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for Sandra Rubio
Chris Rubio
April 24, 2009
Dear Friends and Family,
As the one year anniversary of Sandy's death is drawing near, and each one of us will remember Sandy and what she meant to us in our own special way, let's also take some time to thank God for blessing us with the grace and strength to move on with our lives...the way Sandy would want us to.
We are planning a few things for the anniversary. We are keeing it reverently simple. If you would like to find out some information on these things, please email me. Sometimes it seems like the "contact me" does not work too well. So if you do not receive an immediate response, you can also call me.
Blessings to you!
Chris
Adrian
December 10, 2008
San ,
Today Abby turns one month and I wish you were here to hold her ...but I know you have watched over our miracle baby and have held her in your own way ...I love you
October 7, 2008
A sea of pink on Saturday had your name everywhere I looked. You were so intensely present that I could feel you and knew that your smile was as broad as the turnout. You are not forgotten and everytime I wear pink or see the color pink, you are forever bound with the Cause. It was not to be for you...but in the future, there will be a cure. You would want it that way for your daughter and all who might have to fight cancer.
Tracey Hunter-Thompson
July 9, 2008
My heart goes out to you!
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Carol Chapa-Phagan
July 6, 2008
My deepest heart felt sympathy to you and your family. I have lots of fond memories of Sandra. She was always a Angel! May you find comfort and peace in God's word.
We Looked Good!
Chris Rubio
July 2, 2008
I'm still the most luckiest man in the world. Thanks be to You!
Forever & Always!
Love,
Me
S.C.Y.C. Group
June 23, 2008
When : June 21st, 6-9 PM, Where : St. Chris Gym, How Much :$20 , Why: Fund Raiser for Sandra's Family
June 10, 2008
Laura Paddy
June 9, 2008
Sandra,
You have been such an important part of my life...and I think it will be quite a while before it actually sinks in that you are no longer on this earth with us. Don't think that will stop me from talking to you from time to time. You are someone that I could always open up to and know that I would not be judged...and more importantly...that you would understand as we seemed to view things in life so similarly. I thank you for that!!
I am also so glad that Megan got to know you over the last couple of years as we had not spent much time with you before then. She has such a special place in her heart for you and all your family (which warms my heart as well). I believe goth of us have grown in our faith and we have you to thank for that. Your courage and faith continue to inspire me. I truely miss you but know you are still watching out for us...without any further suffering.
Your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers each day...and I promise to do my part to make sure Monica graduates!!
All my love....
Your smile was always contagious!
Angel Perez
June 4, 2008
Sandy, you will be missed more then you will ever know. Don't worry though, me and the crew...you know who we are, will stop by and see you often. You are forever in our hearts and on our minds. I hope that one day someone might think of me the way we all think of you. the most caring, generous, open minded joyful and loving person around. We love you.
Two Of A Kind
May 29, 2008
Andrew's 5th Birthday
May 29, 2008
May 29, 2008
Bellyris Gutierrez
May 21, 2008
We miss you dearly. We desperately need our family Angel to intercede for those left behind who are having a difficult time. We love you and you will always be in our hearts.
Sylvia A. Perez
May 20, 2008
"Remember, God Cares"
With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Chris, Monica, Andrew and Family,
Remember,
God will take care of you —
and will give you rainbows
after the storms.
Expressing deep
and heartfelt sympathy
to you and your family
in this time of sorrow.
May it console you
to know others care,
Think of you warmly,
and in every prayer
Ask God to bless you
with courage to bear
the sorrow that now
fills your heart.
...the God
of love and peace
shall be with you.
(2Corinthians 13:11)
The name Sandra is the meaning of beauty and eligance it is also known as love and relations ... the meaning for Sandra is also the helper of the humanity...
Sandy was alway compassionate about helping the less fortunate.
Sandy, was a great friend and confident. She will be Missed!
She will live on forever in our hearts!
Love, Always,
A Day To Remember
May 20, 2008
Jackie Struss-Gonzales
May 19, 2008
To Sandra's Family:
I went to school w/Sandra from Elementary to High School! Graduated 1980! Sandra was always a sweet and cheerful person. It saddens me to not have known of this loss sooner and saddens me that she is gone. My prayers and sympathy go out to all of you. I am sorry for your loss, she will be missed.
Carla
May 18, 2008
Chris and family:
May God bless and confort you all during this sad time. Sandra is your special angel looking out for you all from heaven! Thank you for sharing her life story with the listeners of KSBJ! May her life continue to enspire others to follow in her footsteps.
karen Rodriguez
May 17, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I hope knowing that your loved one is in a better place and that one day you will see her Again will give you comfort. May God be with you all.
Suzanne Haas
May 17, 2008
Dear Chris and family,
I am a KSBJ listener, and I was touched and moved beyond words on the beautiful life and love story of your beloved wife. She was truly Jesus to everyone she meet, and was a faithful and steadfast servant of God. The love she shared with and gave to others will live on forever. God bless you and your family and please know that my prayers are with you.
May God bless you and shower you with His Grace.
Sincerely,
Suzanne Haas
Pat Barajas Linscombe
May 16, 2008
Montemayor & Rubio family I know how special she was to you all and how much her smille will be missed. Sandy and I were so close when we met thru St. Christopher Youth Ministry years ago. The miles between us never came between us. When we saw each other our love & friendship always caught up. Finally at peace and comforted in the arms of Jesus. Do not mourn her but remember her gift of love & friendship that she gave to all of us. So full of life even thru her painful days. God has his arms around you Sandy and loving you as much as we all did. Love you my friend.
Virginia & Manuel Rodriguez
May 16, 2008
Dear Montemayor and Rubio Family, Thank you for sharing Sandy. Her influence lives on in our four children who were blessed to have been touched by her. God Bless you and we pray for your continued strength and peace of mind that Sandy is now at rest and Cancer Free!!
Your Comadre
May 15, 2008
Hello my friend. I miss you dearly. Thank you for being such a beautiful person. I thank God that we met and unlike many people that spoke or have written about how you helped them through their difficult times, all I can remember is that we had good times. We loved planning retreats and always laughed together. When we cried together it was because we realized the many blessings God was showering upon us. The only difficult time I remember is when you were on bed rest while expecting Monica, but even then, we managed to laugh. The times we spoke or e-mailed, I know we could feel that special bond we shared. God brought us together for a reason and we may never know why, but I can say that we laughed and loved with all our hearts. Although I was not physically with you through your illness, my family and I prayed for you every day. I wish I could express to Chris, Monica and your parents how close we really were, but I have realized that no one can understand the depth of a friendship except those who experienced it. You confirmed that friendship with the smile you shared on one of my visits to the hospice. So, rest in HIS peace my friend and God Bless you for being the angel God wanted you to be on this earth. Love you always.
Sally (Ochoa) Muscarello
May 14, 2008
Dear Montemayor & Rubio Family,
Sandy was my youth minister at St Chris years ago. She was such a big part of my life during those highschool years and I have so many memories of her cce classes, retreats and lots of other fun times. I am so lucky to have had Sandy during those years as my youth minister and friend. I will cherish those memories and always remember her smile and laughter. May you find comfort in your loving memories.
Roland Millare
May 14, 2008
Chris and family,
Be assured of my prayers for your family. Sandy was a faithful servant of the youth in this archdiocese. Her absence will be felt. May the Lord bless you as you travel together under this severe mercy!
Sister Angela Erevia, MCDP
May 13, 2008
May the Lord comfort you with his healing love as you mourn the death of your loved one.
Forever Grateful
May 13, 2008
I did not realize the impact you would have on my life as a young teenager. Looking back, I remember the hugs & encouraging words you gave to me and many others. You showed me by example how to be a woman of faith and to have a mother's heart. Our paths might not have crossed often, but when they did, the journey together made a difference.
Thank you San, you are a wind beneath my wings.
Natalie Hernandez
May 13, 2008
Sandy was so full of life and such an amazing person. I loved her smile and laughter, it was so contagious. She was such a wonderful, loving and caring person and I feel honored to have met her and to have been a part of her life. Her love and friendship was unconditional and I knew that I could always go to her for anything. She will be truly missed and never forgotten. She will be loved always. God has a beautiful angel by his side to help watch and protect us. My thoughts and prayers are with the Rubio/Montemayor families. May God bless you and give you strength through this difficult time. Sandy, I will always love you and miss you. Rest in Peace my dear friend.
Deacon Benito and Viviana Tristan
May 13, 2008
Sandra, was so full of Life, her warm smile and laughter, she was no stranger to anyone. Her legacy continues in her family and friends. Giving her all and ready to respond to anyone's needs. I recall during the Kartina episode, her directing the thousands of volunteers so many people she helped, the many hours she gave. Her response to serve her Brothers and Sisters in Christ! She reminded me that we are God's Holy People. By serving one another, We Love One Another. Hugs, Kisses and Prayers to Chris, Monica, Andrew, her MoM, Dad and Family and Friends.
Henry Gomez
May 13, 2008
Dear Sandy,
Several years ago I had a life-threatening experience that changed my life forever. I gave my life to the Lord. I wanted to get involved with the youth at St. Christopher’s Church and I signed up. That’s when I met you and your wonderful youth ministry team at St. Christopher’s Church. My heart was to reach out to the youth. I had no idea of all the beautiful blessings I would gain through the years of just being part of the ministry you lead. You were and always will be a blessing to many. May you rest in eternal peace my sister-in-Christ. You told me once that you loved the song “Seek Ye First”. Sing it to our loving Jesus! We love you. Your love and your pretty smile will always be in our hearts. My deepest condolences to Sandy’s precious family and friends and I pray that our Heavenly Father will give strength to all and lift us all up during this difficult time. Love ya’ll!
Carmen Gomez
May 13, 2008
To all the Montemayor/Rubio Family,
How privileged you were to have had Sandra in your life. In her brief life, she was a true testament to her faith. She never waivered nor did she ever question her fate. I was truly inspired by her unconditional love and her courage. She was given a very tough road to travel and I know that she always was grateful for all who helped to make her difficult journey easier. Even with her own difficulties, she still had compassion for others who were facing tough times. Sandra would reach out today to all who loved her and embrace them all because I know that her acceptance of all was so obvious in her smile. Oh, that smile, how it was true and from the heart. I am so sorry that Teresa and I were unable to join you in the celebration of Sandra's life. God had other plans for us, but know that we will always celebrate the mother, wife, daughter, sister and especially the faithful servant of God that Sandra was. Monica, you especially, have shown such courage. When I last visited Sandra in the hospital, it was you who had to comfort Teresa and I. You, too, have become so brave. May your pain be comforted by her beautiful and joyous memory. She loved genuinely and embraced all who were priviliged to have known her. What a legacy for a beautiful person who is now lighting up the heavens with her smile.
Melissa Paddy
May 13, 2008
Sandra will be missed and remembered always. Rest in peace.
Tia Hopkins
May 13, 2008
Rubio/Montemayor Families:
My parents and I want you to know that we are saddened by your loss and will keep all of you in our prayers.
God bless,
Tia, Richard and Rita Hopkins
AURORA CUELLAR
May 13, 2008
Chris,Monica,Andrew, Montemayor Family,
A big part of me has been taken away You were like a sister to me. Sandy my friend I will never forget you. I was honor to have meet such a wonderful, loving, kind person as yourself. I am so proud of you, you were so strong through all these and even though you were ill you always had a smile on your face. Thank you for having me as your friend. I will always love you. Spread your wings and fly. I pray for peace for each and every one of you and that may God wrap his loving arounds around you.
Sally Escamilla-Couvillon
May 12, 2008
Dearest Chris,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I can not begin to imagine the void your wife will leave in this world. I know she has left such an impression on everyones' souls. I hope you find comfort knowing that she is home now. I pray that you will find the strength to get you through this very difficult time.
Fondly, Sally Escamilla
Kirsten Frederiksen-Garcia
May 12, 2008
On behalf of my husband and myself, our thoughts and prayers are with Sandra and her family. Although I did not know Sandra very well, I could see how Christ-like and spirit-filled she was in her many activities at St. Christophers. Sincerely, Kirsten Frederiksen-Garcia
Janet Mendez
May 12, 2008
Montemayor/Rubio Families,
I met Sandra as a young girl at St. Christopher's Church (Youth Group). She made an positive impression on me and I would like her family to know that. Her love for God and her patience with kids really opened doors for me at that time. I pray for her husband, her children and her families.
Your Sister in Christ,
Janet Lynn Trevino-Mendez
Leota Roesch
May 12, 2008
Dear Chris and Children, Mr. & Mrs. Montemayor and Family,
The last time I was privileged to spend time with Sandy was at her aunt's jubilee at the Provincial House of the MCDPs in San Antonio. It was such a gift to see her. Her faith and enthusiasm for doing God's will has never waivered during these long years of suffering. Her joy was always close to the surface, waiting to be shared.
I had the privilege of ministering with her in Region X Youth Ministry, and admired her spirit, her dedication to the young church, especially the young Hispanic church, and her creative mind.
May her memory live forever!
Peace and all good,
Leota Roesch
Diocese of Phoenix
Cynthia Castillo
May 12, 2008
To Monica,
Again I am so sorry for this great lost you have endured. Your mom was a great person and I am glad to have known her. May God Bless you and your family. Should you ever need anything please let me know.
Sarah Rodriguez
May 12, 2008
The Rubio Family,
I have had the honor of knowning Sandra for more than half my life. She was one of the "Mothers" for our booster club at Southmayd, Monica took dance at my aunt's dance studio and she was the Youth Minister during my years of conformation. I remember the year she was first diagnosed with breast cancer and i will never forget that moment when i saw Monica put her head down and cried. My heart goes out to everyone in your family. I've had Sandra on my mind all weekend and may god bless you and give you strength in your weakest moments. I will always remember Sandra with a smile on her face and not any other way.
...for Sandra, Monica, Andrew & Chris
May 12, 2008
Sandra hanging out with Belinda , Laura and Stephanie hanging out at W.M. Wolf Benefit
May 12, 2008
Diane Robinson
May 12, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Montemayor & Family, My prayers and thought are wtih you all. May God bless you during this difficult time.
celia clay
May 11, 2008
To the family of Sandy Montemayor,
Although I have not met many of you (her daughter was quite young when we last saw each other), I saw Gloria Leal about a year and half ago, and she'd updated me on Sandy and her life and her diagnosis. I have kept her & all of you in prayer since that time. I also learned of the interest of Monica in a career in the Health Sciences & asked Gloria to pass along my contact information and assure Sandy that I would do all I could to assist Monica in reaching her goals through my own professional network.
I met Sandy when I was a youth minister (one of the very first at St. Christopher's parish) many years ago. I have never forgotten her! Her quick smile and laugh, her uplifting demeanor, her passionate faith and those wonderful hugs!!
I am delighted to learn that her life's journey took her to the diocesan level of Youth Ministry (to the good fortune of the Galveston-Houston diocese no doubt!!) and that she was blessed with such a loving spouse and another child (her son).
To each of you and to her parents and sister, I extend my very deepest condolences. A joyful spirit like hers is a rare blessing & no doubt her passing leaves a deep loneliness for each of you.
All of you shall remain in my prayers daily during the coming year. And, as I mentioned to Gloria Leal, if I can assist Monica in reaching her dreams in her career, please do not hesitate to reach me. For Sandy's children I would do all I can to be of assistance. She was, and remains, a true "gem".
With Sincere Condolences & In Prayer,
Celia Clay
([email protected])
Pearland, TX
Leah Stewart
May 11, 2008
Sorry for your loss. I met Sandy many years ago when she worked at Baylor College of Medicine. Although our paths have never crossed again, I remember Sandy being a devoted Mother and sweet person. Even then she was very involved with her church. I am deeply saddened by her death. May God comfort you all during this difficult time.
Jessica (Ellis) & Jim Gorrell
May 11, 2008
Dear Robert & Christine:
You're in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you and your family at this difficult time.
Brandie Flores
May 11, 2008
Dear Chris, Monica and Andrew,
Sandy was truly a wonderful person. Every time I would see her she was ALWAYS smiling. She will be missed by all who knew her. You all will be in my heart and prayers.
Ann Stranahan
May 11, 2008
Dear Chris,
Sandy was such an inspiring person and was so blessed to have you love her as you do! May God comfort you in your great loss and know that many people are praying for you and your family.
Sister Judy Laffey
May 11, 2008
Dear Darlene, Joe, Chris, Andrew and Mary Elizabeth,
You are all in my prayers. On this Feast of Pentecost, I ask the Holy Spirit to give each of you the gifts you especially need for this sad but holy time in your lives. Sandy will be in your hearts giving you strength and blessing and comfort.
You are in my prayeres and the prayers of all the Sisters of Charity. I am with you in spirit and love,
Sister Judy
Mike Patin
May 11, 2008
Chris, Monica, and Andrew,
I am sorry to learn of Sandy's death. She was an awesome minister and friend to so many young people and youth ministers.
Please know that I have had Sandy on my prayer list for over 2 years. I admired her disposition under the challenges she faced with her health.
Know that I am putting your names on my prayer list where Sandy's was. My thoughts are with you all during this time of sadness.
Mike Patin
Sandy and Sr. Mary Elizabeth
May 11, 2008
Steven and Jodi McGlaun
May 11, 2008
Chris,
Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I will hold precious the memories of the time I spent with you and Sandy. Sandy never failed to make me feel loved. It is a gift I will carry with me. Our love and prayers go out to you.
Tricia Gomez
May 10, 2008
Sandy was truly a wonderful person to know. She was not only my youth minister but also my friend. An angel on earth and now an angel in Heaven watching over her loved ones. God Bless.
Ben Tristan
May 10, 2008
Sandy,
How wonderful it was to know you. You truly are what God has designed us to do as human beings. You fought you way through all the pain just to keep giving more of yourself to those around you. If there are any signs that Jesus walks with us daily, then I think many of the people that you helped and met, now can see. You and your family are truly blessed. May God comfort your family who will miss you.
Angie (Rodriguez) Lamarche
May 10, 2008
To Sandy’s family,
I want to say how deeply and tenderly I feel for your loss. I had the privilege of working with Sandy in Youth and Young Adult Ministry in the late 80’s. I have to say Sandy is one of those people whose friendship and presence in my life was for a purpose which forever determined the direction of mine. Her dedication, motivation, and continued service to the Lord made a profound impact on my spiritual life, as I am sure it did many, many others. Sandy faced many battles but she always carried them with love and courage. Sandy may have lost her battle with cancer, but, praise the Lord, Jesus won the war and welcomes home those who live for Him, as Sandy did.
Billy Speck
May 10, 2008
Dear Chris, and the remainder of the Rubio Family. Our sincere condolences go out to you during this tremendous time of sorrow, yet a time of rejoicing because Sandy knew her Lord. Know that you and the rest of your family will be in our prayers in the days to come. May the Lord richly bless you and yours in the coming days. We Love you from the bottom of our hearts.
Carmela Ramirez
May 10, 2008
Montemayor & Rubio Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. When the Lord calls our loved ones home, he leaves a gift of memories in exchange. May happy memories carry you through this sorrowful time.
Karen Coker
May 10, 2008
Chris,
I just want to express my sympathy. Although I don't know you very well, we have shared a few classes at UH and you have always been so kind and friendly. I hope you will let me know if there is anything I can do for you. I will be praying for you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Remembering the laughter & joy of a special friend!
May 10, 2008
Sandy & Deacon Gene @ CSI
May 10, 2008
Ida Jean Buckle (Gonzales)
May 10, 2008
To Sandra's Family,
My deepest sympathy to all of you. No words can tell you how saddened I am in lost of a childhood friend. We had many wonderful times as friends and for that I will always cherish them. May God give all you strength, courage, and comfort in this time of sorrow. I know she is now with her loving God who she cherished so deeply.
Andrea Blake-Thomas
May 10, 2008
To the Rubio Family, I'm sorry for your lost of such a wonderful person. I meet Mrs. Rubio in the lab, she and I would always greet each other,I'm going to miss her smiling face.I pray God great blessing upon each of you. Goodnight, Mrs.Rubio. I'll see you in morning!
Paula Vargas-Moreno
May 10, 2008
To the Family of Sandy Montemayor;
My thoughts and sympathy are with you at this sad time. Sandy was a sweet person whom I had the pleasure of meeting in the early 1980’s as we participated in the many Search retreats for our parishes. Sandy was always a blessing not only to me but to the rest of the participants in the many diocesan retreats and conferences we shared during this time and having Sandy as part of the team and/or Palanca was always a huge amount of support. We came together one last time in 1989 for a Young Adult retreat and I cherish the video we took that weekend because for many of us it was probably the last time we came together to share special moments at Camp Kappe before we went on to begin a new chapter in our life . Her smile, her spirit and her goodness will remain alive in the hearts of everyone who knew her. God Bless you, Sandy.
In Christ,
sisters 4-ever
May 10, 2008
I wub u!!!
May 10, 2008
mother and daughter
May 10, 2008
the three amigas
May 10, 2008
Adrian,Belinda, and Sandy at S.M.A.C BBQ
May 10, 2008
Norma Espinoza (DeLeon)
May 10, 2008
My sincere condolences go out to all Sandra's family. God Bless.
Michelle Ellis
May 10, 2008
My dear, sweet, beautiful cousin, you will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure to know you. There are few who walk this earth with the kind, beautiful heart that you expressed. Our thoughts and prayers are with Chris, Monica, Andrew,Uncle Robert and Aunt Christine and all of your family and friends. We love you.
Peter & Cheri Ramirez
May 10, 2008
Monica, Chris & Andrew,
Our prayers are with you & your family in this time of sadness. Sandra in her faith journey has received the ultimate reward.
God's WILL be done.
Belinda Reyes
May 10, 2008
Sandy,
We miss you so much our beautiful and wonderful friend! It hurts to know that you will not be here to share future milestones with us as we always have. We are indeed honored and privileged to have shared so much of our lives with you. We celebrate your life and are relieved that your long and painful battle with cancer has now come to an end. We pray you are in heaven surrounded by God's majestic love. For your family we offer up prayers that through God's amazing grace their grief and pain may be eased. You'll never be forgotten!
With all our love,
Adrian, Belinda & AJ
Dino Calvillo
May 10, 2008
To our dear friends the Montemayors' and to all of Sandra's extended family may your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived. We always considered Sandra a good friend and we are very fortunate and proud to know that she was part of our lives. She was truly a genuine leader and a great example to many who's lives she touched. Rest in peace our dear friend, we will never forget you.
Dino, Liz, & Michael Calvillo
Jessica Guillen
May 10, 2008
Sandy was a wonderful person. I had only known her for a brief period of time. We meet through her husband, Chris, during my Confirmation Retreat. She gave many inspiration words and wisdom. Overall, she was a great person to know who loved spreading the word of God. She will be missed.
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