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When Andrew Friedman's wife was planning his memorial service in Woodbury, on Long Island, she called the local police to ask for help directing the traffic because she had a feeling a lot of people would attend.
The police thought Lisa Friedman was overreacting. But as it turned out, more than 2,000 people showed up to remember Mr. Friedman, 44, vice president for institutional equities trading at Carr Futures. His life had been filled with friends he had known from the age of 6, college friends, work friends and neighborhood friends.
"He was the glue that held everybody together," said Ms. Friedman, who met her husband at a bar in TriBeCa when she was in college. (The two easily spotted one another, as he was 6 foot 4 and she 6 foot 1, although they always disagreed over which one of them had approached the other.)
What struck many people about Mr. Friedman, who coached several boys' sports teams on Long Island, was how much he loved children, especially his 11-year-old twin boys, Michael and Daniel. He was also known for his laid-back ways and his "Andrewisms," sayings that only he could devise. One was his definition of a balanced meal: "An Italian hero cut in half."
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Cindy Roe
September 13, 2021
Remembering Andrew on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...
janwillem jacomien
April 26, 2015
Our meet this morning on Sunday April 26 was extra impressive to us as the site of the disaster was already having so much impact. We wish you all the best.
September 11, 2013
And still you are remembered. Happy Anniversary in Heaven. You are not forgotten....
John coburn
December 15, 2012
Hello to Andrew's family - I'm a Canadian artist who was looking on a site of a man named Kenneth Basniki ( from canada ) who died at the WTC as well. I happened to see a short story on thee 911 museum and heard Lisa share a few words about Andrew - then I saw his Birthdate March 26th 1957 which is the very day I was born as well...however in the comments of this book I see a few peiople have listed March 23rd as his Birthday - please let me know which date it is ! It also amazes me that the sonsof Lisa and Andrew are twins - as I am as well ! One more thing I created a book of 50 drawings in NY the year following Sept 11th 2001 this book called Healing Hearts was sent out to all the families who lost loved ones - do you remember receiving this book sent out approx 2002 by Fed Ex ? This book has naver been published for the public. Thank you to the lovely Friedman/ Clark family and I hope you dont mind me asking a few personal questions.
Love and Peace John Coburn
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Bill Marcus
September 11, 2012
Andrew, I think of you and your family during the year and naturally this is always my toughest day. I am just one of many that miss your incredible passion, optimism and energy that you brought to each day. I send hopeful prayers for the best in life for your family on this somber day
September 10, 2012
Another year gone by, and another year of thoughts of you and your family. We will never forget how your life was taken from your friends and family.
R.I.P. 9/11/12
Kenneth Boykin
May 18, 2012
Hello to those WHO visit's Andrew's page, and His Family. I was doing a school article, that required that I perform research about a topic, and while doing research I was reading about Andrew, while i was here i decided to leave a post regarding him, and what I thought of him. He was obviously a very good man, so many people knew him, One of the great love's in this world is to enjoy your work, for many people the world that he lived in will forever be a mystery, being a very young man in 2001 there were so many great works he could have achieved, When i think of him, I will think of someone who could have been a good friend. In a world where today he would be one of the greatest, most sought after, most talked about man in the world. If his dream's had not been stolen. I wont forget
Andrew Keith (Andy).
HM3 Boykin.
Bill Marcus
September 11, 2011
The memories of Andrew, my other colleagues at Carr and everyone that was killed or injured live on in me and will always drive me forward to tell their story and strive for bringing the world peace
September 8, 2011
To Andy's wife & sons:
There is not a year that goes by that I don't stop and think of Andy, and hope that the three of you are doing well. Andy was a great guy to have on the other side of a trade and I could always get a joke or two out of him.
Kristy Schuster, Seattle
mark schneid
September 6, 2011
I cannot believe 10 years have passed since we last spoke(9/10/11). Our conversation as always was based on sports and our families. When we discussed our kids we are proud fathers talking about camp, school and little league. We used to kid that my two boys and I would defeat your threesome in a 3 on 3 game. Well, I have seen the size of Daniel and Michael and have conceded the match!!
If I was fortunate enough to speak to you today, we would have discussed how all of the boys colleges(Arizona,Cincinnati, Michigan and Syracuse) The next part of our conversation would have turned to baseball...your Yankees are still amazing and my Mets are horrible!!! We would be making our picks for this Sundays NFL games...Giants over the Skins and a tough game for to be watching on Sunday night....Jets v Cowboys, a game you want the Jets to win, but cant possibly let anyone know you're rooting for them.
You would be happy to know that Lisa is very happy and the boys are doing well. I miss you and think of you all the time.
One last stock tip...Kimberly Clark for all the tissues that will be used in the upcoming days.
Rick Lerner
August 15, 2011
I've just come across this memorial page, and wanted to extend my own very belated condolences and memories. My family was a few cabanas down from the Friedmans at the Sands Beach Club for many years, and I don't think I ever saw Andy without a smile on his face and a warm word for whoever was nearby. Sometimes I look up the row and still expect to see him there, on his way to the basketball courts, collecting other players along the way. He went out of his way to look out for my oldest son on the basketball court, during the between games shoot-arounds, when he was just 10 or 11, making sure he got his "courtesy shot" after Andy rebounded for him, and admonishing the other players to respect the made shot and "give the kid his courtesy" even tho they wanted to get on with their own game...my son still talks about it, and Andy, and he wrote a long memorial about this for his school literary journal. Apparently, Andy knew something we all forget too often...its the little things that count. Even when they come from a big man.
Mike Tyson
May 8, 2011
Andy,
We met at The Sands Beach Club and every weekend I had to listen to you bash my beloved NY Mets....I was so jealous that your Yankees were such winning organization. And then one winter week we ended up vacationing at the same Club Med by coincidence....and we really got to know you better....Such a sweet guy.I think of you and Lisa and the boys often and only wish that you rest in peace !!
Mindy Frank Adler
September 11, 2010
Dear Lisa and Family - Although I never met you, I knew Andrew from college. He was the sweetest guy and larger than life. Every year I remember him and think of you and your boys. I am sure he is looking down on everyone with that incredible smile. I will never forget him.
Leona Bennett
September 11, 2009
Dear Lisa and Boys,
Today, September 11, 2009, I went to work and as I prepared for a day of trading, my thoughts were of Andy and what great conversations we would have every morning about his boys and my boy. They all are in college now, and I wish I could tell him all the stories and hear his. Even though you don't hear from me often, please know that I will always cherish the great memories of those morning calls. Andy was a warm, funny, and kind man. He will always be remembered.
September 11, 2009
America will never forget 9/11/01.
Doug Abraham
March 23, 2009
Happy Birthday!!!
Amanda Levine
February 5, 2009
To the Friedman family,
As your old babysitter, I just wanted to wish my best to you as you embark on the college path, (I believe you are at that age now..) Time has passed so quickly. I will always have the memory of your father and your generous family. His kind hearted-ness brought out the best in everyone around him. Please reach out to me if you ever need anything.
All my love,
Amanda Levine
larry wagner
October 23, 2008
Andy:
I just came back from Vegas with the Bims. There were 16 of your friends and we toasted your life. You were a great friend, some one to count on under any circumstance. The reason we go to Vegas every year is because of you. I heard about your farther and feel for your family. G-d bless you
Larry (Earl)
Kevin Lang
September 11, 2008
I had the opportunity to meet Andy through my wife, when he would come out to Portland for work. Andy and I played numerous rounds of golf together here in Oregon and Washington. I think of him often and the zest he had for life. His passion for the game of golf and life remains with me. My condolences to his family and friends.
Kevin
Nate Resnick
September 11, 2008
I miss you my dear friend.
September 11, 2008
You will not be forgotten -
The Country will never forget !
Doug Abraham
March 23, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Doug Abraham
March 23, 2007
Happy Birthday!!!
Kristine
November 3, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
October 9, 2006
In remembrance....
Me and the fellas!
lisa friedman
September 11, 2006
Dums
Not a day goes by where we don't think of you. We miss you and love you so much.
The boys are great. 6"9" and 6'6"
and doing great. Learning to drive, talking about college and doing great in school. I know you are proud.
We love and miss you so much.
BP aka Lisa
September 11, 2006
We have not forgotten, we will never forget.
Daniel Zucker
September 21, 2004
Dear Lisa, mike, and Dan,
Im sorry for your lose. I know what its like, I lost my Uncle on 9.11.01...I know it must be hard to go on with life, but just remember he is still with you....
Lisa Friedman
March 23, 2004
We are all thinking of you on your 47th birthday. We miss you very much and think of you everyday. We are moving forward but continually look back and remember all of the wonderful times we had together. It isn't the same without you. Happy Birthday BP.
XOXOXOXOX Dumz
Dan and Mike Friedman
October 16, 2003
Go Yankees. It is the bottom of the 8th...tie score. Keep doing your magic! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Lisa Friedman
October 16, 2003
Not a day goes by that we don't think of you and talk about all the great things we did with you. The boys are growing and changing, but never it doesn't cloud the beautiful memories of you. You would be so proud of them. We love and miss you very much!
Christine Annarumma
September 12, 2003
Lisa,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sons.
Christine
(Fleet)
October 24, 2002
ITS A YEAR LATER AND I STILL PRAY FOR ANDREWS SOUL...REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS...AMEN
Carol Smith
September 26, 2002
We all lost when this happened. But we also gained as we are closer as a country. Little things count more now than they ever have.
Mary Lou McKeighan
September 11, 2002
To Andrew's Family
Today in San Diego, CA a tribute took place to honor the people who died in the terrorist's attacks. At 6:00am a local radio station stopped their normal programming and one by one the name of each victim was read aloud by the station listeners who then rang the Freedom Bell in honor of their memory. The listeners were given a badge bearing the name, age and location of the person they honored and asked to wear it the rest of the day.
I'm writing to you because I had the honor of reading Andrew's name and ringing the bell in his honor. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that although a year has gone by we have not forgotton him or any of the others who died. That we have not lumped their memory into one group, that we remember each and every individual.
God bless,
Mary Lou
Pamela Mohr
September 11, 2002
To The Friedman Family -
We have never met, but I am engaged to one of your neighbor's sons - Eric Feldman. Eric and I live in New York City (he grew up in Woodbury) but happened to be out in Montauk on Sept 11th. We immediately drove back to Woodbury to be with our families and noticed all the cars lined up in front of your home. I know one year has passed, but whenever we visit Eric's family, we always think about you and your children. Please know that our thoughts are with you and you have friends at #52.
Bonnie Rodney
September 11, 2002
On this day, and every day, we remember Andrew. He is our hero -- as are Lisa, Michael and Daniel.
Tynetta Hall
September 11, 2002
We had a service at the University of Pittsburgh this morning and the flag I placed on the lawn carried your Andrew name on it I was honored to place the flag on the lawn for him. I am letting you and yours know that my children and I will continue to keep you all in our prayers and thoughts now and in the days to come. God Bless
RALPH SIMMONS
August 19, 2002
I WOULD JUST TO SAY THAT WHEN I THINK OF ANDY I THINK HAPPY THOUGHTS AND I SMILE AND LAUGH AND JUST THANKFUL THAT WE CROSS PATH AND VERY GLAD TO HAVE KNOWN HIM THANKS ANDY I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT SMILING FACE
Ada Torres
August 1, 2002
My deepest sympathy to Andrew Friedman and his family. In my brief time at BNY ESI & Co., I remembered hearing his booming voice on the trading floor and his exchanging of pleasantries about sports with other co-workers. He reminded me of child with a tremendous energy. As soon as I found out about his departure from ESI one year ago, I tried to look for Andy in the lobby to bid him farewell and good luck, however, the elevator doors were already closed. I will always remember Andy as the energetic trader who was friendly and a true professional. You are sorely missed.
God Bless You!
June 3, 2002
GOD BLESS YOU ANDREW K.FRIEDMAN..REST IN PEACE.MAY YOUR SOUL AND THE SOULS OF ALL THE FAITHFULLY DEPARTED THROUGH THE MERCY OF GOD REST IN PEACE...AMEN
Craig Debra Alyssa Garon
May 30, 2002
I will always remember the great
times with Andy.He was such a vibrant and upbeat person and full
of life.May he live in peace and
and tranquility, and I wish you and
the boys a peaceful life.
Sincerley Yours
Craig, Debra, Alyssa
Joyce Gritzman-Scheiner
May 29, 2002
Dear Lisa,
Although I've never met you I am one of Andrew's cousins. I haven't seen Wendy nor had I seen in Andrew in many years but we use to see each other at family holidays when we were young. We had many times together in Brooklyn at my Grandmother's home (Zelda Friedman Gritzman) My grandmother and Andrew's grandfather Harry were brother and sister.
Please know that although we haven't seen many cousins over the years my family is thinking of you and the children. I would love for my 4 children to one day meet their cousins. There isn't a day that goes by that we don't think of you all. Please also give my thoughts and prayers to Melvin and Elaine.
I hope to meet you and the children soon.
Love,
Joyce and Rich
Meredith, Eric, Stephanie and Adam
(Gritzman)
Gail Gist
March 10, 2002
Dear Lisa,
Like some others here, we've never met. I worked with your Dad (D-T)and my husband and I played golf and still enjoy a special friendship with your parents.
I'll never forget the birth of your twins! The stock drastically depleted in every baby store around! Al & Marcia must have had to rent a U-Haul to deliver all the goodies! So proud.
Bless you and the children. Stay strong. And may Andy rest peacefully knowing you will manage.
John Teng
January 30, 2002
I also worked w/Andy at BNY ESI (Bank of New York) a few years back. . I loved talking to him about sports as well, one of the most knowledgable guys I've ever met. It was always great to hear his booming voice across the trading floor.
rest in peace, Andy.
Boris Twersky
January 24, 2002
I worked together with Andy at the ESI Securities.
Always argued with Andy about sports. He was a good man.
God Bless you all.
Be strong. We shall avenge all the victims.
We shall win.
January 19, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON ANDREW K. FRIEDMAN ...REST IN PEACE YOUNG
MAN..MAY YOUR FAMILY FIND PEACE.AMEN
Tom Holder
January 10, 2002
Lisa,
I was a friend of Andy's in Valley Stream. I went to Howell Rd. and lived across Fletcher Ave. from him. My sister knew Wendy.
I was just in Valley Stream and heard about Andy. Although we hadn't seen each other in many years, I was very sorry to hear about Andy's death. I always considered him to be one of the good guys and I have no doubt that he was a wonderful husband and father.
My sympathy goes out to you and your family.
Love,
Tom Holder
Teresa Jahn
January 1, 2002
We are very sorry for your loss of Andrew. He has such a warm and friendly smile in his picture, I'm sure it is a reflection of his heart. May Andrew's life, love and Andrewisms continue living in those who love him. May you always feel the warmth of his love surround you and radiate into your hearts. May the sorrow in your hearts be lightened by the golden memories of warm moments shared with Andrew. Our hearts cry with you.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Musser Hall @Ursinus College
December 5, 2001
We just wanted to give our sympathies and let you know that you are not alone during this time of tragedy. May God be with you, and we wish you a Merry Christmas! You will never be forgotten!!
IRENE STAPINSKI
December 4, 2001
GOD BLESS ANDREW K.FRIEDMAN AND MAY
HE REST IN PEACE..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01
Mark Gelfand
October 30, 2001
You don't know me, but my daughter, Emily, goes to school with your sons and although I don't know you personally, I have seen you and you husband at various school functions (you obviously know that the two of you were hard to miss in a crowd!)
I was in line at Starbucks the other day, when you came in and began frantically searching through the N.Y.Times while waiting in line. I thought I knew what you were looking for and, of course, when I saw your reacton, I knew that it had to be Andrew's bio. I felt like I wanted to reach over and hug you, just to let you know how we all feel for you and that you weren't alone. Of course, I didn't do it and I regret it now.
Please know that you are not alone in your grief and that Andrew will live on in your children and in the stories about him that you tell them. One final word, that someone told me recently when I lost both of my parents. When you have a question for him, ask it. You will hear the answer. When you have something to tell him, say it. He will hear you. I wish you comfort and peace.
Jill Friedlander Mellman
October 29, 2001
To Lisa and Family,
Although we have never met,I want to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I went to Camp Kennybrook with Andy many many years ago and remember him and his sister Wendy well. I feel for you as a wife, a mother and a friend. May you somehow find peace to help you through this horrific time.
Harvey Goldsmith
October 27, 2001
Dear Lisa,
I met you briefly a few years ago when i was in new york and we all went out for dinner. I am so sorry about Andy's Passing. I was shocked to say the least. Even though i havent kept in touch with him since I have moved from Valley Stream, I miss him lots. All my prayers to you and your family
with much love from my family.
May peace be with you and your sons,
All our Love
Harvey , Shelly , Perry, Sari
Goldsmith
Howard Amster (Schnitz)
October 27, 2001
Lisa
Please check out the Camp Kennybrook website by going to www.kennybrook.com, then click on "about camp" and then "newsletter", where you will find a tribute to Andy as well as another Kennybrooker Scott Hazelcorn. The Camp is setting up a scholarship in their names.
Schnitz
Howard Amster (Schnitzel)
October 27, 2001
Dear Lisa,
I never met you, but I went to Camp Kennybrook with Andy for about 3 years from I think 1969-71. Andy's long time friend Harvey Goldsmith has kept me apprised. Kennybrookers Joel Levine, Jill Friedlander have all expressed to me that they remember him well. All of us express our sincere condolences.
Schnitz
Dorothy Romero
October 23, 2001
Andy,
You were my favorite trader. Whenever we needed anything you were there. You will be missed greatly. My heart goes out to your family. Rest in peace.
Steve Lapper
October 16, 2001
Andy "Drew" ...
A college friend, a sports "expert" and an all around good soul and person. May you rest in peace. My sincere wishes to your family.
Steve
sara miller
October 3, 2001
To the family of Andrew Friedman,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.All our sympathy
The Millers
Montreal,Canada
Oct 3,2001
[email protected]
Rhoda Levine
September 25, 2001
Dear Andy,
May you rest in peace...
You were a wonderful husband to my cousin Lisa...
You were a wonderful father to your two sons...
My good wishes to them all for the future!!
Love Rhoda
Barbara Bolin
September 23, 2001
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
ANDREW MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.
Eddy Baer
September 22, 2001
Andy was my high school friend. Recently, we saw each other and met each others families at Camp Equinunk. My heart is broken. My condolences to all of Andy's family and friends.
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