Sean P. Lynch

Sean P. Lynch

Sean Lynch Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 23, 2001.
Strivers, Like Their Parents
Whatever their achievements, the Lynch boys were products of their upbringing. The children of Irish immigrants, Sean P. Lynch and his brother Farrell P. Lynch were strivers like their parents.

"They never forgot where they were from," said their sister, Ellen Lynch. Growing up in a family of seven in a two- bedroom house ‹ "all the boys slept in the attic," she said ‹ they were a tight-knit group, and as adults with families, they often gathered in that same house, where their parents still live, for traditional Irish breakfasts.

The brothers both worked at Cantor Fitzgerald; Sean Lynch was an interest rate options broker and Farrell Lynch, who had worked there long enough to be around for the 1993 bombing, was a partner.

Farrell Lynch lived on Long Island with his wife, Eileen, and daughters Katie, 13, Meghan, 11, and Annie, 7. The couple met as sophomores in high school, and they were looking forward to their 15th anniversary this month. Farrell Lynch also looked forward to a day when he could retire and coach high school basketball, said his wife. "He wanted to get into coaching one day ‹ that was his dream. Simple, but that's what he wanted," she said.

Sean Lynch, 36, lived in Morristown, N.J., with his wife, Lori, and daughters Mary, 3, and Grace, 17 months. "He was a very thoughtful person," said his wife. "He was already saying to Mary, 'Be kind to your sister; always treat people well.' "


Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on November 24, 2001.


Sean Patrick Lynch, Stockbroker made time for family and fun Devotion to family, getting a good education and staying active in sports were the hallmarks of the life of Sean Patrick Lynch.

Though he left for his job at the World Trade Center in New York at 5 a.m. each day, he made sure he'd be back home in Morris Township at 6:15 p.m. on the dot most evenings to be with his wife and two young daughters, Mary and Grace.

In his spare time, the 36-year-old interest rate options broker at Cantor Fitzgerald Securities played golf and basketball, skied, swam and followed the Knicks, Mets and Jets. A 1987 graduate of Cornell University with an MBA from New York University, he also loved reading.

"He read everything," said his wife, Lori Lynch. "Forbes, Barron's, Sports Illustrated, Tom Clancy, anything by Warren Buffett, biographies of U.S. presidents. You name it, he loved to read it."

Mr. Lynch was working on the 105th floor of One World Trade Center when a hijacked plane hit the building Sept. 11. Also working for Cantor Fitzgerald on the same floor was Mr. Lynch's older brother, Farrell Lynch of Centerport, N.Y., who also is missing.

Farrell, the oldest of four Lynch brothers, was a Cantor Fitzgerald partner assigned to the collateralized mortgage obligation desk. Like Sean, he was an athlete, playing for Nazareth College in Rochester, N.Y., that made it to the Division III national basketball tournament one year. He, too, later took up golf. Married and the father of three girls, Farrell Lynch coached CYO basketball and soccer.

Lori Lynch said it was purely coincidental the brothers came to be employed at the same time in the same place. But it wasn't coincidental they had good jobs. Their parents, immigrants from Ireland, worked long hours to make certain their five children could be educated in private schools and be successful.

Mr. Lynch grew up in a two-bedroom house in Merrick, N.Y., sharing a converted attic with his three brothers.

The year after graduating from Cornell, he took a broker's position in Jersey City with Prebon Yamane, an international money firm. Also a broker, Lori Lynch sat next to him there and was attracted to his Irish wit, depth of character and sense of family. They married in 1996. Mr. Lynch joined Cantor Fitzgerald in 1998.

Mr. Lynch never expressed any fears about working in the upper reaches of the World Trade Center, site of a terrorist bombing in 1993. But his wife said he had begun voicing reservations about rarely getting outside during the day.

"He'd just mentioned to me the week before that all he ever saw at work were clouds, never any grass," said Lori Lynch, who's expecting their third child in November. "He couldn't walk down the stairs to get some air because that would have taken 20 minutes."

To Greg Kaufman, a resident of Princeton and a financial consultant with Merrill Lynch in Short Hills, Mr. Lynch's most endearing characteristic was his infectious laugh. The two were members of the Phi Delta Theta fraternity at Cornell and remained close.

"Even if what he was laughing at wasn't that funny, you'd want to laugh with Sean," said Kaufman. "He was very popular."

Mr. Lynch also made it a practice to stay in touch with old friends, sometimes disguising his voice to keep them guessing about his identity until he could spring his surprise, Kaufman added.

In addition to his wife and daughters, Mr. Lynch is survived by his parents, Farrell and Rosetta Lynch of Merrick; two brothers, Brian of Bellmore, N.Y., and Kieran of Wilton, Conn.; and a sister, Ellen Lynch Miszkiewicz of Summit.

A memorial Mass is scheduled for 1 p.m. Friday at the Church of the Assumption in Morristown, where Mr. Lynch was a communicant.

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September 11, 2014

Tom Tseng posted to the memorial.

June 1, 2014

S J. Friscia III posted to the memorial.

September 12, 2013

Ruth Ivanescu posted to the memorial.

Tom Tseng

September 11, 2014

On behalf of your Cornell class (1987), I again choose to remember you on this anniversary. Your friends and classmates continue to celebrate your memories. You will not be forgotten.

S J. Friscia III

June 1, 2014

In Memory
With Honor & Respect.

Ruth Ivanescu

September 12, 2013

Lori, please know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers on this day each year. With love, cousin Ruth

John Meaney

September 11, 2013

Lori, our family - the extended Hartigans on the West Coast - think of you and your family often, and particularly on this day.

Jeff Lowe

June 8, 2013

God Bless the Lynch family. Al and Barbara Lowes son Jeffrey. Parents were tight with Farrel and eddy. Distant relative. Feel free to contact me on FB.

Greg Foss

February 14, 2013

I happened to be thinking of some fun days at Cornell today and found this tribute to my 1986 and 1987 roomie. Sean and I used to discuss the relative benefits of each others home countries usually over a beer or two. I am a proud Canadian who is a better man for having known Sean. Lori and family and American friends who suffered such a horrible event, I am thinking of you guys often. God Bless.

Joe Lawless

October 17, 2011

It's incredibly surreal to see that a decade has passed since we lost Sean, provocateur of laughter. I knew that I had a serious conversation with Sean if it was less than 80% good natured satire. The days and years pass and the pain is dulled,somewhat, but I think of the good times often. Boy,we had some laughs, didn't we? Slan Go Foill.

Sean Patrick Harney

September 11, 2011

Sean and Farrell were my boyhood friends growing up next door to my grandma Harney. Sean was named after me and I taught him how to play lacrosse. I continue to pray for strength for all the family. The world is a better place to have been blessed by them while we had them. "And now abide faith, hope, love, these three, but the greatest of these is love." 1Cor.13:13

Catie Walsh

September 11, 2011

Lori, we are thinking of you and the kids today. Miss you. Love from your Chicago family.
Catie

Ruth Ivanescu

September 10, 2011

Lori, we just want you to know that Sean and his brother are in our thoughts & prayers today. May God bless you and your family throughout these times of remembrance and honor. Love from cousin Ruth, Cris and Chloe.

Vera Holland

September 6, 2011

Hi. My name Is Vera holland from Kildare. Ireland. My gran and Sean and farlos dad were sister and brother from letriem. My thoughts r with u all. Vera holland

September 5, 2011

Kieran, will always remember you and yours. Love, Karen Kieffer

Charlie Palmer

September 4, 2011

10 years on and you are still missed. Hope your family are all doing well.

Tom Tseng

May 1, 2011

On behalf of your Cornell class (1987), I hope the news of bin Laden's death bring closure to your family & loved ones. You are missed. We will never forget.

Karen Kieffer

September 13, 2010

Kieran, I love you. No one will ever forget. Think about you often. Jane Lunde helped me get this websit. God bless you and yours. Peace, Karen

September 12, 2010

You are always in our hearts, and never ever forgotten, Uncle Sean.

Seouvan Rodriguez

September 10, 2010

9 years later it feels like yesterday,well Lori if you happen to read this, it's me Seouvan I babysat Mary and Gracie when I went to CSE. Well I'm a mom now I have 2 little girls and I would love for them to meet you guys if you happen to read this please email me [email protected] I think about you guys all the time and I am so sorry for your lose Sean was a great man.

July 26, 2010

Happy Birthday. I miss u.

Your Brother, Kieran

April 10, 2010

i love you and miss you uncle sean.

Tom Tseng

September 11, 2009

On behalf of your Cornell class (1987), I choose to remember you, Sean, on this 8th anniversary of the World Trade Center attack. You will always be fondly remembered by those who have shared time with you. We will never forget.

Doug Abraham

July 26, 2009

Happy Birthday!!!

Maureen Avarista (Lynch)

October 20, 2008

Rest in peace.
-Maureen (Lynch) Avarista

Doug Abraham

July 25, 2007

Happy Birthday!!!

Rich Schlaack

June 7, 2007

I meant to do this much earlier, and then I misplaced Sean's card for a time. I found it the other day and hoped that I might be able to find a sight such as this. I found Sean's card a year or so after 9/11 and it was like a punch to the gut. I met Sean and his wife at the Bruce Springsteen concert at The Meadowlands back in 99. I was caddying on the PGA Tour at the time and was in early from the Hartford tournament. We had a great time, we joked about setting me up with a friend for the next show that I was coming down for. The last time Bruce Springsteen came to Cincinnati, I had Sean's card with me, it was in my fist during Born To Run. I only knew Sean for the briefest of time, short but sweet. My apologies for being so late, I wanted to share. God Bless.

Tramps like us,
Rich Schlaack

P Tabbernor

December 16, 2006

In remembrance....

Kristine

November 22, 2006

As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.

Karen Bourneuf

September 11, 2003

To the Lynch Family,



Sean and I were friends when he lived in Battery Park City. At the time, I was working on the 106th floor of WTC 2 and he was working in Jersey City.



Sean was a fantastic, kind, funny and smart man. On this second anniversary of his passing, I wanted to let you know that I continue to keep you in my prayers. On this day, I will always light a candle in his honor. God Bless.

Angelo Vangeli

May 10, 2003

To Rosetta, Farrell

We are deeply sorry for your loss of your boys Farrell and Sean.

A terrible tragedy and loss to a wonderful family, hardworking and caring people.

May they rest in peace. May they not be forgotten.

We pray that God will ease the pain of your loss. Our hearts are with you.

God bless you.

Dominic Macedo

October 28, 2002

I was saddened to hear about Sean. I sat behind him through 4 years at Chaminade High School. I'll always remember his ability to find humor in every situation and to point it out to all who would listen. I pray for him and his family often.

Shelby Tedesco Spak

September 11, 2002

I knew Sean at Cornell, where he was liked by everyone who knew him. He was a good friend, a good person, and a good man. My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this very sad time.

Rhoda & Harry Anderson

September 10, 2002

We will never forget your loss- you are part of our extended family for which we grieve. God bless your family, god give us strength.

frank Griffin

September 8, 2002

I did not know Sean, but I'm sure God welcomed him with open arms.

God bless him and those he left behind.

Frank Griffin

Angie Campbell

May 4, 2002

May God Bless you and watch over the ones that you left behind on 9/11/01. Rest in his loving peace forever more.

February 26, 2002

DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN SEAN P.LYNCH AND MAY HE REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS WONDERFUL FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS..GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK AND MAY WE NEVER FORGET 9/11/01..MAY JESUS GREET YOU AND FARRELL AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN

Margaret (Mulrooney) Dwyer

February 22, 2002

Dear Lynch Family,

May God Bless all of you. Our prayers are with you. I had the pleasure of knowing both Sean and Farrell as children when they visited their cousins the Bradys in the Bronx. My heart was broken to hear of your loss. The world now has two very special guardian angles. God Bless You, The Dwyer Family.

Mari Ishihara-Zhang

February 14, 2002

Sean and Lori,

It has been such a long time since we worked togethr at Pribon. When you guys were married, I was very happy for you. Now this tragic happend. I am very sorry. We lost a nice, funny, and smart man.

Lori, Sean will be always with you and your daughters.



Love,

Mari

Kate Dudonis

January 9, 2002

Sean P Lynch! I miss saying that everytime I saw you and more so I miss you laughing every time I said it. I am so sad that you are gone, you were one of my favorite people at Cantor. I am thinking of you and I miss you buddy. Watch over all of us that are missing you.

Teresa Jahn

December 24, 2001

We are deeply sorry for your loss of Farrel and Sean. May their lives and love live on in all who love them. Our hearts cry with you.

America Cries

We see your sorrow-

and our hearts cry....

We can not erase your pain

but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-

-the American people-

are beside you.

We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,

the strength that gives you courage,

and the words to lighten your spirits.

And when we are left speechless

may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts

to ease your sorrow.

May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-

-the American people-

face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn

Dixon, IL

Mary White for Trinity Episcopal church

November 4, 2001

Trinity Episcopal Church

410 North Pine Street

Florence, Alabama 35630



To the Family of Sean Patrick Lynch,



On All Saints Sunday, November 4th, Trinity Episcopal Church held a Blood Drive in memory of all who lost their lives on September 11, 2001. Each person who donated chose a name to memorialize by his or her gift. Sean was chosen by Vanessa Morse, a member of our church and the wife of one of Sean's fraternity brothers. Although we cannot lessen your personal pain and grief over this terrible tragedy, please know that you and your loved one are not forgotten and that we keep you in our hearts and prayers. May God bless you!



Sincerely,


Mary White

Chairman, Outreach

Joel Whitley

October 1, 2001

Sean was a fraternity brother and I also worked with him for a short time at Cantor. He will be missed by all of us. I pray for his family everyday. God bless you!!

Barbara Bolin

September 24, 2001

MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU ALL.MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

SEAN MAY YOU REST IN PEACE.

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