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August 9, 2024
Dearest Julie & family,
It's hard to believe he has been gone for this long. I know life has changed for all of you but I hope all is well. He was one of the kindest humans I ever met and is truly missed.
Jill Sugarman
February 18, 2012
Not too long ago, i found out about Coach Holmbeck. I could not believe it. He was such a nice easy going man-- and of course, all the girls on the gymnastic team thought he was hot-- lets all face it! But, now the twins and triplets are all grown up-- and to know that he cannot be there to see them is sad. But i do know and believe that there are reasons for everything that happens in life- and for whatever reason, his children and wife were meant to take this journey without him. God bless his family and I hope you take on the strength it takes to move through the hard times.
Holly Lux-Miller
June 17, 2010
Dear Holmbeck Family,
I missing him more than ever and I wish I could tell him things that are going on now. Your dad and husband show me what a family is and to love whatever life give you. So thank you all for the great times in the gym and some of the car rides share with me. Hope you all are doing well.
Brittany
February 12, 2009
Dad, I woke up today and all I could think about was "WHy", why did this have to happen...all i want is for you to be here, for me to be able to look you in the eye during hard times and have you tell me that everything is going to be okay...but you cant and it hurts real bad. I am trying my hardest to live my life and pursue every dream possible but right now i feel as if i need you the most to tell its okay to go thru life being confused. I miss you so much. I love you so much. One of my biggest fears in life is letting you and mom down...i know i know you would be thinking you could never let me down, but sometimes i feel as if i am. I promise to make you proud, i promise to follow my dreams because that is what you would want...oh why can't you be here to see it, this sucks but there is nothing i can do except believe that you are with me no matter what guiding me to the right path..i know you are...i love you DAd!!!!
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Mom and Dad
July 27, 2008
It is going on 2 years since you left us, you will always be our beautiful wonderful son. Life is so difficult not hearing your voice or to feel your arms around us in a big hug.Miss you so much. Love you always and forever. Mom and Dad
Kory Tappendorf
February 11, 2008
Dear Mr. Holmbeck,
I still miss your smile, love and compassion towards me. I cannot believe it's been this long. I thought I would take the time to let you know that I am thriving at the University of Iowa. I am working hard and staying strong. Your guidance has gotten me to where I am now and I am forever thankful for what you have done for me. I know you are up there looking down on me and I miss you so much. I will continue to look up to you for your guidance to help me through tough times.
I love you and always will,
Kory
Brittany Holmbeck
August 11, 2007
Dear Daddy,
Where do I begin, oh gosh! It has been a little over a year since the day I last saw you. Since that day my life has been a mess. There isn't a day that goes by when I don't think of you, you are always on mind. Sometimes I feel like you are still with us, walking around in the house. What really gets me is when I come home at night and I don't see you sleeping on the couch just to make sure that the five of us got home safely. So much has happened in the past year.....and I truly believe that you are watching over us...I feel your presence sometimes and it brightens my day just to think that you could be right next to me. I'm sure you are wondering how mom is doing and honestly she is great on the outside. I have never known someone so brave and strong -willed, she reminds me of why I am here in this world. Her strength and courage has gotten her through the worst year ever. I am so proud of her and I find it an honor to be her daughter. She loves you so much Dad and with out you in her life she feels as if life is over. To some degree I understand what she means...but I know deep in my heart her life is going to turn out fine and she is going to make it, I just know this for sure. As for the rest of the us...we miss you daddy!!! Miss you on the boat the most, that was your dream, thats where you felt the most free, out on the lake cruising around. Tomorrow is your birthday and it wont be the same but we will celebrate it as if you were here, on the boat, just thinking of you! I miss you dearly and it kills me to know that you dont get to see how my life turns out, you may be watching from the heavens but its still not the same. I love you forever and always and until we meet again I will make you proud for my life is dedicated to you. Oh and just to let you know, I am pursuing my dream of dancing and I know you would be so proud! I love you daddy!!!!
with love,
your daughter Brittany
Jenny Vondrehle
August 8, 2007
Dear Mrs. Holmbeck & family,
When I got the news that Mr. Holmbeck died, I was in my car driving to California with my husband. We live here in California now and this past year we have been so busy settling in that I never contacted you. I think about you & Mr. Holmbeck frequently. Although I haven’t seen you in over ten years I can vividly remember all the wonderful times I had with you and your family. I can remember feeling so special because not only was I a gymnast on the team but also the babysitter of Mitch, Ben, Jen, Britt, & Kevin. I can remember the evenings I spent babysitting the kids and how at the end of the night, everyone would fall asleep on the couch until you and Mr. Holmbeck came home and carried each sleeping child upstairs to their room. Mr. Holmbeck would always walk me home through the back yard even though I lived only one house away. You and Mr. H meant so much to me for so long and I have always regretted not making more effort to stay in touch with you and the kids. I hope you know how much you both meant to me and how very sorry I am for your loss. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love always,
Jenny Grossman- Vondrehle
Julie Holmbeck
August 1, 2007
Dear Steve,
It has been a year since I lost you and my whole world fell apart. Words cannot express the loneliness and void I feel without you in my life. When you died, I lost my best friend, partner and soul mate, and life as I knew it no longer existed. I can go day to day in existence keeping busy surviving, but when I think of my future without you I literally go crazy. I am doing my best trying to maintain the house, day to day living, finances, Duke and Comisk, and of course our children Ben, Britt, Kev, Mitch, and Jen. It is so hard without you. I think about you every second, you're my first thought of the day, and my last. I can honestly say I look for you and have to catch myself from picking up the phone to call to tell you something. As we know, I will never see you, touch you, or talk to you in this lifetime, which makes me so sad. We don't get to watch our children make the rest of their milestones, or grow old together. I know in my heart you will always be with me and the kids, our guardian angel. So Steve, I bid you farewell for now, until we meet again.
Always and forever, Julie
Chris Miller
July 12, 2007
Dear Holmbeck Family,
I know this is a little late, but i was bored on my summer vacation and i was looking through an old year book, and i was looking through the staff photos. When i saw the picture of Mr. Holmbeck instantly all the memories came back to me, I have known your family for a long time now, through my older brothers, wrestling, and pratically living on that couch in the office. I just want to say your husband/father was an amazing man, and I know you don't need me to tell you that because you spent more time with him than I did. But that man made an impact on everyones lives, he would always help you if u needed it, or crack a joke to make you smile. He was truly a great man, i am honored to have actaully known him and honored to have spent the time i did with him before he passed away.
Del and Mickey Nelson
September 7, 2006
Dear Wayne and Marion.........You have our deepest sympathy. We didn't know your son, but our hearts go out to you. I'm sure all your friends in the Gardens of Beacon Square share these same sentiments.
Josey Miller
August 22, 2006
Mrs. H., Britt, Jen, Ben, Kevin and Mitch:
Your dad was so special -- an extraordinarily rare gem of genuine caring and warmth. I feel blessed to have known him and honored to have been a recipient of the Holmbeck Hug. Britt, in this guest book you said that your dad is your guardian angel, and I couldn't agree more. He will be watching over all of you always.
Love to the Nth Degree,
Bonnie Cassidy Hutchinson
August 22, 2006
To the Holmbeck Family,
My sister told me of this sad news. Reading all these wonderful thoughts from the students and friends is heartwarming. My memories of Steve were from a time we were in high school. 8 of us played softball every day during the summer of 1970. We played kick the can every night. Some things never change. Steve had a wonderful smile then. We would go to his high school gymnastics meets to cheer him on. We all went our separate ways, but I will remember Steve always as the quiet, happy person that was part of a very innocent, sweet time of my life.
Jonathan Kopelman
August 21, 2006
Dear Holmbeck family,
Coming from everyone at home we will all miss Mr. Holmbeck. He was one of the best teachers I ever had.
Kory Tappendorf
August 14, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Mr. Holmbeck was not only a great teacher, but a great man too. He knew how to make a person smile and laugh. He is a man in which I have so much respect for and I am honored to have been his student in school for 2 years. He will be deeply missed throughout our community. My thoughts and Prayers go out to the entire Holmbeck family.
Kory Tappendorf
Jay Thompson
August 10, 2006
Dear Julie and all the Holmbecks,
I was shocked when Gary Novak called me this week to tell me the news about Steve. Gary said that the memorial service was wonderful and that Jim did a great job with the eulogy. I wish I could have been there. I had lost track of your address over the years, but I miraculously found this web site on the Internet. I hope it is still being monitored and that this message finds its way to you.
I was always so impressed with Steve's quiet nature, his humility, his strong work ethic, his sense of fun, and his zest for life (not to mention his love for Jimmy Buffett!). My most vivid memory is of a 2-week canoe camping trip that Steve, Jim, Dave Dorn, and I took to the Boundary Waters and Quetico. (I think it was before you and Steve were married, and after I had moved to California... so I'm guessing it must have been 1979.) Anyway, we had a great experience doing the male bonding thing in the wilderness. I remember Jim gave Steve the nickname "Rising Sun" on that trip; Steve was always the first one up each morning (at the crack of dawn) and had the campfire going while the rest of us were still in our tents sleeping. Steve was such a hard worker, and always gave his all in everything he attempted. I'm sitting here, smiling, with tears in my eyes as I'm typing this, just thinking about Steve.
May God bless you and the family during this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
David Coleman
August 9, 2006
Mrs Holmbeck and family,
I am so sorry for not having the words to express my deep sadness and sympathies to all of you about the tragic, unexpected news I recently received. News I never wanted to hear. I can't even begin to imagine how difficult this time is for all of you and my heart goes out to each of you. I will always hold the fond memories I have of Steve (and the entire family) dear to me. I am thankful that he was such a huge part of my life and like family to me. What a special human being. I only pray for all of you that in time your pain will continue to subside and you will be left with only the most precious and beautiful memories of a man who deserves all the honor and praises that has been given him. May his warmth live in your hearts forever. My love to all of you. If there is anything I can do, ever, please let me know.
Kristi Powers
August 7, 2006
Dear Holmbeck family,
I am deeply sorry for the loss of your husband and dad. I had the privilege of working with Steve for 12 years at GBN. No teacher had a bigger heart (or smile) than Steve. As a dean I worked with him on several issues with students in his classes. He was always an advocate for his students; firm when he needed to be, yet always caring. I hope my own children are fortunate to have teachers and coaches in their lives as caring as Steve. My heart feels a great sense of loss when I think about how Steve is no longer with us. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless You All,
Kristi Powers
Al, Karen, Spencer, and Alyx Martin
August 7, 2006
Julie, and all of the Holmbeck family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Steve was a kind and gentle man with a big heart. He taught me a lot by example, as he accepted me to assist him when he coached Spence in Northbrook baseball. I will always remember his warm smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Kimberly Fisher
August 6, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family: I am still in shock over the news of Steve. My deepest sympathies to all of you. I have known Steve for all of my 16 years at GBN. It was a pleasure working with him everyday with our TLS gym class. Gym class was one of the student's and staff's favorite periods of the day and that was greatly due to Steve. He was such a gentle and kind man. He had such love for all of our TLS kids. They adored him so. He was always so upbeat, positive, and encouraging when working with the TLS students. Every year our highlight was the TLS basketball game, I think it was one of Steve's highlights as well. Please know that on behalf of all the TLS students and staff, we want you all to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
CHARLES EVERETT
August 5, 2006
MARIAN ,WAYNE & FAMILY
OUR FAMILIES GO WAY BACK AND WE BOTH HAD THE BEST SONS & COACHS WHO WERE COLLEGE ROOM MATES HERE ON EARTH AND I'M SURE THEY WILL BE IN HEAVEN ALSO.
CHUCK & RUTH EVERETT
CHUCK & RTH EVERETT
Debra Davis
August 4, 2006
We can't tell you what a shock it was to hear this sad and untimely news. Stephen was an admirable and kind neighbor. He always had a smile on his face whenever we saw him. Both my sons Josh and Ross had him for a teacher at Glenbrook North. They thought very highly of his sincerity and kindness. Our deepest sympathy to Julie, Brittany, Ben, Jenni, Mitch, and Kevin.
Sincerely,
Debra, Robert, Josh and Ross Davis
Caitlin Lee
August 4, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family,
The loss of Mr.Holmbeck came as such a shock, I am so sorry. I feel so honored though that such a wonderful person touched my life. Working with your husband and father for 2 years with the TLS students in gym class, have made memories for me that will last a lifetime. His gentle smile and calming spirit are with me and everyone, forever. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Caitlin Lee
Schuyler Ross
August 4, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family,
I did not have the privaledge of getting to know you all sooner, but the time I did have with all of you will never be forgotten. My heart goes out to each and every one of you in hopes that you guys can be strong. Mr. Holmbeck, you were a great man, a great father, and overall a wonderful amazing person who could not have given his family more love and support and I am truely thankful that during my life I met somebody like you.
Craig Shapiro (GBN '96)
August 4, 2006
Your father/husband was my gym teacher during my freshman year of high school. That being 1992, the fact that I still remember what a wonderful person he was shows the impact he has on people. My thoughts and deepest sympathies are with all of you.
Agnes Nowak
August 4, 2006
Coach Holmbeck was a wonderful person. His quiet and loving presence made many practices more fun, many challenges possible and many little victories into celebrations. I will never forget the impact he has made often without even realizing it. We were truly blessed to have him in our lives, even if it was for a short time. My prayers are with your family coach Holmbeck.
Love,
Agnes
Mike Cook-'93
August 3, 2006
Dear Holmbeck family,
Tonight I was given the news and am extremely sorry to hear of the sudden loss in your family. In the spring of my freshman year I had a choice of what sport to play: baseball, track, gymnastics...etc. At the time I chose gymnastics because of the way the coach cared about the individuals on the team.
Mr. Holmbeck ended up not only a great coach and teacher and friend, but he was like a father to me. He kept me out of trouble and would always redirect me when I was heading down the wrong path. Mr. Holmbeck was always there to catch me, either in the gym or out of it, no matter how out of control I was. Being the great spotter that he was he was always preparred for it too. He was indeed a great person. My wishes go out to all of you; Julie, Brittany, Ben, Jenni, Mitch, and Kevin. And to Mr. Holmbeck (Coach), THANK YOU for all you have done for ALL of us.
Sana Rahmani
August 3, 2006
Mr. Holembeck was wonderful human being, a caring son, a loving father, a dedicated coach, and an inspirtional teacher. With his warm smile and personality, he brighten every person's day. He will be truly missed by so many lives, but will never be forgotten. My prays and thoughts go out to the Holmbeck family in this time of mourning.
Eric Meixner
August 3, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was one of the greatest and inspirational men I have ever met. He had a wonderful outlook on life, and always wanted to make others happy. I will truely miss his good spirit but I willl never forget his warm smile and cheerful attitude. My thoughts and prayers are with the rest of the Holmbeck family.
Elizabeth Green
August 3, 2006
I am shocked and saddened to hear about Mr. Holmbeck. I am so very sorry Mrs. Holmbeck and family. He was an outstanding teacher and kind person. It was always nice to see him and catch up. If it is any comfort, he always spoke of how much love and pride he had for his family. May your memories and the memories of those around you comfort you during this time.
Fondly,
Elizabeth Green
Class of 1993
Catherine Hamilton
August 3, 2006
Dear Holmbeck family,
I am so sorry for your family's enormous loss. Having danced with and grown very close to the Holmbeck girls in high school, I can always remember your dad at our performances, supporting his girls and gleaming with pride. His face was a great one to have in the audience and I will never forget it. Now, in a different place, he can still watch over you all, as he always did. My condolences to all of you - may he rest in peace and never be forgotten.
Lisa Fish
August 3, 2006
Mrs. Holmbeck, Brittany, Ben, Jenni, Mitch, and Kevin:
I am so very sorry for your loss. Your husband and your father was an amazing man. He put his heart into absolutely everything he did. I will always be able to hear his voice cheering for me and the rest of his gymnasts. He will be greatly missed and loved forever.
Beth Ogurek
August 3, 2006
Julie, Brittany, Ben, Jennifer, Mitchell and Kevin-
Steve will be greatly missed as a friend and colleage at GBN. He was so considerate and caring to everyone he met. His eyes glowed of kindness. May you find some comfort and peace in the memories you share of Steve and know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Leif and Dan Lundquist
August 3, 2006
Coach,
We were fortunate to have you in our lives twenty eight years ago at Maine West. You were a laid back, easy going guy. We enjoyed our time with you; we knew you cared.
Nelly Grigorian
August 2, 2006
Brit & Ben, and the rest of your family:
Your father was an amazing man and he will be greatly missed. I am greatful to have had the opportunity to know a man such as Mr. Holmbeck. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Nancy Dema-Kempf
August 2, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family,
I am so sad to hear this news and you have my sincere and deepest sympathy. Steve was a classmate of mine all twelve years. He was a delight to be around. I pray that you all can get through this time.
Marshall Sayad
August 2, 2006
I was very sorry to hear about Steve's passing. We were in many school classes together growing up, and I also remember taking swimming lessons with him, and his dad giving me a ride home in a big old Buick.(or Olds!) Steve was on the quiet side, but had an excellent sense of humor. He was always a pleasure to be around. I am sure that all who knew him will miss him.
Kathy Wirsing
August 2, 2006
Dear Julie,
I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing! You are in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time with your family.
Kathy (S) Wirsing (On Stage Salon, Glenview)
Dustin Stern
August 2, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was by far my favorite teacher at GBN. He got along with everybody and we all greatly respected him. He will be missed by everyone who had him as a teacher and everyone who knew him personally.
Dustin Massel
August 2, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family,
I have known your family for many many years through wrestling and I just cant express the sadness that I felt when I heard the news. Mr. Holmbeck was a great man, as you all know and he really made being in his class fun and talking with him after was always a good conversation. I wanted to share something with you, when I went to sectionals at fenwick, Mr. Holmbeck came even though no one in his family was there, he came to support me. Mitch, next year good luck with wrestling and you have the support of everyone, we will all come watch you. Mr. Holmbeck was a well known, loving guy and it was a pleasure knowing him.
Jan Wacholz
August 2, 2006
Julie and family, It was with immense sadness that I heard of Steve's death. He has left a huge legacy behind not only in his family, but as a wonderful coach and gymnastic judge. I will miss him!
Marla Massel
August 2, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family,
Words cannot express the sadness our family feels in our hearts for your loss. Steve was a warm and special man whom the entire community loved and respected. His sweet smile and quite nature touched everyone who was lucky enough to know him. We will miss him and want you to know that we are here for you and your family.
Brian Atlas
August 1, 2006
Dear Mrs. Holmbeck, Ben, Brittany, Jenny, Kevin, and Mitch:
Mr. Holmbeck was such an astounding individual who led an amazing and important life. I was deeply saddened when I heard the news. I was lucky enough to know your husband/father personally, and there were many unforgettable memories that I will never forget. He was a person who put others before himself, and as a teacher, nothing mattered more to him than his students. His smile simply lit up a room, and his kindness and compassion for people will have an everlasting impression on anyone who was fortunate enough to cross his path. I will miss him dearly. You guys are so strong and brave. My heart is with all of you.
Gordy Lerman, Ben Jacobson
August 1, 2006
We are very sorry and will never forget about Mr. Holmbeck. Even though we only knew Mr. Holmbeck for a year, his easy going attitude and fun personality made it seem like we had known him our whole lives. Mr. Holmbeck was a well respected man and will be missed very much.
John DeGraaf
August 1, 2006
Dear Julie,
I heard of your tragic loss through Cathy. Though I never met him, I can tell by the writings of your friends, that Stephen was someone everyone should have had an opportunity to meet. Your children seem very strong and obviously have been raised well through both of you. Trish and I wish you and your family strength and support through this time.
John & Trish DeGraaf
Heather Hughes
August 1, 2006
Julie, Brittany, Ben, Jenny, Mitchell and Kevin -
Steve was such an amazing man - he was a mentor to me as a fellow coach and teacher, and above all he was a friend. Every time I would pass Steve in the hall he would make me smile - he was always doing little things to brighten everyone's day - never asking for anything in return. I was so shocked and deeply saddened to hear of his passing - it was truly too soon. He will be watching over all of you and taking care of you as he did when he was here with us. Some of my fondest memories of my time at GBN were in the gymnastics gym with Steve and Julie - I feel liked we were laughing all of the time - that is what I will always remember, how much fun we had. During the gymnastics season and beyond, you welcomed everyone into your family and touched so many lives along the way. I will really miss Steve but know the influence and positive impact he had on so many will live on forever. My deepest condolences – please know I am here if you need anything.
Andrew Wagley
August 1, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was such an unbelievable man. He was a great role model to everyone that knew him, with his continuously happy grin and positive attitude. I am so fortunate that I had the chance to know him. I send my deepest sorrows to the Holmbeck family through this tough time.
Matt Fritz, Mark Reding, Brad Altbach, Paul Park
August 1, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was a very respected and loved man not only by his family but by the community he surrounded himself in. We will miss him dearly and he will always be in our hearts. Thanks for everything Mr. Holmbeck. You will be very missed and never forgotten.
Brad Altbach, Matt Fritz, Mark Reding and Paul Park
August 1, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was very respected and loved, not only by his family, but by the community he surrounded himself in. We will miss him dearly and he will always be on our minds. Thanks for everything Mr. Holmbeck, you'll be missed but not forgotten.
Dan Dawson
August 1, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck, you were one of the greatest men I ever met - never critical, always sincerely compassionate. You were a huge part of my maturation into the person I am now. You will be missed so much. To the Holmbeck family: you guys are the greatest. Stay strong.
P.S. Mr. H, I'll be sure to say hello to Comiskey and Duke for you.
Carrie Beasley
August 1, 2006
Holmbeck Family-- I am very saddened and surprised to learn of Mr. Holmbeck's death. Words can't describe what he meant to me! He was the kindest, most gentle man, that had a huge heart! During my high school years, I could not have asked for a better person for my coach/mentor--he touched my life forever! Mrs. Holmbeck--I am so truly sorry for the loss of Mr. Holmbeck, and I will miss him dearly! Know that I will never forget him, and he will be with us forever!
Kelly Kennedy
August 1, 2006
Dear Julie and Family,
I was so shocked when Nicole told me the news of Stephen's passing. I feel like it was just yesterday that you all were leaving for your trip to Mexico, and you and Steve left your beloved Duke and Comisky in my care for the week. I remember how happy and excited you all were and how much fun you all had on that trip. Please accept my deepest condolences and let me know if you need me to watch Duke and Comisky or if there is anything else that I can do for you.
Mary Allen
August 1, 2006
To the Holmbeck Family, We were so shocked to hear about Steve. We want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. Steve was always such a joyful person. So ready with a smile and warm greeting. We hope your memories of him will help you in the time to come. Our hearts are with you, Mary & Jim Allen, Eileen, Jim, Rob & Pete
Ted Miller
August 1, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was such a great man I truly believe he was the most generous and special man I have ever met. I feel like I have lost a father figure in my life, a part of my soul. He always went above and beyond for me and made me feel as part of the family. Anytime there was any arguments or conflicts floating around, he would always look at me and tell me how life is too short and not to worry about small things in life. Well, life is too short. I'm going to miss asking how his day went, how he was feeling and most of all, his advice. He always asked if I wanted to get a one way ticket with him to the Bahamas when times got rough, well I guess I'm going to have to meet him there. He's in a better place now, but we all wish he was still here with us. I love you and cherish your daughter Mr. Holmbeck, I will take care of her. I promise.
Betsy Maher
August 1, 2006
Julie and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your great loss. I wish I would have had the chance to meet such a great coach, teacher, role model, friend, father and a husband. I know times like these are never easy, and my thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Peter Lundholm
August 1, 2006
I can't even begin to say what Mr. Holmbeck meant to me. Here was a gym teacher, who cared so deeply for a kid like me who really wasn't the ideal gym student. Steve's unbiased love and respect for his students was the likes of which I've never seen before. I could go to him for anything and expect the upmost compassion and understanding. I mean, a kinder man has never walked this earth.
Mrs. Holmbeck, Ben, Brittany, Mitch, Jenny, and Kevin: Stay strong. Steve's love is within all of us who have been impacted his brilliance and his sweetness.
I love you all.
Kristen Borowski
August 1, 2006
Dear Julie, Britt, Ben, Jenny, Mitch, and Kevin,
I just wanted you all to know how much your dad meant to me and my family. My prayers are with you and if there is anything I can do just ask. He was such a loving and sweet man, and he will be missed. I'll never forget our trips to Silver Lake and the B.W.C.A
God Bless
Christin Stenvik Kverum
August 1, 2006
To all of Steve's family
It was so shocking and so sad to hear the terrible news.Life is so unfair and so hard to understand sometimes when things like this happen. You are in my thoughts and I feel for you in this time of grief, my deepest sympathy goes to all of you.
Remember all the good memories and all the love he gave to you all.
My thoughts will be with you on Friday espescially.
From all of us here in Norway.
Christin Stenvik Kverum
August 1, 2006
To all of Steves family !
I was so shocked and sad to hear the terrible news- sometimes life is so meaningless and cruel and we really can't understand why things happen the way they do.
You are all in my thoughts during these troubled times for you and I feel with you.
Rememeber all the good memories that he gave you and hold on to the love you know he had for all of his family.
Comfort and warm thoughts from us in Norway, Christin Stenvik Kverum
Michael Goodman
August 1, 2006
Coach Holmbeck, I am sorry I was unable to see you again before your exit, but I thank you for the gymnastics instruction and warm personality. It was never forgotten.
My thoughts are with your family and friends.
Christin Nassos
August 1, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family,
No words can express how sorry I am for the loss of your father/husband. He touched many lives as he was a wonderful teacher and friend to all those at GBN. I will always remember him as the kind man he was and will see him with a warm smile on his face. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time. My deepest sympathy.
Christin Nassos
Elaine Kalcsics
July 31, 2006
Dear Julie and family,
I can't tell you how sorry I am for your loss. There are no words to
express the shock of learning the sad news.
Your family has been in my thoughts
and prayers. I pray that you will be
strong to carry on the heavy task that is ahead of you. I know you will be strong and succeed and your
wonderful family will be the legacy
of you and Steve.
I have thought of your family many times since I retired from working as Dr. Robertson's nurse and have many fond memories of your wonderful family. I remember all the times you made appointments and a number of time that even Steve came in with all of you.
My prayers are with each and everyone of you for the strength to carry on and for each of your wonderful children to carry on with the fine background that you and Steve have given each of them.
May God Bless each one of you and may Steve rest in peace.
Incidently, Julie I just found out that my daughter graduated with Steve from Maine West. This world is so small.
Hugs to all of you,
Elaine Kalcsics
(the retired nurse)
Bob Holloway
July 31, 2006
Steve was special individual and a good friend. Whenever you sat and talked with Steve you always felt comfortable, as you knew that he was truly listening. Steve did not demand attention. He preferred that others particularly the gymnasts and students he worked with get the praise and the glory. I’ll always remember Steve’s love of gymnastics. He always had a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eye when he was coaching or judging. Julie and the children, I can even begin to imagine the pain you feel right now. I hope you find solace in the fact that the sadness you feel will be melted away by the lifetime of warm loving memories of Steve
Nick English
July 31, 2006
Dear Mrs. Holmbeck, Mitch, Kevin, Ben, Jenny, and Britt-
I will miss your father and your husband Mrs. Holmbeck more than anyone I ever have in my life. Not only was he a great teacher for me and for the rest of our school, but he acted as a father figure towards me always! He was the ideal person for the community and he will be missed by all. I loved him very much and I will continue to love and care for all of you for the rest of my life!
Love, Nick
Diane De Rosa Reynolds
July 31, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family,
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Steves death. I am so very sorry. We will miss Steve's smile at GBN. I apologize that I will not be able to attend the Memorial Service on Friday as Joe and I will be out of town. My prayers are with you in this very difficult time. My deepest sympathy.
Diane De Rosa Reynolds
Jim McPherrin
July 31, 2006
Dear Julie, Brittany, Ben, Jenny, Mitch, & Kevin,
I mourn the loss of your husband, Julie, and your dad, Brittany, Ben, Jenny, Mitchell, and Kevin. He was the finest example of a man that I have met in 28 years of teaching at Glenbrook North. He brought humility, sincerity, and grace, to our school, and we will never quite be the same without him. You know, I often think that God places people such as Steve in our midst to remind us of our duties to one another; to show us the character and integrity of which we are capable. I'm really going to miss that soft, beckoning, smile of his. How could there not be a divine order to this world of ours, if a man the likes of Steve Holmbeck walked among us? I will miss him greatly. I pray for you all, and for my friend, Steve.
In profound sorrow,
Jim McPherrin
BETH FUNK
July 31, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family
WE WERE SO SADDENED TO HEAR ABOUT STEVE. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL. MAY YOUR SPECIAL MEMORIES HELP YOU THROUGH THE DAYS AHEAD.
WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY
BETH )HICKLIN) FUNK
Frank Nathan
July 31, 2006
Dear Holmbeck family:
As a friend and neighbor and fellow educator I'd like to express my sincere condolences on the loss of Steve. I fondly remember the discussions I've had with him on teaching, the family, and life in general. My oldest son Scott still thinks of Steve as the best gym teacher he ever had. My youngest son Jeff will never forget the day his car ran out of gas in front of Steve's house and Steve drove him to school. My thoughts will be with you.
Michelle Mangoubi
July 31, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family:
I was deeply saddened to hear of the sudden loss of your father, husband and dear friend. He made a positive impact on each person he came across. His smile could light up a room and cheer up anyone from miles away. I want you to know that you are in the thoughts of our family and every student that has attended GBN. May you find the strength in family and friends to pull you through this difficult time.
Jen Frame
July 31, 2006
Dear Mrs. Holmbeck, Britt, Ben, Jenny, Mitch and Kevin,
Mr. Holmbeck is the kind of teacher who would walk down the halls and people would say "I want him as my teacher, he's awsome!" There are so many characteristics that he passed on to all of his children. My Heart goes out to all of you and I am always thinking of you. I know that you are all very strong! You have so many people thinking of you and loving you. Love you all,
Jen
Derek Sender
July 31, 2006
You will never be forgotten for we all carry you in our hearts forever.
Sebastian Klosowiak
July 31, 2006
Mrs. Holmbeck, Britt, Ben, Jenny, Mitch, and Kevin,
I am so sorry to hear about Coach Holmbeck. He was a great great man, with a lot of heart and genorosity. I'll never forget his smile and kindness that he always had. Coach Holmbeck your going to be missed a lot. Your in my prayers.
Rusty Silber
July 31, 2006
Holmbeck Family,
Sorry to hear about the loss of Stephen Holmbeck. It's a loss more than just a beloved father, teacher and a gymnastics coach. Stephen helped so many in such a good sport and displayed great knowledge. He'll be missed for a long time.
terry Beckwith
July 31, 2006
I have known Steve since he was a High School gymnast and he has always been a great representive for the sport. I was sad to hear of his early loss.
Kristin Vasilenko
July 31, 2006
There are not enough words to describe what your father/husband meant to me. He was not just my coach, but my mentor, second father, my inspiration to always follow my dreams and much much more. Today, I am a better person and (special) educator because of him. Since the day I set foot in the gym at GBN in 1994, I knew I was going to not only have the best four years of my life, but a second family for life. I see him in each and every one of you, and I am so proud and honored to be part of the extended Holmbeck family. I cherish the laughs, smiles, jokes, tears, “Holmbeck hugs” and all memories that will last forever in my heart and soul. He touched people in all walks of life and people of all abilities; his legacy will continue to be shared; he is gone but never forgotten. I love you all very much, and will always be here for you!
Susan Levi
July 31, 2006
Steve was so wonderful with the TLS students. He was much loved and will be greatly missed. Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time. He was a fine, caring person and an outstanding educator.
Lloyd
July 31, 2006
To Julie and the Holmbeck kids,
Our prayers are with you at this sad time.
Thanks for sharing Steve with so many of us in the GBN community. Our family was always touched by his kindness. His quiet manner and good advice were quite effective poolside. He and his smile will be missed by all. Peace.
The Lloyds
Sam Friedman
July 31, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family:
I was so saddened to hear of Stephen's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you; I know that your strength as a family will help you through this too!
Linda Jesser
July 31, 2006
Julie and family,
Altho I only met Steve a few times, my son Jacob always got excited when he saw or talked of Coach Holmbeck! There are no words to comfort you now, but friends are here to help and pray for you to get through this very difficult time. I am here for you.
linda Jesser and family
Nicole Mensching-Carney
July 31, 2006
Dear Julie, Ben, Britt, Jenny, Kevin, & Mitchell,
Words can not express how sorry I am for the loss of Steve. I will always remember him as a warm hearted and kind person. When I first met Steve - he took my dog and gave him the most loving home I could have possibly ever asked for. I will always be grateful to him for this and your family. Please let me know if there is anything at all I can do for your family.
You are all in my prayers.
Love,
Nicole, Max and Ryan Carney
Robert Stenvik
July 31, 2006
Dear Holmbecks,
I was so sad when I heard that Stephen past away. To young. I will be thinking about you, especially on Friday.
Ashley Anderson
July 31, 2006
Mrs. Holmbeck, Britt, Ben, Jenny, Mitch, and Kevin,
I am praying for you all. We were all blessed to have such a great man in our lives, and now that he is with our Savior, we can rest assure that we will be with him again soon. I am here if you need anything. Take care!
Laila Kroge
July 30, 2006
Holmbeck Family,
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.
Ken Klamm
July 30, 2006
Dear Holmbecks - you are continually in my thoughts. I am very, very sorry for your loss. Your father/husband was a kind, gentle man with a positive and sincere spirit. He will truly be missed. This is a sad time. I am thinking about you ... and him.
Karen Cunningham
July 30, 2006
Julie, Brittany, Ben, Mitch, Kevin and Jenni,
I gained so much from working with your father as a fellow gymnastics coach and as a teaching colleague. Glenbrook North and the Northbrook community are better places due to his influence. He will be missed, but his dedication, kindness and warmth will remain with all of us. My heart goes out to you.
Joan, Matt, Danny, Amy and Jenny Lewin
July 30, 2006
Julie and Family:
Steve was always a friendly face with kind words to say. He will be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Brittany Zimmermann
July 30, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was not only my coach, but he was my best friend. He was like a second father to me and always knew how to cheer me up or make me smile. He touched my life everyday I was with him. He was a beautiful man with a huge heart. He was the most loved man I've ever known. He and his family have done so much for me that I could never repay them. I trusted him with all my heart. There is always one person in life who will touch you in ways, you never knew, and I'm glad I knew who that one person was. I'm going to miss him more than anything in this whole world.
Molly McGovern
July 30, 2006
Coach Holmbeck was a wonderful individual and so many people were blessed to have been taught and inspired by him. My family's thoughts and prayers are with each of you.
Molly McGovern
John Larsen
July 30, 2006
Holmbeck Family:
Our thoughts & prayers are with you now. We will all miss Steve, but know he is with our Lord now.
Brittany Zimmermann
July 30, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was not only the best coach I've ever had in my life, but he was also my best friend and my second father. He always knew how the cheer me up and make me smile. He truely was the one person who touched my life everyday I was with him. He and his wife helped me through so much that I could never repay them. He was an outstanding man and extremely loved. I've never had a best friend who changed my life in the ways he had. He raised five beautiful children who have also been there with me throughout the years. I will miss him more than anything in this world.
Carly Rosenberg
July 30, 2006
Mr Holmbeck was like a second father to me. He raised 5 of the most respectful, sweet, wonderful kids whom i love to death. He is a loss to the community and we will miss him everyday.
Jennifer Holmbeck
July 30, 2006
My father was the greatest man I have ever known. Someone who had a huge heart, and touched peoples lives with just a smile. I am very lucky to have had a dad who cared and loved all of us. He might have left us suddenly, but he will be with us forever and guide us through life as if he were here. He was loved by many and will be greatly missed.
I love you dad and always will, im thinking about you always and forever, for i am always your little girl!
Brittany Holmbeck
July 30, 2006
Daddy-Words can not express the pain I am feeling right now, not only have i lost you, but my best friend. I love you always and forever, you are my guardian angel!
Jayme Wagley
July 30, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was a wonderful and inspirational teacher/coach! Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Laurel Schilling
July 30, 2006
Dear Julie and family,
We were shocked to return from vacation and learn about Steve's untimely death. He truly had a gift for relating to kids. My son Aaron, especially, felt Steve was a mentor and confident. He was easy to talk to and encouraging as a coach. It is difficult to imagine GBN without him. Those of us that knew him as a coach of our kids and as a fellow parent at football games will miss his mild humor. His children were fortunate to have such a wonderful father.
Mary Strader
July 30, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family,
Mr. Holmbeck was my gym teacher, at Maine West, in Des Plianes. He was kind, compassionate, and dedicated to his students. He will be missed.
M.L.Aman-Strader
Class of 1980
Stacy Shifrin
July 30, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was an amazing gymnastics coach. He was always there to help and push you a little more. He will always be remembered.
Karen & Terry Christopherson
July 30, 2006
Dear Holmbeck Family, There are no words that can ease your pain and loss at this time. Please know we are thinking of all of you and upholding you in our thoughts and prayers, sending you our love and condolences. We, too, will miss Steve's smile and presence, but will cherish his memory forever in our hearts.
Mike Velissaris
July 30, 2006
Mr. Holmbeck was one of the greatest men I have ever known. I am very thankful for getting the chance to know him. He will be missed but never forgotten. I am very sorry for this loss.
Ray and Pam Jenkins
July 30, 2006
Steve will be greatly missed but always in our hearts.
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