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Amy Toyen Obituary
To catch her early flight on Sept. 11, Amy E. Toyen arose in Boston at 4 a.m. so she could arrive in New York City at 6:45 a.m., in plenty of time to attend the trade show in Windows on the World at 1 World Trade Center. Ms. Toyen, 24, was demonstrating a software product of her company, Thomson Financial in Boston, when her fiancé, Jeffrey Gonski, got a call at 8:58 a.m. — his caller ID showed it was her cellphone — but when he answered, no one was there.
They were engaged to be married next June 16. Mr. Gonski had met Ms. Toyen at their alma mater, Bentley College in Waltham, Mass., and had managed to pull off an elaborate proposal. Last spring he planned a vacation with her to Canada, then surprised her at the airport with a flight for two to Ireland — her favorite place. Then he stunned her again by proposing there, in a romantic locale on the Dingle Peninsula. How could she possibly have said no?
"We had just ordered her wedding dress," said her father, Martin Toyen. "She was so happy in her life — a woman in love, who loved her job."
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on November 30, 2001.
Amy E. Toyen, 24, beloved daughter of Martin and Dorine Toyen of Avon, died Tuesday, (September 11, 2001) as a result of the terrorist attack on the World Trade Center. Born on June 20, 1977, Amy was raised in Avon. She was a 1995 graduate of Avon High School, and a 1999 graduate of Bentley College. She was employed by Thomson Financial in Boston and lived in Newton. Amy was in New York attending a technology conference in the World Trade Center. She loved music and art. Besides her parents, Amy is survived by her sister, Heather of Canton; her maternal grandparents, Ernest and Salena Blake of Longmeadow, MA; her paternal grandparents, Morris and Dora Toyen of Canton and Delray Beach, FL; her fiance, Jeffrey Gonski of Watertown, MA; and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. We will dearly miss her. A memorial service will be held Sunday, September 23, 11 a.m. at Beth El Temple, 2626 Albany Avenue, West Hartford. The family will receive friends at 39 Rosewood Rd., Avon through Wednesday noon. Donations may be made to the Amy E. Toyen Fund at Beth El Temple, or a charity of the donor's choice.
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Curtis Reuschel
September 13, 2022
Dear Mr and Mrs Toyen. I hope you somehow receive this message. I am a 55 year old male and worked with Amy at Thomson. I was one of the Sales Executives in the group that Amy interacted with and helped support. I worked in Boston and my office was 10 feet from Amy´s. I wanted you to know that 21 years later we are all still thinking about Amy and remembering her kind spirit. None of us have forgotten Amy. We wish you peace and pray for you and know Amy rests in peace. God bless you.
Sincerely,
Curtis J Reuschel.
Marie Rock
September 11, 2021
Amy, today, on the twentieth anniversary of 9/11, your picture was again shown with others on Boston television as one of the victims with ties to Boston. I knew you as my student, and as one of those rare students whose talents stay in the memory of a teacher. You were and always will be a shining light for so many people who knew or heard of you. May you continue to rest in peace and know of the inspiration you have given to so many.
Stephanie Coltey
September 11, 2020
Sending love to the Toyen family today.
The Kindred Family
November 14, 2018
Sending our heartfelt sympathy to your family. Words will never remove the pain of losing someone dearly loved but God is there to help give the strength and comfort needed to cope with such a sad loss. Amy will always be lovingly remembered.
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Stephanie Sule
September 11, 2017
Thinking of the Toyen family today.
Emilio Ranaldi
February 7, 2017
I can remember Amy and my sister Summer having a great time at Campfire together. She was a kind young lady.
September 14, 2016
remembered.
Peter Stein
September 12, 2016
Thinking of you, and all of the other families so impacted that day.
Stephanie Sule
September 12, 2016
Remembering you today Amy.
Continued love and peace to your family.
Jan Sage
September 12, 2015
Amy
We think of you always. I say your name and tell your story to keep your positive energy out into the world.
Amy Dixon
September 11, 2015
I will be competing in an endurance event honoring the victims of 9/11 in Indianapolis, IN. I came across Amy's story and was moved beyond words at her amazing life; and the future she had in front of her. I will be sharing her story as my tribute at the event.
Jason Burke
September 11, 2015
It has been many years, and I only knew Amy in passing at Bentley, but I remember her.
Stephanie Sule
September 11, 2015
Thinking of the Toyen family today and sending my love and prayers.
Stephanie Sule
September 11, 2014
Thinking of the Toyen family.
A few weeks ago I visited the 9/11 memorial in NYC and was very overwhelmed by how moved I was. I was drawn to Amy's name and offer tribute today
Kristen Bates
September 11, 2013
Paul
March 24, 2012
Amy was a year ahead of me at Bentley. Her memory even today is a constant reminder of how valuable life is and how it can never be taken for granted. She will never be forgotten, she continues to inspire us everyday.
Joan & Ray Zettlemoyer
September 11, 2011
You will always be in our thoughts and in our hearts we will never forget you
Marie Rock
September 11, 2011
Amy, as a student you were a bright light in my class, and I remember your good humor and kindness toward others. I have no doubt that memories of you continue to shine for many, as they do for me.
Erin Shanley
September 11, 2011
You are in my thoughts today Amy. Love and support to your family.
Darryl K. Herrick
September 10, 2011
Toyen Family,
Your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Amy was a wonderful person who gave so much to the world. She will always be missed.
Colleen Shay
August 31, 2011
Dear Amy:
I never had the priviledge of knowing you, but I dearly wish that I had. In reading the story of your life, it is hard to ignore the similarities between you & I.
You grew up in Avon, CT and I grew up two towns over in Granby, CT. Although you are younger than me by a couple of years, in a way I feel like I know you because as a teenager I worked in an Avon restaurant with other teenagers from Avon and from the Renbrook school.
You worked for Thomson and traveled and did trade shows, I also went to work for Thomson, and travel between Boston and New York from my West Hartford home to represent Thomson at trade shows, still do to this day. I was at a trade show on the morning of Sept. 11, 2001 just outside NYC.
One of my favorite places in the world is the Dingle Pennisula and I have been able to visit and see all of the amazing landscapes a few times.
I was living in West Hartford on Sept. 11, 2001 and still do. I pass the Temple Beth El almost every day think of you each time.
As September 11 approaches, I am thinking of you and your family, and want you to know that thousands of people that you worked with and around the world are remembering you with love and honor.
Jen W
March 14, 2011
Hi Amy,
You are always in my thoughts. You and I grew up together, and we were friends since 2nd grade.
Thinking about you,
Jen W
Susan Calderon
September 11, 2009
I was a co-worker of Amy's at Thomson, based in the SF office. I visited Boston headquarters often, and Amy was the first person I would make to sure stop by and visit with in her cube. She was a favorite colleague and friend... a considerate, easy-going, intelligent person with a warm heart and kind soul. I think of her and miss her often. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family.
Lana
September 11, 2009
As a co-worker and friend I remember Amy always giving everyone her full attention. She was patient with others, looked directly into your eyes and was never cavalier with anyone. Thinking of her today by being a little more patient and attentive with others.
Gwen Wissler
September 11, 2009
Thinking of you today, Amy!
Melissa (Hiltz) Miller
September 11, 2009
Heather -
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers today.
Hope all is well.
Doug Abraham
June 20, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Meredith Bear (maiden name DiRusso)
September 11, 2008
Hello Toyen Family,
I was thinking about Amy all day. She is very missed. My thoughts and heart go out to you all...
Stephanie Sule
September 11, 2008
Heather and family,
You and Amy are in my thoughts and prayers.
Liz
September 10, 2008
Thinking of you and your family....Send strength to not understand why a day like September 11, 2001 happened because it is not understandable but to accept.....and do what I can to help prevent such a day from ever happening again.
God Bless.
Doug Abraham
June 20, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Liz Doherty
May 13, 2008
Dear Toyen Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I learned of Amy from the lovely bench put in front of the Avon Library in her honor. All winter long my 2 year old daughter would wave hello to the statue of the little girl sitting on that bench. I promised once the snow and cold went away we would go sit and visit with her! That day came a couple of weeks ago. Caitlyn could hardly contain herself, she got herself on that bench and began a conversation only a 2 year old could have with a statue! Finally she got to sit next to the little girl with the book and teddy bear! Then my 5 year old son noticed the plaque explaining who the bench was dedicated too. He asked me to read it and I did, until I got to how her life was so horribly taken from her, from the people who love her, from this world. My son asked why I stopped and why I was crying. I could not read the last part about her losing her life in the terror attacks on her country on Spetember 11, 2001 so I told him that Amy went to heaven just like his Uncle Mikey. That the bench and statue was put here by people who miss her and love her just like we miss Uncle Mikey. That moment was so hard because it made me realize that one day my children will learn about the horror and violence that not only took Amy away but their dear Uncle Mikey. I lost my brother Michael D. Glover on August 16, 2006 in Iraq. He joined the Marine Reserves a few years after 9/11 in hopes to do his part in preventing another horrific tragedy happening in our country. I just wanted to share our appreciation of Amy's bench & how she is still bringing joy to a little girl's life! I will keep your family and Amy in my prayers. God Bless us all whose lives have been changed forever by September 11, 2001 and through our love & strength our loved ones never be forgotten.
Respectfully,
Liz Doherty & Family.
Whitney McLellan
May 13, 2007
Amy was my babysitter when I was a young girl. I always used to cling to her side every time she came to watch my siblings and I. As I look back at the moments we spent, I couldn't help but shed some tears. I miss you so much Amy, and I know I will see you in heaven...I love you
P Tabbernor
April 2, 2007
In memory....
Lisa Iacono
September 12, 2006
To Amy's Family -
I went to school with Amy at Bentley and remember the group projects we worked on together. She was a lovely person, inside and out. I always remember her perfect smile :-). I have thought about her over the years and remember her especially on this 5 year anniversary. She will never be forgotten.
With sincerest condolences,
Lisa Iacono
Bentley Alum
Shannon O'Reilly
September 11, 2006
Mr. and Mrs. Toyen and Heather,
You are in my thoughts and prayers and have always been!! Stay strong!!
Love always,
Shannon O'Reilly
Courtney Stano
September 11, 2006
I can't believe its been 5 years since Amy has been gone. I still think of her and feel a little better knowing that she is up in heaven on my side! My thoughts and prayers are with your family on this anniversary and for the days to come..
Michele Ciment
September 11, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you. My children and I always think of Amy and your family while we are at the Avon Library.
Ron & Darlene Chrabascz
August 16, 2006
Dear Dorine, Marty & Heather,
Unfortunately, we never had the pleasure of meeting Amy. However, we feel blessed to have met you and, greatly value our friendship. Knowing you, as we do, the world is missing out on one remarkable young lady - Amy Toyen!
Stephanie Sule
September 11, 2003
Heather,
I'm still thinking of you and your family and praying for you.
Love,
Steph
Leanne Roy
September 11, 2003
Mr. & Mrs. Toyen and heather
I just wanted to let you know that you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers for the past two years.
God Bless
Amy Donahue
February 4, 2003
Dear Toyen Family-
You do not know me, nor I you. I saw that your daughter Amy and I shared the same first and middle names and just felt a draw to her. I am so sorry for your loss and you are in my prayers
The Manware Family
January 11, 2003
Dear Martin and Dorine,
We send our love to you today and always. Although we never knew Amy,we have the sincere pleasure of knowing your wonderful daughter, Heather. She was our daughter's guidance counselor at DMS. What a lovely and truly remarkable woman she is. We honor Amy's life by celebrating Heather. We thank her for the kindness, caring, and love she has shown our daughter. Amy,Heather, and the ENTIRE Toyen family will ALWAYS be in our hearts.
Love, The Manware Family
Charles & Janet Kepner
September 17, 2002
Marty, Dorine & Heather,
After reading the article about Amy's memorial in the COURANT on line yesterday, we stopped by the Avon public Library last night on our way to Canton to celebrate our middle Grandson, Ben McCahill's 15th birthday. That statue is certainly a very beautiful and moving tribute to Amy. Having lost both of our daughters, Kim Kepner McCahill & Kristin, you know that we are able to feel your pain. We can assure you that that pain will eventually subside, but it will never completely disappear. We think of you often as we remember Amy, Marty & Heather as former students and your good work on the Avon Board of Education, Marty. Retiring from teaching in 1996 and moving from Avon to Groton in 2000 hasn't lessened our warm thoughts of Avon and our many friends there. God Bless and keep you all in the palm of His hand and God Bless America. Fondly, Jan & Charlie Kepner
Melissa (Hiltz) Miller
September 16, 2002
Mr. & Mrs. Toyen and Heather
I wanted to let you all know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers over the last year.
I was very fortunate to be able to have met Amy on more than one occassion while I attended WNEC with Heather.
Again, please know that your entire family has been in our thoughts and prayers.
Melissa, Charles & Andrew Miller
Stacy Burnham
September 12, 2002
Dear Toyen family,
Yesterday was a day full of memories and tears. I still cannot believe a year has passed. You are always in my thoughts and prayers and not a day goes by where I don't think of 9/11 and the loss and pain you and so many others are feeling. I will be at the statue dedication on Saturday, I know it will be a special memorial to a beautiful and wonderful person who will never be forgotten.
Jaimie Niek
September 11, 2002
Amy and I grew up together. I am so fortunate to have so many fond and fun memories. Not a day goes by that I don't think of her. Now, a year later, I cried my way through today, with so many emotions, guilt among them. I am getting married next month, and Amy is not. Life was ripped away from her and her fiance at this joyous time in their young lives. I am so sorry for your tragic loss, and you must know you have the support of so many people. Amy will never be forgotten. Love Always, Jaimie
Denise Cosio
September 11, 2002
Jeff & Family,
I would like to extend my deepest condolences to you.
God Bless you.
Danielle Brulotte
September 11, 2002
Marty, Doreen, Heather and Jeff,
Today, as with many days in the past year, Amy is in my thoughts. My prayers are with you today as you, and many of her friends and family, remember Amy.
She was a wonderful person and one who will never be forgotten.
God Bless.
Jeff Burke
September 11, 2002
Jeff and the Toyen Family,
I never got a chance to meet amy, I haven't even seen Jeff since highschool, but my heart aches at your loss. Amy was obviously a special person and you have my deepest sympathies.
Shauna Ferland
September 11, 2002
To the Toyen Family,
I had the pleasure to live with Amy during our junior and senior years at Bentley. During that time I learned a lot about the caring person that Amy was. Her smile could always brighten a dreary day. I have especially fond memories of the fireplace she painted on a dorm room wall so we could hang our christmas stockings from the mantel. Amy was a very giving and caring person whom I miss very much. My only regret is that as life took over I lost touch with Amy during that time after Bentley. Since, the tragic events of a year ago I have made an effort to keep in touch and to tell those I love just what I'm thinking, in case tomorrow never comes. I sincerely hope that you have found peace. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers as is Amy. God Bless.
Shauna
Kathy Fenton
September 11, 2002
Marty, Dorrine, Heather, and Jeff -
Remembering Amy always, and especially today. You are all in my thoughts as the country commemorates the lives of those lost.
Leona LaPato-Miller
September 11, 2002
I did not know Amy personally, but knew her Uncle, Aunt and Cousin Steffi from Miami for many years.
It breaks my heart to look at Amy's sweet face and realize her life was cut so short. Thank God she got to know love if only for a short time. My husband Martin and I pray that peace will eventually come to the family, and that the murder of all of the victims of September 11th will be avenged.
September 11, 2002
To Jeff and the Toyan Family:
You will be in my prayers today and always. God Bless You!!
Kristen Lundy (distel)
September 7, 2002
I was asked to speak at our church about my memories of September 11th by our Pastor. I will be reading about Amy in my speach, remembering her in the way I know best- her smile and her genuine good and giving nature.
Mr. and Mrs. Toyen and Heather, my thoughts and prayers are with you always. God Bless you all.
Kristen
courtney t
September 5, 2002
dear jeff an toyen family.i am a high school student in louisiana.we are doing a special tribute to those who died in september 11. i picked your daughter as my person.just to let you know i will be praying for your daughter and your family.always remember God is with you! sincerily...courtney t.
Tim Cronin
June 26, 2002
To Jeff and the Toyen family,
Not a day goes by that I don't think of all the lives effected by this horrible tragedy. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Such a beautiful smile to remember.
EVE RUPPERT
May 19, 2002
DEAR MARTY & DOREEN JUST A NOTE TO LET YOU KNOW HOW I HOPE YOU FIND SOME PEACE AMY IS SURELY IN A WONDERFUL PLACE NOW AND EVEN THOUGH i KNOW YOU MISS HER DEARLY THE HURTING WILL SUBSIDE BUT SHE WILL ALWAYS BE IN YOUR HEART AND MIND.I AM TRULY SORRY AND SHE IS IN MY PRAYERS. EVE RUPPERT
May 14, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS LOVELY WOMAN..AMY E TOYEN AND MAY HER SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HER FIANCEE ..FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA ...MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Lori Berti
April 5, 2002
Dear Dorine & Marty,
I just wanted to tell you that tonight Amy was on my mind. Chiara and I speak of her and I have gone to the Memorial Wall at the NY Historical Society and have touched her name. Her smile lives on, her memory will be kept alive. I am so sorry, the pain of her loss must be unbearable. Lori Berti
Kiersten Brown
April 4, 2002
Amy was a very special person and I will always miss her...
Barry Parker
March 28, 2002
I did not know Amy but I have known her father Marty through the maritime business over the past few years. My deepest condolences to Marty and the rest of the family.
Lou Lange
March 20, 2002
As part of the CSC family, I want to express my condolences to all of Amy's family. Mere words seem insignificant now, but know that Amy and all of the other innocents that perished on 9/11 are at peace with God. I will continue pray for her.
Teresa Jahn
December 10, 2001
We are so very sorry about your loss of Amy. Our hearts are with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Mary Elizabeth Gonzalez
November 30, 2001
I was extremely sadded to hear about Amy and want to offer my deepest sympathy to her family and fiance. I met Amy at Towpath Elementary school, she was my first friend when I moved to Avon. Although it was years ago, I remenber her kindness, her friendship, and playing together down her basement. I know she grew into a wonderful and vivacious woman. My thoughts and prayers are with your family in this time of sorrow.
Emily Gross
November 27, 2001
To the Toyen Family-
I was deeply saddened to hear about your loss. Although Amy and I weren't as close in high school as we were in our "younger years" We shared several moments in time that were filled with laughter and happiness. From girlscouts to birthday parties. Although Amy was only at the beginning of what seemed to be a successful career, in reading the other entries it is apparent that she was blessed and had a joyous life. I send my thoughts and prayers to you during this difficult time.
With grace and peace,
Emily Gross
Kurt Ramsauer
November 13, 2001
I grew up up the street from Amy. Though I have been out of touch with you for years, I still feel a great loss, and hope in times like these you remmber all the wonderful things everyone in this guestbook is saying. All I can remember of Amy regards babysitting and possibly some scary Halloween costume. I send my deepest sympathies,
Kurt Ramsauer
James Evans
October 26, 2001
My sincere sympathies and condolences to all members of Amy's family, all her coworkers, and all her friends. I know she was a wonderful woman even though I never met her. If someone from her family would please contact me, I have an experience involving Amy that I would like to relate to you.
Julie Anne Gonski
October 13, 2001
Toyen Family and Jeff:
Amy is the big sister I never had. She challenged me to be a better person, and always will. I will always carry Amy's memory with me. Perhaps she will be my guardian angel. My prayers are with the Toyen family, and with Jeff.
Joan & Ray & Family Zettlemoyer
October 9, 2001
Dear Marty Dorien and Heather
We are so very sorry about your loss
There are no words I can say to express how sad we all are for your loss. I just want you to know we will never forget AMY And Please Know we are there for you all if we can be of some help please just ask
We will do any thing
With all our love
Your Cousins
Joan and Ray
Ramie and family
Chip
Jason and Mayra
Dianne Purdy
October 7, 2001
My accept my deepest consolation in you time of loss. As a mother of children your daughter Amy's age, I cannot imagine the pain you must be experiencing.Please know there are many who share your grief.
Israel Garcia
October 4, 2001
That Tuesday Morning has been imprinted in my memory forever.
I Knew Amy personally, I did not work for the same group as she did but she interacted with my group as a whole so the pain that I felt that Tuesday was immense, i felt for everyone but this time I knew a face.I feel very sorry for your loss and hoping that time will heal all the pain that this tragedy has cause to your whole family.Allow me to put a Poem of a Hispanic Poet. It is my favorite in times that I felt lost it really helped me. it discribes how a mother's hands can be so helpful it times of sorrow.
LAS MANOS DE MI MADRE
Manos las de mi madre, tan acariciadoras,
tan de seda, tan de ella, blancas y bienhechoras.
¡Sólo ellas son las santas, sólo ellas son las que aman,
las que todo prodigan y nada me reclaman!
¡Las que por aliviarme de dudas y querellas,
me sacan las espinas y se las clavan en ellas!
Para el ardor ingrato de recónditas penas,
no hay como la frescura de esas dos azucenas.
¡Ellas cuando la vida deja mis flores mustias
son dos milagros blancos apaciguando angustias!
Y cuando del destino me acosan las maldades,
son dos alas de paz sobre mis tempestades.
Ellas son las celestes; las milagrosas, ellas,
porque hacen que en mi sombra me florezcan estrellas.
Para el dolor, caricias; para el pesar, unción;
¡Son las únicas manos que tienen corazón!
(Rosal de rosas blancas de tersuras eternas:
aprended de blancuras en las manos maternas).
Yo que llevo en el alma las dudas escondidas,
cuando tengo las alas de la ilusión caÃdas,
¡Las manos maternales aquà en mi pecho son
como dos alas quietas sobre mi corazón!
¡Las manos de mi madre saben borrar tristezas!
¡Las manos de mi madre perfuman con terneza!
Alfredo espino
Karen and Lenny Kaplan
October 4, 2001
Marty, Dorine and Heather -
There are no words to express the sorrow we all feel at the loss of Amy. Her smile was like sunshine on any day and lit up a room when she walked in. You all have wonderful memories. Let those sustain you and help you through this terrible time. We are here for you always.
Much Love -
Karen and Lenny
Adam Conn
October 3, 2001
I worked with Amy when she interned with The AutEx Group her senior year. She interviewed me for a paper she was writing, and showed great intelligence, humor, and insight. She will be missed.
Lindsay Fowler
October 3, 2001
I grew up and played soccer with Amy. After I moved in high school we lost touch, but I recently found out she worked with a friend of mine. I will always remember her smile. My thoughts and prayers are with Amy's family. God Bless.
Mauricio Barbeiro
September 30, 2001
Sometimes God need some flowers to be with Him. Then, He picks the most beautiful ones.
Our deepest sympathy and love from Brazil. God bless.
Kelly Clasby
September 28, 2001
I can't imagine the magnitude of the loss you've had to endure. Please accept my condolences in your time of grief. Amy touched many lives for someone so young. I'll miss her smile.
Sincerely,
Kelly Clasby
Michael Saletnik
September 27, 2001
My deepest sympathies. I had the privilege of working with Amy in the past, and remember her fondly. She always had a smile and brightened the lives of those around her.
I hope that our memories of her will continue to do so.
Jp LaFond
September 27, 2001
I work at Thomson and every time I saw Amy, she always had an easy smile and a kind word for everyone. She's going to be missed. My prayers go out to all those she's touched.
Meredith Anderson Lee
September 27, 2001
Our deepest sympathy and love from California. Amy will be remembered always! My husband Min Ho, and the entire Anderson family send our love and support and prayers. God Bless, Meredith
Darla and Chris Carcia
September 26, 2001
You have our deepest sympathies. It is such a tragedy for someone so young to have lost their life under such circumstances. Although we never met Amy, we know how much she was loved and will be missed by her parents and sister. Heather, how we wish you still lived just across the street so we could be there for you and give you a hug.
Nancy and Rick Prouser
September 25, 2001
To the Toyen Family,
Our daughter, Rachel, went to Sunday School with Amy in Simsbury. We are deeply saddened by her needless death, and we are thinking of you at this time of unbearable loss.
Janet Flye
September 25, 2001
There are no words to describe what we all feel right now. Amy was truly a fun, lovely, loving pixie who brightened many a day in so many lives. I count myself privileged to have known her and called her friend. We are the richer for knowing her, and the world is bleaker for her absense now.
Donna Fiorentino
September 24, 2001
Dear Marty, Dorine,Heather, Dinny, Morris and Jeff,
I am so very sorry for all of you in this great time of sadness and grief. Each of you have been in my thoughts and prayers everyday. I cry with you and I am very sad for our family.
Love your cousin
Donna F.
Andreea Popa
September 24, 2001
To the Toyen Family and Jeff:
My family and I would like to express our deepest condolences for the loss of your beloved Amy. I remember Amy as the girl who loved to smile. All throughout high school, every time I saw her, either in class or at lunch she was always laughing and smiling. Amy's smile was the window to her soul. Know that her memory will live on in many hearts. My family and I keep you in our prayers.
The Popa Family
chuck rovetti
September 24, 2001
There are no words sufficient for times such as these. Know that you have been and will be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless! Please do not hesitate to let us know if there is anything, no matter how large or small we can do to make this time a little easier for you.
Mary Luttrell
September 24, 2001
Dear; Jeff and Toyen family,
I was very saddened to hear your loss. I was very fond of Amy, I hired her as an intern at Hills department stores. I'll never forget her dedication and eagarness to learn. She came in everyday with a smile and never complained. She was truly a joy to know and work with. I will always remember her and I pray for all of you in these trying times to find peace.
God Bless you.
Mary Luttrell
Christopher Murphy
September 24, 2001
I had the pleasure of meeting Amy while she worked with my Wife Brenda. In that brief moment, I knew that she was a special person. She was truly a ray of sunshine.
Brenda Murphy
September 24, 2001
My deepest sympathy goes to the Toyen Family and Jeff. I worked with Amy at Staples and when she interned for Hills Department Stores. She was a very intelligent and talented individual. I will always think about her and will never forget how she touched my life.
-Brenda
Alison Brulotte
September 24, 2001
For those of us who knew Amy cared about her deeply. Of course it was hard not to. She was sweet, kind, and giving. She gave so many gifts to those she touched. May she live in ours hearts forever. Let her shining example and shining smile shine down on us from the rays and stars from above. I will miss Amy and I will never forget all the memories we shared growing up. If only we had the chance to share those memories of growing old.
Charles & Janet Kepner
September 23, 2001
Charlie taught at Avon High for 36 years and Amy was one of his students. Her father is also an Avon High graduate. Amy was a wonderful girl. she will be sorely missed.
michelle gagnon
September 22, 2001
My deepest sympathy to the Toyen family. Although I did not know Amy Toyen her passing has left a strong and sorrowful impact on her family and the dark cloud over N.Y.C! I will truly miss her b/c she along w/many others died to open America"s eyes! Sincerely,Michele Gagnon.
Leslie Boyle
September 22, 2001
To the Toyen Family,
My deepest sympathy is with you at this tragic time. I worked with Amy when she was a college intern at Hills Stores. What a bright a beautiful girl she was. This is a terrible and senseless loss. My heart goes out to the entire family and her fiance.
Samantha Kaplan
September 21, 2001
Dear Marty, Doreen, Heather, and Jeff:
I am so sorry for the loss of Amy. She is such a special person and she will be missed by all. I will always remember how happy she was and how good she made everyone feel. My thoughts and prayers will always be with her. If there is anything i can do to help you through this emotional time please do not hesitate to call. I am here for all of you. I love you
Sam
Wendy Newman
September 21, 2001
Though there aren't any words of sympathy that can ease the pain of the loss you bear -- I hope you find comfort knowing that others care.
Amy's bright face and winning smile will always remain a fond memory for me.
Wendy Newman
Avon High School
Marcy Stein
September 21, 2001
Deepest sympathy to Amy's dear family and fiancé. I grieve with you and have you in my constant prayers and thoughts.
Julie Flynn
September 21, 2001
Though I only knew Amy for a short time before I left Thomson, I knew her to be a friendly, intelligent, and caring person. What I’ve always remembered most about Amy was her amazing and contagious smile – that smile is what I will continue to remember! May the happy memories you have of Amy bring you some comfort at this most difficult time. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Katie Livingston
September 21, 2001
To the Toyen Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this time. Although no words can ever make up for your loss, know that her spirit lives on and she will never be forgotten.
Maureen Kubik
September 21, 2001
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers in this time of greif. I am sorry to hear about your loss.
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