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Leo Wong
January 24, 2025
God bless Phil.
Leo Wong
January 24, 2024
God bless Phil.
Leo Wong
January 24, 2023
God bless you, Phil!
Leo Wong
January 24, 2022
God bless Phil, with I attended daily Masses long ago.
Dennis
January 25, 2021
It´s been nine years and the memories are still so fresh in my mind.I miss you buddy.You would be so proud of your daughters and beautiful grand children.
Leo Wong
January 24, 2021
God bless you, Phil!
Dave State
January 24, 2020
A legend. I think of him often.
Robert Mc Dougall
December 15, 2017
I now have lived in Florida since my retirement at age 55 in 2003 from nysotda in NYC. I just now saw many years later the unfortunate passing of Phil. He was a great guy and attorney and always friendly. I am shocked he left us so young but I have many fond memories of him on his visits to NYC at 80 Centre Street where he started his career. God bless.
Pam Doyle
February 3, 2013
Veronica,
I can't believe it's been a year Phil's been gone. I know he would be so proud of being a grandpa and love George to death! I think about you often and miss you.
Pamela & Ron Whelpley
February 6, 2012
Veronica, Ron and I just heard of your loss. We are so very sorry. All your personal generosity for others will be returned to you and your daughters. There is little that we can do to help. Our prayers and our thoughts of love joined with all, I hope will bring you moments of Peace and memories of Joy.
Tom Hedderman
February 3, 2012
Veronica and Family, I worked with Phil for many years at OTDA. He will be deeply missed. He was such a decent and kind man, and a talented and trusted colleague. I'm sorry for your loss.
Dan Roberts
February 2, 2012
Veronica my heart goes out to you. May the angels of healing and peace bring you and your family all the comfort and support that you need in the days and years ahead. May the memories and stories of Phil bring a smile to your face and lighten your heart.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dan
Carol OBrien
February 2, 2012
Veronica, Gloria and Julie:
We are so sorry to hear of Phil's passing. Keep the happy memories close as it will help you get through this difficult time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The O'Brien's
Carol, Nicole and Travis
Leo Wong
February 2, 2012
God bless you, Phil. We miss you at noon Mass. Hope you're looking down on us with a smile.
susan lerner slomka
February 2, 2012
February 02, 2012
Phil epitomized that rare combination of a leader who was totally effective and strong yet understanding and caring. He was an honest and gentle soul. I will carry wonderful memories of the consideration and understanding he showed me, and many others, as The Boss for almost two decades and of the professionalism and strength he applied in creating an accomplished and respected workplace that served thousands throughout New York State.
Phil's end is proof that we do not get to understand why; that there are no answers, at least not in this life.
Lisa Pandone
February 2, 2012
I/we are so sad in Phoenix, Arizona. I am recalling the endless hours he spent in the Hofstra law library, the bar exam, the move to Albany, the ski trips, the hikes in the Adirondack Mountains, and so much more. Most of all, I remember our conversations regarding faith, which he had plenty of. He was a bright, unique, and playful man whose memory I will cherish. Sad day. Lisa Pandone Benson
Joel Hockett
February 1, 2012
Veronica and Family: I was so sorry to hear of Phil's passing. He was a really good person who was also fun to hang out with. I have lots of great memories from my days working with him in Fair Hearings. I remember ski trips, softball, Busch League drafts.... One time we even roomed together at the Hotel Edison when we were sent to NYC to hold hearings. Phil had a real appreciation for good Italian food, so he took me to Umberto's in Little Italy. While we were there, who walked in but the actor, Anthony Perkins! Phil even talked to him. I will treasure these and other great memories of Phil. I hope your memories provide some comfort during this difficult time.
Dave &Carol Trombley
February 1, 2012
Carol and I are so sorry for your loss, I worked with Phil at Fair Hearings he always had a smile and a positive outlook on life. You are all in our prayers.
Maria & Dennis
February 1, 2012
Phil was a terrific brother in-law. We've had so much fun and laughs through all the years. Our memories will be treasured forever. We will miss him dearly. Rest in Peace We love you.
Susan Munson
February 1, 2012
Veronica and Family: I was very saddened to hear of Phil's passing and very sorry for your loss. I worked with Phil back in the Fair Hearings days with Bob Tengeler, Peter Mullaney, and Russ Hanks. He was a fun person to be around and a great friend. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers now and in the future.
Susan Leackfeldt Munson
Kim Henry
February 1, 2012
My condolences to Phil's family and friends. I'm so sorry for your loss. May your memories keep you strong during this sad and difficult time.
February 1, 2012
Gloria,
I am so deeply sorry for the sadness and the loss of your wonderful father. What a beautiful gentle smile he had or I should say has. He remains, in a different place . A place where you will all be reunited. Hold in your heart all the wonderful memories of your dad and all the great times spent together. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Wally & Debbie Adelmann
February 1, 2012
Veronica, Gloria & Julie,
We wish to express our deepest regrets to you during this difficult time.
Marc Pandone
January 31, 2012
Many years ago Phillip drafted me to play softball w/his State attorney friends on Charlie's A's, drink beer w/him after games and we mutually dragged each other through hikes in the Adirondacks. I saw Ron Guidry pitch an 18 strikeout game w/ Phillip and friends. I was fortunate to have crossed paths w/such a wonderful soul. My deepest condolences to his family and friends. Buon viaggio Phillip
David State
January 31, 2012
I was a part of Phil's OTDA ALJ family and will always remember him for his sense of humor and deep commitment to helping people. God bless Phil and my deepest sympathy goes out to his family and friends.
David State, Buffalo NY
January 31, 2012
Veronica, Gloria & Julie,
Our dearest sympathies during this unlawfully difficult time. Cherish the memories that make you smile and warm your heart. We love you guys so much, and are grateful to have such wonderful childhood memories to hold onto. You're in our thoughts and prayers!
Your father couldn't be more proud of his two girls:)
All Our Love,
The Nevilles
Linda Kaplan
January 31, 2012
My deepest condolences for the family. Phil was loved and admired by so many. I had the privilege of working with Phil and felt that he always managed to retain his humanity by treating all with respect and dignity. He brought Light into the darkest situations with his gift of humor and was always ready to listen when anyone needed to talk. He will be missed.
Dennis
January 31, 2012
Phil was the best brother in law a guy could have and the greatest friend. I could not even begin to count the great memories.Aruba will never be the same.
Lisa Mulson
January 31, 2012
Veronica, Julie and Gloria,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of time spent with your family. I always remember the way Phil cherished his girls. He wore his love and pride for everyone to see. The memories will live with you forever. You will share stories with the grandchildren and he will live on through all of you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers today and in the future. May your memories comfort you.
Nereida
January 31, 2012
To the Family - May you all find strength and peace in the memories that you had and made with Phil. I worked with Phil in DSS and he was a very kind and happy gentle man. Remember God is a healer.
David Kresowaty
January 31, 2012
I was saddened to learn of Phil's death. I liked and respected Phil for his knowledge and for the kind person he was. Please accept my sincere condolences.
January 31, 2012
Veronica,
My condolences to you at this most difficult time.
May God bless you and your family with strength and love in these days ahead.
Cheryl (Zareski) Smith
Mariely Downey
January 31, 2012
I feel fortunate to have worked with Phil when I started at OTDA. I will always remember his great sense of the humor and the dedication he brought to his job. He was clearly well loved by family, friends and colleagues and left behind a rich legacy of happy memories.
Kathy and Ron Normandin
January 31, 2012
Veronica and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very sad and difficult time. May your memories of happier times bring you comfort. I'll miss seeing his shiny head and infectious smile in the building. He was one of a kind and will be be missed by all.
Donna Brand
January 31, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you all, he was a gentle man, with a caring heart, we will miss him so much. God Bless all of you.
Love Dan and Donna Latham NY
Tom Rebhan
January 31, 2012
Phil had a sharp legal mind tempered by humility, creating that rarest of judicial qualities, an understanding heart. He brought that understanding to his vision for Fair Hearings, and he will continue to inspire all of us left behind. With deepest sympathy.
Lorrie Eckert
January 31, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Phil was truly one of the "good guys" and will be sorely missed.
Pam Doyle
January 31, 2012
Veronica & Family,
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Whata wonderful husband and father. I was lucky enough to share those Aruba trips and Phil would always make us laugh. May he rest in peace and his memory live on in all of our lives.
Pam~
Sandy Stone
January 31, 2012
my deepest sympathy to everyone. May the memories you hold dear last a lifetime.
Mary Fyvie/ Pamela Hopkins
January 31, 2012
Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time
Debbie Huber
January 31, 2012
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Phil was a dear friend and quite a character and I will miss him everyday. He loved his family very much.
Eileen Squiers
January 31, 2012
I too worked worked with Phil for many years, a very bright man, and always a smile on his face. He had alot of faith, attending Mass on his lunch hour, and I am sure he is up in heaven now. My deepest symphany to his entire family.
January 31, 2012
To Phil's Family, He was my first supervisor when i became a state employee, i could always talk with him whether it was happy or sad, he was a fantastic boss, supervisor and friend; he had very kind and understanding words when my son went to be wtith the lord and i will never forget him, he was the best. Deborah Worthen-Walton
Mary Fyvie/ Pamela Hopkins
January 31, 2012
Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Sue Hyland
January 31, 2012
Phil was a very nice guy and will be missed. I'm so sorry for everyone's loss.
Sue Hyland
January 31, 2012
Phil was a very nice guy and will be missed. I'm so sorry to all of you.
Wendy DeMarco
January 31, 2012
I worked with Phil for just a short time and in that short time I knew him to be warm, funny, and really smart without making others feel not so smart. I especially loved his dry sense of humor. He will be dearly missed by all who had the pleasure to work with him.
Rene Lechleiter
January 31, 2012
To my dear friend Veronica and the entire family,
One of my most favorite memories which I will always cherish was my first vacation with you, Phil, Lisa & Pam some of Phil's most cherished friends. Our adventure of riding the ATV's over trecherous terrain, swimming in the natural pool by the ocean and just having the greatest times of our lives, being silly wearing those hats on the bed and just loving Life without abandon. I remember Phil saying to me it was one of his best vacations. I'm so glad I was there with all of you and the Joy which was shared between all of us. We never stopped laughing. With Bill serving us our marguerita's on the beach at happy hour and Lisa feeding bread to the fish and being surrounded by a multitude of them and you and I going on our Victoria Secret photo shoots :-). I will always have gratitude, Love and Joy in my Heart for you and Phil sharing your space with all of us in one of his most favorite places. It's a memory I will always hold dear to my Heart. Rest and rejuvenate Phil, you are in God's Loving Light and I bless you on your continued Spiritual Journey. Much Love to you and all your family Veronica.
Rich LaBue
January 31, 2012
Dear Nostramo Family,
Phil was a very special person with a genuine concern for others and a deep conviction to his family, friends and faith. May his spirit and soul live on forever. God be with you Phil and all of us.
Kathy Rourke
January 31, 2012
We will cherish the memories of a wonderful person forever. Please accept my deepest sympathy
Danny and Colleen, Dan Jr & Alyssa Ryan
January 31, 2012
Veronica, Gloria, Julie and Family - words cannot express our sorrow and you are in our thoughts and prayers in this most difficult of times. "Phil was a geat guy" is an understatement! He was a beautiful, caring person who loved his family -- and of course the Yankees and Giants! Colleen and I are better for having Phil in our lives as part of our family - the get togethers; Trout House vacations with our familes; and even taking my Dad out to the Colonie Yankee games. I can only assume that La Cabana will not be the same without Phil's annual visits.
Veroncia, please know that you and the girls are being thought of constantly and you have many friends and family to rely on as you may need it. We will all miss Phil's heart, laughter, and his love for you and the girls.
JoAnn Curry
January 31, 2012
PHIL.....may you be forever warm on the beaches of Aruba....xoxo
Mark Friedlander
January 30, 2012
To Phil's family.
I worked with Phil for many years. He was a great guy. Easygoing, talented and unassuming. We can all learn a lot from the way he lived.
Mark Friedlander
Vicki Buchanan
January 30, 2012
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
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