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Dr.  Linwood "Little Bear" Custalow obituary, Williamsburg, Va

Linwood Custalow Obituary

WEST POINT - Dr. Linwood "Little Bear"' Custalow, 77, passed away Friday, December 19th, 2014. He was born on April 23, 1937 on the Mattaponi Indian Reservation in King William County, Virginia to Chief Webster "Little Eagle" Custalow and Mary Lee "White Dove" Custalow. Lin married Barbara Asbury on November 25, 1960, while in medical school. He had 5 children, a son and 4 daughters, Darryl, Beth, Amy, Lisa, and Julie. He was the first American Indian to graduate from a medical college in Virginia. He graduated from the Medical College of Virginia in 1964. He moved to Newport News, Virginia in 1969 where he practiced in his specialty of Ear, Nose Throat, Facial Plastic Surgery, and Allergy for 38 years. He was a founding and active member of the Association of American Indian Physicians (AAIP). Lin was a diplomat of The American Board of Otolaryngology, Head and Neck Surgery, The National Board of Medical Examiners, and The Board of Environmental Medicine. He belonged to the local, state and national medical societies as well as those of his specialties. He is a fellow of the American Academy of Otolaryngology, the International College of Surgeons, and the American Academy of Environmental Medicine. Lin assisted in the health care of the Mattaponi Tribe as well as numerous other reservations. Over the years, he served on the boards of Youth for Christ, Youth Challenge, Bacone College in Oklahoma, Bluefield College and his churches. He was the Historian for the Mattaponi Tribe, and the author of "The True Story of Pocahontas, the Other Side of History." Lin was awarded as an Outstanding Young Man of America in 1966 and an Outstanding Personality of the South in 1968. He was honored with the Unknown Indian Award in 1990 for his service to the American Indian communities. Lin was preceded in death by his parents, Chief Webster "Little Eagle" Custalow and Mary Lee "White Feather" Custalow, and his son, Darryl Webster Custalow. Lin is survived by his wife, Barbara Custalow; his 4 daughters, Dr. Beth Custalow, Amy Custalow Wendling, Lisa Custalow Boom, and Julie Custalow Sanchez; his 3 sons-in-law Steve Boom, Mike Wendling, and Angelo Sanchez; and his 6 grandchildren, Cameron Boom, Amelie Boom, Sophie Wendling, Matthew Wendling, Sebastian Boom, and soon to be born, Ethan Sanchez. He is also survived by his 5 sisters and 3 brothers, Eleanor Cannada, Edith Khuns, Dolores Salmon, Shirley McGowan, Carl Custalow, Ryland Custalow, Leon Custalow, and Debbie Porreco. A service and interment on the Mattaponi Indian Reservation will be held at 11 am on Friday, December 26, 2014. Reception will follow at the Community Center on the Reservation. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Mattaponi Eagle Trust, which provides education and assists with land acquisition for the Mattaponi People and Tribe. Please make checks out to Mattaponi Eagle Trust For Land Acquisition and Education and send to Mattaponi Eagle Trust, c/o Barbara Custalow, P.O. Box 5845, Williamsburg, VA 23188. Tributes may be posted at www.vincentfh.com

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Published by Virginia Gazette from Dec. 21 to Dec. 25, 2014.

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R Colbert

April 17, 2024

Thank you

S. Atkins

February 17, 2020

Dr. Custalow, Thank you for destroying the myths that our school books and Disney have taught us about your illustrious relative, Pocahontas. I enjoyed reading your book. The truth had to be told. Many blessings to you and the Matapponi Nation.

Stan Hicks

December 15, 2019

Barbara and family, Carrie and I remember Linwood and you when we were students together at Bluefield College. What a privilege to know him as my room mate there and to witness his caring medical ministry to so many people when he became a fine medical doctor. Heaven is such a richer place because he is there. God bless each of you as you remember him. Stan and Carrie Hicks

Joseph&Pat Moore

March 15, 2015

We just learned of Dr.Custalows passing, we are so sorry for your loss Barbara and family. We pray Gods peace and comfort in the days to come.

Ramona Conol

January 29, 2015

Our deepest sympathy dear Barbara and family as we heard of Lin's passing. We remember your gracious hospitality and Lin's stories of his American Indian heritage. May God's loving presence comfort you and His promise of eternal life sustain you during this sad time of loss.
Love, Pedro & Ramona Conol

Matoaka Eagle

January 15, 2015

Hello, my name is Matoaka Little Eagle. My mother was Chickahominy - Clara Lorraine Adkins from Providence Forge, VA. My father was Swift Eagle - Tewa, Apache from Santo Domingo Pueblo, NM (now Kewa Pueblo). Perhaps their paths may have crossed with Dr. Custalow, as in the '40s, my father worked towards the recognition for the Chickahominy people. I'm writing to extend my condolences to the family and friends of Dr. Custalow. I didn't personally know him, but I was sent a copy of his book about the true story of Pocahontas. I greatly appreciated the book and his writing of the oral history of the Mattaponi. I'm grateful for his work for the integrity of our history, for the dignity of our people, and for his excellence in medicine and for promoting health and good doctoring for all people, through his work on various medical boards and organizations. He was an honorable man of intelligence, spirituality, and respect. He empowered people, lifted them up, lifted all of us up. My good thoughts go out to you and to his spirit, I am grateful to the Creator for bringing us together in this lifetime. Ho...[means]... it is all good. Sincerely, Matoaka

Roger & Stacy Vaughn

January 8, 2015

Our deepest sympathies to the Custalow family. May you always remember and rejoice about the good works he has done in his lifetime.

Rebecca & Wes Monfalcone

January 3, 2015

Barbara and Family, We just learned of Linwood's death yesterday and are deeply saddened, yet relieved that his suffering has ended. Our long friendship from childhood, double dates, and many shared experiences leaves us with beautiful memories and gratitude for knowing you both and being a part of your lives. Linwood was a gifted physician, teacher, husband, father, leader, and an amazing man of God. He left a big imprint on many hearts.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all as you grieve and adjust to life without him. May you be strongly aware of God's presence. With much love,
Rebecca and Wes Monfalcone

E Hairston

December 31, 2014

My deepest sympathy. May God's Holy Spirit be with the family. I pray that he brings comfort to you all at this hard time.

Rube & Judith Brett

December 28, 2014

To the Custalow family. Remembering how my mother spoke of her doctor as she was so pleased to receive excellent care. He always went the extra mile with God's love for mankind. May he always be remembered for his goodness. Blessings forever.

December 27, 2014

I would like to extend our condolences to the Custalow family. We will be praying that God will give you strength and comfort as you navigate through the loss of you loved one. He will be greatly missed in the Indian community.

Chief Anne Richardson, Rappahannock Tribe

December 27, 2014

Beth,

Sorry to hear of your father's passing. Please accept my sincerest condolences.

Patricia Carter (HRA)

Janita Balderson

December 26, 2014

To the family of Linwood Custalow: Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you in the loss of your loved one. Linwood lived a good life and now God has called him home, where there is no more pain, tears, or sorrow, but only peace and joy. May God bless each one of you, comfort you, and grant you His peace.

Janita ‘Swift Dove' Balderson and family,
Racine Pfab, Sandra Ferguson and Kelly Davis

Vicki @ACAH

December 24, 2014

Dr. Beth Custalow, My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family members during this time of sorrow from the loss of your father.

Betty Butkiewicus

December 24, 2014

Sympathy to Barbara and family. Lenny touched many lives with his thoughtfulness and kindness and respect that he gave to all. Our lives were enriched when he came into it.

December 24, 2014

Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers
The Dr.'s and Staff of Anderson's Corner Animal Hospital
Margaret

Martha McCartney

December 23, 2014

My deepest sympathy.

Eleanor Kondas George

December 23, 2014

I will always be grateful for you helping me with my young daughter, and helped saved her life with her asthma. You strived to be the best doctor in Newport News. I know I worked for you. You finnaly can rest now in peace. God will take care of your family. I will never forget you.

Donna Hohman

December 22, 2014

Remembering the kindness he showed our family-an encouragement to us always. The Lord's comfort and love to you all.

Cindy Lemis

December 22, 2014

Beth I am so sorry to hear of your Fathers passing. Please pass my condolences to your Mom and the rest of your Family. I know you will take some comfort from knowing that he is now at peace and with his Lord and Savior. Please give your Mom a Hug from Me.

Dr. Alan Tupponce, MD

December 22, 2014

The Custalow family lost a great husband and father and the Mattaponi people lost an important inspiration for what is possible and what greatness can be achieved from humble beginnings. Please accept my deepest condolences.

December 22, 2014

Praise God Lin is with the Lord for Christmas this year. We wish you and your daughters comfort and the love of God, family and friends through thiis time. We are grateful to have known him. Wayne and Carol Carden

Tony Chavez

December 22, 2014

My condolences to the surviving families of a great man!

Barbara Smith

December 22, 2014

Barbara,
so sorry for your loss, blessings to you and the family.

December 22, 2014

Barbara and Girls,
I was saddened to get this news. You know how much I thought of your family. Lin will surly be missed by all of us! Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Judy and Bert Lakin

Stan and Carrie Hicks

December 21, 2014

Barbara and family, Carrie and I would like to express our heart felt sympathy in your great loss of Linwood. As a freshman at Bluefield college, Linwood was one of my roommates and a great friend. His mission to become an MD was so impressive to me as he spent many ours studying to make the grade. He was truly a "Prince" of a man with a humble and gracious heart. I know his spirit is with God as he celebrates the wonders of Heaven. Even though our paths went in different directions, It was Carrie's amd my privilege to know this great man who was truly a servant of God. May you know of our prayers for you and your family, and to realize that we will see Linwood again. Blessings and Peace, Stan and Carrie Hicks

Dan and Carole Livingston

December 21, 2014

Dear Barbara and Girls,

I thank God for your husband and father. He was a great frIend an I will miss you. Barbara you were and are the best. Lin loved you and expressed to me how wonderful you were. He was so proud of you girls and had great dreams for you.
May God Bless you as you celebrate his life and Homegoing.
We love you and are praying for you.

December 21, 2014

I am very sorry for your loss. I know that our Creator will hold you close through this time.

Anah (Mattaponi Salutations),
Tapacoh Kawahcheims
Jennifer Night Bird Miller

Joanne Gayle

December 21, 2014

To all the family, may the Lord strengthen you daily as you grieve for your loved one. Dr. Custalow operated on my throat two times years ago. I was so happy to find a Christian doctor to help me out. I was sad when I saw his passing. The world has lost a wonderful doctor. I have said a special prayer for you today.

Barbara H White & family

December 21, 2014

To the Custalow family, sorry to hear of his passing. Very good doctor, he was my doctor May 1977. May God be with you during this time of sorrow. Our prayers are with your family. He was truly one of God's gifts to the world.

December 21, 2014

Barbara and girls,
So sorry to hear about Dr "C".
You know I always thought of you all as family .
Know that you are in David's and my prayers.
Know Gods GRACE and his Love are with you all.
Carolyn C Hawkins

John and Pat Wendling

December 21, 2014

Dear Barbara and family, Our prayers and sympathy to all of you. May your friends and family be a comfort to you at this time.

vicki pabalan

December 21, 2014

You will ever be in my memories; as a little child; scared, needing facial surgery, how patient and kind you were. A gentleness and deep kindness showed to me. May the Father above welcome you and give your family great peace.

Dr. Vince Joseph

December 21, 2014

Dr. Custalow will be missed dearly. He was so kind and easy to work with on issues with the city of Newport News. In addition, he was God's plan for a good neighbor and lved it. Our loss, yet Heaven's gain.

Loie Darnell

December 21, 2014

I still remember the kindness of Dr Custalow when he performed surgery for me in 1973. We spoke of our faith in Christ. Loie Maxey Darnell

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