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Shelley Marshall Obituary
On Sept. 11, she dropped her 3-year-old son and 20-month-old daughter at the Pentagon's day-care center near her office.
Around 9 a.m., she called her husband, Donn Marshall, to ask if he knew the World Trade Center had been hit by a plane; that was the last he heard from her.
When he was told the Pentagon had been hit, he rushed there and ran first to the day-care center to find his children. As soon as he saw them alive and unhurt, he knew his wife was among the victims.
"If she was OK, she would have been there," he said.
A no-nonsense woman with a take-charge personality, Marshall had worked as a budget analyst in the comptroller's office of the Defense Intelligence Agency for three years.
But she had other talents too. On Halloween, Shelley and Donn Marshall would bring together friends for a black-tie dinner at a remote bed-and-breakfast. "After dinner we would read ghost stories that we had written," Donn Marshall said.
"I miss her so much, and I keep thinking that she's standing behind me, in the blind spot between my shoulder blades, and I keep waiting for her touch."
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Alex L.
January 22, 2020
Shelley didn't die in vain at The Pentagon....
A.L.
August 3, 2019
My sincere condolences to the people who fondly remember Shelley.
Del Newberry
March 21, 2016
We will never forget. Thank you for your service to our country. I pray today for all of Shelley's family and friends. With much love from Texas,
Liliana Alcantar
September 15, 2014
Dear Shelley marshal ,
When i read your profile I was so touched. I am so sorry that you passed. I wasn't even alive when this happend ,but anyways, I wish your family the best of luck and may god bless them always.
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S J. Friscia III
August 15, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Heather Fisher
September 11, 2013
I was devastated to hear the news of Shelley last year. I was friends with her oldest brother in high school and have such fond memories of Shelley and how sweet and kind she was. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to her entire family. I'm so very sorry.
Meredith Reeder-Howdyshell
September 11, 2012
Eleven years later you are still missed and in the hearts of those who had the honor on knowing and working with you. I thank you for all did for me to push me forward to do more with my life. I grew in my career and as person, by having the opportunity to work with you. I will always be thankful to you and you will always have a place in my heart.
CIndy Wilson
September 14, 2011
God be with you. We wll never forget!!!!
September 11, 2011
I never knew you, but your dedication to your children is truly moving. I hope you have found peace and I pray for your family. You will forever remain in my thoughts and prayers as a D.C. resident.
Ron Cassidy
May 1, 2011
Today is dedicated to you Shelley.
Peggy Childers
August 26, 2010
To the family of Shelley A. Marshall:
Shelley gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our heroes of September 11 be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you.
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
September 11, 2009
8 years but the memory hasn't faded. Your light shines brighter today than ever. We miss you. We think about you. You were an inspiration. 09/11/2001. Never forget.
April 1, 2009
Remembering your smile, your kind words, and your friendship...
September 11, 2008
In loving memory
Doug Abraham
November 16, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
P Tabbernor
August 29, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
November 1, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Kathy Swaringen
October 19, 2006
on Oct 19, 2006, 1 mile was ridden to honor the life of Shelley A Marshall and all those she left behind. You and your loved ones will be forever in my thoughts and prayers. Shelley will never be forgotten.
Shelley, may you rest in peace.
Mark Hinckley
September 12, 2006
I went to college with Donn Marshall, Shelley's husband. Donn was and is one of the most thoroughly decent human beings and most patriotic Americans I have ever met. Those who were privileged to meet Shelley -- as I was not -- say that she was very much the same. For me, she will always be the face of the murdered on 11 Sept 2001.
Frida Kjellin
September 11, 2005
Shelley A. Marshall
Whats happend on 9/11 2001 is so terrible. A lot of persons have mist there loved ones. Shelley A. Marshall semed to be a wonderfull person and what happed to her and her family is terrible. I suffer with you all.
Karyn Taylor
August 17, 2005
Donn,
After losing my husband that same day, (he was on the plane that hit the Pentegon) I have been reading a book for single parents. When I came across your story my heart broke, for as a mom of two girls, now 9 and 12, I too know how hard it is to keep the memoires of our loves alive for them. I guess I just want you to know that your story, and your willingness to share it, are a gift. Thank you. From the heart of another family touched by the senselessness of that day, thankyou.
Robyn Hardy
June 3, 2005
I was going through the "Oakton High School website" when I heard that Shelley was killed on 9-11. She was in a class of mine. Sorry to hear of your loss. I hope as the years have past,great memories of your wife overide your grief. God Bless You and your children.
Shelle Michaels
September 11, 2004
tears........turning to inspiration. Your story is very inspiring. Thanks for touching so many people with the Shelley A. Marshall Foundation.
Jason
September 11, 2004
Three years ago, I lived this day to find that a light of the world had been dimmed, though not extinguished. Shelley, your goodness lives on in the warmth you passed Donn, Drake, Chandler, and every soul you touched...So many hearts miss your glow; mine is no exception...
SARAH MIGNERY
September 3, 2004
I'm sorry for the loss of your wife and mother,Shelley. I pray that God and his angels look down on you and your two children with a smile on his face. God Bless you and your children always!! I pray that you can find peace in your prayers and those of others every day!!
Beegee Trammell
July 22, 2004
Donn,
I lost my husband and the father of my two sons when he was but 38 yrs old. That was 21 yrs ago. Our lives have gone forward with fewer tears and lots of happy memories of our dear one. I pray you will find comfort in sharing your memories of their sweet mom with your children. God bless and keep you all. Beegee
Karen Miller
September 11, 2003
My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends as your death was so uncalled for. I think about 9/11 about everyday of my life and I wish for your children a long happy life.
Joanna Podewils
September 11, 2002
Dear Shelley's family, I am with you on this terrible day. Today at school, we had a prayer service and I received your name. It hit me so hard because my sister is the US Military right now. I just wanted to say that I am with you and your family and everyone else. Even thoughI never knew Shelley, I feel that I'm connected to her in some way. GOD BLESS SHELLEY'S FAMILY! Love, Joanna, 16
Benjamin Sermons
September 11, 2002
May God Contiue to bless your family each and every day. We will always remember and will never forget.
Shea Simon
September 11, 2002
you will not be forgotten
god bless the USA
Amber Chinn
September 9, 2002
Shelley, God bless you and your family.We are all praying for your family and you. I know how you feel but not as much pain.It has now been a year sence your death and loss.It is hard to think about September 11,2001 wi5th out crying.I pray for you all every day and night.
Shelley Sherwin
September 4, 2002
I have chosen Shelley's name to wear on my heart badge, since I found someone whose name is spelled like mine. I will be singing the Mozart's Requiem with the Northwest Repertory Singers in Tacoma, WA on Sept.11,2002. I hope that Donn,you, and your children will be able to hear a choir sing this music in your area. So I want you to know that I will be thinking of Shelley and although I don't know her, I pray that God will comfort you,Donn, and your children. May He heal you and strengthen you as the music is sung for you.
Brandon Munden
September 2, 2002
Shelly,
A wonderful parent runs to their childs room in the middle of the night, to pick up and nurture a child fallen from their bed. I have ultimate faith in the fact that God has done the same.
Peace be with you,
Brandon Munden
John McJunkin
July 15, 2002
Donn:
I knew you at Hampden-Sydney back in the early '80's. I feared your wife was lost when I saw the spelling of your first name. I just now confirmed my fear. I regret my tardiness in expressing my sincere condolences. Your children will comfort your loss, but I know their is no substitute for your wife. She was beautiful and obviously well-liked. Please let me know if I can be of assistance. God bless you and your family. John
June 18, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN..SHELLEY A.MARSHALL AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS.GOD BLESS HER HUSBAND...BABIES...FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA...AMENE
Angel Moskal
March 14, 2002
Donn,
I saw you on CNN on Monday March 11th and I thought I recognized you from Hampden Sydney and then when I heard you had lost your wife at the Pentagon Attack, my heart sank. I just wanted to send my deepest sympathies to you and let you know that even if you aren't who I think you are that I am terribly sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your children during this awful time.
Regina Lankford
March 11, 2002
Mr. Marshall - I know you don't know me. I saw you speaking about that tragic day on CNN, and I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. May God bless you all and help you to get through this tragedy.
Deepest sympathies,
Regina Lankford
Collinsville, VA
Jody Nyers
February 19, 2002
I read about Shelley's website in the Washington Post's Southern Maryland Extra on 2/17/02 and immediately checked it out. What a great tribute to a wonderful lady. Even though I do not know the Marshall's I have read many accounts of the events of September 11th and Donn's stories in our local paper, the Maryland Independent, and wanted to send along my thoughts and prayers. Know that Shelley will be forever in your hearts, a guardian angel over all of you.
God Bless.
Jody Nyers
Southern Maryland
Jason Sandoval
February 5, 2002
Shelley -
Your smile brightened even the darkest room. Your friendship provided an indefinable warmth felt even when we were miles apart. No words can define the void those near to you now know. Look down on Donn and the children and take pride in knowing that your love has kept them strong.
Your friend,
Jason
Todd Nabb
January 28, 2002
I am sure that Shelley's smile lives on in your family's memory and hearts. I am very sorry for your loss. Warm Regards, todd nabb
Teresa Jahn
January 12, 2002
May Shelley's take charge personality, her life and love live on in you. May precious memories of times together lighten the sorrow in your hearts. We are deeply sorry for your great loss of Shelley. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Linda Rudolph
December 21, 2001
I asked a friend to pick up a Mercy B.A.N.D. for me. When she asked if I had a preference, I said, "no, I'll get the right one." Today I received my bracelet with Shelley's name on it. I read about her and shall never forget how brave she is. God Bless Shelley and her family, I think and pray for all of you everyday.
Julia Hall
November 14, 2001
I wear a bracelet with Shelley's name on my wrist. When I hold my 10 month old son on my hip he wraps
two of his little fingers around the bracelet like he might be holding
a Mommy's hand. He is teething and
he has started to chew on it too.
Knowing Shelly was a mother, I am sure she would appreciate that!
Paula Acevedo
November 3, 2001
Mr. Marshall, Please know how very sorry I am for your loss. I wear a bracelet with Shelley's name on it. Please know that I will pray for you and your children, and everyday Shelly will be in my heart.
Jan and Zane Azbarea
October 30, 2001
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Cyndy Rice
October 29, 2001
I am sorry for your loss Donn and that of your two children. May God Bless and watch over the three of you.
Daryl Taylor
October 9, 2001
I'm terribly sorry for Donn's loss. He has always been a special guy, and my heart aches for him as he goes through this most difficult time. God Bless Donn and his kids.
Chip Tarpey
October 9, 2001
Have no doubt that Shelly is with you always, both in the memories you shared and in the children you made together. God Bless your family.
BARBARA BOLIN
September 28, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
SHELLEY MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
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