.
Thank you for all the things you did for us! Miss Bergen, Rest in Peace!

Michael Margolis

September 20, 2014

What a gal!! What an actress!! What a business person!! Most of all; what a survivor. Rest in peace.

Harry Simpson

September 20, 2014

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

L. M.

September 20, 2014

I enjoyed seeing her movies when I was growing up. My heartfelt condolences and prayers of comfort to the family. ( Psalms 147: 3 )

Romie Bostick

September 20, 2014

My deepest sympathy to Ms. Bergen's family. She was one of my favorite stars for years. She was truly a "lady" in every way. May you all find comfort in knowing how much others care during the difficult time.
Romie Bostick

September 20, 2014

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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