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Bernard Sloan

1919 - 2021

Bernard Sloan obituary, 1919-2021, Albuquerque, Nm

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1919

DIED

2021

Bernard Sloan Obituary

Bernard Henry "Barney" Sloan



Bernard Henry ("Barney") Sloan passed away peacefully in Albuquerque on May 13, 2021, surrounded by his family. He was 102 years old. Barney was a farmer in his youth, a soldier in his twenties, a postwar father of seven, a successful businessman and, in his later years, a beloved family elder to his large, extended family.

Barney was born on the Sloan family farm near Hoopeston, Illinois, on January 31, 1919, to John Henry and Ellen (Colgan) Sloan. The third of five children, he was born into the worst of the Spanish Influenzaâ€"the first pandemic of his long life and one that killed his brother, John Francis, just weeks before Barney was born. He learned the value of hard work in his early years, working the fields with horses and mulesâ€"animals that would shape his future in unexpected ways.

A graduate of the University of Illinois in June 1941 (B.S. Animal Husbandry), he was immediately drafted into the then-peacetime U.S. Army. Following Pearl Harbor, he was assigned to the 1st Cavalry Division, in part due to his skill with horses and mules. Ironically, the Division soon dismounted, switching from animals to trucks and jeeps. Barney adapted, becoming a logistics expert in moving needed materials from landing craft to front lines.

Barney fought with the 1st Cavalry throughout the entire war: from Ft. Bliss, Texas, to Brisbane, Australia, then on to battles in the Admiralty Islands, New Guinea, and the Philippines. On September 2, 1945, he was aboard a ship in Tokyo Bay as the surrender documents were signed on the USS Missouri. He finished the war as a Captain. He remained a proud World War II veteran the rest of his life.

Though he endured grim moments in the war, Barney emerged with body and spirit intact. He painted a more peaceful war for his growing kids in the 1950s and '60s, his tall stories populated by giant pythons, boinging kangaroos, and an unfortunate tiger Barney famously turned inside out by reaching into its mouth, grabbing its tail, and yanking hard. To his children, he had been on the coolest four-year campout ever. His real war stories didn't emerge until his kids were well into middle age and, he judged, able to handle the realities of war.

Another notable event occurred while Barney was overseas. In 1943, he was introduced by mail to Margaret "Peg" Dalton through a mutual friend. Their two-year V-mail courtship blossomed on Barney's return from the war. They met for the first time in Chicago's Union Station in 1946. He had written to her to look for a soldier with a horse's head on his shoulder; she spotted his 1st Cavalry insignia on the first try. They were married at Maternity B.V.M. Church in Chicago on April 19, 1947.

Peg gave birth to seven childrenâ€"a half-dozen boys and a girlâ€"and she and Barney raised six. Their first, James Bernard, was born prematurely in 1948 and died at two days of age. The six who followed enjoyed robust health and kept Barney on his paternal toes until the day he died. Barney and Peg were married 69 years, inseparable until Peg's death in 2017.

Barney will be remembered for his love of family and of life, his sense of fairness and kindness to all, his humility, quiet humor, and his willingness to go on adventures, whether learning to ski in his 70s, visiting the World War II Memorial in Washington in his 90s, or riding up a Taos Ski Valley chairlift at 101 for beer and banter at 11,000 feet. Barney, a life-long baseball fan, attended an Albuquerque Isotopes minor league game three days before his death; the home team unfortunately got clobbered.

Barney Sloan is preceded in death by his wife, Peg, his son James Bernard, and by his siblings John Francis, Donald, Nicholas, and Sister Mary Ellen Sloan. He is survived by his children Bernard (Sharon Stoerger), Stephen (Carrie), Mark (Elisabeth Chicoine), John Henry (Susan Lindner), Mary Ellen Murnane (Patrick) and Christopher (Mary). He leaves 16 grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren. Barney is also survived by his loving brothers- and sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews, many other relatives, and countless friends.

The family wishes to thank Jon Brennan, Glenn McLaughlin, Angela Cruz and Lorena Benevidez for their friendship and loving care in Barney's final years. A special thanks to Lisa Brennan, Amber Sutton, and the staff at Manzano Medical Group for their love, boundless good humor, and endless supply of Cheetos and Pepsi.

Private funeral services will be held in Albuquerque. A celebration of Barney Sloan's life will take place in Chicago this fall.

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Published by Albuquerque Journal from May 18 to May 19, 2021.

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Cousin Marty (Aunt Sarah's daughter)

May 24, 2021

Bernard & Peg were both wonderful people. I'm sure it was hard on their children to lose him. There were several details in the Obit of which I was unaware; one, that they experienced the early loss of a child. Now I understand (more of) why they were so kind to me when we lost our child. I remember their gracious hospitality with much gratitude. I am happy to imagine them together again.

Susan Harris

May 19, 2021

Sad to learn of Barney Sloan's passing. Reading this story of his long and remarkable life highlights the joy he brought to so many. And proves the saying "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree" when thinking of his son, John Henry Sloan, to be able see in him, a glympse of his father. Barney's legacy in this world lives on. Heartfelt condolences to family and friends of Barney Sloan.

Robert Morrison

May 19, 2021

What an incredible obituary.
What a wonderful life well lived.
What an incredible person to be related and a friend to.

Robbie and Michele Morrison

Denise Chandler Smith

May 19, 2021

I offer my sympathy on your dear father´s passing. I hope you find comfort in the many memories you have of him.
I hope you all are doing well.
Kind Regards,
Denise

Nansi Chandlernorum

May 19, 2021

Blessings to Mr. Sloan. What an amazing life he shared with family and friends. May he remain near and dear to his family and friends´ hearts!

Peter Viall

May 18, 2021

Barney was a unique person and one that I am glad to have known when he was at Short Milling in Kankakee. He and Peg (never met her, but read her columns many times) were salt of the earth and will be missed for a long time.

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