Jeffrey Collman

Jeffrey Collman

Jeffrey Collman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 13, 2001.
Happiest in Flight
Jeffrey Dwayne Collman, a flight attendant for American Airlines, had his normal flight pattern down pat: he worked the Boston-to- San Francisco route, an itinerary that linked two of his favorite cities and made for a reasonable commute home to Navato, Calif.

His presence on Flight 11 on Sept. 11 was a fluke: he had a birthday coming up on Sept. 28 and signed on for the extra trip so that he could take time off to turn 42 with a little party at home. An inspired dessert chef, he was likely planning to get creative and bake his own birthday cake.

And he didn't mind flying the extra shift: traveling was his idea of bliss. Becoming a flight attendant three and a half years ago had been the culmination of a stubborn campaign. After United turned him down, he applied to American; he was ecstatic when he was accepted on his second try.

His on-the-ground passion was tennis. The week before his death, he attended the United States Open in Queens.

"He had friends all over the world; he was a people person," said his stepmother, Kay Collman from Yorkville, Ill., his hometown. "He'd know the life histories of his passengers after just one flight."

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 9, 2001.


Jeffrey Collman loved to fly and loved to travel.

The Yorkville native determined at a young age that the easiest way to do both was to become a flight attendant.

Collman, 41, who lived in Novato, Calif., caught on with American Airlines five years ago.

"It was his dream job. He had friends all around the world from his travels," his stepmother, Kay Collman said from her home in Yorkville.

Tuesday, Collman was working at his dream job when American Airlines Flight 11 was hijacked and then slammed into the first World Trade Center tower.

The Collmans last heard from their son via e-mail the night before he left Boston, telling them he was headed to Los Angeles.

They knew quickly Tuesday that he must have been on the plane they saw on TV crash into the tower.

"When anything happened bad before involving planes, he'd call us and say, `I'm OK.' But he didn't this time. We knew in our hearts before it was confirmed," Kay Collman said.

On Saturday, Collman's parents were at O'Hare International Airport to catch a flight to Boston for grievance counselling arranged by American Airlines.

As she waited to board the plane, Kay Collman recalled how much Jeffrey loved to travel. She used to tell him he should be saving his money for when he got older.

She remembered him telling her: "There's no guarantee I am going to be old."

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Hannah Barrera

December 2, 2024

I did not personally know Jeffrey, but as a college student at Texas Woman's University researching the lives of those lost in the 9/11 attacks, I came across his obituary and was deeply moved. From what I read, he seemed like a wonderful person, and it is clear he was dearly loved. Sending love and condolences to his friends, family, and loved ones. May he rest in peace.

Keith Bradkowski

September 27, 2024

Jeff, tomorrow the 28th of September, marks another birthday for you. I think of you often and your love remains indelibly etched in my heart. I see your spirit in so many ways. Know that I’m thinking of you especially on this special day.

Nick M

September 19, 2024

You will never be forgotten. I'm so sorry for what happened to you.

Unknown

September 11, 2024

Sorry For Your Lost ...... Rest In Peace You Will Be Missed.

Keith Bradkowski

September 11, 2024

You will always be with me.

Keith Bradkowski

August 25, 2024

It was just 34 years ago today, one incredibly kind and loving man entered my life. Jeff and I met at a mutual friends birthday party. He said he noticed me from across the very crowded room. The next 11 years would be the happiest time in my life. Each day, I try to emulate how Jeff lived and he often said, “Live life to the fullest, never have a bad day, and be happy with what you have.” I thank God each day for Jeff, a man who taught me the meaning of love and life.

Keith Bradkowski

September 28, 2023

Today would have been Jeff’s 64th Birthday. No matter the age, I think of you every day! Eternally together!

Kay Collman

September 12, 2023

Jeff, miss you always. you now have Dad and Brian there with you. God is holding you all close.

Keith Bradkowski

September 11, 2023

Jeff, Twenty-two years ago you boarded AA Flight 11, not knowing your destination was heaven. You remain my love, my strength, my resilience, and my soulmate. You remain my Angel who keeps watch over me. Together forever! ❤

Marie Garfield

September 11, 2023

22 years, and it seems like yesterday. I'm sure you're talking and having a nice cup of coffee with our friend David. I wish I could be with you, or better, you both be here, but you both will always be in my heart until we meet again. So, I raise my coffee up to you. You are truly missed Jeff and will never be forgotten.

Denise

September 11, 2023

Jeff, you will never be forgotten. ❤❤❤

Anna Johnson

September 11, 2023

I don’t forget, Jeff. I’m so very grateful for your love on earth, and your love in the spirit world. Every hello, every sign. I love and miss you my dear friend.
Keith, you also stay in my heart. He loved you so and he bragged about you always.

Marie Garfield

February 25, 2023

Dear Jeff, As I am sure you know by now, our dear friend, David Reynolds left us 1 week ago today. While I'm heartbroken, it gives me some comfort knowing that you were there to great and welcome him. He missed you, and visited your memorial whenever he was in New York. Love and hugs to both of you and have an extra cup of coffee for me.

9/28/2022 Jeff´s Birthday

Keith Bradkowski

September 29, 2022

9/11 Memorial New York City

Keith Bradkowski

September 29, 2022

Keith Bradkowski

September 29, 2022

Each year, the 9/11 Memorial Committee places roses on each individual’s birthday. Jeff would have turned 62 on 9/28/2022.

Diana Coughlin

September 11, 2022

Another year goes bye my friend, but never ever forgotten. I think about your awesome friendship and the love you shared with everyone you met!

Keith Bradkowski

September 11, 2022

Now and Foreveryou will always be with me.

Kay Collman

September 11, 2022

well Jeff this year you can celebrate your birthday with Dad in Heaven. miss you both very much,Kay

Marie Garfield

September 11, 2022

It's so hard to believe it's now been 21 years since you were taken so suddenly. So much has changed in that time, our country, world, and our industry. One thing that hasn't changed, I think of, and miss you everyday.

Anna Tousey-Johnson

September 11, 2022

I deeply miss you! Simply, you made life better. Love you sweet friend.

Keith & Jeff c. 1994

Keith Bradkowski

September 9, 2022

This is a picture of Jeff and me in 1994.

Keith Bradkowski

August 28, 2022

August 25th would have marked Jeff’s and my 32nd Anniversary. We met on a Saturday night at a birthday party. Because I knew you, I have been changed for good.

Keith Bradkowski

September 29, 2021

https://www.ebar.com/news/news//308623

Birthday Rose at 9/11 Memorial

Keith Bradkowski

September 29, 2021

Every year the 9/11 Memorial places a rose on the birthday of everyone killed in the attack.

Anna Johnson

September 28, 2021

Angel birthday wishes! I hate that it’s 20 years, and I can’t believe it’s 20 years. You are missed! Always and forever loving you.

Keith Bradkowski

September 28, 2021

Today would have been Jeff’s 62nd birthday. I’m sure he’s smiling down from heaven.

American Airlines Alabaster Eagle honoring Jeff

Keith Bradkowski

September 12, 2021

American Airlines Alabaster Eagle honoring Jeff.

Keith Bradkowski

September 12, 2021

I am so grateful to many friends and family who reached out to me on this 20th anniversary. I always love hearing stories about Jeff and his joking around. We loved playing jokes on each other. I thought a lot about the years Jeff and I were together and if I condensed one thing that I received from Jeff it would be a line from the song Wind Beneath My Wings, “I want you to know the truth, of course I know it, I would be nothing without you.”

Denise

September 11, 2021

You are never forgotten Jeff. I think of you often. ❤❤❤

DWAYNE COLLMAN

September 11, 2021

Miss you everyday love Dad and Kay

Marie Garfield

September 11, 2021

It's been 20 years since you boarded your last flight. Thinking of you, not just today, but everyday. You may no longer be here, but you will never be forgotten.

Anna Johnson

September 10, 2021

I can’t believe I’ve missed you 20 years. Oh how I miss you! I will whisper a prayer to you on Saturday, as I light the very small amount of candle I have left, from your Memorial. I love you my sweet dear friend, Jeff! Forever.

Keith Bradkowski

September 6, 2021

Edit to the obituary. Jeff and I had reservations to be in Milan, Italy to celebrate his 42nd birthday on September 28th. Together, we would sightsee the beautiful city and art. As Providence would have it, more than 100 people memorialized Jeffs life on the 28th day of September 2001 in a beautiful ceremony in Fort Heath Park overlooking the Boston Harbor. A sea of 42 balloons rose in the sunset sky.

Jeff Collman

Keith Bradkowski

September 6, 2021

Jeff loved flying on the 767.

Keith Bradkowski

September 5, 2021

This past August 31, 2021, would have been Jeff’s and my 31st Anniversary together. We met at a birthday party in a town outside of Chicago. We quickly fell in love and our song was Bette Midler’s Wind Beneath My Wings.” Whenever it played on the radio, we would sing to each other. The song described us well. A challenging childhood, Jeff grew up to be the finest, compassionate, protective, and loving mate. When Jeff left for work, he always left “sticky-notes” with the words “Guess Who Loves You? Me!” I always introduced Jeff as “my better half.” I am told that finding one’s soul-mate is rare, so I am blessed we had 11 years together and know one day we will be reunited. I still feel his presence every day. Over these past 20 years, I realize that Jeff never needed a plane, because he always had wings—Keith Bradkowski, (Spouse/Soulmate)

Cindy Roe

September 4, 2021

Remembering Jeffrey on the 20th anniversary of 9/11....

Diana Coughlin

September 29, 2020

Happy Heavenly Birthday Jeff. You are loved and missed by many. Kind soul gone to soon.

Anna Johnson

September 28, 2020

I think about you daily, but today on your birthday, I’m writing it down. I miss you always dear friend. You made the world bright.

jennifer craig

February 10, 2020

I am sitting here in the Dallas area tonight. Mentioning to my adult children once again about that day and what led up to it. I want to leave here how touched I was that evening flight from San Francisco to Boston when I met an angel. He was literally lit up with love and happiness! About his job, relationships, his future? It didnt matter! I felt a little giddy myself and understood. He specifically told me where he was seated ()if I needed any help from him. He warmed my ❤ And soul that evening. RIP my happy friend I will never forget! Ever!

The bouquet of flowers in daylight from GUY and Charlene September 11 2019 9/11 MUSEUM NYC American airlines flight 11 crewmembers our ffamily

Charlene Jones

September 29, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..these are the bouquet of flowers during the daylight at the 9/11 museum in NYC September 11 2019...American airlines flight 11 our family love you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love Charlene

Charlene Jones

September 29, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..a couple more pictures for jeffery's legacy..jeffery's eyes are so beautiful...heart and soul....god bless you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love Charlene...its nice to remember Jeffery and I share the same BIRTHDAY...I am honored....

Tribute to flight 11 American Airlines flight 77 American Airlines flight 175 United Airlines United Airlines flight 93 crewmembers and paxs DFW inter

Charlene Jones

September 29, 2019

Firefighters..with a flag...DFW international airport memorial September 28 2019

Charlene Jones

September 29, 2019

Jeffery's crewmembers American airlines flight 11 DFW international airport memorial September 28 2019

Charlene Jones

September 29, 2019

Charlene Jones

September 29, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..hi!!..there is another view of the rose..I tried so hard to get the right picture..it was wicked windy...after taking the pictures I did not realize they were in black and white...when I walked in there was no one there..peace and serenity..the presence of Jeffery...I sang HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Jeffery!!..the birds were flying..the sky was blue with clouds....Jeffery knew we were there....your angel in heaven was singing with me..the wind beneath my wings..love you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love Charlene

Rose placed by jeffery's name for his birthday DFW international airport memorial September 28 2019

Charlene Jones

September 29, 2019

Rose for jeffery's BIRTHDAY DFW international airport memorial September 28 2019

Charlene Jones

September 29, 2019

Charlene Jones

September 29, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith...hi!..so nice speaking to you Mr Collman on jeffery's BIRTHDAY....Keith you too!..I said I was going to the DFW international airport memorial to place a rose for Jeff's BIRTHDAY..my phone only took black and white photos..the rose is a beautiful rose mixed with a mauve color..it was so windy I cut the steam and was able to make it stay..thinking of Jeffery yesterday on his birthday...will speak soon god bless you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love Charlene

Rose for jeffery's BIRTHDAY DFW international airport memorial September 28 2019

Charlene Jones

September 29, 2019

Anna

September 29, 2019

Miss you everyday. This birthday was no different, celebrate you, my friend.

Charlene Jones

September 28, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..hi!!!..I hope you all are good..thinking of Jeffery today on his birthday...I am honored to share the same BIRTHDAY as Jeffery..at the 9/11memorial in NYC they put up a white rose when their birthday is here...I will be in touch soon. God bless you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love Charlene

Charlene Jones

September 25, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..hi...I enclosed 2 pictures of guy who works at the 9/11 museum in NYC..guy had tickets to the Dallas cowboys and knew I was not able to make the trip on September 11 2019...so guy called me and we met at olive garden..I need you to know with guy there in NYC at the 9/11 museum jeffery's legacy is alive and watching from heaven..Jeffery birthday September 28th the same as me..thinking of Jeffery..God bless you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love Charlene

Guy..sherry and Alex at olive garden grapevine tx September 21 2019

Charlene Jones

September 25, 2019

Guy and Alex olive garden grapevine tx September 21 2019

Charlene Jones

September 25, 2019

Charlene Jones

September 21, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..hi!!..sorry I have not been in touch..was in the hospital for 1 week..critical thyroid...the pictures I sent are from captain Beverley Bass YOU are HERE a documentary shown in 800 theater's only on September 11 2019..I had not seen Beverley for 30 year's...Jeffery BIRTHDAY next sat.September 28th..mine too...a friend of mine from the 9/11 museum in NYC just landed HERE...I will speak to you guys soon..God bless you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love Charlene

Captain Beverley bass her husband tom September 11 2019 Southlake tx

Charlene Jones

September 21, 2019

Charlene and captain Beverley bass Southlake Tx September 11 2019

Charlene Jones

September 21, 2019

Best RN and respiratory therapist 1 week in hospital ugh..September 13 2019

Charlene Jones

September 21, 2019

Come from away captain Beverley bass September 11 2019 Southlake tx

Charlene Jones

September 21, 2019

YOU are HERE documentary of come from away September 11 2019 Southlake tx

Charlene Jones

September 21, 2019

Charlene Jones

September 20, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman..hi..I wanted you guy's know too..the bouquets of flowers were ordered by my good friend G at the 9// museum in NYC..since he knew everyone's plans where changing for our plans for September 11 2019..he ordered the flowers in honor of our flight 11 crewmembers...will be in touch very soon..love you Mr and Mrs Collman love Charlene

Charlene Jones

September 12, 2019

Hi Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..there were 2 bouquets of flowers for Jeffery...one at the opposite ends...there is a special captain yesterday who spoke so fondly of Jeffery...we were thinking of him as you and Mrs Collman had your party in celebration of Jeffery..we had ours missing Jeffery always always remembered...God bless you and Mrs Collman and Keith..I will speak to you soon love Charlene

Diana Coughlin

September 11, 2019

Jeff, thinking of you on this day. Miss your contagious smile.

Dwayne Collman

September 11, 2019

thanks everyone for messages and Charlene for flowers. Jeff is always with us in happy memories Dad and Kay

Denise

September 11, 2019

Thinking of you Jeff, you are never forgotten. XO

Keith Bradkowski

September 11, 2019

Thinking of you always for you are always in my heart.

Anna

September 11, 2019

Love you Jeff, you are never forgotten! Your friendship, your smile, your laugh.

Marie Garfield

September 11, 2019

Thinking of you today, and everyday.

Charlene Jones

September 11, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..thinking of Jeffery today and always..the flower are from guy and myself at the 9/11 museum..I am not there as you guy's now..guy is..he works for the 9/11museum..god love you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love you ALL Charlene

Charlene Jones

September 11, 2019

Flowers in honor of Jeffery from guy and me in NYC September 11 2019

Charlene Jones

September 11, 2019

Charlene Jones

September 10, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..thinking of Jeffery tonight with a moment of silence...prayers always for you guy's..god bless you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith will be in touch love you guy's Charlene

Maya W

August 29, 2019

Hi I'm a sophomore at Shanley Highschool and I'm doing an assignment on the 9/11 attacks and I thought it was cool how active he was in the community and he seemed like he was a very nice person!

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

Hi Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..I found a few more picture's at the DFW international airport memorial..they show jeffery's name a little closer..God bless Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love Charlene

Jeffery name closer DFW international airport memorial July 2019

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

American Airlines flight 11 DFW international airport memorial

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

Charlene better close up off Jeffery name DFW international airport memorial July 2019

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

American airlines flight 11 DFW international airport memorial July 2019

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

Jeffery name clear on this photo DFW international airport memorial July 2019

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

Charlene by Jeffery name DFW international airport memorial July 2019

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

Hi Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith!!..well here are the 1967 Boston red Sox lineup..taken in Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts 52 years ago.in American airlines terminal.small world when you think about it..I am from Boston Jeffery flew out of Logan like me..Jeffery loved tennis..going to Harvard university...we share the same BIRTHDAY...Jeffery tonight I pray the Boston red Sox win and get a GRAND slam homerun in honor of you tonight..and always..thinking of Jeffery always..God bless you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love Charlene

Boston red Sox 1967 lineup BOS Logan international airport

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

Boston red Sox 1967 lineup BOS Logan international airport

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

Boston red Sox 1967 lineup BOS Logan international airport

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

Boston red Sox 1967 lineup Logan international airport BOS Massachusetts

Charlene Jones

August 20, 2019

Charlene Jones

August 18, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..hi!!..great talking to you today Mr Collman..so glad you got your motorcycle license..I knew you would!!..captain Beverley called me a little while ago..I will give you a call on Tuesday..be safe. Love you guy's love Charlene

Charlene Jones

August 2, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..I found a few other picture's that shows jeffery's name clearer..DFW international airport memorial is beautiful..peaceful...I can hear bird's flying bye..serenity..love you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..Charlene

Jeffery name is clearer in this picture DFW international airport memorial

Charlene Jones

August 2, 2019

Jeffery name is clearer in this picture DFW international airport memorial

Charlene Jones

August 2, 2019

Jeffery name can be seen better in this picture DFW international airport memorial

Charlene Jones

August 2, 2019

Charlene Jones

July 31, 2019

Hi Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..the picture's did go thru..good..s very peaceful day..sky blue wind blowing..Jeffery looking down from heaven smiling.I feel his presence here.ALL flight attendant train in DFW international airport at the learning center..we become family..a special bond..missing all my family..Love you Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith love Charlene

Tribute to September 11 2001 DFW international airport memorial

Charlene Jones

July 31, 2019

Charlene I believe you can see Jeffery name better on this picture DFW international airport memorial

Charlene Jones

July 31, 2019

Tribute to September 11 2001 DFW international airport memorial

Charlene Jones

July 31, 2019

Tribute to the first responders on September 11 2001 DFW international airport memorial

Charlene Jones

July 31, 2019

Charlene Jones

July 31, 2019

Dear Mr and Mrs Collman and Keith..I tried to send some pictures it said legacy was down..I will try later love Charlene

Jeffery name DFW international airport memorial

Charlene Jones

July 31, 2019

You can see Jeffery name DFW international airport memorial

Charlene Jones

July 31, 2019

Charlene at the DFW international airport memorial you can see Jeffery name

Charlene Jones

July 31, 2019

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