Ben Dorcy

1925 - 2017

Ben Dorcy

1925 - 2017

BORN

1925

DIED

2017

Ben Dorcy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 16, 2017.
“Anything you say about Ben — as wild as it was — you don’t have to make up, because it actually happened,” country singer Johnny Bush told the crew of the documentary “Lovey: King of the Roadies.”

The subject of that documentary was Ben Dorcy III, whose death at the age of 92, was announced Saturday, Sept. 16, 2017, on Willie Nelson’s Facebook page.

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Dorcy basically invented the job of roadie. When he started touring with musicians in 1950, he was simply called the bandboy. He would set up equipment, keep wardrobes in order, make late-night food runs, and acquire whatever else the musicians needed to keep the show on the road.

These weren’t just any musicians, they were all-time greats like Elvis Presley, Johnny Cash, Frank Sinatra, and Patsy Cline. Before he became the original roadie, he was John Wayne’s valet in Hollywood. He was a legend among legends, and inspired songs like Waylon Jennings’ “Ode to Ben Dorcy,” and Red Sovine’s “Big Ben Dorcy the Third.”

Although he slowed down, he continued to go out on tour into his final years. His longevity spoke not just his abilities as a roadie, but to his personality — one that earned him the affectionate nickname “Lovey.”

He was a dear friend of Willie Nelson, whose daughter, Amy Nelson, and grand-nephew, Trevor Doyle Nelson, produced the feature-length documentary, “Lovey: King of the Roadies” (2017).

“He has no living relatives, yet he is the patriarch of a family of artists, and fellow roadies who love him dearly,” Amy Nelson told Rolling Stone in 2015.

In 2009 Dorcy became the first member inducted into the Roadie Hall of Fame.

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September 30, 2017

My deepest sympathy on your loss and may God comfort you during this difficult time.

Shay

September 26, 2017

What an amazing and well liked man! It was so interesting to read about someone who so many cared about.
I look forward to meeting him when all those asleep in death are awakened by Jesus Christ.(John 6:40,44)

September 25, 2017

Saying goodbye to a legend is not easy. Thank you for your service to your country, your dedication to your profession, and your loyalty to keeping music honest. Rest in Peace

N. Baker

September 22, 2017

I will miss hearing the shuffle of his feet down the corridor while going to check his mail, I will miss seeing him sit on his porch smoking his cigar, I will miss seeing him wait on his ride with his suitcase by his side waiting to go to his next venue, I will miss hearing him giggle and talking to my cat as he pet him. He was a very kind and loving man, he was my neighbor!! My condolences and prayers to all who loved him.

September 22, 2017

I lived just across from him, and had no idea who he was.. he was my neighbor. He scared the mess out of me when I first met him but as I got to know my neighbor I found that he was the sweetest man ever. From then on I would keep an eye on him. I will miss hearing his shuffle as he walked the corridor to get his mail, I will miss his giggle as he would pet my cat and talk to him, I will miss seeing my neighbor sit on his porch smoking his cigar, I will miss seeing this man sitting and waiting for his ride to attend many venues with his suitcase by his side. My neighbor....I will miss him dearly. My prayers and condolences to all who loved this great man.

M. Berry

September 20, 2017

I'am so sorry for your loss. He counts the numbers of stars. He calls all of them all of them by name.(Psalms 147:4) May you find comfort in knowing your loved one is resting safely in God's limitless memory.

Carlotta

September 19, 2017

May the God of all peace bring comfort to the Dorcy family and friends at this difficult time.

Anita Duennenberg

September 19, 2017

Ben was always a joy to speak to when he was off the road and in Bandera. Rest in Peace Ben!

Judy Herrman

September 19, 2017

Thank you for all those days and years that you kept me company at The Bandera Forge (when you weren't on the road) and for helping out on those big weekends. You were excellent company and friends with my dog Waylon too! You have been a part of so many lives and places. You really made a difference in this world.

Gordon & Suzanne DeSpain

September 18, 2017

Condolences to all his family & friends, especially Willie Nelson & his family!! RIP Ben!!!

Beverly Gray

September 18, 2017

Random chance that I met this amazing life and so honored to have known him - he put his arms around the world and loved us all - he's bound to be a great addition to Heaven and keeper of the tunes -

Lois Day

September 18, 2017

Ben you will always be remembered for all you have done for friends. You are without a doubt one of the most honored and loved roadies ever known to musicians all over the world. You even looked after the ladies with the band to make sure we were ok. What a sweetheart and character you were. You keep everyone amused at all times. You will forever live in our hearts. Rest In Peace my friend. Love Lois Day

Kendra Shaw

September 18, 2017

A true Pioneer of everything "on the road". I had the honor to meet and chat with Ben at a Brooks and Dunn show. I wish I had taken a photo. What a terrific legacy you have created for yourself and the whole music community. RIP.. You lived life to the fullest. Mission accomplished.

willy cupples

September 18, 2017

I had never met Ben but knew he was the Roadie King. The life's and Hearts he has touch will live on for ever rest In Peace Lovely.

Clay Day

September 18, 2017

Ben (lovey) or Doc as I called you I knew you in this life and hope to see you in the next R.I.P my friend

Lovey and Willie

Donna Love

September 18, 2017

Lovey, you will always have a special place in my heart. I will miss your mischievous smile everytime you sneaked a kiss ;), the smell of your pipeand the way you always came over to put your arm around me standing on the side of the stage... The stories we shared together on the bus at the end of the night. RIP my friend. I will see again and we will have new stories to tell.

September 18, 2017

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Rocky Morly

September 18, 2017

I never met Ben but wish I had as I had heard so much about him .R.I.P Ben , careful with those harp's

September 18, 2017

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

david talbott

September 18, 2017

I will miss him on the bus! spent many a night driving with Lovey in the jump seat telling stories!!! Thanks Lovey!!

Gail Kosko

September 18, 2017

Thanks, Lovey, for all you did for us !!! Thanks for the memories!!! Rest In Peace good buddy...

Tish `wells

September 18, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Although your hearts are filled with pain and sorrow, our prayer is that you gain comfort and hope from God's promise to reunite us with our love ones on the earth, never having to say goodbye again. For Jesus will make this earth the problem-free paradise that His Father intended it to be. We have gained comfort and strength from this promise, may your family do the same.

September 18, 2017

My condolences to the family and friends of Ben Dorcy.

Tammy Mikes

September 18, 2017

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Shay Stewart

September 18, 2017

Lovey, RIP my favorite Roadie. You will forever be in Our Hearts and our minds. Such a wonderful man you truly were. Blessed to have been such a big part of your life. May you always know how much I loved you.

R D

September 18, 2017

Heartfelt condolences. Your name will always be a legacies. John 5:28

September 18, 2017

Heaven is a better place now, with Lovey handling backstage. Never had the pleasure of meeting you, but enjoyed Karl's photos and stories of you. Rest in peace, brother roadie - you've set the bar very high for the rest of us.
_ Ted Leonard, RFL

Scott Chamberland

September 18, 2017

Rest in Peace

Gregg "Wedge" Alexander

September 18, 2017

We met once backstage at a show at Starwood Amphitheater in the early 90's, and you laughed when I called you Mr Dorcy. It was an honor. Rest in peace Mr. Dorcy, you did good.

Clint Wensley

September 17, 2017

A Toast to the KING.....


Rest in Music brother Ben

Connie & John Snyder

September 17, 2017

A Great man who left a very big mark in Country Music history.
We really enjoyed the great pleasure We had in meeting you at Willies shows several times. Rest In Peace Ben Dorcey. Gods speed to you on your way to you heavenly home.

Amy Jimtown

September 17, 2017

Ben was the epitome of the term "Roadie for Life" having been around the industry for 67 years! I hope to meet you on the other side of this Show call, at the final Load Out one day. What a legacy!

Richard Summerville

September 17, 2017

Ben was inspiratinal in the entertainment management industry! Always showing Love to the industry and people he touched. God has another Angel of Love! Rest In Peace. Prayers.

Eric Heil Angelic Producitons

September 17, 2017

You are the foundation of us all out here in the field. Rest easy brother. You will be remembered...

September 17, 2017

Never met you but Karl kept up your beautiful life you had on Facebook god bless you Ben ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Richard (Red) Marshall

September 17, 2017

R.I.P. Ben! I never had the pleasure of meeting you, but feel as if I know you from stories I've heard and read. Much respect to sir!

Christian

September 17, 2017

My deepest condolences to the family and friends of Ben. Rest assured life is precious to our Creator. He promises to act in our behalf.
1 Corinthians 15:26

Sally Yates

September 17, 2017

Well Ben I thought you'd outlive us all. Thanks for all the things you've done for all of us and always with a smiling face. BEN DORCY BEN DORCY BEN DORCY! You haven't showed up, so I know you've truly moved on to your forever home. You're back with most of your old buddies! RIP Lovey

Doug DeFoore

September 17, 2017

It was an honor meeting you

Sandy Niemann

September 17, 2017

Sure gonna miss you Lovey! Godspeed!

September 17, 2017

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your love one.

Betty-NC

September 17, 2017

Offering condolences for your loss. May all of you look forward to the reality of the picture showing Ben turning youthful again as promised from our loving and caring God (Job 33:25).

Terry "T-Bone" Myers

September 17, 2017

Brother I never met you that I can recall, but thank you for what you did for without a founder like you the rest of us would never exist.

Blue & Mae

September 17, 2017

We love you Lovey,
see you again in Heaven. ❤

Rev Tuxbury

September 17, 2017

Sir, I never had the great privilege of meeting you, but you are the stuff of legend, and that legend has reached us even here, in the middle of nowhere Montana. The roadie world will never be quite the same. Here's to hoping there's better catering in heaven! God Speed!

Tom (Coonass) McLellan

September 17, 2017

Rest in peace Brother, the world is made less with your passing.

Karl Kuenning

September 17, 2017

Thank you Lovey for being part of my life for the past 8 years. You lit the way for every Roadie who came after you and you definitely lit up my life ever since I met you back on the B&D crew bus. I will miss our lunches my friend. Rest well.

Joshua Click

September 17, 2017

My apologize to the vast family this man has acquired throughout the years

Laura Andrisek

September 17, 2017

Even though my heart is fractured I know you're with me always now, be at peace my dear friend.

September 17, 2017

"My condelences to the friends and Fans of Ben Dorcy. (Hosea 13:14)"

Robin

September 17, 2017

In loving memory.

Robin Marcoux

September 17, 2017

Ben's spirit will live on forever. I am so sorry I never got to make you your meatloaf and mashed potatoes. Love yo you, sincere condolences to family and friends. Godspeed sir.

Robert Ausmus

September 17, 2017

RIP Sir. Happy Trails.

Jennifer Fitzhugh

September 17, 2017

Ben, you were my Uncle for 18 years that you lived with us. Thank you for those memories. You will be missed ❤

Wendy Horton

September 17, 2017

Please accept my sincerest condolences. May the God of all comfort be with the family during this difficult time.

Adrian Barnette

September 17, 2017

We'll miss you !

September 17, 2017

I wish to offer my condolences to the family and friends of Mr. Dorcy,sorry for your loss. Many happy memories. Matthew 11:28,29,30,

September 17, 2017

Truly saddened to hear about Ben Dorcy's passing. Psalm90:10 says that the days of our years are 70 years and because of special mightiness they are 80 years. Very special indeed!

September 17, 2017

Brenda

September 17, 2017

Fly High, Lovey-------you've earned your wings many times over. THANK YOU for keeping the music alive & well.

Esther Butcher

September 17, 2017

Always a good job, loved by all Have a good journey!

Courtney and William Tom

September 17, 2017

"HAPPY TRAILS TO YOU UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN." THANK YOU FOR BLESSING ME WITH YOUR FRIENDSHIP, LAUGHS, AND GREAT MEMORIES. WE WILL MISS YOU HERE ON EARTH, BEN. XOXO

Todd Stakem

September 16, 2017

RIP Lovey. You painted a masterpiece.

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