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Vincent Bommarito Obituary
Memories and Condolences
for Vincent Bommarito
122 Entries
Joseph Slay
February 14, 2024
I thought of you today while eating my lunch at home, Then I took a nap for three hrs. When I woke up your son James text me. God please take care of Vincenzo Bommarito. He is one of my Friend´s.
Friend
April 2, 2020
One year anniversary today It doesnt seem real. You have earned your right in Heaven . What a great Man
Your friend
April 2, 2020
My Sincerest & Heartfelt hopes that you are getting everything you deserve in Heaven. You ran the race, you represented your self with the most respect And helped others along the way. What a Life. Your missed beyond what you would have ever expected. God Bless You in every way Vince .
December 25, 2019
Buon Natle Vincenzo
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December 25, 2019
Vince, I want to wish you a Merry Christmas in Heaven. This is the first Christmas being there, and I am positive that you and your Mother and Father and loved ones are looking down on the rest of us and saying Take Very Good Care Of Them, These Are Friends Of Mine. We Miss You.
Mariette and Richard Palmer
December 19, 2019
It was always a celebratory occasion, full of excitement and anticipation when we as a young couple and our friends had dinner at Tony's. I had a special friend, Toni
Boynton, from Salt Lake and San Francisco, who insisted we go to Tony's whenever she came to town. To her dying day, she would inquire if Tony's were still the leading restaurant in St. Louis.
A Friend
July 2, 2019
Month number 3, you are not forgotten Vince . May God Bless You Forever.
June 2, 2019
Two months now have passed & it still doesn't seem real. I can't count the times I I have thought about you . May God Bless You everyday Vince . A Friend
May 2, 2019
One Month Today you were taken from the earth, but what you accomplished in your profession, stood for as a Man and the Love you had for your Family will not ever be taken away, not ever.
Gary Bull
May 1, 2019
Vince,
I am so sorry for you and your family, please send my condolences. I haven't been in touch for some time, so if you need anything please contact me. Sorry again, you will be in my prayers. Your friend, G. Bull ( Rodney)
April 12, 2019
There was no one who had or will have what you had . RIP
Frank Petrus
April 9, 2019
A true icon of the restaurant business - not just in St. Louis - he had an impact nationally. He made all who came feel a part of his family. He will be missed.
Anthony Cupini
April 8, 2019
Such an incredibly hard working man who ran a restaurant like perfection and did so much for the City of St. Louis. I also remember Vince spending so much time with workers at the Missouri Athletic Club, always willing to give advice and listen to them. Osssooooo Buccoooooo!!
My condolences to the Bommarito Family.
Flora Fazio
April 7, 2019
Heartfelt condolences to the Bommarito family in the loss of a Legend to all people.
I remain grateful for the graciousness shown to my Aunt Helen who worked for Tony's for close to 40 years. She was called Helena by Mr. Bommarito. Peace and comfort to the family and to the soul of Mr. Bommarito in God's Kingdom.
Joseph Slay
April 7, 2019
I first met Vince in 1962 when I went to Tonys for dinner. I was a Sophomore in High School trying to impress my date.Vince was standing right in front of the door like he knew I was coming in. He smiled , He introduced himself & I did likewise . Once I said my name Vince named almost my whole entire Family . He was sincere warm & pleasant . There was constant eye contact when Vince spoke to me. I instantly caught how polished & genuine he was. I knew right away that I had just met a gentleman like no other person I had ever met. That was 57 Years ago. Over the past years we had lunch together in restaurants that well are not 5 Star , it didn't matter to him or me. He liked to read newspapers as we ate & talked.He would read in the newspaper that things were not right in the world and would offer his solution to fix it. He told me that when he met his wife Martha that he knew he would make her his wife. I asked him how did you know ? Vince took his hand and tapped on his heart & replied I could feel it in here. Over the years of dining there for me it was more that I was going to see a friend but I also ate some amazing food on & off the menu. Food that I still remember like it was last week. The very last time I saw Vince he was walking out of the door of Dr Birenbaum his Primary Doctor. I went to greet him with a handshake and hug . He looked at me and said i'm taking dialysis now Vince then as he said a few hundred times , What are you gonna do . I got to get to the restaurant. Anthony was waiting to drive him back to the restaurant. That's the last time I saw Vince. What a gentleman & Friend you are . May God Bless You and Your Family , They miss you already.
Lew & Carol Felberbaum
April 7, 2019
Beyond the business side of life, Vince was, simply put, one of the nicest men you could ever know...with a sense of humor to match. Making his way from table to table wasn't just a ritualistic chore for him__ it was the prism through which he saw and connected with the people in his life. Sure at the end of the day it's a business, but it was also a man and his families life and that's how it felt. Like you were coming into the heart of this family and he wanted you to feel special and welcome like you never have been anywhere before. It worked.
Natalie Jansen Gallo
April 6, 2019
My grandparents, Mr. & Mrs. Harry Hartman introduced "dining out" to me as a very young girl. The 3 hour dinners we enjoyed at Tony's included many laughs and conversations that molded my childhood and beyond. Vince was always welcoming and made each experience memorable. We celebrated many special occasions as well as just regular Saturday nights in his presence.
A void will certainly be felt as St Louis has lost a legend. My prayers to the family.
Keelon Johnson
April 5, 2019
It truly saddens me to hear of Vincents passing, this truly tears at my heart. I worked for Vincent many years and he was like a father to me. Me being ill myself I was not aware until it being mentioned. Sending the most heart felt condolences to the family.
danny weatherby
April 5, 2019
im just lost for words when I found out Mr.B ommarito passed. I work at Missouri athlectic club for ten years and I offered lunch daily there and I always talk to him while he ate lunch and he always told me how he started his business from hard work and dedication. very good man my condolence to the bommarito family
Vince kissing 5 year old Hopie with sister Peggy looking on in 1989.
Hope and Arthur Blumeyer
April 5, 2019
Hope and I were really saddened to learn of Vince's passing. A great man and friend is gone. It was a privilige to know you and yours. You made every visit to Tuny's as if we were the only ones in the restaurant, even our then 9 year old daughter (now 39 year old restaurant owner) Hope. The Bommarito family in our lives have always been beloved by Hope and I. Martha, Tony and Mary, our love goes with you.
Deanna Stevens
April 5, 2019
Thank You Mr.bommaritp for hiring me over the phone to work as a cashier . So sorry I did not take the job,had transportation issue . He did call back to ask why I didn't show and said call back when I can, get transportation. I have met some of his friends ,all very nice,lovely recipes,best ever,none better . Rest In Peace Vince Bommarito ,Never Forget .Mr. Bommarito certainly did set the bar high and lived up to his own standards ,plus . He will be greatly missed by many .
Don Deed
April 5, 2019
My wife and I have enjoyed Tony's for every anniversary since our fifth. That started 30+ years ago. Vince and his staff, including Ken, Donny, Bruce and many others have made every visit as delightful as the last. Vince, you are truly missed my friend. God Bless the entire Tony's family.
Sarah Bakewell
April 5, 2019
I just learned about Vinces' passing, and now see there are 99 written condolences ahead of mine! This speaks to the profound impact Vince had on so many of us over the years in St. Louis.
Thank you, Vince, for being such a great and passionate leader in our community. It was an honor to know, and work with you.
DeWayne Love
April 5, 2019
Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us everyday, unseen unheard but always near. Still loved, still missed, and very dear.
April 5, 2019
My brother was a high school classmate and friend of Vince. The Gratz's celebrated every birthday, anniversary and other special occasions at Tony's. R.I.P.
Pete Nettle
April 5, 2019
Downtown lost its biggest supporter when we lost Vince , he will be missed .
I had the pleasure of cutting his hair every other Saturday at 12:00 noon , for over 25 years .
April 5, 2019
So sorry to hear.
He was a legend, he will be missed by all.
Vince was a friend of our family, my father, a well known boxer, long ago played baseball with Vince and Vince did some boxing, too.
I dined at Tony's often, he always talked about my dad when I was with clients, or friends, or family.
What a master of the restaurant business he was! What a culture: the best food, the best ambiance, the best service! He visited every table, everybody felt they were important, because to Vince, they were!
My condolences.
Mike Buha
Chesterfield
April 5, 2019
Vincenzo Di Piazza
My Sympathy to the family
Theodore C.(Ted) Forster
April 4, 2019
Many fond memory's of the man and his food...always a delight...It seems the old guard is passing this year first Kim Tucci now the grand master. I have seen many kitchens but his was unique most are chaos and noise his was silence and composure. My wife Mary Huebener and I enjoyed many unforgettable meals we always felt special when visiting A true loss to the community
Rose Marie Hartman
April 4, 2019
God Bless you Vincent, Love the Hartman Family
Tex Pardo
April 4, 2019
Your father always treated us w care and respect. We will continue to celebrate special events and our anniversary and will always keep him in our thoughts and prayers.
April 4, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Monica Reed
April 4, 2019
A legend is gone. What a great man and so accommodating to our family. My father, Harry Hartman's, favorite restaurant and dined as often as Mom, Mrs. Hartman would dress to go. It was my honor & previlge to experience such fine dining as a young girl and then to introduce to my family. His 5 star dining set the highest bar and ruined my expectations of every restaurant thereafter.
Our deepest condolences & prayers to the family. Lovingly, Reed & Hartman family
Shyrln Schutt
April 4, 2019
My prayers are with the family. But, I would still like to have a Tony's Caesar salad prepared at my table as only they can do!
Richard Cohen
April 4, 2019
We are a four generation Tony's family. My parents started going to the old spaghetti house and then took me and my three brothers to the North Broadway location for all special occasions. And how special they were as we remember Vince, Herbie (walking up the stairs backwards) and Ruby at the coatcheck, along with all the wonderful servers and staff. My brothers and I then followed Tony's when it moved, this time bringing our children to such a special place. And now, the fourth generation has dined in elegance. Vince was Tony's and always made sure everything was perfect. He was the best.
Yael&Mitch Alevy
April 4, 2019
May GOD bless his soul.
The memory of him will live forever in our hearts.
May GOD comfort his family and bless them all
Yael&Mitch Alevy
April 4, 2019
It is such a sad thing to lose a person whom we considered a friend. My husband and I were frequent quests at Tony's and we celebrated all our special occasions in his presence.he was such a wonderful man and we'll always miss him.
GOD bless him and his family.
Lorenza Pasetti
April 4, 2019
Very saddened to hear of this. Our most sincere condolences for the family of this dear man who we will forever hold in the highest regard
Lee Landau
April 4, 2019
My family has always had a place in our heart for Vince. Vince delivered a 4 course meal and wine to my Dad at St. Mary's before he had triple bypass surgery. He always treated everyone like they were the most important person in the world. We are so saddened by his passing and send our condolences to his family.
The Lee Family
April 4, 2019
Our deepest & heartfelt sympathy to the Bommarito Family. Vince and Tony's ... old & new...has been a big part of our parents and entire family's lives. We will miss his kindness and warm smiling face. Our love to his family ❤
Jon Lum
April 4, 2019
When we wanted the best dinner Tony's was the only place. Vince made it special
jim Cohen
April 4, 2019
Vince was always wonderful to my family and I have many wonderful memories of celebrations with my family at TONYS
"A Very Special Man for Others"
Vincent Luongo
April 3, 2019
My family and I are extremely grateful and fortunate for having Vince in our lives. He taught us all about striving for the highest degree of excellence - no matter what you do or pursue in life. His impact will be everlasting for us all.
Because of Vince's charisma and power to think with clear logic, we are now more alert and more able to deal with challenges. Because of how he worked productively, we better understand what it means to be productive. Because of his sense of humor, his joy of life, his laughter, we are better able to see things in perspective and to laugh and enjoy life. And because he was kind and compassionate, generous and loving, then we value and appreciate more these qualities, with each passing day. And the most wonderful fact is that when he leaves us, we don't lose what he gave us, what he brought forth in us. We are better people because he lived. The world is a better place because he lived. He gave us a great gift: his life, his influence and his presence. We will treasure his image in our conscious, and in our consciousness. In darkness, we will always see more clearly because he lived. And when we remember him, it will be as if he were present, and we will think more clearly and show more integrity and know more of what it means to love. God Bless you Vince.
Prayers and love to the Bommarito Family, Co-workers and Circle of Friends.
"Ad maiorem Dei gloriam"
Kevin Ringkamp
April 3, 2019
My thought's & prayer's to the Bommarito family.
Barbara & Rusty Briggs
April 3, 2019
My husband and I are celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary in May. As always, we made reservations for 2 at Tony's well in advance. Starting with dinner on our wedding night, and then every anniversary after that, Vince stopped at our table and inspire us with his loving stories about he and his wife. We will miss his graciousness, his ability to make every custormer feel special and his dedication to quality in every detail of the dining experience. But mostly, we will miss his sweetness and his smile.
Sue Peters and Russ Henderson
April 3, 2019
Our deepest condolences on the loss of your father. We pray you find peace and remember the joy he brought to you and the whole community.
Christopher Miller
April 3, 2019
A few years ago, I was a culinary student at Forest Park Community College. One of my assignments was to choice a profession within a restaurant and research/write about it, and interview someone currently involved with that profession. I chose the
the sommelier. I called Tony's and asked to speak to their sommelier, and was told that was Mr V. Bommarito. He was not there but I was told to call back later at a specific time and I could speak with him then. I didn't think I would actually get him, but I called back at the prescribed time and asked for him: What an incredible conversation. After I introduced myself and explained why I was calling, there was a pause, and then he said..."So what do you want to know?" What seemed like an hour later, probably more like 20-30 minutes, I thanked him and started to say goodbye. Before I could, he said something like, "Next time your in, look me up and we will have a glass of wine together." What a gracious, humble, caring, individual. Sorry we never got to have that wine.
April 3, 2019
I chatted with Vince, James, Anthony and Vince Jr. almost every day as I worked in the Equitable building for 20+ years. My heart goes out to the whole Bommarito family, plus Mike and Everett.
John Roeger- St. Louis
Alan Wright
April 3, 2019
In the late 1970s, I first met Vince at one of the first meetings of the Alphonso J. Cervantes Convention Center Commission Meetings. As I recall, his first words were, "We gotta this place clean." He had clearly made an inspection tour of the brand new building and wasn't happy. He brought the same passion to serving his "customers" at the Convention Center that he did to Tony's. He had an unmatched genius for hospitality and attention to detail. Vince Bommarito will undoubtedly be remembered, along with Tony Faust, as two legendary restaurateurs of St. Louis. Rest in peace, Vince, it was a privilege to have known you!
Lynda Haynie
April 3, 2019
Ken and I are saddened to hear of Mr. Bommarito's passing. He was truly a gentleman, and it was obvious to all that entered Tony's door that he loved his business and his family. Tony's is one of our favorites and we always enjoyed the experience when we lived in Saint Louis. Truly a loss to the city of Saint Louis.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Bommarito family and Tony's family.
Judy and Al Goldman
April 3, 2019
The end of an era. We spent most of our major family events at Tony's with our friend Vince. Like Frank Sinatra there will never be another one like Vince.
Sharon Sienaski
April 3, 2019
Having Kim Tucci and Vince Bommarito pass in the same week brought back a memory of our daughter Lauras wedding. Both of those fine men, along with their wives, and Mr. and Mrs Joe Fresta were guests at the reception. I told the chef at the Missouri Athletic Club where we held the wedding reception, No pressure... but these three legends are among our guests for the reception dinner! No pressure indeed!! A great Memory.
Well done good and faithful servant. Enter into the joy of your Lord.
Freddie & Frances Dunlap
April 3, 2019
Thanks for the many beautiful experiences. It was a pleasure knowing Vince. He always had kind words and will be missed by many. Say hello to Mr Henry when you see him in Heaven.
Alfred Wilson
April 3, 2019
On a June day in 1968, I was promoted to an elementary school principalship in Granite City. As a part-time employee at Tony's, I went into to work that evening, and Vince said, "Put on the white tie." That meant I had been promoted to a waiter. I was more proud of becoming a waiter at Tony's than becoming a principal of a school.
I told Vince several times, his guidance and attention to details taught me how to manage a school. So many wonderful memories of the Tony's experience.
Maria Torrini
April 3, 2019
Our family has many fond memories of Vince, from the award he received as cavalliere , to the very sweet Christmas cards he would send. A very funny moment when he visited our home while we were cooking . HE snuck up behind me, ended up with splatters of bechemel, noting it needed more Swiss. We never lived it down, and we'd joke about it years later. He was amazing, an inspiration, a legend. He will be greatly missed, but never forgotten.
Cindy Fultz Nancy Weldy
April 3, 2019
Nancy and I had the pleasure of meeting Vince and the family as we had a food cart near Tony's. He and Martha often came by on their way to the Cardinals game. He was the kindest gentleman and always said if we needed anything let him know. We got to know the boys as well. A very good and kind family! Our deepest sympathy goes out to the family! RIP Vince!
Adella Jones
April 3, 2019
Vince was a generous man and a true champion for the City of St. Louis. He had a respect and value for his employees that was unlike any I have ever seen. He is a model for how we ought to be. Rest in heaven, friend.
Theresa Albers
April 3, 2019
Tony's was the Best! Great loss to our community. God Bless his family.
April 3, 2019
He did make everyone feel like they were the most important customer he ever had - even if it was your first trip there. Greatness!
April 3, 2019
If heaven has a commissary it just got another star ! Our condolences to the wonderful Bommarito family.
Tom & Patsy Sheehan
Hope and Arthur Blumeyer
April 3, 2019
A great man and friend, we will miss Vince's humor and many kindnesses. RIP Vince.
Leslie Burr (Mead)
April 3, 2019
So very sad to her of the passing of Mr. Bommarito. My condolences to his entire family, especially my friend Lucy. St. Louis lost one of their greatest citizens.
Andrew & Tricia Sutton
April 3, 2019
What I will remember most about Vince is that he made you feel like you were the most important person in the room. Last visit he gave me a business card and told me to call him if I ever need anything. He likely gave that card to every diner that evening, but he made me feel like he was doing that just for me. His team printed and autographed a special menu for our anniversary, which we will always cherish. My condolences to the Bommarito family. Vince, Rest in Peace. You were the best.
Tracy Schreiber
April 3, 2019
The Bommarito family, my dear friend Lucy, her Dad Vince, her Mom Martha hold a very special place in my heart. And of course Tony's was always THE special occasion place we celebrated big life events. So sorry to say goodbye to Lucy's Dad.
Sue Bommarito
April 3, 2019
I know you will be missed by many especially your family I have many warm memories of you and Martha. I loved the food at Tony's. It was outstanding. Rest In Peace
Charlene Kell and Larry Brown
April 3, 2019
My father, Charles Kell, was honored to
manufacture the stainless kitchen equipment that was used in both Tony's
locations. Mr. Bommarito wanted the best
and he got it.
The last time my mother and I dined at
Tony's, Vince was kind enough to give me
a tour of the kitchen. As my father used
to say, it was so clean that you could eat
off the floor.
A gentleman always, he will be greatly
missed by all who were lucky enough
to know him. Our sincere condolences
to his family.
Ron Miller
April 3, 2019
Vince was a great friend.
Ric Anello
April 3, 2019
I first met Mr Bommarito ( it took many years before I was comfortable w Vince) in 1965 a junior at Lindbergh and interviewed him for a speech class presentation he gave me a complete tour of the old Tony's and described in-detail all aspects including I asked for him to describe A perfect multi course meal I think it was 5 courses?! After, he invited me and my parents to be his guest for that same dinner but I asked if I could bring a prom date instead and he laughed and said sure! It was my first Wonderful evening of many at Tony's !
What a Wonderful Man!!
May God Bless his Living Soul
Mike Chekoudjian
April 3, 2019
I was a waiter at Anthony,s, sister restaurant to Tony,s ,when our Boss ( everybody called Vince and Tony Boss) Tony would take a vacation Vince would come over we would be super alert because now the big boss was in town, I was surprised he knew who I was without me ever meeting him before, that is the type of attention to details these guys had, I am so thankful that I got hired there and learned what is was be a professional, it was a important part of my life story... I hope the family has their bereavement eased by the sweet memories of this man.
Libby Travers
April 3, 2019
My first experience at Tony's was as a junior in high school after "La Promenade Militaire" at CBC High School.
The young man who escorted me became my husband of 45 years. Giovanni was our waiter.
An enchanted evening with life-long consequence for me.
Thank you, Mr. Bommarito. Rest in peace.
Wayne Page
April 3, 2019
Tony's was always a place for special occasions and Vince never failed to stop by
for a greeting. Once when I had returned from a trip to Rome, I asked him why there was no tortellini on the menu. After a few minutes he appeared with a plate of delicious tortellini. He was the perfect host. I will miss him the next time I return to St. Louis.
Kathllen Carter
April 2, 2019
My Mother lost her bracelet at "Tony's" but when I called they had it. I went to claim it and had to go in through the kitchen, Wow! what a kitchen! Sparkling clean and impressive! I'll never forget how wonderful they all were!
Maurice Hazan
April 2, 2019
I am heart broken to hear this news. Vince Bommarito taught me everything. He was the toughest boss but he was equally tough on himself. I try to run my business the way he ran his. With attention to details. He is truly a legend. Generation will talk about him. I loved him like a second father. May his family find comfort in knowing thousands are now mourning this beautiful and inspired self made man. We love you Vince.
Karen Dartt
April 2, 2019
Vince - a wonderful man who loved his craft, but he especially loved his family and was so proud of them. Christmas cards were a treat as we watched the children grow and then have children of their own. He made everyone feel special. My mom took me to Tony's for my seventh birthday and I felt like a princess. Some years later she worked for Tony's and Vince, being the family oriented man he was, gave me my first job opportunity fresh out of high school. I saw the staff every day - many of them were working with their brothers or cousins. Some of them went on to become successful in the restaurant world themselves thanks to Vince's selfless mentoring. My mom was so proud to work there. The awards were many over the years. But, the blessing truly was knowing this awesome person. I can still recall the hustle and bustle down at 826 N Broadway nearly 50 years ago as Vince and his staff prepared for the show' and welcoming everyone to the restaurant like they were royalty. He definitely set the gold standard in St. Louis for dining and he will be missed very much.
May God bless and comfort the Bommarito family. Sending love and prayers.
James Rose
April 2, 2019
I had the pleasure of dining at both Tony's locations, both times the food was delicious and the service was perfect! He and his staff made you feel as if the restaurant was open just for you. Both times he came by and visited with my table guests, asking about our meal and our experience. A true gentleman who will be missed! Thank you! My thoughts and prayers are with Mr. Bommarito's family.
Rosalind Colin
April 2, 2019
My parents took me there when my uncle Meyer came to visit. We got all dressed up and I got to wear my new Mary Janes. It was so nice and the waiter put my napkin in my lap and lit my Mothers cigarette. it felt like we were special. I loved going there and the food was wonderful! As I got bigger I didn't get to anymore. I then had a date take me and we got all dressed up and we were treated like we were special. I really was a grown up now and was lucky to have gone there so many times. It was class with food added ! Tony will be missed by all of the people he made feel so special when he came to the table,including this little girl. I'm old now but it will always be a wonderful memory!
Dennis & Catherine Nobbe
April 2, 2019
This is such sad news for the entire area.
Vince was such a special person. One felt cherished when dining at Tony's. There is no other restaurant like his.
We always celebrated our anniversary with Vince.
Buffy Stallard
April 2, 2019
My deepest sympathies to the whole Bommarito family.I only got to go there once for dinner on my 60th birthday from 2 of my girlfriends.The food was wonderful and we had a Great time.I've been friends with his daughter Lucy since 2009.and meet his wife Martha a couple times.They have a Beautiful family.Prayers to All of you.
April 2, 2019
I always walked away from Mr. Bommarito having learned a valuable lesson. He was the consummate professional, devoted family man, community leader and he loved his country.
It was an honor to know him.
Larry L. Thompson
S Dashner
April 2, 2019
We are fortunate to have enjoyed the perfect dining experience at Tony's. The food and service were perfect, and everything about the environment was relaxing. I am so sad to learn of Mr. Bommarito's passing.
Patricia Vecchio
April 2, 2019
I had first been introduced to Tony's Restaurant and Vince as a small girl at the age of five years old with my parents.
As I grew up, I introduced my husband, our daughter and many of our friends to this wonderful dining experience.
Thank you Vince for so many years of wonderful memories.
Rest In Peace and God Bless you and your family.
Paul Ebeling
April 2, 2019
I remember the 1st time I dined at Tony's on Broadway, it was Summer of 1957 out on the sidewalk. And had many memorable meals over the past 60 yrs, RIP Vincent! Paul Ebeling
Greg Faupel
April 2, 2019
My thoughts and prayers are with the Bommarito Family. I would say Vince was an icon of restaurateurs but that would be an understatement, Vince was the King. Rest in Peace Mr Bommarito, you will be missed by many.
Geena Johnson
April 2, 2019
I had many special dinners at Tony's. I remember Vince fixing special dishes for us that were not on the menu. I also remember telling him it was a pleasure to pay for a job done exceptionally well. I ran into him one day at Ms. Hullings restaurant and he paid for my meal. I live out of state now but manage to get to Tony's when I am in town. Vince was a special person with a gift of making you feel special. He will be missed.
Terry and Sue Williams
April 2, 2019
Vince always made our visit to Tony's so special. We will miss him.
April 2, 2019
The city of Saint Louis has lost one of our best citizens. Mr Bommarito was a true gentleman. We enjoyed some truly great meals over the years. Condolences to the whole Bommarlto family. Tim and Debra Sheahan.
April 2, 2019
My husband Rico Lonati was a chef at Tony's for 37 years. Vince was good to my husband and always said he was like a brother to him. Vince you will be missed by so many. RIP
Susan
April 2, 2019
My husband was introduced to Tony's in the early '60's when he was at Scott AFB. He loved the place then and shared his love with me when we were married. We celebrated our engagement, our birthdays, our anniversaries at Tony's for over 30 years. Vince was always there offering his good wishes and his love. He will always be an important memory in our lives.
George Metzger
April 2, 2019
I remember a night in 1958. My wife who was very pregnant were waiting in the bar for a table. There were no seats so she sat in the phone booth while we waited.. it was a special night. I still remember the waiter lighting our cigarettets and we felt special.. George Metzger
Barb Marshall
April 2, 2019
The last time we dined at Tony's ,Vince gave me a kitchen tour. What an impression!! He was The Restauranteur in St Louis. He will be missed.
Alice O'Dell
April 2, 2019
I was a medical student at Washington University in the 1960's. There were only seven females in my class. We celebrated the end of each year with a night out at Tony's. We were always treated royally, given tours of the kitchen, and special attention from Tony himself. These night nights remain among my fondest memories of those years.
Larry Absheer
April 2, 2019
Vince was a pillar of the St. Louis community -- truly a legend -- the best restaurateur ever -- my dear friend and colleague for 35 years.
Michael Genovese DDS
April 2, 2019
My Uncle Sam Bommarito after we saw Vince's aunts Sarah and Rose on saturday mornings would take me to the old Tony's when I was young. Vince would say to me. Go outside and watch the parking lot and help Uncle Louie. I will really miss you cuz. My regards to the family and God bless you.
April 2, 2019
A sad day not only for the family, but for all of St. Louis. A good and kind man has left us, but the great memories will be his legacy.
Michael Kyriakos
April 2, 2019
Vince, you will be greatly missed. You have made every one of my birthdays a special occasion, especially when you hosted my 50th birthday party. Always a gentleman with all of us ladies and always saying hello to everyone.
-Maurie Cofman Clayton, MO
Jon Soucy
April 2, 2019
It was a privilege to meet Mr. Bommarito when we dined at Tony's for my 40th birthday. He was so kind and truly made every guest feel special. In peace,
Amy White
April 2, 2019
My family has celebrated all our most important events at Tony's - anniversaries, births, high school graduations. What an exceptional legacy you have left your family, your restaurant and your city. You will truly be missed!
Gary Spivak
April 2, 2019
My late father would take me to Tony's when
I was a kid, and we visited St Louis.
A memory I will never forget.
The greeting at the door, of walking backwards
Up the stairs to the restaurant was really
Something to remember of the staff.
My father is gone now, but in his name,
I plan on coming back to Tony's, & St Louis
Someday.
Joe Tucci
April 2, 2019
Vincenzo was the best of the best period
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