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Waleed Iskandar,
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By Globe Staff, 9/21/2001
Waleed J. Iskandar of Boston and London, a consultant with the Monitor Group, was killed Sept. 11 in New York City while on American Airlines Flight 11. He was 34.
Mr. Iskandar was born in Beirut. In 1984, he came to the United States and graduated from Stanford University in 1989, earning a bachelor of science degree and a master of science degree with distinction in industrial engineering and computer science.
Mr. Iskandar moved to Boston in 1990 to begin his career as a consultant with the Monitor Group, a leading global strategy consulting firm in Cambridge. In 1993, he earned a master's degree in business administration from Harvard Business School, where he was a Baker Scholar.
He worked extensively in the United States, Korea, and throughout Europe. He established Monitor Group's Istanbul office and helped develop Monitor's Central/Eastern European and Middle East operations. Most recently, he was living in London and was head of Europe for Monitor's digital strategy unit.
He loved to travel and recently returned from a vacation to Greece, where he and his fiancee were planning to be married in July. He was a food and wine enthusiast who enjoyed yoga. He was fluent in French and Arabic.
Mr. Iskander leaves his parents, Joseph and Samia of Los Angeles; his fiancee, Nicolette Cavaleros of London; a brother, Sany, of Sudbury; a sister, May Marconet of Los Angeles; and six nephews and nieces.
A memorial service will be held Monday at 10 a.m. in St. Paul's Church in Harvard Square in Cambridge.
Editorial Obituary published in THE BOSTON GLOBE on September 21, 2001.
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Darroll Salesman
September 10, 2024
I met Waleed while he was living on Beacon Street in Boston. Although I was working on his place, as a carpenter, he had a special talent of making me feel very comfortable, as though I'd known him for years. I only knew him for a handful of years, but he definitely had an impact on my life and I think of him often. He's missed
Rick Kelly
September 13, 2023
Thoughts and prayers. I knew him at Stanford. He is missed
Ashley Rodriguez
September 11, 2023
I never had the pleasure to know Waleed but after reading the many beautiful messages about him below, I could feel how loved and truly special he was. I received Waleed's name for remembrance this year and I am grateful to read about his inspiring life and legacy and how wonderfully he connected with so many people. I will think of him always.
Paresh Shah
September 10, 2023
22 years since you have been gone yet your gentle spirit, smile, humble confidence and brilliance still shine in my my heart and the hearts of those who knew you as an example of a good, good, man. Rest in Peace my friend.
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Robert Armstrong
July 25, 2023
Waleed and I were dormmates at Stanford and while we didn't spend a lot of time together, his confidence, charm and gregarious nature left an impression on me. Funny, likable and obviously brilliant. In fact it was me trying to find Waleed on LinkedIn today that led to the sad discovery of his death back in 2001.
Ken and Jan Koepp
September 11, 2022
21 years, and Waleed is still on our minds every year at this time. He was an inspiration to all and had many admirers. I'm sure many other families share the same kind of thoughts every year at this time, and we can only hope that the world is on a path to more harmony and less pain and tragedy. To Waleed's family, perhaps the hurt will diminish with time. We hope so.
Mariah Welch
August 1, 2022
My entire life I grew up hearing the stories of my dad (Shawn Welch) and Waleed at Stanford and the friendship that bloomed from their time together. My parents told me about when they got married in Niagara Falls and then traveled directly to Boston to stay with Waleed. (They always referred to him as the best man in their wedding.) I heard about the fun times they had there and the memories that were built. Today my mom and I were exploring Boston after traveling from Montana and we went by Waleed´s old house. Although, I never got to meet him, I´m thankful that I´ve gone my whole life knowing part of him.
September 18, 2021
Hello, my name is Aimee, I'm from Hanover Pa, we have a program called Healing Fields and this program allows people to buy a flag and it flies in a field with thousand of other flags from people who died on September 11. We received your Son's name and this flag is now in our possession and we will fly it proudly in our front yard as often as we can, weather permitting. We are very sorry for your loss. Aimee Erb
Terri Dirik
September 12, 2021
I remember Waleed as a kind and gentle soul.
Timothy Kutzmark
September 11, 2021
Waleed was one of the kindest and most generous people I've known. He befriended me at HBS. I was staff, he was student. Our workouts and conversations at the HBS gym are treasured memories. Remembering him 20 years after his death.
Jane Parks Gardner
September 11, 2021
20 years. My thoughts are with the family of that high school senior who was nice to the shy freshman all those years ago at ASK.
Ken and Jan Koepp
September 11, 2020
This year, like every year at this time, we remember where we were and what we were doing 19 years ago. We also remember Waleed as we knew him in Kuwait - his perpetual smile, his quick mind, the effect he had on everyone around him. It's been years, and we know we are just two in a large group who wish Waleed's family our love and support. He was a remarkable student and a wonderful human being.
Jane Gardner
September 11, 2020
My thoughts are with the Iskandar family today.
Jane Parks Gardner
September 11, 2019
My thoughts are with your family today.
Terri Dirik
September 11, 2019
Rest In Peace dear Whalid
Siham
August 25, 2019
Happy Birthday Waleed
Rick Kelly
September 26, 2018
Rest In Peace. Thinking of you and famiky
Jane Parks Gardner
September 11, 2018
Another year, and we still remember Waleed on this anniversary. Best to your entire family.
Terri Dirik
September 11, 2018
We will never forget you, Waleed. I saw your name on the memorial at the George W. Bush Library in Dallas. I know Joseph and family are still missing you.
Christy
May 12, 2018
Just read your story found in a tweet from a friend of yours. Truly remarkable life you lead.
God bless your family.
Siham
April 9, 2018
Always in Sis's heart and thoughts
Michael Scharfenberg
September 12, 2017
I just miss u bro
Regards
Michael scharfenberg A S K kuwait
September 11, 2017
I visited the 9/11 memorial in NYC with my family this past year and we specifically searched and found Waleed's spot in the monument. A very touching tribute. I, like others, am thinking of Waleed on this day.
Jane Parks Gardner (ASK class of 1987)
Rebecca
September 11, 2017
Thinking of Waleed again today. Such a terrible waste. He is truly missed.
Jacki
September 11, 2017
Remembering still your friendly smile and your kindness. Remembering still.
Remembering always.
Jacki
September 11, 2017
Remembering still. Remembering always.
September 12, 2016
May the Lord Jesus Christ bless your family with peace. You are remembered
Waleed Youssef
September 12, 2016
Waleed was a wonderful being, and I miss him very much.
Waleed Youssef. ASK '83
Ken and Jan Koepp
September 11, 2016
Waleed was a wonderful student in our classes in Kuwait. He had charm, wit, kindness, and so many other good qualities. We remember him with great fondness every September, and know we are just two among the many people who share memories from Kuwait.
September 11, 2016
Please know that your entire family is in my thoughts today.
Jane Parks Gardner (ASK Class of '87)
Nosheen Khalid
September 11, 2016
Good times... I took this picture on our art trip to the American School Cairo in March 1984... what a great time we all had!
We will always miss you Waleed!
Hanif Lalwani
September 10, 2016
Dear Mr.and Mrs. Iskandar,
As I was putting two American flags on my front lawn to Honor the victims and families of 911 my daughter asked me why.She's 9 so I explained to her the tragic events of 911 and told her about Waleed.I went to ASK and remember Waleed.He played varsity soccer and I j.v. soccer.My brother (Shawkat)played varsity as well so as I recall practicing after school and remember very well trying to score on him during practice. Not only was he a good goalkeeker Waleed always wore the best goalkeeper gear.Although I was a couple of grades behind Waleed I remember him very well.I've shared this story with my family and friends over the years.I wanted to share this with the both you.May God bless you and your family. Hanif(Abdul Khaliq) Lalwani
Matilda Khalouga
September 12, 2015
Rest in peace
Nosheen Khalid
September 12, 2015
Not a year goes by that we don't remember you. May you rest in peace.
Nosheen Khalid
September 12, 2015
Yet another year gone by....you will forever be in our hearts. Rest in peace.
September 11, 2015
My thoughts are with your family today.
Jane Parks Gardner (ASK class of 1987)
Remembering you my friend. Kuwait 1984
Karl Klass
September 11, 2015
Michael Scharfenberg
June 27, 2015
U are still in my heart
Del Newberry
June 25, 2015
My heart goes out to the friends and family today as I read about all that Waleed did for humanity. May you be encouraged and comforted as we remember him today. With love from Texas
Jane Parks Gardner
September 11, 2014
My thoughts are with you and your family on this day as we all remember Waleed.
Micheline Diegan
September 11, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you today as we remember Waleed today. May you be comforted knowing that he is resting in peace in God's arms until you meet again.
Carolyn Hillman Baird
September 11, 2013
It was Easter of 1989 and I had the privilege of spending the holiday with Waleed and his family. What an amazing weekend with laughter, delicious Lebanese food and the warmth and love that engulfed me. I think of Waleed often and feel so blessed that I had the honor of knowing him. He was a lovely human being.
Jane Parks Gardner
September 11, 2013
My thoughts continue to be with your family on this day.
Nosheen Khalid
September 11, 2012
"If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand."
Another year gone by.... Missing you Waleed and all the good times at ASK. God bless you Xx
Jane Parks Gardner
September 11, 2012
My thoughts are with your family today.
Kathleen Wilson
April 19, 2012
I found Waleed's Memorial site, when my computer finally got back after being fixed. Years ago, I found a site that turned out to be his, that plays an instrumental Ave Maria. When the computer went out the door, I remembered that the name of the website was unusual, but I couldn't quite remember it. I listened each morning to that Ave, and a beloved dog always 'sang' along...When I thought the address was lost, -I missed it. Well, it was retrieved, and today I read for the first time about the fine young man who was the inspiration for the website Memorial... Each morning, from now on, I'm sure I will remember Waleed and his family, with and in the words and music of the sweet Ave they have given us on their son's site... http://www.iskandar.com/ourlady/ourladyfeasts.html
Rebecca Muller
February 11, 2012
I was moved by the website dedicated to Waleed; although I did not know him I can tell he was a wonderful person who is missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Nosheen Khalid
September 16, 2011
If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you made me smile,
the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand.
Miss you and all the wonderful times at ASK
Nosheen Khalid
Linda Palmieri
September 12, 2011
Mr. & Mrs. Iskandar, My name is Linda Palmieri, I am the historian and curator for the Stillwater Blockhouse. Every year for the past 10 years I have been excepting flowers for your son . I set them next to his brick in our walkway. They were beautful this year. At our 911 program this year, we explaned to all the people who your son was. After all these years it still breakes your heart. thinking of the both of you.
michael scharfenberg
September 11, 2011
He is in my heart always
Sherin Haddad Natoli
September 11, 2011
I went to school with Waleed back in the good old days of ASK! There are too many memories of laughter and joy to list and they will always be cherished and never forgotten.
Today marks the 10th anniversary and my heart goes out to you, the family. I hope you have found peace. Bless you.
Jane Parks Gardner
September 11, 2011
To The Iskander Family,
I have made a very specific point to share with my sons, aged 10 and 7, the fact that I knew Waleed at ASK and that it is important for us to remember him on this day.
Our thoughts are with you today.
Peggy Childers
September 11, 2011
To the family and friends of Waleed Iskandar:
Waleed will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not allow those we lost on 9/11 be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you.
September 11, 2011
Please know that your family is still in my thoughts and prayers.
Bobbi Baumgartner (Stanford)
Roula Hakim Bordcosh
May 2, 2011
Justice has prevailed
Jennifer Morton Matthews
October 18, 2010
Dear Waleed's family,
I stumbled across this site today as I was searching for information on a former classmate from ASK. I knew Waleed so many years ago - my memories of him are of a terrific Snoopy in the school musical and on a school trip to Cairo. When he was a senior in high school he presented himself as a gentle, sweet soul who made an indelible impression on a new high school freshman. He blessed many.
September 11, 2010
My thoughts are with you today.
Jane Parks Gardner - ASK class of 1987
Jane Gardner
September 11, 2008
Thinking of you and your family on this day. I brought my two young sons (one was 13 days old on 9/11) to Waleed's site today and told them about how I knew Waleed in high school. My thoughts are with you.
Jane Parks Gardner - ASK class of 87
Karl Klass
September 11, 2008
I miss you Waleed. Thank you for your friendship.
Classmate, American School of Kuwait - 1984
Jane Gardner
September 11, 2007
I knew Waleed in high school at ASK. My thoughts are with you today.
Jane Parks Gardner
Doug Abraham
August 25, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
P Tabbernor
June 6, 2007
In memory....
Kristine
November 2, 2006
As I stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Michael Black
September 9, 2006
I read this profile while doing an English assignment and it affected me greatly. It is so sad to see a brilliant man's life be cut short by terrorists. My sympathy and prayers are with his family.
Carolene
September 14, 2005
Dear Waleed
I heard your name read and sat at the edge of my couch. I was also born in Beirut. My parents brought my siblings and I here for a better life, to avoid the war. Who would have thought that this country, the safe haven to all people looking for a better life was to be thrown into a war.
I'm sad and heartbroken, I worked in the WTC and knew so many people there. I'm so sad, that people who spoke our language can do so much harm.
I can only imagine what your family went through and is going through 4 years later.
May you always rest in peace.
Carolene
Megan Sleiman
August 29, 2005
May your son rest in peace!!God Bless your family in his honor.I go to school in sugar land,TX and we have been givin an assignment to where we have to pick some one from the 9/11 attacks and write a poem and learn facts and i have chosen your son to do it. When i complete my assignment i will enclose picture of my poster to you and your family.
God Bless
Megan Khalil Sleiman
Ellen
May 26, 2005
May God bless Waleed and his family. I did a project on Waleed and his remarkable accomplishments that he made throughout his life. I found him to be a very inspiring person and wish he was still with us. I'll keep his family in my prayers.
donna sinclair
October 9, 2004
your smile lit up a thousand faces and will continue to do so for all eternity .No one can ever take away the love .
we may never have met but you will always be rembered .. it was a joy to read about you and your life .
Waleed in Athens, Greece Aug. 2001
Joseph Iskandar
September 17, 2003
Dear friends of Waleed,
Two years have passed since the death of our son, Waleed. We still receive messages from friends of Waleed from all over the world. These messages enlighten our heart and assure us that Waleed's memory is still alive.
Thank you all from the bottom of our heart.
May the Lord guard you and your families safely.
Joseph Iskandar (Waleed's father)
Traslyn Butler
September 11, 2003
Though I never met Waleed during my time at Stanford, I wanted to give my heartfelt condolences to his family. May God be with you.
Jane Gardner
September 9, 2003
I was so very saddened to learn that Waleed was on Flight 11 on September 11th. I was a freshman at the American School when Waleed was a senior. We had a government class together. I remember Waleed as a friendly, helpful, and fun person. I have thought of him often since I learned of his passing and please know that my thoughts are with your family.
Jane Parks Gardner
September 11, 2002
I did not know Waleed, but knew of him, the goodness that people attributed to him, and of the exceptional human being that he was known to have been. I sincerely mourn his tragic loss and want to extend my utmost solidarity to his family which is so courageously and admirably dealing with this tragedy.
Lynne Runkle
September 10, 2002
Dear Mr and Mrs Joseph Iskandar, Mr Sany Iskandar and Family, Mrs May Marconet and Family and Ms Nicollette Cavaleros
There are many heros of 9-11, you are my heros of faith.
This day last year I e-mailed the Marionite Seminary in New York asking for their prayers, the Greek Orthodox Archdioces of North America, the Orthodox Church in America too for your support and in all beseaching Our Lady of Beirut for your solace. Your faith and your grace are living candles of these prayers being answered. We have been blessed by you. Prayers, candles and love continue as does the memory of Waleed Joseph Iskandar
Dear Nicolette...to me it was no surprise that the Church of Agia Nikolas should be at the site of Waleed's repose. My dear orthodox sister in Christ. I join with many in the Trisagion for Waleed this day
Give rest, O God, to Your servant, and place him in Paradise where the choirs of the Saints and the righteous will shine as the stars of heaven.
May his memory be eternal!
Lynne Theadora
Angie Rosenthal
September 8, 2002
Dear Joseph and Samia~
I am so glad to have met new friends but unfortunatly under the wrong circumstances. I hope we can physically meet one day. You and your whole family will be in my thoughts and prayers and the anniversary arrives. I can't believe it has already been a year. I am glad to be here in support of you and your family during this hard year of losing your son, Waleed.
In God's love,
The Rosenthal Family
Richard, Angie and Vanessa
Gene & Janelle Kato
August 26, 2002
God Bless your family through this tragic loss. We are friends of Melhem's in Houston. May time bring you the peace you deserve and know that America will never forget the loss she felt that fated day. Waleed's name will be included in a commissioned September 11th choral work by Bill Douglas called, "In Memoriam". The song will be included on the album, "Homeland" available Aug. 13th. May you and yours find comfort through this musical tribute.
Ara Terzian
July 16, 2002
God Bless you Waleed and your family.
Allah yirhamak...
June 5, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS WONDERFUL MAN..WALEED ISKANDAR AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND THE GOOD PEOPLE OF BEIRUT..MAY JESUS AND HIS SAINTS GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Waleed J. Iskandar
Joseph Iskandar
May 31, 2002
This is a photo of Waleed Iskandar
Joseph Iskandar
May 19, 2002
Dear friends,
I would have liked to thank each one of you separately in a special and personal electronic message. But, since I do not have your address, please accept our thanks for your thoughtfulness and support. It is these feelings of friends like you which give us the strength and the ability to accept the tragedy that befell our home.
Samia and I thank you very much.
With God's blessings,
Joseph
krystie
May 14, 2002
Waleed Rest In Peace, I pray your family has the strength and support to live each day to their fullest. Your son died a hero, a hero to a whole nation.
Nigel Goodwin
April 18, 2002
To Waleed's family and friends:
Waleed must have been an incredible person, lighting up the world around him.
I offer you my sincere condolences.
Sheila Werland
March 8, 2002
Dear Family of Waleed: I do not know you, nor did I know your son, but I wish to add my heartfelt saddness to list of those who have expressed it here. As I look at his photos and read of those he has touched and the love of his family, I wish I could have known him. I pray you, his family, his fiance, will continue to find strength to carry on. God Bless
khalil &lana Hamdan
January 19, 2002
With a heart laddened with sorrow and pain, we convey our deepest condolences for the loss of your son.May God rest his soul.
Teresa Jahn
January 11, 2002
We are deeply sorry for your great loss of Waleed. May his warm heart, life and love live on in all who love him. May the sorrow in your hearts be lightened by warm memories of times shared with Waleed. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Joseph Iskandar
January 2, 2002
Dear friends of Waleed,
Thank you for your thoughtfulness.
In case you want to read more about your friend, please visit his web site at http://iskandar.com/waleed911
With God's blessings,
Joseph ( Waleed's Dad )
Neil Hanson
January 1, 2002
Waleed, I only learned of your passing on this New Year's Eve from a mutual and dear friend of ours from our careless undergraduate days at Stanford. I will most remember your Chevy Camaro, your love of soccer, your razor intellect, and your heart of gold displayed to those of us lucky enough to be counted as your friends. The news has stopped me in my tracks. Reflecting on your shortened yet brilliant life, I am renewed with a deep desire to show greater love to those I hold dear, and to strive for the greatest good with the life I have been given. Time is suddenly of the essence. May this be but one tiny piece of your shining legacy. My heart goes out to your family, fiance, co-workers, and friends.
Waleed J. Iskandar
Joseph Iskandar
December 25, 2001
It is our first Christmas without our dear and loved son, Waleed.
We miss you.
We love you.
Gone from our sight, but never our memories.
Gone from our touch, but never our hearts."
Your Dad
Kathy Swaringen
December 9, 2001
Today, Dec 9th, 2001, 1 mile was walked to honor the life of Waleed and all the family, friends and loved ones he left behind. May you find some comfort in knowing that you do not grieve alone.
Waleed, you will never be forgotten. May you Rest In Peace
Waleed J. Iskandar
Joseph Iskandar
December 9, 2001
Our dear Friends,
To all these friends who remember our son Waleed, We tell them thank you.
We would like them to know that what they write about Waleed is what is giving us the strength and power to accept our tragedy.
May God bless you ALL.
Please know that we love you ALL.
Waleed's parents.
helene gerstle
October 28, 2001
waleed: all of us who knew you will miss you in many ways. you were an incredible person. generous, unpretentious, accomplished, funny, warm. i will always remember your kindness to raymond and i. i wish your family the best in a most difficult time. helene
Alejandro Salazar
October 1, 2001
Waleed,
I had the pleasure to work with you for only a couple of days. It was enough to know how big a loss your death is. I hope the Monitor family recovers from this tragedy. We owe it to you.
Alejandro Salazar
Bogotá- Colombia
Bonnie DuPont Jansen
September 27, 2001
Waleed,
I have such great memories of your smiling face and laughter. You touched many lives in so many ways with your wonderful, positive attitude. You will be so missed. God Bless you.
Love,
Bonnie Sue
Barbara Bolin
September 26, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
WALEED MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
Carol Merletti
September 24, 2001
Waleed,
As with all of your Monitor Group colleagues, I am at a loss for words. I wish that I had said hello to you when you walked by my office the week before.
I have no doubt that somewhere up above, you witnessed your Memorial Service today. And I am also sure that you were extremely proud of Nicolette, as the rest of your colleagues were, of how strong she is. She is a rock. She is your rock. When Nicolette spoke to you directly, she made all of us feel as if you were with us in Church. She spoke to you directly through her tears. How fortunate the two of you were to have one another. How sad that the time that you did have together was shortened. You were probably beaming with pride while you watched your nephews speak. You will truly be missed by all of us. Waleed, as you know, Monitor is a Family. But through this horrible tragedy, you have brought this Family even closer. We will all miss you and will continue to think of you forever.
Your colleague and friend,
Carol
Anonymous
September 21, 2001
my heart is with you Waleed - and all those that feel your loss so deeply. You will live on in the hearts of many.
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