Neilie Anne Heffernan Casey

Neilie Anne Heffernan Casey

Neilie Casey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 13, 2001.

Neilie Heffernan Casey, 32

planning manager for TJX Co.

By Richard Chacón and Charles M. Sennott, Globe Staff, 9/21/2001

Her smile was as warm as a sunrise.

And for those who knew Neilie Anne Heffernan Casey, 32, that smile seems impossible to associate with the events that took her life on Sept. 11 in the crash of American Airlines Flight 11.

That smile, the one that beamed even brighter when she was holding her baby daughter, Riley Eileen, or that lit up with a perfect drive off the tee on a Cape Cod morning playing golf with her husband, Michael, is what her family and friends say will stay with them.

That smile, the one that found the good in people in everything she did, will warm them and sustain them. That smile, they said, radiated hope.

The morning of Sept. 11, she left her home in Wellesley and caught Flight 11 for Los Angeles at 7:59 a.m. for business meetings as a planning manager of the TJX Cos.

That was before the whole world changed.

Like many professional women, Mrs. Casey sought to balance work with a new baby, and approached her job with the same charisma and dedication that she brought to all aspects of her life.

Within a few months after giving birth, she was already back running. One of Mike's fondest memories, he said, will be the road race they ran together on Sept. 9, the Susan G. Komen 5K race for breast cancer research in Boston. It said everything about her stride in life – about family, and about trying to make a difference.

The family ran the race together, with Neilie and Michael keeping pace and Mike pushing the baby in a jog stroller.

Mrs. Casey was deeply committed to community and country, volunteering for the nonprofit organizations of City Year and Share Our Strength. But she also knew how to have fun, especially during summers on Cape Cod where the Heffernans and Caseys got together in Osterville and Falmouth.

Born in Worcester, Mrs. Casey's family moved to Boca Raton, Fla., in 1979 and she graduated from Pope John Paul II High School in 1986. She returned to Worcester to attend the College of the Holy Cross, where she received her bachelor of arts degree in 1990. It was there that she met her future husband.

"The first time I saw her was first-semester freshman year philosophy class," he said. "She sat right up in front and I sat in back. She was always so well put together. I knew I could marry her the moment we could sit in silence together and be totally comfortable."

They married in 1996. Their first apartment was in Charlestown with their German shepherd, Regent. They moved to Wellesley in 1999 and were thrilled with Riley Eileen's birth seven months ago.

After college, Mrs. Casey worked for Gap International in San Francisco, and moved to Boston in 1993 to work for Chadwicks of Boston, a women's clothing company. She joined TJX in July. She also was taking business courses at Babson College toward earning her MBA.

Her mother, brother, and sisters recalled that she was a great mimic, that she was the family's champion at jigsaw puzzles, and how she feared the water as a little girl, but it never stopped her from taking sailing lessons.

Her mother, Anne Brosnan Heffernan, recalled visiting her daughter in San Francisco and listening to her name all the homeless people she passed on the street. "She'd point them out to me one by one."

In addition to her husband, daughter, and mother, she leaves two sisters, Eileen and Lynsey; a brother, Neil; and her grandmother, Dr. M.E. Fletcher.

There will be a memorial service tomorrow at 11:30 a.m. in Immaculate Conception Church in Worcester.
Editorial Obituary published in THE BOSTON GLOBE on September 21, 2001.


Runners and a Torch
There is no logic to any of it; that much is obvious. But the truth is that they did meet as freshmen, in logic class.

That was at Holy Cross, and Michael Casey still remembers the sight of Neilie Anne Heffernan's long auburn hair.

They were married on Cape Cod in 1996 "because it was meant to be," he said — their "incredible bond" only intensified when their daughter, Riley Eileen, was born nine months ago.

The Caseys were both runners. On Sunday, Sept. 9, they took their daughter on her first three-mile road race (Riley was the cute one in the jogging stroller).

On the night before the attack, the Caseys played a travel video of Bermuda, planning the trip for their fifth wedding anniversary, Sept. 21.

On Sept. 11, Mr. Casey kissed his wife goodbye and watched from the bedroom window upstairs as she left their house in Wellesley, Mass., at 5:45 a.m. "I flipped the light on so she could see me, and she turned and waved back as she left."

Thus this last memory before Mrs. Casey, 32, boarded Flight 11 on a business trip to California.

Now Mr. Casey has been asked to be one of the runners carrying the torch for the Winter Olympic Games in February, "in honor," he said, "of Neilie."

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September 11, 2024

Ash Ashraf posted to the memorial.

September 11, 2024

Nancy Atchue posted to the memorial.

September 11, 2023

Nancy Atchue posted to the memorial.

Ash Ashraf

September 11, 2024

Thinking about Neilie today. Sending our best to the Casey family.

Nancy Atchue

September 11, 2024

Feeling blessed to have gotten to know the beauty that was Neilie Thinking of Mike & Riley today Nancy Atchue

Nancy Atchue

September 11, 2023

Thinking of the beautiful Neilie today and always

Ash Ashraf

September 11, 2023

Thinking of Neilie today. Love to Mike and the family.

Ashraf Family

Andrea Martin

September 12, 2022

Neilie, I have not forgotten you. 82 now and dealing with the issues aged people have but my mind keeps your memory intact. Keep singing with the angels until we can all meet again.
Andrea Martin

nancy atchue

September 11, 2022

Thinking today about how I was one of the lucky TJX people who got to know Neilie. What a gift that is to me!

Nancy Atchue TJX

Ash Ashraf

September 11, 2022

Remembering Neilie today. Love to all the Casey's.

Ashraf Family - Wellesley

JP

August 5, 2022

By coincidence, was visiting the Nobska Lighthouse in Woods hole, and came across your memorial marker. What an amazing story. Keep the torch going. Rest In Peace.

Isabella

February 8, 2022

I did not get the pleasure of knowing Nellie. As an 8th grader, learning about the victims of 9/11... Her story touched me. I first thought of this project as ¨ just another school project¨ but her story really changed me and the way I think. I have so much respect for all she did in her short life. Rest in peace Nielie knowing your life has made a big difference in many lives including mine.

J

September 13, 2021

Neilie, you're often on my mind, but you're especially on my mind around 9/11. After 20 years there isn't much left to say, is there? Your daughter is grown, life has moved forward and your family, friends, and coworkers still hold you close to their hearts. I'm glad to have known you and I'm heartbroken still to know what happened to you. I read something this weekend about moving forward rather than moving on and that really grabbed my attention. We all have to move forward, don't we? If not, what's the point? I get stuck sometimes though, especially this time of year. I guess it's okay to get stuck a little. I can't be the only one, but we all find our way forward at some point. Still though, it feels a little wrong to find joy in the every day things we experience when the horror of what took place is still so close to the surface. To be able to move forward I have to imagine you truly are in a better place than us. So, I ask again; what is there left to say? I'll never forget and I will always remember and I'll find a way to continue moving forward while acknowledging sometimes it's okay to get a little stuck in the sadness of it all. I got stuck this weekend. This year wasn't as bad as last year and maybe next year won't be so bad either, but sometimes it seem right to revisit that pain even when it feels so terribly overwhelming. I'm so sorry this happened to you. I'm just so incredibly sorry. Your life had value and meaning and the world around you deserved to have you in it and I'm so sorry for you and for all of us who had to lose you.

John & Pam Vasilik

September 12, 2021

We remember Neilie on the 20th Anniversary of her passing..., we visit Neilie's Point Memorial at Nobska Light every time we go to Falmouth and Woods Hole, MA.

Nancy Atchue

September 11, 2021

Thinking of all that you would have brought to TJX ......

Sarah Winch

September 11, 2021

Thinking of Neilie this day, and often. Her family too. As we continue to be blessed living out our lives, we are saddened Neilie did not get to. We miss her. Neilie had a smile, beauty, and grace that lit up the world and made it a better place. Neilie´s spirit will never die. It is wonderful to see her `light´ continue on in her daughter. Much love to the families.

Andrea Martin

September 11, 2021

Neilie, Today, Sept. 11th, there's no way I could forget about you. Your sweetness, friendliness, willingness to help me with work questions about our styles and catalog...and your laughter. Rest in peace. Now 81 and living in a rehab/health center.

Ash Ashraf

September 11, 2021

Sending love to the Casey family. We will always remember Neilie.

Margo Wyckoff

September 10, 2021

Neilie was an astonishingly beautiful and gifted young woman in every way and I am still overcome when I think of her loss. Peace to her family

Cindy Roe

September 4, 2021

Remembering Neilie on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...

September 14, 2020

Sending our continued thoughts of sympathy to your family. May each new day lessen a little of your pain of loss and may God provide some of the help and comfort needed daily. Neilie and her family will always be lovingly remembered.

The Kindred Family

lona carlini

September 11, 2020

she is so pretty.

Ash Ashraf

September 11, 2020

Thinking of Neilie today and smiling. My best (as always) to all the Casey's.

September 11, 2020

Not a week goes by that I don't think of you and of course, I always think of you on this day. 19 years seems an impossibly long time ago.

Jen C

June 7, 2020

We came across your dedication at Noska Lighthouse. God bless.

Alex

December 12, 2019

I am terribly sorry you died on board American 11. RIP....

Maria

September 12, 2019

Remembering Neilie and praying for her, her family, and loved ones today.We will never forget!

Sarah Winch

September 12, 2019

Thoughts of you all day yesterday, Neilie, and wonderful reminisces of your beautiful, contagious smile, love, and laughter. We miss and always remember you and your deep love for Mike, Riley, Sargent, and your families. XOXO

Andrea Martin

September 11, 2019

Unsure if my message went through, Neilie. You are thought of today as always and missed. You are one of those special angels who was allowed to be with us for a while but never forgotten. My home is in a rehab/health facility where I can be treated right away if I have any more strokes.

Andrea

September 11, 2019

Neilie, thoughts of you all day today and the loss of you is felt just as strongly as 18 years ago.

Ash Ashraf

September 11, 2019

Remembering Neilie today and smiling.

Nicole Ventura

August 29, 2019

Neilie, My name is Nicole Ventura. We have never met but I am doing an endurance event in Boston on September 6, 2019 honoring those who lost their lives in the 9/11 tragedy. I read so many people's stories and stopped at yours. I cant image the loss your husband and baby feel. I am positive that you watch over them, guiding with love. I will finish this event in your honor. Rest in Peace. xo

The Kindred Family

November 21, 2018

Sending our thoughts of deep sympathy to your family. The passing of time doesn't always remove the deep pain of losing someone special. May God continue to give the needed help with each new day. Neilie will always be lovingly remembered.

September 11, 2018

Seventeen years later, and you're still the first person I think of on this date. Often with a lot of sadness in my heart, but today I just remember your joy and fun spirit and those memories bring a smile to my face on this typically mournful day. I'll always remember...

Sarah Winch

September 11, 2018

Neilie, Pete and I think of you often and especially today. We can still see your beautiful smile, sparkly eyes and hear your enthusiastic zest for life :). We miss you and pray you are at peace and in a beautiful place, watching over your daughter, Riley, Mike, and Lisa. We are thinking of and praying for your families, too. We always recall that you were named for your Dad, your love for Mike and Riley, golf, and your beloved German Shepherd XO Sarah Winch

Ash Ashraf

September 11, 2018

Thinking happy thoughts for Neilie

Andrea Martin

September 11, 2017

How very brightly you must shine in Heaven as you did here with those of us who remember you always. Still the tears come after sixteen years!

Janet & Peter Andrade

September 11, 2017

Remembering Neilie today ❤

Laura Spangler

September 11, 2017

Thinking about you,and how it was so unfair you got taken from your family's life. Beautiful angel keep watching over them. Your daughter Riley is so beautiful. R.I.P Sweet angel

September 11, 2017

We will be thinking of Neilie and the entire Casey family today.

Ash & Kathy Ashraf
Wellesley, MA

Nancy Atchue

September 10, 2017

Neiie, I read your memorial stone in our garden at TJX often. It so beautifully captures the wonderful you a few of us got to know in the brief time we were blessed to have you with us. Always hoping for the best for Riley.

Sitting here looking over the water in front your memorial

Kenny Boucher

August 26, 2017

Donna Carpenter

September 11, 2016

RIP Beautiful Angel..

Louise Glennon

September 11, 2016

I have prayed for your family over the years, especially your daughter Riley. I often wonder how she is doing, as now she is surely grown since so many years have passed. I was the one that sent a small raggedy Ann doll her way all those years ago. (I believe it was that along with a small cross stitched pillow?) it's been so long it's hard to remember. My heart was with your family then, just as it is still today, along with all the other families that were affected by this day. Please know your family and everyone else's will never be forgotten. Continued prayers always.

Joseph Damiano

September 11, 2016

Prayers

September 11, 2016

We always think of Neilie on this sad day. Much love to the Casey family. We are happy and proud to be your friends.

Ash & Kathy Ashraf

September 2, 2016

I've been thinking of you a lot lately. September always brings so many mixed feelings for me and I'm sure for so many others as well. I struggle so much with the idea that 15 years have passed since you left this world. I'm amazed that the tears still come so easily. I never really understood the saying that time heals all wounds and I know there's little truth to that. Time burs some of the sadness and of course the passing of time allows for new and happy memories, but the overwhelming amount of grief is still there, perhaps just a bit further from the surface as before. I will continue to honor your memory, Neilie and I will never forget what was taken from us that day.

Sarah Detton

June 23, 2016

Thinking about you today. Your daughter is now 15 years old. Its crazy how time has flown by. I don't even know you, but I feel as though I had known you. Maybe before we came to earth. RIP

September 13, 2015

Thinking of you.

Andrea Martin

September 12, 2015

Tears come so easily still after 14 years. You are missed but I pray in a better place where you can see your daughter growing up to be a lovely woman like her mom. I guess as I age, I see how short life really is and it accentuates the sense of loss. May God bless your spirit and all of your family.

Eric Mark Beauchamp

September 11, 2015

I was just a young Airman on 9/11, later got out & joined the Army. I visited the ground zero memorial before I deployed & never cried so hard in my life after reading letters from little children to their parents in Heaven. Before I left I bought a memory bracelet with Neilie's name on it and have been wearing it ever since.

I went running for her today as I usually do during the sunset by the water downtown Seattle. Sometimes I picture her running ahead of me telling me to keep going.

She's helped me so much & I never even met her. Thank you Neilie. Someday I'll go for a run at Neile Point. I just wanted to say to all her loved ones that I will never forget.

Amanda

September 11, 2015

Each year I come onto the memorial site and look to find someone (or some people) that touch me or that I can relate to.

This year it is Neilie. When I first read her memorial I had to actually add the 14 years to her age and then realized that she and I would be roughly the same age. As someone who had a similar job during that time period, one that required travel, I remember the sadness I had when I left my babies but the joy I had in my job.

I am so sure your family remembers you each and every day Neilie but today I wanted to take a moment and remember you too. I pray your daughter is a healthy, happy girl.

Ash Ashraf

September 11, 2015

Thinking of Neilie today. Happy memories and love to Mike and Riley.

September 11, 2015

14 years ago today I was saddened by the news that you were gone. We worked together at Chadwicks, we had a meeting together about international sourcing. You made an unforgettable impression on me that day. You were the sweetest person, with and infectious smile that made people comfortable in your presence. So easy to talk to, your inviting smile. I recall walking away from our meeting thinking Chadwicks was loosing an amazing women and I was disappointed that you were moving on to TJX. You touched many lives, many you probably didn't even realize, just being you. Neilie you will never be forgotten.

September 11, 2015

Thinking about you and your family today.

September 10, 2015

I can't believe we're at the 14 year mark of this horrible day. I remember when I first learned you were on flight 11 my thoughts immediately went to your daughter who was an infant at the time. I wondered what struggles she would face as she grew up without you. I cried every time I thought about all that you both lost that day. The memories that would never be and I feared she would grow up feeling cheated by losing you before she could ever manage to form a concrete memory of your existence. I still struggle with a lot of these things and the unfairness of it all still overwhelms me at times. Please know that some of us will never, ever forget. I think of you often still and will continue to do so as the years go on.

Kathleen Oles

March 7, 2015

My husband and I came across Nellie Anne Heffernan Casey's memorial while vacationing on Martha's Vineyard. We were so moved by the sentiment and the date of her death that we took a picture. I am scrapbooking that trip and have a page dedicated to her. Please accept my condolences at the loss of your darling girl. She will never be forgotten by me or by my husband.

Joyce Skipper

March 5, 2015

It's been almost 14 years. But its like yesterday. The pain of a love one loss still grieves us. God remembers to . They will live again.

January 8, 2015

just thinking of you today. even though we have never met, your name is very unique and I think of you often.

Sarah Winch

September 13, 2014

Pete and I will never forget, Neilie. Your incredible smile, shine, and spirit live on. You set the best example to live by. No one can ever take that away.

karen Sanders

September 13, 2014

I did not know Neilie but on September 11, 2014 I participated in the 2 Million Bikers to D.C. I received her name when I got to the meeting place in Fort Washington, Maryland. I placed her name on my helmet and rode to D.C. with pride knowing she was with me. I will keep her name on my helmet and continue to ride with her as long as I am able. God Bless you Neilie, you are a true hero.

Michelle Pacheco

September 11, 2014

Thinking of you today and always

Brad Burns

September 11, 2014

Hello,

I didn't know Neilie personally but she is a part of our lives in a small way that you don't know. My wife (we weren't married at the time of the tragedy) and I were thinking of names for our first born when she said that she had seen the name Neilie as one of the victims of 9/11 and really liked it. Picking a name is tough and when she suggested the name I immediately loved it. We decided to spell it Neely and she is a beautiful 10 year old girl now. She knows how her name came about and it is a reminder of all of the great people who perished on that sad day.

I just thought we would let you know how Neilie touched our lives and lives on through our daughter.

God Bless,

Brad

Mia Ball

September 11, 2014

I saw Neilie Anne Heffernan Casey's memorial on the Cape on a brilliant August day in 2012 and I was very moved.
I want to express my sincerest condolences on this the 13 anniversary to this beautiful young Woman's family and friends.
We will never forget. ?

Laura Spangler

September 11, 2014

13 years.but it feels like yesterday. Such a beautiful life lost. Thinking about you today. Knowing you are watching over Mike and Riley is some comfort

Ash Ashraf

September 11, 2014

I always remember Neilie when this sad anniversary arrives. I will only think of happy memories and send love to Mike and Riley.

September 10, 2014

Neilie, I have such a hard time comprehending how so many years have come to pass. It breaks my heart to think of all you've missed here and I've said countless prayers that this was all a mistake and you were not really on that plane. I remember so clearly hearing your voice and seeing your smile in the halls and corridors of Chadwick's of Boston. I'll always keep you in my thoughts and prayers and I will never, ever forget.

Andrea Martin

September 9, 2014

Neilie, it is hard to believe so many years have passed, yet it is like this happened yesterday. I can still see your big, bright smile and hear your cheerful voice. You are living on, Neilie, because so many care enough to remember you. <3

Maria

September 8, 2014

Neilie will never be forgotten! On 9/11 I will be praying the rosary for the repose of the souls of Neilie, Tara, and all those lost on this day. I will also be praying for their families, friends, ect. I am so sorry for your loss. May God Bless you!

nichola holmes

August 16, 2014

I work for Redcats UK and used to deal with Neilie through the Chadwicks brand. We came to New York in 2003 and visited Ground zero as I wanted to pay my respects to Neilie and all of the other victims of this horrific event. I often think of her and her family and want to let them know theyb are not alone love and best wishes xx

Len Stanga

September 24, 2013

Having been going to Falmouth since 1983 for vacation, this was probably the sixth visit since 9-11-01, but not the first time I had seen her memorial. This September we were there again and on 9-11 I found myself wanting to visit Nobska Lighthouse again. I always walk across the street for the view, but this time I wanted to know who that person was on the memorial. I've read about Neilie and saw that she was loved by many. I can only offer my deepest sympathy.

Troy Adams

September 11, 2013

I spent a lot of time with Neilie in San Francisco in the early 90s. She was one of those people with an angelic soul. I think of her often and sadly every Sept 11. Your soul lives on Neilie.

Susn Tessicini

September 11, 2013

Remembering you Neilie, Riley and your wonderful family. Your smile and kindness is etched in my memory for all time. Love Susan, Preschool D Teacher, Mulberry.

Denise Danells

September 11, 2013

Every September 11th I remember Neilie. I didn't know her but some say I have an uncanny resemblance. So much time has passed, but I remember her smile. God bless your family.

Ash Ashraf

September 11, 2013

Mike,

As always, thinking of you and Riley today. All the best to a beautiful family.

Ash & Kathy

Cheryl Bean

September 11, 2013

I did not know her but her spirit lives on in those who honor her. It is a legacy which will continue to bless those who remember - who chose not to forget.

Kenneth Hong

November 21, 2012

hello there!

We don't personally know Neilie Casey. However, nonetheless we mourn the loss of this wonderful person, mother, wife and business professional. We were actually on vacation in Sept. 2012, touring the Boston area, including the picturesque Cape Cod area. This is where we actually saw a gorgeous lighthouse, and then somehow 'ran' across the very moving memorial of Neilie Casey, the picture of her, the plaque and parkbench overlooking the Atlantic Ocean. We were obviously very moved by this memorial. It was very beautiful, appropriate and certainly one for the ages. We actually remembered to go home back to San Francisco to learn more about this wonderful and magnificent Neilie. Well, now we know even more. What a horrific loss, like all the others needless deaths and loss. Yes, may Neilie RIP forever. And god bless all the surviving family members. May you find eternal strength and fond memories of Neilie throughout your lives. BEST REGARDS, KEN and ANA

Jaime Hibdon

September 11, 2012

Every year our Company has a September, 11th memorial. Each employee is given a name of someone from that day. Today I received the name of Neilie Anne, I have read all about her. I just want you to know that "We will never forget".

Thoughts and Prayers to her family and friends...

Michelle Pacheco

September 11, 2012

Thinking of you today and always

Lisa Duquette- Abeyta

September 11, 2012

Thinking of you and Kat today, and all the others who unnecessarily lost their lives. Much love to all.

Maureen Roy

September 11, 2012

You are always in my thoughts. Always.

Andrea Martin

September 11, 2012

Neilie, I don't just remember you on this date but especially so on this date. As an angel, you can see our thoughts and know you are still missed and remembered. I bet you never expected to be a part of American history. However, if you'd been given a choice, you would still be here with us.

Juliet Filbey

September 11, 2012

Thinking of you today and your wonderful family. God Bless

Ash & Kathy Ashraf

September 11, 2012

Mike and Riley,

Thinking about you two today. We only wish the best for the whole family.


With love,
The Ashraf Family

Christine Barrett

September 11, 2012

Dear Neillie, I think of you every year and your wonderful optimism at life. Such a beautiful soul. I treasure the meeting that morning with Riley and how happy you were. Such a sad sad loss of an exceptional person

Laura Spangler

September 10, 2012

Mike and Riley Thinking of you and Neilie as i always do at this time of year.Neilie is a beautiful angel watching over all of you...

linda boan

September 9, 2012

Always a star in heaven

linda boan

September 9, 2012

From your tjx family store 854..god bless you all..and be with you always... as we all stand in a moment of silence this sept. 11th...we will aways remember you....

Maureen McCray

September 7, 2012

I never knew her but our lives were intertwined..from the garment center of NYC to Neilies point in WoodsHole..God Bles You

Del Newberry

July 6, 2012

As many other Americans, I go out here daily and read about another victim and stop to remember the friends and family of the person who was so senselessly lost that tragic day. I lift up Mike and Riley, the brother and sisters of Neilie, and all of the other family and friends. My prayers are with you today and pray for a touch of comfort in your lives. We must all honor Neilie's memory by helping and being compassionate to others, spread that smile around the world. Much love from Texas...

S Detton

February 9, 2012

I finally had a chance to catch up on reading about the victims of 9/11. Thank God for memories! Riley has a mommy in Heaven looking down on her. Kind of like a guardian angel. They say things happen for a reason. It took me 10 years to finally get my grip to read all of this and from what I gather, she was a wonderful person. I am grateful that Mike and Riley found happiness again. God bless!

Jill Pearlman

January 1, 2012

I came across the memorial to honor the life and memory of Neilie today, at Nobska Point. It was a beautiful New Year's Day, clear and unseasonably mild. It is a beautiful place, to celebrate the life of a very special and beloved woman.

September 17, 2011

I thought the Nobska Light memorial was as lovely as Neilie looks in this picture. Her family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Heather Jones

September 12, 2011

To Neilie's family, while on vacation to Boston in 2009 I came across Neilie's memorial on Nobska Point. I think of her often. I offer a prayer for you all. She will never be forgotten.

Lisa Abeyta

September 11, 2011

In memory of Neilie Anne Heffernan Casey & Kathleen (Kit) Faragher and all the other victims of 911. My the Lord bless you and bring comfort to all those who love and knew you. You are truly missed.

View from Neilie Point looking at the Vineyard

Rich & Terry Ciesla

September 11, 2011

To Neilie and your family, my wife and I know how special Nobska Point must of meant to you, and still does.
A very special place in our hearts, a magnificant view and a feeling of love.
It will always be our special place to visit every year and share with you.
Rich & Terry Ciesla

September 11, 2011

We will never forget you!

Virginia Parrott

September 11, 2011

To the family of Neilie Anne, I didn't know Neilie Anne but have stood by her memorial on Nobska Point many times. What a beautiful place for this remembrance where people can visit and have a moment of quiet reflection. My thoughts and prayers are with your family...may you be blessed with comfort.

Laura Spangler

September 10, 2011

Is is now 9-11-2011 Your beautiful soul has been gone from your family for 10 years..You are thought of so much Neilie.Although i never knew you..I mourn your passing and want you to know that 10 years later doesn't change how the world feels..You and lots of others perished at the hands of devils.You will never be forgotten..Mike,Riley,and Neilie's parents you are in my thoughts and prayers today as most everyday..God bless you all..

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