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Joseph Maloney Obituary
You probably think you know Firefighter Joseph E. Maloney. Son of a cop; grandson of a fireman; married forever to Kathy, the pretty, tough- talking nurse; father of Joe, 10, and Megan, 7.
Sure, you know Mr. Maloney, 45, of Farmingville, N.Y. He is the tall, dark and handsome type who keeps the muscles pumped and the prankster side buffed. Every firehouse has one ‹ or a dozen ‹ like him.
He's driving the Ladder Company 3 truck in Manhattan, spots a yuppie couple sipping lattes outdoors, and blaaatt! he smacks that horn, rattling them and their cups.
And he's wearing a "borrowed" chief's uniform, baby powder graying his hair, haranguing a quivering probie (new firefighter).
You know him? Not at all. Meet Mr. Maloney, who never mentioned fear or death, who cared more about being a hero dad than a hero firefighter, although he was both.
Recently, Mrs. Maloney was going through paperwork ‹ he was fastidiously organized ‹ and found a note, stuck between the kids' birth certificates, dated 1995. "Honey, if I die and if on the F.D.N.Y.," he wrote, "you will fare O.K." Tax instructions followed, and an admonition to a giddy shopper: "Don't spend a lot of money." It concludes: "I love you, Joseph and Megan. Sorry I had to leave you so early. Your father and husband, Joseph E. Maloney."
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Maryellen B
September 12, 2023
22 Years, however you and fellow Heroes still and always in my Prayers. God Bless America
Bill "Fryy" Goscinski
September 11, 2023
Joe you're one of my brother's best friends We didn't hang out much but I heard a lot about you you are truly missed by many
Vinny Randone
September 11, 2023
One of my favorite pics of Joe in the late 70s. Met Joe when we were 5 years old and really hard to loose a good true friend. Joe & all his family allways in our hearts & prayers. Miss ya Big Joe but never forgotten...
Vincent Randone
September 11, 2023
Just wanted to share one of my favorite pics of Joe in front of my house in the 1970s. Meet Joe at 5 years old and too much history to even begin. Very hard to lose a good true friend but is thought about often. Prayers and thoughts always to his family.
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Bob griffith
October 28, 2022
Joe
You´ll be forever missed Bob & Patti Griffith Robbie, Christopher, James & Brianna Griffith miss Kathy Lil Joe and Magen at those syag football games be well we´ll miss Joe forever Patti & Bob
Maryellen Benenati
September 11, 2022
21 years since the horrific day however the heartbreak for all is still fresh in our hearts. As promised, I still pray for you and your loved ones and listen for your name.
You and fellow Heros will Never Be Forgotten
Maryellen B - Long Beach NY
Jacqueline Forsyth
September 24, 2021
My dad, a fellow firefighter speaks of you often. He tells me stories of us playing in the fire house and on the beach with our family's when I was a little girl. I was recently on a deployment in Qatar eating dinner in a special dining hall and saw a photo, honoring those lost in 9-11 with your name on it...... You are truly not forgotten.
Mike Maloney
September 12, 2021
Joseph, your contribution and sacrifice are, again, respectfully remembered. My son is also 'Joseph Maloney' and we pray for you and your family often. Your legacy is that of a great man! So much respect.
Maryellen Benenati
September 11, 2021
After 20 years your light shines on in all who loved you. I will be praying for you today at my "mass on the beach" as I did in 2001 and every year. We will always remember your sacrifice -
Lauren Kahl
September 11, 2021
Thinking of the Maloney family today as we honor the 20th anniversary of their losssending love always
September 7, 2021
He was the neighbor that would wave to you as he jogged down the street with his wife, or the guy that yelled slow down to the young kids who drove too fast down our block because our little ones were out front. He Always had a smile and the neighborhood will always remember you.
David Saxe
August 22, 2021
Today I ran in honor of Joseph Maloney in the Utica NY Tunnel to Towers 5k. He will never be forgotten.
Charles Powers
September 13, 2020
Joe and Megan, I do not know you or your dad, but I want you to know his legacy lives on. Yesterday I climbed 110 stories at the Bristol Motor Speedway in Bristol, Tennessee in honor of him. I've tried to find out as much as I can about him online and he seems like such a great guy. Id love to learn more. If you see this please reach out to me at [email protected]. I want to learn as much as I can about these individuals so that we truly don't ever forget.
Maryellen Benenati
September 11, 2020
19 years and you live on in the hearts of all you knew and loved. I continue to pray for you and family and hold dear the card I received 19 years ago in church with your name and picture. Rest in Peace and Thank you for your sacrifice. Maryellen B. -Long Beach NY
C Novak
September 11, 2019
I climbed representing you 5 years ago when I was in the fire academy. The name badge I wore that day has stayed with me in every locker Ive had in my short career.. on my most difficult days when I open my locker at the end of my shift I know this day wasnt so bad. You keep me going strong... You gave the ultimate sacrifice without hesitation. True courage and honor. Keeping your soul and your family in my thoughts every shift..
Maryellen Benenati
September 11, 2019
18 years seems like yesterday - I continue to pray for you and your family. When I visited the 9 11 Memorial, a rose was left on your name at the Memorial pool. I listen for your name each year - Thank you for your service. Maryellen B, Long Beach, NY
Maryellen B
September 12, 2018
17 years has gone by and I continue to pray for you and the Maloney family. Each year like millions of others I watch the reading of the names, I have the original paper given to me in church in 2001 containing your picture, name and home town and listen for your name. God Bless and thank you. Maryellen B - LB, NY
Phil K
September 12, 2018
Lost but never forgotten
Lance Frame
September 11, 2018
Thank you FF Maloney. I did not know you, but I did know your brother. Today marks another 9/11 I watch on TV or listen on the radio as the names of all those who passed on 9/11 are read. I watch or listen until I hear your name, then I can begin my work day. I was on a flight from Minneapolis to Cleveland the morning of 9/11. 2 months later I ran into your brother at a trade show in Las Vegas where Jim told me you had passed in one of the towers. You and your family wil always be remembered..........thank you for your service. The FDNY lost a great FF, the rest of us have lost a great man. God Bless You Joseph.
Dan Mullins
April 18, 2016
I had the honor of working alongside Joe for almost 10 years.
I was assigned to the great Engine Company 5 with Ladder 3 running along side us first due on most of our calls.
It was awesome to see the Ladder 3 guys go to work when it was really on. Smart, tough and stone cold determined.They saved our necks on more than one night and we returned the favor when we could. It was a time. Tears, laughter and enough memories to fill a dozen books.
Joe was right there with the best of the best. A true leader. A guy that could make things happen when they needed to happen.
On some tours I would cover an empty spot in Ladder 3 and ride up front as Big Joe handled the wheel, the same rig that now sits in the 9/11 museum. I had great confidence in any advice he would give on the way into a fire call. He had seen it all in his area of Manhattan. He would keep it simple, matter of fact. Just the stuff you needed to help you along.
I miss Joe and the members of Ladder 3 and can see their faces like it was yesterday. In my thoughts, when I see Joe, he is smiling, of course.
God Bless Joseph Maloney, Ladder 3, Engine 5 & the New York City Fire Department
Lt. Dan Mullins
Engine 5 (Ret.)
September 2001
January 19, 2016
I visited the 9-11 Memorial Pools and Museum in January 2016 and found Joseph E. Maloney's tributes.
My son (11) is named Joseph Maloney. I may be a 51 year-old man but I'm not too proud to admit that I cried like a baby when reading about Joe, Kathy, Joe Jnr and Megan, it was just heartbreaking.
To his family I just want to say "Thank you - for his service, and for your sacrifice. You will be in my prayers forever"
God bless you
Mike Maloney
New Zealand
Courtney Novak
September 13, 2014
Today I participated In the National fallen firefighters foundation stair climb in Prince George's County Maryland. I had the honor to climb in Joseph's name. God bless his soul and his family. Thank you for your service.
(Baltimore city fire dept recruit class 14-01)
September 13, 2014
You and your family were in my thoughts as all names of angels of 9/11/2001 were read. All will never be forgotten.
Maryellen B. LongBeach,NY
Brandon Howard
September 11, 2014
I had the pleasure of participating in the Denver stair climb today. It was an honor that I was able to carry the photo and memory of Joseph Maloney. We will never forget! This event is vital to the fire service and the tradition it carries with it. After reading online articles I feel a sense of pride having carried with me a photo of such a unique, strong, and courageous firefighter, father and husband.
Thank you for your service.
I will keep your family in my thoughts.
S J. Friscia III
July 29, 2014
In Memory
With Honor & Respect.
Paul H Sterling
November 9, 2013
I had the pleasure of participating in the NFFF 9/11 Memorial Stair Climb and 3K today in Clearwater, Fla as a part of the IAFC - VCOS Section Symposium in the Sun. I participated and carried a picture of Firefighter Joseph Mattingly-Ladder 3 - FDNY. If I could locate a mailing address for the family, I would like to send them the photo I carried.
September 11, 2013
On the evening of September 11, 2011, like many, went to church to pray for the victims and their families. After prayers we were asked to come to the alter where the priest gave us all a card containing the name of someone lost that day. On my card was the name and picture of Joseph E. Maloney,46, Farmingville. I pray for Joseph Maloney and his family for 12 years now and will continue to pray. Today I had the HONOR to see his beautiful daughter read names and thank her Dad for her lovely eyes. I have thought about his loved ones since that day and will continue. Maryellen B.-LongBeach,NY
Glen& Kaycie JAcobson
September 11, 2013
We will never forget you and your family! Thank you
Melissa Shulman
September 11, 2013
I worked with Joes wife, Kathy at LIJ on the ICU in the early 9o's. She always made us nurses smile. And joked that Joe used to watch Baywatch to see the fast boats. I remember that he would take care of their kids when she was working. Every year I watch the 9/11 memorial and wait to see his picture and hear his name. I saw their beautiful daughter on tv today. It was very touching. I think of Kathy often- and Joe who I never met... Thank you for serving and protecting us. You're never forgotten.
Melissa Shulman
September 11, 2013
I worked with Joes wife, Kathy at LIJ on the ICU in the early 9o's. She always made us nurses smile. And joked that Joe used to watch Baywatch to see the fast boats. I remember that he would take care of their kids when she was working. Every year I watch the 9/11 memorial and wait to see his picture and hear his name. I saw their beautiful daughter on tv today. It was very touching. I think of Kathy often- and Joe who I never met... Thank you for serving and protecting us. You're never forgotten.
PJ Welch
June 4, 2013
I was in the same probie class as Joe. 6 weeks back then. After we got out of probe school I didn't see him again until 1994 when I was covering in the 1st Div. Joe hadn't changed. He was still the same Big Man with an even bigger heart. He had found a real home in 3 Truck R.I.P. Joe & all the Brothers
Zamora M
May 17, 2013
If anyone has any pictues of Joseph Maloney, please contact me. I am doing a memorial for him as a class project and i would like to have pictures of him in it.
May 16, 2013
I didn't know Joseph Maloney. I just wanted his family to know that he is rememberd.
Shelley Kresan
September 12, 2012
Our church gave out red hearts with the names of people who dies on 911. We were to look them up a say a prayer for them. Joseph Maloney, you are not forgotten. God Bless you!
Lee Monsebroten
September 11, 2012
I did a stair climb in the back of our station for you. Thanks for you service and all that you gave for us.
Pedro Chapa
September 8, 2012
Sir today I climbed 110 floors at the Dallas Stair Climb in your memory. You are gone but not forgotten RIP
Eric Fortier
September 20, 2011
I have family living in New York and they knew Joseph Maloney. He gave is life to save others. Thank you! From all our family, God bless you and all your family! We'll never forget!
Tanya Gonzales
September 16, 2011
May you always be caressed in the lords chest as he continues to watch over and bless your family....your heroism will never be forgotten and may you remain a hero for all eternity...Our heroes need to always be recognized.
Christina Stallans
September 16, 2011
Just wanted to light a candle in memory of Mr. Maloney. I may not have known him or anyone else who passed due to that horrible day but his tribute has touched my heart. God Bless and RIP.
peggy hindy
September 16, 2011
may u forever rest in peace. n may god be w ur family n friends
Barbara Maloney
September 12, 2011
Hello,
Yesterday in Sacramento, CA, they had their 3rd annual tribute to the 343 fallen fire fighters. Local Fire Fighters carry the name of a fallen firefighter over their name on their turnout coat. My son Brian Maloney proudly carried Joseph's name over his own for the 110 floors of the Renaissance Tower. Joseph Maloney and the other 342 will not be forgotten!
Candi Lenney
September 12, 2011
My heart felt condolences to Kathy, her daughter & the entire Maloney family.I spent a lot of time at there home in Albertson as a young girl & always though Joe was so handsome & "cool". Now he is sadly, but proudly one of FDNY's heroes.
Mark, Denise, Kailyn and Jospeh Bondoni
September 11, 2011
The Bondoni family of Northville, Michigan remembers the Maloney family on this sad day in history. Be proud, and may your brother rest in peace.
The Forrester Family
September 11, 2011
10 years later and not a day goes by that we don't think of you and all of the other fallen heros! Joe maybe gone but we'll always have our memories!
mary carroll
September 11, 2011
remembering you , your family and all those affected by today god bless
Roger Van Boxtel
September 10, 2011
What a guy. I know his brother at Ford Motor Company.
Marjorie Maloney
September 10, 2011
My husband is Andrew Joseph Maloney I don't know if they are related or not but when my husband seen his name he cried. Here is a picture of my husband & I with my boys. There is a picture of us on Facebook. Under Marjorie Maloney
Leo Benes
September 9, 2011
On Sunday September 11, 2011 I will have the honor of climbing the memorial climb in Kansas City, Missouri. I will do this in honor and memory of Joseph. My thoughts have been with him and your family since I received the information on the climb. Battalion Chief Leo C. Benes Lincoln Fire and Rescue Lincoln, Nebraska.
Nancy Owens (Dachille)
August 16, 2011
To the Maloney Family - from the Owens Family - We send our love to you all. We shared many childhood memories together and send our love and comfort on this 10 year anniversary. God Bless.
JORDAN H
January 28, 2011
JOSEPH- IM SO INSPIRED BY YOUR HEROISM ON 9/11. I WILL NEVER FORGET YOUR BRAVERY ON 9/11. I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY EVERY NIGHT. GOD BLESS YOU HERO. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU GAVE ON SEPT 11TH.
September 12, 2010
Maloney Family, Yesterday 9/11/2010 I had the Honor of wearing Maloney on the back of my turnout jacket as I ascended 110 floor in a stair climb to remember those brothers who died on that day 9 yrs ago. I didn't know his name before but I do now and I promise you I will "NEVER FORGET"
Firefighter/Paramedic Steve Caldwell
Sac-Metro Fire, Sacramento CA
Tom McGlone
January 12, 2010
god bless you joe and god bless your family exspecially your mother
Rich Wojcicki
September 11, 2009
Joe's family. I graduated HS with Joe and although not very close, we shared enough of a network of friends for me to know he was a real funny, proud, stand-up guy. From what I've been reading, he continued that into the next phase of his life. I wish you all peace and comfort.
Mary Rosa
May 29, 2009
R.I.P<3
April 16, 2009
Never forget, never forgotten.
September 12, 2008
Your sacrifice and service are remembered. Both today and everyday -- by countless Americans you did not know -- but knew and know you in spirit. May God bless your family always and may peace surround each loved one.
mary chris and jim carroll
July 28, 2008
you are always in our thoughts
Jim Delaney
April 22, 2008
Dear Joe's family, I remember the day Joe got the job with the fire dept. I stopped to talk while walking past the house in Albertson. He was so proud. He was a great friend to many in those days as I am sure you know. God Bless, I'll always pray for you.
Joseph Maloney
March 23, 2008
I know how hard it is to get over the death of a loved one.My prayers are with you his family.God Bless.
Ron Vestuto
November 1, 2007
Kathy, I remember you well from Park Avenue, Shelter Rock and Herricks. I was very sorry to hear of the loss of your husband on 9-11. I'm sure it was devastating for you. I worked at a company that was in the WTC. But, I left there in '99. Many of my co-workers and friends were on the uppper floors of tower one and were lost that day. If I had not changed jobs, I would have been there for sure as I always started work at 8:00 AM. I wish you well and your family too. If you want to email me, you can reach me at [email protected]
Joseph Maloney
September 2, 2007
May God continue to guide the Family of Joseph Maloney as they bear a great loss.My heart goes out to you all,for I know what it means to lose a loved one.I share the same name as your dad ,husband, friend or associate.I would like to wear one of the mercy band, can some one contact me so that I can obtain one?
P Tabbernor
December 19, 2006
In memory....
Kristine
October 31, 2006
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Lauren Kahl
September 10, 2006
I just wanted to let the family know that I will be thinking of you tomorrow...God bless
Love,
Lori, Daven, Emma & Austin
(friends of Lori & Jimmy)
Brian Moran
September 10, 2006
Although I did not know MR. Maloney, I find the need to pay my respects to a heroe who died trying to help others, while leaving behind his young children and wife and family. His note to his children will be something that will guide them thru life like their dad would have... I know the Maloney family is very proud of you Joeseph...as well as everyone else who you put your life on the line for.
Sandra Stevens
December 17, 2005
For years now I've been wearing a silver wristband with Joseph Maloney's name on it. I don't know why I finally did a search for information on him, perhaps I was ready. Interestingly enough, he's just as I had imagined him to be and quite a bit more. He and his family, as well as the NYFD, will always be in my prayer's
Grace and Peace,
Sandra
James Johnson
September 11, 2005
God Bless You...
j c
May 25, 2005
God bless you and your family
Maloney
December 18, 2003
I hope you live as long as you wan`t.And never wan`t as long as you live. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
From the Maloney family in Liverpool U.K.
Mena Murphy Hinfey
September 30, 2003
I am glad to have had the pleasure of knowing Joe as a boy. I was deeply sorry to hear the sad news when I talked to his mother Mary. I do hope that Kathy and their two children are able to cope with their sad loss. We had Joe prayed for in our church in Newbridge, Co Derry, and he and his family will always be in our prayers.
Mena Murphy Hinfey
Doona G
September 12, 2003
I did not know Joseph or his family. Today I signed my friend Keith Roma Of NYC Fire Patrols guest book. I thought I should say to someone else that you are thought of and my prayers go out to you. May peace fill your hearts and memories bring you joy. Thank you to Joseph, you wont be forgotten!
mary chris and jimmy carroll
September 11, 2003
you are always in our thoughts
we think of you and your family daily
chris knew you well from herricks and mary knew your brothers and sisters from the neighborhood
you and your family have such love such joy for life i know they are remembering you so happily
god rest your soul and thanks for all you did
joseph M. maloney
September 11, 2003
i would just like to say that i am very sorry to the family of joe and god bless you all and joe for him being so brave and such a hero it was such a sad thing to happen and i will never forget i can't i have a memorial tattoo on the back of my calf muscle for all that gave there lives that day god bless all of them and i am privliaged to share the same name as joe and god bless joe and his whole family.
William Maloney
September 11, 2003
I came across the name today .I read Josephs story I fell like I knew him. God bless your entire family. W.M.Maloney
cw
March 20, 2003
hey i feel much great sympathy and i feel bad, but we'll think of him always.
Fr. Steve Tyminski
March 9, 2003
Eighteen months later this March and I'm fighting back tears while re-reading the articles about those we lost on 9-11. It was like reliving that horrible day all over again. But Joe's story lightened my heart. He epitomizes the FDNY guys that we know and love. I will end my memorial reading today on his happier notes.
I grew up with another Maloney family in NJ, four decades ago. (The late patriarch was a Deputy Chief on the Arson Squad). His eldest son, Joe, also became a firefighter -- but I'm relieved to know that he's still saving lives. I will remember FDNY Joe Maloney and his family in my Mass today. -- Fr. Steve +
Betty Meyer
February 21, 2003
Memories of Joe
I met Joe just 3 weeks before he died. Joe's sister, Mary Maloney Werner, lives in VA. I am Mary's neighbor and good friend. Since I am from NJ and she from NY we have become each other's surrogate family. Mary and her husband Dave and their kids David and Christopher hang out with us - my husband, John and our kids Jason and Kati. We count on each other for our weekend entertainment (beer and wine tastings), moral support, and an occasional cup of milk or other household necessities. The stuff that makes good neighbors good friends.
So it was that Joe and Kathy, Joseph and Megan came to visit Mary and Dave for a few days in VA - August 2001. Now you have to understand that when Mary and Dave have company in the summer, we have company too. Our backyard is equipped with the pool, the outdoor "Tiki" bar, the beer on tap, the hot tub, etc. We were delighted to meet Joe and Kathy, Joseph and Megan.
Not only did we meet them...but we knew instantly that we had found new friends. We proceeded to have way too much fun for the next few days. We hung out at the "tiki" bar, Joe took his kids for rides on the ATVs, everyone swam and barbecued and had a good old time. We stayed up way too late, drank a little too much and solved the many problems of the world. Until the next day, and we'd do it all over again.
It was one of those late nights when Joe decided he was almost done for the night and headed back from our house to Mary's along, what we call, "Werner Way". Werner Way is a series of paver stones amid a bed of mulch that cuts through about 8 feet of trees between our property and Mary's. Joe described to us the next day that the spacing of those stones was not exactly in sync with his stride....he had SO carefully - gingerly - stepped and hopped from one stone to the other while concentrating on NOT spilling his full drink....and certainly NOT falling off the stones. We laughed so hard when he told us all this....I mean, afterall, it's not like there was LAVA between those stones. But after a long day at the Tiki bar....there may as well have been.
One of those days, Joe and Kathy, Joseph and Megan went to Kings Dominion - an amusement park - and took my daughter Kati. She had a ball with them and they treated her as their own.
Two weeks later a crisis would occur in my family. My niece had had a serious horseback riding accident and was in ICU at Washington Hospital Center with a brain injury. Her mother (my sister) had been at ICU round the clock...and finally over the weekend, came to my house where my other sister and 2 brothers came from NJ to VA to offer their moral support. The Werner's came over and we were letting loose a bit. And Mary thought it would be a great idea to call Joe and let MY brother speak to HER brother.
It was Saturday night, September 8.
It was a silly conversation...and Joe said that now he could imagine just where we were all sitting and hanging out. He spoke with my brother Bill. We laughed again about his encounter with the paver stones in Werner Way. And we talked about when he would come to VA next year....
...and that was the last time we would speak with Joe.
We didn't even know on Sept 11 that he was gone. We knew he was missing...but like the rest of the world...held onto every shred of hope. After more than 2 weeks...he was found.
We drove to Long Island to attend the funeral - me and my husband, John, and our kids Jason and Kati.
And when we saw Kathy she said...."Oh, we thought we had found nice new friends."
And all I could manage back was "you did"....and she vowed that she and the kids would come back to visit next year.
...and she did. We all sat at the Tiki bar and swam in the pool and cried about Joe...and laughed about those shared days the year before.
We remember Joe often. Mary speaks of him always. And we share her family's grief.
And as we carefully negotiate those stones back and forth between our yards in Werner Way - now renamed "Joe's Way" - laughing inside over the memories of Joe gingerly stepping through them - and knowing that he's smiling down on us sharing the chuckle - you can be sure that we will never forget Mary's brother. Dave's brother-in-law. David and Christopher's Uncle. Kathy's husband. Joseph and Megan's Dad. Jim and Mary's son.
Our new friend, Joe.
'Til we meet again, Joe.
With all our love,
Betty, John, Jason and Kati Rose Meyer
Melanie Taylor
November 30, 2002
I am a member of Adams Angels and I was paire with Joseph Maloney's family. I realize I have never met you, but am here should you need anything at all.
GOD BLESS YOU JOSEPH. YOU ARE TRULY A HERO, I AM HONORED TO LIVE IN A COUNTRY WHERE WE HAVE SUCH A SHINING EXAMPLE OF COURAGE SUCH AS YOURSELF AND THE FDNY.
Diane Terrano
September 15, 2002
My family and I recently moved to Las Vegas in the Spring from New Jersey. My husband, a union construction carpenter was called to assist that fateful morning, in the rescue and recovery along with other contruction workers. He volunteered on the site for 5 days...I worked at St. Joseph's Hospital in Paterson, NJ overlooking Manhattan and spoke with many families of victims searching for their loved ones.Although we have moved to the West, we took all the pride of being from NY with us. Your story Joe, and many others will live on forever, we will NEVER forget and talk of our experiences there often to the people out here. I wear the bracelet bearing your name with pride and remembrance. May God Bless you and your family and all the others we keep in our hearts.
Bruce Steinberg
September 10, 2002
Dear Joe,
The neighborhood just isn't the same anymore without you and your big smile around.I miss having you drop by for a beer after work,and going out bass fishing with you, and having you stop by to give me a hand whennever I needed help with some car repair or whatever. You were a good friend and neighbor for the past 17 years . God Bless until we meet again in that Happy Fishing Ground in the sky. Bruce.
Susan Fackelman
September 9, 2002
I worked with Kathy, what seams like a million years ago, in the ICU at LIJ. The first time I met Joe was at a BBQ at their house. Just a bunch of nurses and Joe hanging out. Kathy and Joe were a lot of fun to watch. Since 9-11, they have become part of my daily thoughts and prayers. I wish you strength, courage, and, most of all, peace. Love, As Always, ICU-Sue
Nelson Omar
September 4, 2002
Dear Mr.Joseph,
Thank You for sacreficing our life
and all the people you save.We all going to miss you and all your family too and god bless you.
Nelson Gomez
Septemper 4,2002
sharon quam
September 4, 2002
We pray still for all the lost souls of 09/11/01. May God hold you in his hand and give you peace. Your bravery on that day will not be forgotten. May God bless and keep your family and give them peace.
Claire Graham-Luna-Pinsker
June 5, 2002
I graduated Herricks High School with Joe. 9/11 was and continues to be an unbelievable day in my life and our history. To know that a fellow classmate, someone my age, who shared school experiences is no longer here, now a hero, now leaving a family makes the world a little smaller. Thank-you Joe for being there for others though our lives have never crossed paths since that year of 1973. Too young a hero. My children have viewed your high school photo in my year book and it made them realize how cruel reality can be, more than any newspaper article. May God bless your family and the people you touched!
Angie Campbell
May 6, 2002
**********GOD BLESS YOU**********
TOMMY BARRON
March 27, 2002
I remember watching Joe and his brothers and sisters grow up in Albertson,N.Y. I lived only a block from the Maloney residence and my wife and I frequently remarked that the entire Maloney family was so handsome.This is a terrible loss. Everyone agrees JOE and all those like him were genuine heroes- the kind kids must appreciate rather than sports figures and entertainment stars. I can only add to this humble tribute that JOE obviously developed into a very good copy of his mother,Mary, and his father,Jim, with whom I served in the NYPD a lifetime ago. There is no doubt in my mind that God will watch over his family lovingly.
Christine Orgera
March 17, 2002
Just want to tell you a few things about my brother in law Joe. Joe was a man with many friends. A big man with a bigger heart. A great sense of humor that could make anyone laugh. He always greeted his friends and family with a giant hug, which would really have you feeling love by him. HIs greatest love was his family, he took pride in being a Dad. He left us two beautiful children. His son greets his friends and family with that same special hug. HIs daughter is beautiful she looks just like her Dad. God Bless you JOe.
Tarrah Morse
March 14, 2002
One of my Christmas presents was a mercy bracelet inscribed with Joseph E. Maloney's name. Since then I have wanted to let his family and friends know that they are in my daily thoughts and prayers. Cherish the memories and know that Joseph will always being watching over you.
Barbara Drosselmeier
March 6, 2002
Me and My husband Bob knew Joe briefly. Our sons played football together. My husband said he was the kind of guy he wanted to get to know better. We think of him and his wife Kathy and the kids everytime we are reminded of this horrible event. I have to tell you the most touching thing that I saw was seeing our little boys all wear black armbands in the game following Joes death. The Drosselmeiers hearts and prayers go out to Kathy and the kids.
February 28, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL HERO FIREMAN..JOSEPH MALONEY AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK...STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01...MAY JESUS AND ST.JOSEPH GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
February 28, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL HERO FIREMAN..JOSEPH MALONEY AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA...STAY CLOSE AND NEVER FORGET 9/11/01...MAY JESUS AND ST.JOSEPH GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Atousa Amin
February 26, 2002
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Maloney, Werner and all those who lost a friend/family member on that tragic day (9/11/01). God Bless.
Lynn Evans
February 23, 2002
Everyday I, too, wear a Mercy Band inscribed with Joseph E. Maloney's name. It puts everything that happens throughout the day into proper perspective. Each of the many times a day that I see it, I pray for his family and give thanks for him and those like him who answer our calls for help. I extend my deepest sympathies to his family.
Syndee Werner
February 15, 2002
I have heard so many wonderful stories about Joe from his sister Mary that it breaks my heart to see her have to mourn her brother's death at far too young of an age. I have two older brothers myself, one of which Mary is married to and I couldn't imagine losing one of them the way she lost Joe. Kathy & Joseph & Megan, Mary & James, Mary, Elizabeth, Brian, Jim...you are all in my prayers.
Susan Gassman
February 12, 2002
Joe was the brother of my sister-in-law, Mary. I hope time eases her grief and the pain she is experiencing is subdued with the wonderful love and memories that Joe left her with. It's hard to see someone you love have such immense sadness in their life - these notes about Joe and all the other brave hero's that day will help to ease their loss.
dave maloney
February 8, 2002
fallen, but not forgotten...
Ashley Melvin
January 31, 2002
My heart goes out to all the families of the fallen victums, and the fire-fighters and other 'heros' that were there that day. God bless
Kurt Enkelmann
January 30, 2002
Our prayers are with you everyday to help you live each day without your hero husband. We know he is in a better place now and watching down over you and your family. May God bless you more everyday.
Nancy Dean
January 26, 2002
All the men and women that helped on 9-11 are truly heros. My heart goes out to all the families that were affected that day.
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