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Jan M. Mika Jr.

Jan M. Mika Jr. obituary, Delmar, NY

Jan Mika Obituary

Mika, Jan M. Jr.
DELMAR - On December 24, 2025, Jan Michael Mika Jr., age 48, passed away suddenly in Delmar, N.Y. Jan was the beloved husband of Stehle Hetman-Mika, who was his greatest champion and loved him beyond measure, and the devoted father of Ryan C. Mika and Peyton M. Mika, the center of his world.
Jan was the loving son of Linda Ruth Mika and Jan M. Mika Sr. He is also survived by his aunts, Patricia Ruth and Janet Gargiulo; his uncles, Jack Ruth and family, and Stanley Mika and family; and his in-laws, Mary and Michael Hetman; as well as his brother-in-law, Michael Hetman.
Born and raised in Albany, N.Y., Jan attended St. Catherine of Siena School, Christian Brothers Academy, and graduated from The College of Saint Rose with a degree in Criminal Justice. He proudly served as a member of the Albany Police Department, a role he took seriously and carried with honor.
Jan loved life and lived it to the fullest. He was deeply devoted to his children and took great joy in every moment spent with them - whether cheering as a hockey and baseball dad alongside his best friend and sidekick, Ryan, or proudly coaching Peyton in softball and jiu-jitsu. He adored his children and could never do enough for them. Above all, Jan's family was his greatest pride, and the love he shared with his wife was the foundation of his life.
Jan was truly one of a kind - the life of the party, a larger-than-life personality with a heart to match. He had more friends than one could count and was deeply loved by all who knew him. To those fortunate enough to truly know Jan, he was undeniably special.
Special thanks are extended to his lifelong friends, Jimmy Severino, Jeremy McCann, Marc Kent, Sean Mahar, and Jeremy McCloskey, and to the many others whose friendships and kindnesses meant so much to him.
The family also wishes to express heartfelt gratitude to Joel Caldwell, Greg Whitney, Willie Flack, and all of Jan's fellow law-enforcement friends who always had his back. You are a remarkable group of men and women.
Relatives and friends are invited to visit with Jan's family Tuesday, December 30, 2025, 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m., at the Parish of Mater Christi, 40 Hopewell St., (Rev. Kenneth J. Doyle Way), Albany, N.Y. 12208.
Jan's Funeral Mass will be celebrated Wednesday, December 31, 2025, with full Departmental Honors, at 9:30 a.m., at the Parish of Mater Christi, Albany, N.Y.
To leave a special message for the family, please visit www.McveighFuneralHome.com
Those wishing to honor Jan's memory may consider making a contribution to the U.S.A. Hockey Foundation, 1775 Bob Johnson Dr., Colorado Springs, Colo. 80906, or another charity meaningful to the family.



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Published by Albany Times Union from Dec. 27 to Dec. 29, 2025.

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Lula's Urban Garden - Forever Remembered

Daniel Allen Jr. and Famiily

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Matthew Brusilow

January 1, 2026

My deepest condolences to the families at this sad time

Dan Bennett

December 31, 2025

While I did not know Jan long - he always energized the room with his smile - my sincere condolences to everyone in your family !!

ERICA LENNON

December 31, 2025

Sending prayers of healing to you Kelli and your family.

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Paul and Kim Pettit

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Mary Ellen Broderick

December 30, 2025

Jan, so sorry to see this!!! You are in our thoughts and prayers. Pat & Mary Ellen Broderick

Carol J DiStefano

December 30, 2025

Jan Sr. , I'd like to express my condolences on the loss of you son. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

Jim Linden

December 30, 2025

Jan Sr. and Family, my sincerest condolences. God's blessings to you in this sad and painful time.

Jim Linden

Anthony Fahrenkopf

December 30, 2025

I am deeply saddened to hear of Jan´s passing. Jan was a great guy and always had the biggest smile on his face. You always wanted to be around him and he would always make you laugh. I enjoyed getting to know him and the time spent with him. My sincerest condolences to his family and loved ones. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time.

Anthony Fahrenkopf

David Acker

December 30, 2025

Jan Senior

I am very sorry to hear about your son passing, It happen on a day before Christmas and that makes it so hard, I am praying for you and family and may he rest in peace,

David Acker

Harry & Mary Daub

December 29, 2025

Jan and family sorry to hear of the loss of your son sending prayers that your love and memories help you get threw this very sad time God Bless

Shannissa Daniels

December 29, 2025

Jan and Family- My sincere condolences in the passing of Jan Jr

Shannissa Daniels (Priscilla´s daughter)

Patty Willsey

December 29, 2025

Jan,
So very sorry to hear about your son. May your memories, family and friends provide you support at this very difficult time

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Nancy Rice and Paul Germain

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Mike Nardolillo

December 29, 2025

So terribly sad for your loss. Prayers for the family and friends.
Mike Nardolillo former APD

Dianna Basile

December 29, 2025

Jan and Linda,
I´m so saddened to hear of the loss of your beautiful son. It´s been many years since I´ve seen either of you but fondly remember the good times we had, especially with the Pipe & Drum band.
I pray God gives you strength and peace in remembering the special times with your son.
My deepest condolences to you, his wife and his children.

Scott Diange

December 29, 2025

I would like to say I am truly sorry and give my condolences to the family of Jan. I was a grade behind him in elementary school and went to rival high schools. He was a good person even though he thought I was quirky and weird. I do however have some old pictures of St Catherine of Siena dances for my Dad took the pictures of everyone, and I know he is in some of them. I do know he meant so much to so many, from family, friends, and APD. So please accept my condolences. He will be missed I am sure.

John Freeman

December 29, 2025

My deepest condolences go out to Jan and his family during these difficult times. I'm so sorry for your loss. God Bless

Jean Szczepanski

December 29, 2025

Jan Sr and family, I am heartbroken over your loss. My sincere condolences. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers

Carmen Inco

December 29, 2025

Jan, im very sorry for your loss.Grief can be so hard, but special memories help us cope. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Art Leonardo

December 29, 2025

I was a Brothers Boy. Class of 1960. And a Law Enforcement Officer for 33 years. I did not know Ian but being a good cop is a noble calling. He has a honored seat in the after life

Barbara Wright

December 29, 2025

Pat
Sending hugs and prayers and sympathies for the loss of your nephew.
Barb

Barbara Wright

December 29, 2025

Jan,
I´m so sorry for the loss of your son. I can´t imagine your pain and grief.
His light touched so many lives and his memory will continue to shine.
Prayers and hugs.
Barb Dziobecki Wright

The Christiansens

December 28, 2025

Jan, Linda and Jan´s immediate family we are so very sorry for your incredible and shocking loss. I pray that the lord will guide you all through this extremely difficult time and may your pain be softened by remembering how great a man Jan was and how many people that he truly touched. You will all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers and be blessed with the strength that you presently need.

Susan OBrien

December 28, 2025

Linda,

So shocked to hear of the loss of Jan. I know how proud you were of him and you also spoke with such love for him.

Terri Newell

December 28, 2025

Linda, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember when you were telling me how Jan wanted to become a police officer and how his dream was coming true. You were so very proud of him. You and all your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Geraldine Knapp

December 28, 2025

To the Mika family and friends, my deepest condolences. I worked with Jan and the one thing I remember most about him was his smile, he always offered me his huge smile. Thank you Jan, it´s a smile I´ll never forget. May you all feel comforted by the love and strength of our Lord Jesus Christ. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time. Rest easy Jan and God bless you all.

Sandy Bruce and Wayne Lupien

December 28, 2025

So very sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts go out to you.

Sara m Dzembo

December 28, 2025

On behalf of Joseph´s House & Shelter, we extend our deepest condolences to the family, friends, and colleagues of Mika. We were saddened to learn of their passing. Having worked alongside Mika through the Albany Police Department, we witnessed firsthand their dedication, integrity, and commitment to serving others. Their impact on the community and on those who had the privilege of working with them will not be forgotten. We honor their service and extend our thoughts and prayers to all who are mourning this loss.

With sympathy,
Joseph´s House & Shelter

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Sara Dzembo

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Joe Montarello

December 28, 2025

Jan and Linda, my deepest sympathy for the loss of your son, so sorry.

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Mater Christi School

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Charles Commisso

December 28, 2025

Jan, I am very sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace

Sandy Wilsey

December 27, 2025

Jan, I´m so very sorry for your loss. Please know you and your family are in our prayers.

Nan Welch

December 27, 2025

Stehle...Ryan...Peyton and the Mika Family
My condolences and prayers are with you all....
Stehle....I am so sorry..my heart goes out to you and your children

Nan Welch

Nicole Keough

December 27, 2025

Jan Sr. and Family, I am very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.

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Sandy and Kirk

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Joe Decker

December 27, 2025

Jan, so sorry to hear of the passing of your son. Deepest condolences.

Cat Atwood

December 27, 2025

Jan, I was so very sorry to hear about your son. I will keep you & your family in my prayers.

Andrea Urgo

December 27, 2025

Jan and I knew each other from high school. He always had a huge smile on his face. He will be missed by many, more than he probably knew. I'm so sorry for his loss. May he forever rest in peace.

Eileen Bakaitis

December 27, 2025

Stehle
So truly sorry for your loss. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Much love to you and your family during this difficult time

Bishop Avery Comithier

December 27, 2025

Jan and I went out with pastors on patrol twice a week. We made a big difference. He loved it!!
Bishop Avedy L Comithier

Mary Console

December 27, 2025

My heart is so heavy since I heard the news for the family. I worked with Jan Sr. For many yrs. He talked so highly of his son and grandkids. My deepest Sympathy to Jan Sr. Jans wife and kids and all of his family and friends. God bless you Jan

Susan galeo

December 27, 2025

Stehle So very sorry for the loss of your amazing husband. Mike and I send our deepest condolences to you and your family. Rest in peace Jan

Bob and Mary Haack

December 27, 2025

Stehle and family
We are so sorry to hear of Jan´s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time .Bob and Mary Haack

Steve Brignoli

December 27, 2025

One of my favorite bros in class, especially with Phil Donnelly and Mr. Atkinson (CBA '96). You could always count on him to liven up the class.

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Daniel Allen & Family

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Anthony and Lucia Mitsios

December 27, 2025

Jan was a person you could rely your life on. He had your back. He was a stand up guy and a excellent police officer. We knew Jan throughout many years as he had Downtown Pearl street as his patrol area. He would stop in and talk to me and my wife all the time. He came to our meetings and charity events Most recently ,the back to school drive at Ridgefield Park with his support k9. We are heartbroken and saddened. Our sincere thoughts and prayers go to his wife and children. Rest in peace brother, we will miss you.

Jessica Hall

December 27, 2025

Stehle & family,
My heart breaks for all of you. May the joy of the memories made together, help guide and carry you through the difficult days ahead. Sending prayers as you continue forward.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Daniel Allen

Sent Sympathy Gifts including Trees

William Dobbs

December 26, 2025

We are very sorry to Jan's family for his loss. Jan was a great guy and quiet soul. Appreciated the time I worked with him. Thoughts and prayers

Bill and Lisa Dobbs

Kimberly Aguado

December 26, 2025

Jan and Linda, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I´m very sorry for your loss.
Kim Aguado

Lisa Damiano

December 26, 2025

Dear Linda and Jan,
I am so so sorry to hear about the passing of your son. I know how much you adored him and I know he was the center of your world! May he rest in peace and may God comfort you at this difficult time. My heart aches for you! I am here if you need anything Linda. I wish I could take your pain away.
Sincerely,
Lisa Damiano

Mike

December 26, 2025

You´re a man of men, I´m sorry this happened, RIP my guy!

Stan Lamphere

December 26, 2025

Jan was an amazing person, my heart and prayers go to his family. May the angels hold you close old friend.

M.Candy

December 26, 2025

Jan,
May you rest in peace,will miss chatting with you,see you on the other side one day
Xo M.C.

William

December 26, 2025

Just a Super good guy. Don't believe he's gone. May he rest easy now.....

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