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Timothy Stackpole Obituary
After the floor collapsed in the East New York inferno of June 5, 1998, leaving two firefighters dead and Lt. Timothy Stackpole severely burned on his arms, legs, stomach and back, he worried that he might never work again. But he threw himself into months of treatment and physical therapy, encouraged by his wife, Tara, and his five children, who now range in age from 7 to 18. And he used the seemingly endless recuperation time to finish his bachelor's degree in education at St. Francis College in Brooklyn.
After some months of light duty at Ladder 103 in Brooklyn, "he felt it was a tremendous victory when he came back to the firehouse to full duty a few months ago," said the Rev. Jim Cunningham, the Stackpoles' parish priest in Marine Park, Brooklyn. The Thursday before the terrorist attack, Lieutenant Stackpole was promoted to captain. And on the Saturday before the disaster, Captain Stackpole was named Irishman of the Year at the Great Irish Fair in Brooklyn, Father Cunningham said.
On Sept. 11, Captain Stackpole had just finished duty, but with the first news of the calamity he rushed to the trade center, "and he perished there," Father Cunningham said. "Tara knows that Timmy died doing what he wanted to do, serving the people of his city."
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Michael sabatino
March 22, 2025
i met timmy and his bro ed in 1963 he was my friend a homeslice across the street on e34 st and good shepherd grammar school he was a kind dude he was very good to me and my mother he was a stand up guy a class act i had met him before 9/11 he told me he was going back i told him he was nuts he told me he had a higher calling to save people that can not save themselves park row or park bench he would help you --for free-- not like today i am blessed to have met him
Mary Gibbons
September 11, 2024
Beautiful memories of being a classmate of Timothy's at Good Shepherd Elementary School. So sad that he lost his life tragically. What a hero. Heartfelt sympathy to his wife, children and family.
My father died when I was 12. Both of my parents were 42 y.o. He was a Sargent with NYPD. He got sick and died very suddenly. My heart goes out to all of you.
Warmly,
Mary Gibbons
St. Francis College
September 11, 2023
I want to thank you Captain Timothy, for the memories you left and shared with me, and our classmates at St. Francis College. Every 911 memorial, I say a prayer for you and your family, who you were so proud of, especially your son who, I see is following in your footsteps. May God bless the rest of your family and children. I'm very happy that our paths have crossed in life and bless to have known you. Thank you for your service and may God bless your spirit!!! Cieatha
02/24/97 Lt Stackpole at a 2nd Alarm-Brooklyn.
Jay Heath
September 11, 2021
A photograph I happen to captured of Capt Timmy Stackploe on Feb 24-1997, taking a blow after battling a tough fire in Brooklyn at Sutter & Blake. Today on the 20th Anniversary of 9/11, God Bless his family and the members of FDNY. Jay L Heath, Penacook, NH
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Peg Lynch
September 11, 2020
On this 19th Anniversary of 9/11, thank you Tim for your ultimate service to us and all the fun at Breezy Point on West Court. You and Tara were always so friendly and so much fun. Tara & children, I am still so heartbroken for you and your family. God bless Tim and thank you again for your service.
Kenneth Nussle
September 12, 2018
Remembering Captain Tim Stackpole today. Thank You for your service and sacrifice.
Lori Press
September 11, 2018
17 years is a long time yet and although the memories and horror or 9/11 diminishes, we will never forget our heroes. For me, I wore Captain Timothy Stackpole's bracelet on my arm for 11 years. I had to put it away as the copper was weakening and I was afraid it would break and I would lose it. It remains in my jewelry box, I will treasure it always. I am so sorry he had to leave his family behind to become my hero.
gary casey
September 12, 2016
Timothy Stackpole is The firefighter I adopted soon after hearing his story and the selfless way he lived and lost his life. Over the years when I meet a firefighter I tell the story and recommend that they visit Tim's site as well as the stories of all the HEROES, real heroes who live their lives in service to others.
Ken Nussle
December 15, 2015
I read that one of Captain Stackpole's son is now on FDNY. Captain Stackpole is a true american hero that words alone cannot describe.
God bless the Stackpole family.
Eric Grein
September 29, 2014
Captain Stackpole,
You played football with my father at St. Francis Prep for the legendary Vince O'Connor. I grew up hearing the hallowed stories of the red and blue and in high school I wore 43 to honor Zeek. I attended Chaminade where I had the honor and privilege to face off against your son, Brendan, and your nephew, Tim, on the gridiron and lacrosse field. Brendan and Tim are exceptional young men, and I always shook their hand thanking them for everything their family has done.
I have read your story, and visited the 9/11 memorial where your name is etched amongst some of America's finest heroes. I know you're up in heaven, and you should know you have left a powerful legacy that will be sustained by those who came after you. As a young man, I hope to emulate your passion for family and service and be a leader in this world, with the intent on making a lasting impact.
"For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; it is in dying that we are born again to eternal life."
The Grein Family
Beth Stackpole Kelly
September 17, 2014
To Captain Timothy Stackpole, I too have done geneaology research for our Stackpole side and yes we are related. I am proud to add tothe guest book and to share this in his honor.
Captain Mike McAllister
September 13, 2014
The years have passed, but the memory never will,
brothers across the miles, a firefighter still.
We honor you Tim Stackpole.
C/O 2018
September 11, 2014
On 9/11 we at the Naval Academy honor the memory of Captain Stackpole. We know he is so proud of his son at USNA.
USNA MOM
September 3, 2014
You would be so proud of Terrence. His fellow USNA plebes are so blessed to know him. Thank you for your sacrifice. We will never forget.
Steven Stackpole
August 23, 2014
I was never fortunate enough to meet Captain Tim Stackpole or his family. Through genealogy research I know though that we are related.
I am so proud to share not only his name, but the fact that I'm also a firefighter in Ottawa, Canada.
Best wishes to his family
Billy Pierce
February 20, 2014
To the children of Timothy Stackpole,
I read my two year old son bedtime stories of great men and events to guide him and remind myself of all that is good in this world. I couldn't help but cry while I read a story about your father to him... He makes me want to be a better husband, father and firefighter. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I promise you, he will not be forgotten in the Pierce home.
Lori
October 7, 2013
I participated in the 9/11 Stair Climb going up 110 flights of stairs and was given Captain Stackpole's picture to wear around my neck. In reading articles about him his character, integrity, dedication, strength and commitment are evident.
J Moschetti
September 13, 2013
This year I was fortunate enough to take captain stackpole name on the back of my coat and his picture around my neck up 110 flights this year I am a firefighter in sacramento and feel truly honored to carry his name up. I will continue to carry him every year.
April Bentley
September 11, 2013
Mrs. Stackpole, I am very sorry for your lost. I know how dangerous it is to be a firefighter because I am one, but I must say I dont know if I would had been brave enough, as your husband was, to return to work after the 1998 fire. He was very brave. Reading articles on him has brought many tears to my eyes only to think the pain you and your family must have felt. I will always pay my respects to your husband for risking his life for this country to protect others. May God bless you and your family in every way.
Maureen Stackpole Sacchetti
September 11, 2013
To the family of Timothy Stackpole,
My dad seems to think we are distantly related. It is sad to realize that we would not have known about each other but for this unspeakable tragedy. From the Stackpole family in the New Haven area of CT, our prayers are with you today and always.
DEBBIE ROMEO\DAVANZO
September 11, 2013
DEAR MRS. STACKPOLE I WAS IN GOOD SHEPARD WITH TIM HE WAS TRULY AMAZING MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ON THIS DAY
Mark Stackpole
September 11, 2013
Though we are not related -- as nearly as I can tell -- my family is honored to share a last name with such a hero.
Richard Kramer
September 10, 2013
I met Capt.Stackpole when he was being honored by Howard Golden, Bklyn boro President at Coney island and attended his funeral after 9-11-01 always in my prayers.
Kristin Lones
September 12, 2012
To Captain Stackpole's family -- I am a firefighter's daughter and so am always deeply touched with all of the 9/11 memorials and tributes. I cannot explain why but I will always see your loved one's name at random times when viewing or watching anything to do with 9/11.
His story of bravery during the events of 1998 and on 9/11 are simply amazing. How proud you must be of such a wonderful, giving person!
My tears shed today were especially for Captain Stackpole and you, his family. My Dad passed away a year before 9/11. I hope he was there to help a fellow Brother home. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Captain Mike McAllister
September 12, 2012
We will never forget, not today, not tomorrow,not ever! Your brother firefighters think of you often, always with respect.
Sallie
September 11, 2012
I proudly wear your name on my copper remembrance bracelet so that I will never forget, as well as for others who see it and will also, always remember.
September 11, 2012
Gone but not Forgotten.
From all of Timmy's classmates, SFP'77
Tom Sylvester
September 11, 2012
God Bless a person who was a true Firefighter !
From a Boston Firefighter,..I heard them mention his name on TV today and yes,.. I remembered his name being mentioned 11 yrs ago...So I googled his name and found this....Hope his family is well...God Bless
Mike Sclafani
September 11, 2012
Mrs. Stackpole,
My name is Mike Sclafani and I was a classmate of Tim's at St Francis Prep. on this 11th anniversary I would like to once again send my condolences to you and your family. Tim and your family will always be in my prayers.
Regards,
Mike Sclafani
Your Granddaughter Mia
September 11, 2012
Hi Grandpa Timmy,
Even though I have never met you, I wish that I could. I am thinking of you today.
I love you Grandpa Timmy.
Love,
kevin carlton
September 10, 2012
We miss you everyday Timmy.....G and I tell your 2 nephews and 3 nieces all about their uncle Timmy...
Ed Stackpole
January 18, 2012
Happy Bithday Tim
Captain Mike McAllister
October 9, 2011
"Firefighting"
Firefighting is not about lights and sirens, It's about saving lives and property.
Firefighting is not about self glorification, It's about sacrificing for others.
Firefighting is not a nine to five gig, It's about catching the rig at three a.m.
Firefighting is not about comfort, It's about putting your body through hell night after night because dammit, you love what you do.
Firefighting is not for everyone, but for those who answer the alarm, It's the best job in the world!
This poem is dedicated to Timothy Stackpole. Rest well my brother.
We will never forget!
FF/P Jeffrey Krueger
September 13, 2011
Dear Captain Timothy Stackpole's Family,
It was my Honor to have the name Captain Timothy Stackpole placed on my Helmet for the Milwaukee Fire Department 343 NYFD Fallen Firefighters Memorial here in Milwaukee, WI. While reading about your story of coming back from a career ending injury, you are an inspiration to ALL of your brothers and sisters left here without you. Captain Timothy Stackpole will forever be etched on my helmet and my saddened heart.
Sallie Robbins-Druian
September 12, 2011
Dear Captain Timothy Stackpole,
You will always be remembered. Not only on 9-11, but every day of the year. Your memorial bracelet keeps you and yours, in my thoughts and prayers. I wear it proudly.
Dorian Easbey
September 11, 2011
Dear Stackpole family,
You have been in my thoughts for ten years... and especially today. After 9 11 01 my mom sent away for memorial bracelets and I received one that read Captain Timothy Stackpole. (They were sent randomly). shortly thereafter we found out a family friend, Andy, sang at his funeral. The following year my mom sent away for a memorial tree... also sent with a firefighter to remember. Once again we read Timothy Stackpole. I have felt a close connection since, and want you to know your family is constantly in my prayers. May Timothy's memory be eternal.
Frances Zaplishny
September 11, 2011
Philippans 2:4 (reminds us)... Keeping and eye, not in personal interest upon just your own matters, but also in personal interest upon those of the others.
Such an astonishing display of selflessness Captain Timothy Stackpole shared with the world. May we remember and try to follow examples of such heroic people. With warm thoughts and love to his family!
Tom Buonanno
September 9, 2011
Dear Tara and family,
On this 10th year anniversary of 9/11 the only words of comfort I can offer are;
"To die but not to perish is to be eternally present"
I know Tim is eternally present in our hearts and minds.
Love from a Good Shepherd classmate who enjoyed playing "Punch ball & freeze tag" with Tim in our Brooklyn school yard.
May God grant you all peace at this difficult time.
Amanda Edison
September 9, 2011
Dear Katie, and the entire Stackpole family. Thinking of you always, but especially at this time of the year. Remember to keep your head high and a smile on your face, as you look up towards heaven, so that your father, our hero, can get a better look at you. Katie, I love you and miss you and am so proud of the woman you have become! Your entire family is in my thoughts and in my prayers. Eternally in your debt,
Amanda Edison
Tom Tabaczynski
January 18, 2011
To Captain Stackpole's Family, Thinking of you on his birthday. I know from online research that he would have turned 52 today. Thank you for sharing your memories and photos--and for giving me this opportunity to say, "I care."
Allan Hyatt
December 25, 2010
To the Stackpole Family, may G-D bless all of you. His memory is an inspiration to people everywhere that they should never give up, but keep on moving forward even in the face of extreme difficulties. Captain Stackpole rest in peace, and Thank You for your service to the people of NYC.
Colleen Lee Odell
September 11, 2010
I first learned of the heroic Timothy Stackpole from a newspaper article in the summer of 2001 which detailed his inspiring return to the Fire Department despite suffering severe burns. I was so moved that I called his home and spoke to his lovely wife, asking her to thank him from me. Only weeks later at Captain Stackpole's wake I presented Mrs Stackpole with a batch of letters from my daughter Kristen's 7th grade class,thanking him for his sacrifice. I am an educator and I promise to keep the memory of this extraordinary human being alive by retelling his story to students each year.
Thank you for keeping watch over us,Captain Stackpole.
Colleen Lee Odell, Mt Kisco,NY
Ryan Zold
September 11, 2010
During a September 11th ceremony this morning in Hilton Head, Sc I hear about Captain Stackpole and the amazing story of what he went through to remain a part of the fire service after suffering severe burns in a fire. His memory will always remain a source of motivation and pride within the fire service, and as an American. Never forget.
September 10, 2010
Even though I was Matty's little sister, Timmy always made me feel special. ALways taking interest in what was going on in my life. I will always rmember his warm hugs, big smile and joy for life. You are all in my thoughts and prayers and I will never forget Timmy and how he impacted my life, as well as the whole Croke family.
Love, Doreen
Tom Tabaczynski
September 7, 2010
To the Stackpole Family, I am thinking of you as the ninth anniversary of Tim's death approaches. My heartfelt thanks for giving me this opportunity to say, "I care." Please think of this entry as a hug from me.
June Easbey
September 6, 2010
Being out on the west coast during those most awful days following the attack on our Country was very hard for my family...we had a chance to donate and obtain memorial bracelets of the brave men and women who so bravely responded. I was honored and still wear the bracelet that was made in TIM's memory. I am proud to do so. God bless your family and may his memory be eternal +
Chris Coffman, CPM
May 7, 2010
Captain Stackpole family, You have my upmost respect. The life of our hero Captain Stackpole will not be forgotten. His dedication and committment to serving the public has established a new standard for me as a public servant. What a role model Captain Stackpole is for us all. May God bless you and keep you, may His countenance be upon your face!
Tom Tabaczynski
February 25, 2010
To the Stackpole Family, I thought of you last Sunday when I saw the 60 Minutes story about the construction of the Ground Zero memorial being at a standstill.
Hugh Masterson
February 12, 2010
Timmy was a great friend of mine but he was also one of the main reasons I joined the FDNY. Timmy and I played high school football together. My best memories of Timmy were when we were both Life Guards at a pool in queens during the summer of 1976. He was a super guy and I miss him deeply. Hughie Masterson
Tara Stackpole
January 25, 2010
Thank you all for always keeping Timmy's memory alive. His birthday just passed and it is heartwarming to us that people remember. He was a very special man that touched many lives and we miss him every moment of everyday. He lived his life the way we all should, and the gift in that is, he is still touching lives all these years later.
Thank you for sharing your kind thoughts with us, it means so much to me and my children and family.
Love,
Tara Stackpole
Tom Tabaczynski
January 24, 2010
Mrs. Stackpole and Family, I learned about your loss when I saw Cynthia McFadden interview you on ABC News soon after 9/11. I recently discovered this Guest Book. I've thought of you often, especially this past week, because I know from online research that Tim would have turned 51 last Monday. I have the greatest love and respect for firefighters and police officers because they not only risk their lives every day, they are Good Samaritans even when off duty, holding food drives, toy drives, and pancake breakfast fundraisers (for scholarships, athletic equipment and uniforms, etc.), to name just a few of their charitable efforts. My heartfelt thanks for sharing your memories--and for giving me this opportunity to say, "I care."
Margaret Kelly Kenefick
January 18, 2010
Tim may be gone but will truly never be forgotten...Much Love to Tara, the kids and the entire Stackpole Family.
JEFF ZWEIG
December 28, 2009
I had the privilege of being Tim's FedEx delivery man. During his recovery for burns to his legs, I delivered FDNY documents to Tim and caught glimpses of him running around the neighborhood. Following 9/11, I had the grim task of delivering documents to Tara so the family would receive the well deserved benefits. In life, Tim was all over the neighborhood helping elderly with chores. In death, he remains a symbol of courage and love for family and country. Though Tim was too young, he accomplished so much. God Bless Tim and the entire Stackpole family.
October 21, 2009
Our days are so crowded and our hours so few- There's so little timeand so much to do. That the days fly by and are over and done. Before we have even hald begun. To do the things that we meant to do. But never have time to carry through... And how nice it would be if we stopped to say The things we feel in our hearts each day.
Whenever I stop and think of you, It makes me smile to know Thay you, my friend, are in my heart, Wherever I may go.
Matthew Parker
September 15, 2009
I had the honor of climbing in Captain Stackpole's memory on Sept 11, 2009 in Denver alongside 342 other brothers and sisters to remember the 343 fallen brothers. It was truly an honor. God Bless the Stackpole family.
Alice McGuire
September 11, 2009
Rest in Peace, Timothy. You will never be forgotten.
Peter Vandersluis
September 11, 2009
Hello Stackpole Family. I was very honored today to wear your family name on the back of my turnouts for a 9/11 tribute in Sacramento, California. Your husband and father was a very brave man. God Bless.
Bart Sweeney
September 11, 2009
Hello Stackpole Family, I am with you today and everyday. Tim, I'm sure will be in the stands this Saturday and Sunday watching his boys against Holy Cross. Go Prep !!!
Katelyn Stackpole
February 8, 2009
Dear Mrs. Stackpole,
I am sorry for your loss and the city of New York loss. In class we were reading about 9/11 and it got me to thinking about Timothy. My father had told me about him after the attacks, we were cousins. It makes me so proud to know that a member of my family was so brave. Especially after what he did in the fire of 1998. I am grateful to know his story, share it with others and know that he will forever be a hero in our hearts. God Bless you.
Sincerely,
Katelyn Stackpole
David Ritchie
January 18, 2009
I didn't know Capt. Stackpole but I had heard of his courageous heroism in both 1998 and 2001 and vowed never to forget his selfless acts. When the wonderful heroism of the Hudson River airline pilot (Capt. Sullenberger) was revealed, I thought again about the burned fire captain newly returned to duty who went up into the Trade Center never to return. I am sad to say that I at first did not recall Capt. Stackpole's name despite my promise to myself. Fortunately, I had taken down a list of all the 343 FDNY hero dead of 9/11 and quickly found his name among them. The lesson for me is that the sacrifices of people like Capt. Stackpole will never be forgotten even by absent-minded people like me. God Bless him and God bless his family!
KATHY MAYHEW
September 11, 2008
REMBERING IN PRAYER TODAY
I HAVE A BRACLET WITH HIS NAME
Erica Walsh
September 11, 2008
Thinking of Timothy on the 7th anniversay. I knew him when did some contracting work through Klear View Appliance Store in Brooklyn in the mid 90's. Such a sweet man.
Rose Mary O'Connor
September 10, 2008
Thinking of you and your family on this the 8th anniversary of 9/11. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. The hardest part isn't moving on, but what is left behind. May your memories bring you comfort.
~Blessings~
The Pizzuto Family from Shapanack
Kevin Y
September 10, 2008
Most of the folks who remember Tim knew him as a brave firefighter who made the ultimate sacrifice on Sept. 11, 2001. Many do not know that prior to becoming a firefighter Tim was an honored NYC police officer who had been shot in the line of duty. That is when I knew him and when I had the honor of calling him my friend. I think of him often, especially at this time of year. God bless and keep his wife and family.
-Pride Of Sheffield Avenue
September 8, 2008
Timmy Stackpole was badly burned at a fire in 1998. Through extensive rehabilitation and sheer will he returned to work on March 11th 2001. On Sept. 8th he was promoted to Captain. He was killed Sept. 11th, 6 months to the day after returning to the job that he loved. To know him was an incredible honor. May God bless Timmy Stackpole and the entire Stackpole family.
PATRICIA STACKPOLE-MURPHY
September 8, 2008
THANKYOU FOR STILL THINKING OF TIMMY. IT MEANS ALOT TO MY FAMILY THAT HE IS STILL BEING THOUGHT OF AFTER 7 YEARS. THANKYOU FOR WRITTING IN THE GUEST BOOK.
Paul Sprague
September 7, 2008
I had the pleasure of drawing Timothy's braclet at the site on the first St. Patrick's day parade after 911. I think of him often and will never forget.
Captain Paul Sprague
San Jose Fire Department
Engine Company 10
Mike Nelson
February 19, 2008
To the Stackpole Family,
Having known Timmy as a coach and a friend through Good Shephard CYO and also through my daughter Amanda, your family and Timmy are never far from my thoughts. I was at the Trade Center that horrible day and also attended Timmy's memorial service. God Bless you all,
Mike, Ryann, Amanda and Alex Nelson
February 4, 2008
Timmy u are missed dearly by everyone !! RIP
we love you everyday more and more !!
thank you for giving us so much to remember you by it makes us proud to say we know you ... we will never forget you !!! until we meet again !! love you xoxo
Lori Berti-Press
September 11, 2007
Today it is gray and rainy, fitting weather to mourn the brave who sacrificed their lives in an effort to save others. Six years later, you are in my daily life. Although I never knew you, I am honored to this day to wear your bracelet every single day. God bless your family and keep them in His heart.
Stephanie Carney
September 9, 2007
I wear your bracelet every day and tell your story to every one that I can. I still think of you and your family often.
September 7, 2007
Thinking of you Timmy..
God Bless you and your family.
Nancy Nee
sister of FF George Cain..ladder 7
kristine
September 4, 2007
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
P Tabbernor
March 21, 2007
In memory....
December 24, 2006
Merry Christmas in heaven
Timmy "Jobs" Stackpole
The Pride Of Sheffield Avenue remembers...
Rob Vogt
December 11, 2006
I only had the pleasure of Working with Capt Stackpole for my proby year. I still remember the drills he led.
Lucy Griffin
October 24, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Lori Berti Press
September 11, 2006
Dear Mrs. Stackpole and family. It has been 5 years and I am sure although your pain may have diminished it did not go away. Please know there are others who keep your brave husband's memory alive. In April 2002, I wrote here saying how honored I was to be wearing Capt. Timothy Stackpole's name of my copper 9/11 memorial bracelet. Five years later, I still wear it every day as a reminder that the pain of loss is with you and so many others every single day.God love you and hold you in his heart.
Mike Ryan
August 22, 2006
It is hard to believe that almost five years have passed since that terrible day. I think of you often, and dearly miss your infectious laugh and ever present smile. I never met a more genuinely positive and caring person in my life. You represented all that a man is capable of being.
FDNY E290/L103 Pride Of Sheffield Avenue
August 18, 2006
Always a source of inspiration, even in spirit.
Fran Heller
August 16, 2006
Always in my thoughts and prayers.
December 23, 2005
God bless Tim and his family during this Holy season. I hope that someday I'll stop crying.
lori rice
November 5, 2005
Dear Mrs. Stockpole:
I met your husband once when he came to pick up his mom from work. I worked with your mother in- law for a few years and if her son was anything like her he had to be a great person. I remember when he was hurt at the last fire and had gotten burnt and his mom was so worried about him and his future. My heart goes out to you and your children and I wish all all the happiness in the world. He and is mom are greatly missed
Loraine Benjamin Bronston
November 18, 2004
Dear Mrs.Stackpole,
I know that it's been three years, but I wanted you to know that my mother, Mrs.Angela Benjamin, worked with Captin Stackpole's mother, Joan in District 22 in Brooklyn and we all know what he means still to you and your family. A good name is to be cherished, but know that you would still rather have the man there with you in the flesh.
He lives in spirit and in the faces of your children. My mom says that your mother in law would talk about how much he really loved you, please know that where he is, love abounds and he's waiting for you to join him and the right time.
With love,
Loraine Benjamin Bronston
Rose Mary O'Connor
September 23, 2004
Dear Timmy’s family, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. On that horrific day, I was on the 99th floor of 2 World Trade Center working for Aon. I’ve lost so many wonderful colleagues and a best friend but was shocked to have found that I had known another. I will never forget that day and all those we’ve lost. Timmy was very courageous for helping us that morning and I am so sorry for your loss. As a kid I enjoyed going on family vacations to a resort called Shapanack in the Catskill Mountains and had the honor to meet the Stackpole family, those were the good days. We’ve had a lot of good times and the memories we will cherish forever.
God Bless You All.
Rose Mary O’Connor (Pizzuto)
[email protected]
Myron Shulman
September 11, 2004
Today is the third anniversary of that terrible day. I saw Timothy just two days earlier at the "Great Irish Fair" and was so impressed that I videotaped some of his speech when he was honored as "Irishman of the Year". I made a copy for his loving wife, Tara.He was very humble when he was so honored. I fear that many people attending the Fair on that beautiful day of Sept.8,2001, are no longer with us. I was privileged to spend even a few hours in the company of New Yorks' Bravest and Finest. God bless them and God bless America!
September 11, 2004
Thinking of you and your family on this terrible day. God Bless.
Jackie Schulz
September 4, 2004
I wanted to send my condolences especially on the upcoming 3rd anniversary - I saw Tara on the R.N.C. and I cried - your speech really hit home and I applaud you and your family - I pray for you everyday and I will pray for your son going to Iraq -
God Bless you and your family and thank you for your services !! God Bless your husband he was a true hero!!
Jackie Schulz
Patrick Maloney
August 31, 2004
Dear Tara,
Had the privledge of watching you speak last night at the R.N.C. in N.Y.C.; great job!
I will always keep Timmy in my prayers as well as all the victims of 9/11.
God Bless You and Your Family.
betty almand
April 22, 2004
I had the honor of making a quilt square for Timothy that was put into a quilt called United In Memory. Currently it is touring different parts of the country, but will end up in New York in the memorial that is to be built there. May God bless Timothy's family and friends.
Pride Of Sheffield Avenue
December 22, 2003
Always in our hearts...
PATRICIA STACKPOLE
September 14, 2003
I WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE WHO SINGED TIMMY LEGACY PAGE. IT MEANS SO MUCH TO ALL OF US THAT YOU WRITE YOUR FEELINGS DOWN. THANKYOU.
LOVE ALWAYS,
PATRICIA
TIMMY'S SISTER
Jeff Zweig
September 11, 2003
I had the honor of meeting Tim during my rounds as the Fedex man. I saw him while he cured himself of the burns of that basement fire and his goal of getting back to active duty. Everybody in the neighborhood knew Tim and his family. I hope the kids become just like their father and mother and never forget.
NOREEN MITTLEMAN
September 10, 2003
TO THE STACKPOLE FAMILY. DEAR TARA AND FAMILY. OUR HEARTFELT SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ON THE LOSS OF TIMMY. TIMMY WAS JUST NOT AN ORDINARY PERSON. HE WAS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON. HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN FOR THE SPECIAL JOB HE DID IN THE FIRE DEPARTMENT. MY FAMILY AAND I HAD GONE TO THE IRISH FAIR THIS PAST SUNDAY AND DEDICATED THE DAY BY SPENDING TIME AT THE FAIR IN SPECIAL MEMORY OF HIM AND FOR THE SPECIAL HONOR HE HAD AS PART OF THAT FAIR. A DONATION AT THE FAIR WAS GIVIN IN MEMORY OF HIM. A CANDLE WILL ALWAYS BE LIGHTED IN HISMEMORY. LOVE THE MITTLEMAN FAMILY, NOREEN LARRY AND TRACY .
Stephanie Groth
July 29, 2003
Dear Mrs.Stackpool and family. It is July 29th 2003 and I want you to know I think of your husband and your father everyday. In my mind he is everything a hero should be. I know you all are so proud of him and everything that he was and I know that his spirit will live on in those who loved him. As his children you were given a very special gift. You have a Father you can always be proud of. My Dad is a Fire Chief and I know the pride that goes with that. I believe that your Dad is watching over you everyday. I think of you everyday and you are in my prayers often. I will never forget Capt. Timothy Stackpole.
Cedric Hathway
March 15, 2003
To the Stackpole family, I am honored to wear the Memorial Bracelet bearing Tims name. You need to know we have not forgotten your loss. Janesville Local 580 Firefighters will never forget the heroism of Tim and his brothers.
GOD BLESS AMERICA
January 1, 2003
I brought my son to Keyspan Park to remember Capt. Stackpole and his Brother Angels on Christmas. I cried again on New Year's Eve. I will never be able to comprehend the evil behind all of this, nor can I imagine your sense of loss. My prayers are with you as I resolve to try and live my life in such a way that would make your Husband and Dad happy. God Bless Tim.
Laura Stack
October 14, 2002
A TALE OF A STOLEN HERO
They say that God acts in mysterious ways and Timmy Stackpole's story is one of those mysteries. The day after the bombing I came across a book called "So Great a Cloud of Witnesses" by David O. Rankin, an Episcopalian priest. I was stunned by the title of the book as it so perfectly described that monstrous cloud which was, indeed, filled with the souls of a great many witnesses to that evil act.
It is a book about spiritual journeys. Later, as I was reading it, my soul told me to look at the publishing page, something I NEVER do. I was again stunned to notice that the distributer of the book was STACKPOLE BOOKS!
I first heard of TImmy when I saw a news feature about his burn treatment. After months of pain and suffering, he still went back to the FDNY. Not many people could do that. I remembered the name because my last name is similar, STACK.. I then did the ususal poetic twist on his name POLE for the fireman's pole.
When events like this coincidence occur to me I know that somewhere God has His hand in the matter. There are too many similar events happening at the same time to be mere chance. These kind of things happen to me quite often so I know the drill.
I called some relatives back in Brooklyn and asked if they knew him. They did. On September 10, my mother even cut out a picture of him receiving a MAN of the YEAR award from the Emerald Society. My family also goes to the same beach club at Breezy Point, where I also spent many happy summers. Another family member lives in the same neighborhood. My brother also taught Tara in high school, so there are many connections here.
My sister sadly told me that he had died in the collapse. I have not lived in New York since 1972 and had no idea that my family knew him. He must have a powerful spirit to guide me to that book that so aptly told the tale of that horrible event. He stands for all the stolen heroes that died that day. I have done a memorial collage about him and if anyone is interested they can e-mail me at [email protected]
God Bless you Timmy and God Bless all those that died that day. I know that Timmy is standing over his family and watching them. I, too, think about them everyday and say a few prayers for them. We will never forget you, Timmy! Farewell to all the Stolen Heroes!
Look homeward, Angels!
Laura Stack
beth whitney
October 7, 2002
I dont have big words that can say my condolences for you but i can say im sorry for your loss... his bravery saved lives and we are gratefull.. i will wear his bracelet in pride.. i have a best friend in the army and if i ever lost him i dont know what i would do... god bless you guys ... lots of love to your family...
beth
and please feel free to e-mail me i would love to correspond with any member of your family..
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