Lillian Ross

1918 - 2017

Lillian Ross

1918 - 2017

BORN

1918

DIED

2017

Lillian Ross Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 20, 2017.
NEW YORK (AP) — Lillian Ross, the ever-watchful New Yorker reporter whose close, narrative style defined a memorable and influential 70-year career, including a revealing portrait of Ernest Hemingway, a classic Hollywood expose and a confession to an adulterous affair, has died at age 99.

New Yorker editor David Remnick confirmed her death, but did not immediately have other details Wednesday.

"Lillian would knock my block off for saying so, she'd find it pretentious, but she really was a pioneer, both as a woman writing at The New Yorker and as a truly innovative artist, someone who helped change and shape non-fiction writing in English," Remnick said in a statement.

Hundreds of Ross' "Talk of the Town" dispatches appeared in The New Yorker, starting in the 1940s when she wrote about Harry Truman's years as a haberdasher, and continuing well into the 21st century, whether covering a book party at the Friars Club, or sitting with the daughters of Richard Rodgers and Oscar Hammerstein II as they watched a Broadway revival of "South Pacific." After the death of J.D. Salinger in 2010, Ross wrote a piece about her friendship with the reclusive novelist and former New Yorker contributor.

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Her methods were as crystallized and instinctive as her writing. She hated tape recorders ("fast, easy and lazy"), trusted first impressions and believed in the "mystical force" that "makes the work seem delightfully easy and natural and supremely enjoyable."

"It's sort of like having sex," she once wrote.

Ross' approach, later made famous by the "New Journalists" of the 1960s, used dialogue, scene structure and other techniques associated with fiction writers. She regarded herself as a short story writer who worked with facts, or even as a director, trying to "build scenes into little story-films." In 1999, her 1964 collection of articles, "Reporting," was selected by a panel of experts as one of the 100 best examples of American journalism in the 20th century. The group, assembled by New York University, ranked it No. 66.

"She is the mistress of selective listening and viewing, of capturing the one moment that entirely illumines the scene, of fastening on the one quote that Tells All," novelist Irving Wallace wrote in a 1966 New York Times review of her work.

Short and curly-haired, unimposing and patient, Ross tried her best to let the stories speak for themselves, but at times the writer interrupted.

In the late 1940s, Hemingway came to New York for shopping and socializing and Ross joined him as he drank champagne with Marlene Dietrich, bought a winter coat and visited the Metropolitan Museum of Art, flask in hand. She presented the author as a volatile bulk of bluster and insecurity, speaking in telegraphic shorthand ("You want to go with me to buy coat?") and even punching himself in the stomach to prove his muscle.

Ross was friendly with Hemingway — she liked most of her subjects — but her article was criticized, and welcomed, as humanizing a legend. "Lillian Ross wrote a profile of me which I read, in proof, with some horror," Hemingway later recalled. "But since she was a friend of mine and I knew that she was not writing in malice she had a right to make me seem that way if she wished."

Not long after, Ross went to Hollywood to report on director John Huston as he worked on an adaptation of Stephen Crane's Civil War novel "The Red Badge of Courage." She soon realized that the movie was more interesting than any one person: She was witness to a disaster. Ross' reports in The New Yorker, released in 1952 as the book "Picture," were an unprecedented chronicle of studio meddling as MGM took control of the film and hacked it to 70 minutes.

Praised by Hemingway among others, "Picture" was a direct influence on such future Hollywood authors as John Gregory Dunne ("Studio") and anticipated the nonfiction novel that Truman Capote perfected a decade later with "In Cold Blood." Huston's daughter, actress Anjelica Huston, became a lifelong friend.

"My parents loved and respected her, and trusted her. She was, they would say, different from other reporters," Huston wrote in the foreword to the book's 50th anniversary edition.

Deeply private even around her New Yorker colleagues, Ross did step out in 1998 when she published "Here But Not Here," a surprising and explicit memoir of her long-rumored, 40-year liaison with New Yorker editor William Shawn, a mating of secret souls allegedly consummated in a bedroom once used by Dietrich as a clothes closet.

"We were drawn to each other from the first by all the elusive forces that people have been trying to pin down from the beginning of time," Ross wrote.

William Shawn had died six years earlier, but his widow was still alive when the book was published, leading New York Times writer (and former New Yorker deputy editor) Charles McGrath to call it "a cruel betrayal of the Shawns' much-valued privacy — a tactless example of the current avidity for tell-all confessions."

While involved with Shawn, Ross adopted a son, Erik, who in later years would accompany his mother on assignments. Her New Yorker work was compiled in several books, most recently "Reporting Always."

She was born in Syracuse, New York, and was always more comfortable as an observer and played hooky just to hang around professional newspaper offices. She graduated from Hunter College, worked at the liberal New York City daily PM, then was hired by The New Yorker in the mid-1940s, when the magazine was looking for women writers because so many men were serving in World War II.

"We have sent her on stories ranging from in subject matter from politics to uplift brassieres, and she's done splendidly by both," PM editor Peggy Wright Weidman wrote to Shawn. "Another baffler is that she likes to work and does so, at any hour of the day, night, or weekend, with concentration and no nonsense."

Written by HILLEL ITALIE, AP National Writer




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Jodi Ross

January 7, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 18, 2017

I miss you so much!! Your wittiness was one of a kind. You became my friend in the end. I only have one regret; I should have had more time with you. But until we meet again my friend I'll hold on tight to the memories. Love always Your Friend

Mrs. K. Jackson

October 18, 2017

A very honest, forthright writer of her opinions of her subjects. May the family receive the words of consolation that are needed to cope with the loss. No matter how long a person has lived it is not easy to lose that person in death. May the God of comfort give the family peace during this time.

October 14, 2017

I would like to express my deepest condolences to the family for their loss of a talented woman. She will be remembered for her writing style. May you find comfort and help in God during this time of sorrow.

A Caring Neighbor

September 30, 2017

Offering my heartfelt condolences and prayers to the family of Ms Lillian. May God grant solace to the family during this most challenging time. Lillian was truly an amazing and accomplished lady of integrity. She will be truly missed. With Love & Prayers

September 28, 2017

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your love one

Carlotta

September 25, 2017

May the God of all peace bring comfort to the Ross family and friends at this difficult time.

SueAnn

September 25, 2017

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Maryland

September 25, 2017

Thank you for illuminating our times and the people who made them so memorable

Betty Armour

September 25, 2017

My prayers and condolences to the family of Lillian Ross. She lived a long life of special mightiness from God according to Psalms 90:10. Keep her many, many, many, many, many memories close in your hearts and minds and cherish them forever. May the comfort of God be with you all during this time of grief.

MV

September 23, 2017

I am deeply sadden by your great loss. Ms. Ross was an amazing woman, who informed many.
she was a pioneer. I hope that the family can reflect on her precious memories. I wish the family the best. (Revelation 3,4)

September 23, 2017

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

September 23, 2017

My condolences to Erik and Family and other friends and fans for the loss of Lillian Ross. You are so blessed to have had her in your lives for so many years. She was a very feisty woman who set the pace for so many others. May you continue to be blessed with her memory and legacy (Psalms 55:22) ~ Linda, Queens, NY

September 23, 2017

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

September 22, 2017

What a life! Lillian not only lived a long life but one with much excitement. I offer my deepest sympathies to family and friends on their loss. May the peace of God comfort you during this trying time.

Sally Small

September 22, 2017

We say goodbye to a woman very dedicated to her work. We now look forward to seeing her in paradise the place for which God has purposed for us to have a happy future and to be reunited with our loved ones who have passed in death. God does love us.

September 22, 2017

What a good long life! So many cannot say the same. May Lillian Ross forever be in our hearts and in God's book of life.

Martha

September 22, 2017

Sorry for your loss. May you find peace and hope in the difficult days ahead by trusting in God. Romans 15:13.

Chanell

September 22, 2017

Truly sorry to hear about your loss. May you rely upon the God of all comfort during this time as he helps you to cope.
With sympathy,

September 22, 2017

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

September 22, 2017

Family, Friends,

Our condolences to the family of Ms. Ross. Our heartfelt prayers are with the family at this difficult time. May the God who gives peace be with all of you.-RO.15:33

L W

September 21, 2017

I'm truly sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort hears your cries and rescue you with comfort and peace. (Psalms145:18,19)

Claudette Laliberte

September 21, 2017

Lillian was one of the most special people I have ever met. I remember those days with her and Erik at Walt Disney World when I was a young Tennis Professional. They would visit every year for Tennis Lessons. Lillian was kind, and strong, and competitive! :)
I'm sorry we all lost touch after so many years. I will never forget her.
May she Rest In Peace. I'm so sorry for your loss, Erik. Love, and comfort to you.

Harry Simpson

September 21, 2017

Godspeed Lillian, and thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

September 21, 2017

My heartfelt sympathy to the family on the passing of your love one please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
Cy

September 21, 2017

My condolences goes to the family and friends of. Lillian Ross. May our heavenly father strengthen and give the family peace and comfort during these difficult times.

September 21, 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss. May the family find strength and comfort from Almighty God during this time.
Ellen

Judith

September 21, 2017

To family and friends please accept my sincere condolences . The pain, the grief, and the feelings of helplessness can seem unbearable. At such times, we need to go to God's Word for comfort.
Psalms 94:19

Scott Chamberland

September 20, 2017

Rest in Peace

Adrian Barnette

September 20, 2017

We'll miss you !

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