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Michael Tinley Obituary
Michael E. Tinley had visited Marsh & McLennan's conference room in the World Trade Center dozens of times. But it wasn't until Sept. 11 that he mentioned the view to his sister. "He called me and said, 'I'm up here on the 100th floor and I can see your building,' " said Suzanne Tinley, who lives in TriBeCa. "I turned to my son, Henry, and said, 'Uncle Mike is waving at you.' "
That was at 7:47 a.m.
Mike Tinley, 56, was a vice president at Marsh & McLennan based in Dallas, a job that kept him on the road. He was a prolific traveler, the kind of man who would meet his daughters, Lisa and Jenna, during airport layovers or drive from Los Angeles to San Francisco for a date.
New York was one of his favorite towns, and here's Mike Tinley doing the Big Apple: Stay at the Marriott downtown. Hang out at Cafe Dante in the Village. Catch a performance of "Saturday Night Fever." Walk the streets with a digital camera pressed to his eye. "He could get along with anybody," Lisa said. "When he went to Hawaii, he became friends with the guy who did the luau and cooked the pig."
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C Nakada
September 11, 2024
Thinking of you and your family today. I remember answering the phone at school when Jenna called in with the news!
Christopher Tinley
December 16, 2023
God bless you anamesake fromNetherseal England
Avery Kennedy
January 24, 2022
Hi grandpa. In reading about you and learning more, I realize how much we are similar and how much we would've gotten along. I always walk with a camera and take thousands of pictures. I love you!
Shaughn Moore
September 11, 2021
How can it be twenty years? I will never forget the phone call telling me to wake up and turn on the TV. Living in Sydney at the time, the US had never felt so far away - family felt so far away. I am forever grateful for the friends and community in AU that were my support system in the time that followed that unimaginable moment when watched the North tower fall and I fell to my knees.
I miss you terribly Mike. You are frequently on my mind these days as you have been over the years. Just because you trip in life it does not mean you have to stay down. Thank you for that example.
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Debra Smith
September 11, 2020
Another Anniversary today of an event that will never be forgotten. I did not know you Michael, but worked at RBC Dain Rauscher at the time and was familiar with the company of your employ. Today in looking at the list of all those lives who were taken that day, I came across your name being from Dallas near where I currently reside in McKinney. The list with your name included led me in my search to this memorial for you with inspiration to leave this message. Your life mattered. I continue to keep those in my prayers that lost loved ones that day and to reassure them that you and all the many others taken that day will never be forgotten.. May you Rest In Peace Michael Tinley.
The Kindred Family
November 11, 2019
Sending our deep sympathy to your family. May these words sent show that others still do care about your loss. Mike is still so sadly missed and will always be remembered. Each day may God continue to give his peace and support. Finally may the time come when these violent acts no longer exist.
Timothy McGee
September 11, 2019
As cousins we shared the same comics on Sunday morning in CB...rest in peace Mike, I remember the good times!
Judy Garrison
September 11, 2019
I saw his family's sign with his image when I visited Ground Zero in March of 2002. Although I didn't know him, had never met him, I will never forget him for he will always be my symbol of 9/11, God bless his family and memory.
PAULA BEERS
July 23, 2019
I think of Mike so often. He was such a good friend and I miss our chats. He will always hold a special place in my heart.
Amy Tamanaha
September 8, 2016
Just wanted to drop by, Mike, to let you know that we are thinking about you. I can't believe that 15 yrs have passed. You would be so proud of Jenna, Lisa and your grandkids. I have the honor of seeing their families grow through facebook, can you believe it?
Save a seat for us at the lunch table, Mike.
Love,
Amy and the boys.
Shela Fite
September 25, 2015
You and your family are still in my mind, after all these years. I'm still thinking of you and praying for you all. God bless and God speed! ~Aussie/USA friend, Shela
Tammy Puterbaugh
September 11, 2015
Thinking of all those who perished and their families..God Bless
Shela Fite
September 11, 2014
My thoughts & prayers are with your loved ones. May God be with you all today & every day. I'll never forget the day, in Sydney, Australia, when I had the opportunity to meet your family at the bottom of the staircase at the US Consultant, as we lit some candles, prayed, & spoke. You're always in my heart.
September 10, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with You Lisa on this anniversary. May God bless you and your family. Steve and Molly Kitsmiller
Judy Garrison
September 18, 2013
Not an anniversary goes by that I don't think of you. I never knew you, but I photographed the poster your family left for you near the Trade Center. Oddly enough, there's a connection. May they always live in the light of your love. God bless.
Amy Tamanaha
September 12, 2013
I can't believe it has been 12 yrs already. Mike, you'd be amazed....,I've become friends with your girls through social media!
You and your family continues to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Karen Templeton
September 11, 2013
12 years later...you are still missed Michael. May you rest in peace.
September 7, 2013
Miss you and love you sooooooo much Dad!!! xxoo!!!!!!
Lisa
September 14, 2012
We wil never forget you Dad! xoxo, Lisa P.S. I miss your happy smile and your silly laugh!;)
Judy Garrison
September 11, 2012
Thinking of your family today.
January 22, 2012
I worked with your dad at The Aetna Casualty and Surety Company in Los Angeles. He welcomed me with his big smile and took me under his wing to learn the Bond Business. I'll hoist a Dewars and water to Mike for the caring concern he showed me, and God Bless and God Rest his Irish soul.
Kenneth W. Say
September 14, 2011
Judy.. I cannot wait to look further at your blog! Thank you for posting Dad's poster that my amazing sister made years ago! Thank you for letting us know! We have met some of the most amazing people through this horrific tragedy! You are now a part of that special circle!
God Bless you, Lisa Kennedy
Judy Garrison
September 12, 2011
I'm sorry - the website is http://myredneckfriend.blogspot.com/ to view the poster.
Judy Garrison
September 12, 2011
On Sunday, I looked over photos that I had taken at Ground Zero in March of 2002. One of these was the poster that was made of Michael E. Tinley. I thought you would like to see it. May God always hold you tightly.
Rosemary Landers
September 11, 2011
I had the honor of holding Michael's name on a slip of paper during a special 9/11 Memorial Walk in our town of West Plains, MO. yesterday. Now, I have a face & some stories to go with his name! May God bless his family.
September 10, 2011
Dad, you know how much I miss you.. it goes without saying! I am so proud to be reading your name tomorrow! It still hurts terribly bad and my heart aches, but it is also happy for you because I know you have found eternal peace! I feel you around me at times and I LOVE that! Steve and your Grandchildren keep your memory alive! Please swirl around us tomorrow!;) - you know what I mean!!! xoxo
Kristy Mendoza-Vick
September 9, 2011
I am an old friend of Mike's daughter Jenna. I met Mike when I was in grade school, but I do remember what an amazing father he was to Lisa and Jenna. He was loved by so many people. My prayers are with Lisa and Jenna forever and may Mike rest in peace with our Lord.
Shaughn Tinley
August 23, 2011
Miss you Mike -I miss your advice and words of wisdom but I feel you by my side. I know that your example has helped to guide me to the point I am at right now. Thank you for that.
Love you
Shaughn
Lee
September 11, 2010
Dallas misses you.
Shaughn Tinley
September 10, 2010
In my thoughts as always - thank you for the example you set. Missing you dearly.
Love Shaughn
Shela Fite
September 10, 2010
I took a photo of a note with a photo of you with your family and/or friends on it that someone left at the memorial at the US Consulate in Sydney, Australia just after 9/11. I look at it from time to time and still feel the pain as if it were the first time. I feel so close to you and your family, although we've never met. As I write this with tears in my eyes... wherever you are, you are the wind beneath our wings. God bless your family. We will never forget you.
catherine meier
August 25, 2010
I just found this site. i miss you Michael, and have fond memories of your love of your children. I think of your kids and your mother often. i hope this finds you all and know your father was such a positive influence. if feels unreal all this time later. i knew him as a avid lover of work, travel, family, mornings and his diet cokes. so for him to leave us at his job, in the morning, just off the phone with family, and tragically by a plane which i knew his to love to travel is all very surreal. my love to all the Tinley's. you'll always be in my heart forever. Catherine Meier 760-238-0855
Pauline Yokota
September 12, 2009
Long, long ago we used to play bridge once a month in Palos Verdes California. Michael was my partner many times. I always found him to be a gentle man and pleasant to be with. I have often thought of him and the tragedy of 911. We visited the 911 site in 2003 and I looked for Michael's name and I stood and said a prayer for him and all the others. My heart goes out to his children, and his family.
Pauline Yokota
Amy Tamanaha
September 11, 2009
I took it for granted all of these years that my now 8 yr old son had a good understanding about what happened on 9/11. Perhaps I have been over-protective all of these years, but when he asked me this week what 9/11 was, I did explain to him that thousands of innocent people lost their lives that day due to a very horrible terrorist attack.
My son will participate in a flag ceremony as a cub scout today at school. I think that this time it will be more meaningful to him. I'll say a little prayer for you and your family today.
Mike,
We will never forget you or your family.
Amy
Jenna
February 2, 2009
I miss you Dad. Love you always.
Love,
Jenna
Mathew McGee
November 19, 2008
I did not know Michael, nor did I even know of him until today. I am in the midst of doing research on my family history and I came across this tribute site to Michael and I have been very moved by it all.
My Aunt Katy and Uncle Dan have previously posted in this guest book, as well. My Great-Grandmother was Dorothy Patricia Tinley and my Great-Great Grandfather was John P. Tinley
Michael sounded like an amazing man in every aspect of life. I love the fact that so many of you have come to share your thoughts, love, and memories.
I will have your families in my prayers forever more.
kristine
November 11, 2008
As I cross-stitched your name on the memorial that I am doing for all of the victims, I prayed for you and your family. Please know that your death was not in vain. We will always remember. God Bless.
Lisa Kennedy
September 14, 2008
Hi Pops.. just reading all the lovely messages from so many people who's lives you touched! We all miss you very much!! JoAnn.. how are you?! So sweet to read your message on the 5th Annivesary.. my sister and I were actually in NY for that Anniversary. We are doing well and moving forward, but still miss you so much Dad! Life is not the same without you in it, but we live life to the fullest in your memory and honor! We will not let our great country forget! There is a beautiful memorial here near our new home and that is where we remembered you this 7th anniversary. Your oldest grandchild was able to rub her finger over your name in steel. It was a very surreal experience for me and for her. We promised to tell her more when she gets a little older. You now have 5 you know.... oh boy!;).. We love you!
Love, Lisa
Amy Tamanaha
September 12, 2008
Mike,
You and your family continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
We have not forgotten.
John & Charlotte Robertson
September 11, 2008
As friends of Mike from San Francisco in the late 1960's, we still feel his absence from our lives. Our thoughts are with family and friends on this anniversary. Michael was a wonderful, fun guy and we had many great times together.
Nicholas Tinley
September 11, 2008
I may only have been 7 when the the towers where hit but I still remember the time that Micheal Tinley tried to take the christmas family photo and couldn't get down the stairs in time and had to try agian
Amy Tamanaha
May 29, 2008
To the Tinley Family,
My son, who was only 3 mos old on 9/11, is now almost 7 yrs old and in Cub Scouts. He & I were placing crosses and flags at the Anaheim Cemetary for Memorial Day with his pack and I had time to reflect on those who have passed before us. Of course, Mike was in our prayers that day.
We have not forgotten you, Mike.
Doug Abraham
January 12, 2008
Happy Birthday!!!
Amy Tamanaha
September 11, 2007
You'll never be forgotten, Mike.
Sincerely,
Amy Tamanaha
Shaughn Tinley
September 11, 2007
Thinking of you today Mike - though you are never far from my thoughts.
Shaughn
September 10, 2007
You will never be forgotten!
P Tabbernor
April 1, 2007
In memory....
Jenna
September 20, 2006
Hi Dad,
Just wanted to tell you again how much I love you and miss you! Figured since I can't tell you in person, I'll continue to try every other avenue I can! Sending BIG hugs your way!!! Thanks for the wonderful signs you showed Lisa and I to let us know you're still near us! We needed that! XOXO to you!! Love you Dad! Love, Jenna
Carrie Capps
September 11, 2006
I was friends with Mike's niece, Shaughn, while we were growing up. I remember meeting Jenna and Lisa when they visited Shaughn's family at a young age. I spent several hours today looking at memorial sites, especially Mike's. Tears welled in my eyes and I smiled as I imagined all of the special memories you must have of a wonderful man. My thoughts and prayers are with you on this day and every day.
Jo Ann Salampessy
September 10, 2006
As I visit this site on the eve of 9-11, five yrs later the strength of emotions still remain the same.
Although, I did not know Mr. Tinley, I did have the fortune of getting to know his daughter, Lisa while she was a drug-rep for our medical office, Purnima K. Patel, MD-Wildomar, CA.
Not knowing what I could do for Lisa then, all I could think of was to list an eBay "charity" auction for a Hallmark Ornmaent, "The Tin Man's Heart".
Lisa, my thoughts and prayers are still with you & your family!
Amy Hallowes
September 11, 2005
Dear Ones:
I write this 4th anniversary of 9/11. As our country struggles through the experience of Katrina. I remember with deep sorrow the pain we all felt four years ago on 9/11.
Only, now I know our beloved Michael is watching over us with his kind and gentle soul and is helping us all to heal once again through this national tragedy.
My thoughts often turn to this day four years ago as I still try to understand what happened and why. These things I may never know, but I do know Michael was a great spirit here on earth, sharing his light and love with all he met and knew.
I miss you Michael, I love you and I remember you this day and all the days of my life. Mostly I think of your smile and brillant light and the love in your heart that you shared with everyone.
Love,
Amy Hallowes
Richard Hagedorn
April 18, 2005
I first met Mr. Tinley when I was on vacation with his niece Shaughn Tinley in Los Angeles. We spent a few days with him and he was great. I still have a picture of Shaughn, Mr. Tinley and I in Tijuana, Mexico next to a donkey. Priceless. Thank you Mike for some great memories. SFC Richard A. Hagedorn, U.S. Army
Lisa Kennedy
December 24, 2004
Hi Dad - Merry Christmas. They are never the same without you, but we celebrate you! I will never forget our Christmas together in 2000. What a wonderful celebration! Bailey misses you too! Emma always talks about you... hmmmm:) I love you!
Tiffany... it was sooo great to hear from you! Your beautiful snowflake is on our tree. I will never forget who gave that to our family and the meaning behind it! Let's get in touch again! I agree with all that you wrote and would love to toast Dad in that Irish custom as well as you and your accomplishments in moving forward! God bless you and your family this Christmas season!
Love, Lisa
Tiffany Widman
September 17, 2004
Hello again, ladies. It has been several months now since I have been in contact, but the recent passing of another September 11th made me want to get in touch. I think of you two often, and now that I (and my family) have moved back to NYC, I wanted to let you know that we were back in the States. London was nice, but I really did miss New York! I think of you guys often, and hope that you are doing well. In a way, time does heal the wounds--just not all the way, right? Please email me when you're going to be in New York again...I thought maybe you were there for the Memorial a few days back, but thought that it might be too emotional of a time to get in touch. I would love to meet you face-to-face at some point. For some reason I have the image of us meeting for the first time and toasting your father over a drink. I have toasted him often over the past three years, as is the Irish custom, hee hee, and someday I hope that we can drink to him together. I'm rambling...just wanted to let you know that I'm still here, putting the pieces of my life back together, and that I think of you often. Take good care.
Tiffany Widman
Dianna Amezquita
September 11, 2004
I first met Mike in 97' in Austin while working with J&H Marsh & McLennan/Premier at ABIA. He was a nice person and full of knowledge. Later, I worked with him in Dallas of 00' with Marsh Inc/SSP at DFW. That is where I was blessed to have work with him on a regular basis and build a friendship. He was such a caring man full of life. He was always willing to help with what needed to be done or worked hard to fix the problem. I enjoyed listening to him about his trips, or something new that happened with his daughters, or what show he attended while in NY. I was fortunate to attend his training in NY at the WTC. I will always be gratefull for all that he taught me. He will always be remembered. My prayers go out to his daughters and his family. God Bless
Kathy Knight
March 12, 2004
Lisa and family,
I wear my flag pin everyday so that those who look at me KNOW I haven't forgotten. When I put my pin on everyday (including my wedding day I had all the men wear it for me) I want the world to know we lost a lot of special people. I remember. I will always remember. My heart will always go out to you and your family. Everyday I think of the tragic events and I pray this world will get better. Hope you are well! Miss you!
Kathy Knight
Lisa Kennedy
October 20, 2003
To Tiffany Widman - I would love to e-mail you, but I do not have your e-mail address! Thank you so much for sending us that important item from 9/11! You are right, is it is all that we have recovered from that day to prove that Dad was really there. You are an angel to us!
Love, Lisa
(Mike's daughter)
Coco Sullivan
September 24, 2003
Michael......I miss you. I wish I could talk to you one more time. It was always so much fun to get those calls while you were waiting for a plane or between meetings or on the road traveling to the next destination. Our friendship spanned so many years but it seems like a minute
You were defined by the daughters you loved so much, Jenna and Lisa. They helped make you the wonderful person you were to all who knew you.
Fondly,
Coco
Amy Hallowes
September 12, 2003
We have not forgotten you Michael, nor will we ever. We all miss you very much. Our prayers go out to the Tinley Family today, on this anniversary of 9/11. May God bless the Tinley Family.
Love,
Jim and Amy Hallowes
beverkt caskey
September 11, 2003
to the Tinley family: may God bless all of ya'lls heart and soul: i did not know micheal, my heart and soul goes out to you: may the angels keep you warm and safe:during these times: God Bless you and America
Amy Tamanaha
September 11, 2003
To the Tinley Family:
I used to work with Mike at the MTA. He was always happy when talking about his daughters. Just wanted you to know that he will not be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you on this anniversary day. Save a good spot for us in heaven, Mike!
Susan Franklin
September 11, 2003
To the Tinely Family, my prayers are with you today as they were on that dreadful day. I worked with Mike here at the LACMTA in Los Angeles in the Risk Managment Deparatment. I think of Mike often, may God bless you and your family.
James Scurlock
September 9, 2003
May God bless and keep all of the members of the Tinley family during this anniversary week. As someone who travels quite a bit, I know how precious those few moments with family during layovers can be. My prayers are with you.
Lisa Kennedy
August 29, 2003
Hi Dad - I know this is such a strange way to express my emotions, but asides from praying it feels like a way that I can communicate with you b/c of your love for technology. The recent release of the transcripts has me in a tailspin as I try to block what you had to go through along with the thousands of others lost on that day. I miss you every day and wish you could be here with us to enjoy your granddaughter. She points you out in pictures when I ask, "Where's Granpa?" - I guess maybe you do know her. It is strange how she can pick you out of a photo yet still struggles with mama and dada:) I have not forgotten and will keep your memory alive! I love you and miss you!!
Love, Lisa
Daniel McGee
January 3, 2003
To Mike's Family:
I am a distant cousin (my great grandfather was John Patrick Tinley). My prayers went out for all the victims of that horrific terrorist act,,but at the time I had no clue that a family member was lost. It is hard to understand why or how,,but we know that God's work is never done. Mike certainly is one of God's Angels and is reunited with the Tinley clan that have gone before him. His love for life and goodwill shall never be forgotten.
As for the rest of us, "until we meet again, may God hold you in the palm of his hand". amen.
Kathleen McGee-Mattis
January 3, 2003
To the Tinley family, I pray for your ability to face each day with happiness. I feel so much pain about that day, and I will never forget where I was, or how I crumbled as the towers crumbled. I do not know any of you personally, but my Grandmother was Patricia Tinley from Council Bluffs, IA., so I am a relative of yours. God Bless you and your families.
Ron Tinley
December 20, 2002
I feel a bit humble because Mike was obviously a real good guy.My son Simon emailed me this website as we share same surname as Mike and his family.I live in Dundee ,Scotland ,my eldest son Simon lives in Glasgow.
Si actually visited the Towers the year prior to the disaster and its stories like Mikes that really brings home the realities of September 11.
Love and Best wishes to all
Ron
Jenna Tinley Mather
December 11, 2002
I miss you Dad!!!xoxoxo!!!
Ed Bauer
September 11, 2002
1 year ago on sept 11 th I was watching the news and cleaning at a business in town. Little did I know this was the room of Mikes sister. I didn't know until the next day that her brother was in the towers. I told my boss and she asked the name and when I told her she said she went to school with some of the Tinley kids years ago in Iowa! what a small world. My sympathies to the family.
SUE TINLEY
September 10, 2002
Mike,
You were always such a good friend since I first met you so many years ago. I miss your sense of humor and unconditional acceptance. I am sure that you are beaming at that beautiful Emma and would have busted your buttons, if you had any on your soul, on Jenna's wedding day. Keep watch over them all. We know that you are with us.
Bonnie Soileau
September 9, 2002
May god bless you and your family on this special day on 9-11-02. Our prayers and thoughts are with you on this day and every day.
Bonnie Soileau
Jenna Tinley Mather
September 8, 2002
Hi Pops :),
It's been quite a while since I last wrote something to you here. As you know, I miss you dearly each and every day, and love you more than ever. I cannot believe that in 3 days it will be exactly a year ago that you were taken from us. The sadness and pain which that day brought us will never be forgotton, but neither will the joy, love, and laughter that you brought to our lives. I want to share some wonderful news with you, Dad, although I'm sure you already know it! I am now a wife, as I'm sure you know! And Chad is finally your son-in-law! And as of a few days, I am now an aunt, as Lisa is now a mother....so you are now a GRANDPA!! :) You have a beautiful baby granddaughter who has beautiful strawberry-blond hair, which I'm sure you ordered especially for her! :)She's a sweet little angel! Lisa and I know what a wonderful grandpa you would have been and how much you looked forward to being one, one day. We wish you were here with us Dad, but we know that you are with us in spirit. I love you very much, Dad!
All my love,
Jenna
Joan Alvarez
June 29, 2002
Michael was a good friend and I miss him still. The memory of our walks and talks with friends on the Strand are more precious now. God bless his daughters and family.
DONALD GEUEA
May 18, 2002
I am a soldier stationed in Germany. I was transitioning from FT. Carson CO. to Germany on 9/11/01. As an American the shock and horror of that day affects me deeply. I can only imagine your grief and my heart goes out to you and your family. Presently my unit is prepairing for deployment. The purpose of this communication is not an attempt to console you with the prospect of our nation's "revenge" but rather to assure you that as soldiers we are going to do what it takes to ensure that nothing likes this happens on our soil again. This is the sentiment from the lowest ranking private to our chiefs of staff.
respectifully,
SGT Donald L. Geuea
May 14, 2002
DEAR GOD SHINE YOUR LIGHT ON THIS BEAUTIFUL MAN FROM DALLAS TEXAS AND MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE WITH GOD AND HIS ANGELS..GOD BLESS HIS LOVING FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS.GOD BLESS AMERICA AND NEW YORK..MAY JESUS AND ST.MICHAEL GREET YOU AT THE GATES OF HEAVEN...AMEN
Susan Weiner
March 11, 2002
I was a friend of Mike's when we both lived in California. He was a very nice guy - always interested in the world around him and the people in it. Although we both went to different states and didn't keep in touch any longer, I'm glad that he touched my life. My heartfelt condolences to his beautiful daughters and to other members of his family.
Ingrid Johnson
February 15, 2002
Dear Suzanne,
I never met your brother but I see the resemblance in the picture you posted here. I always appreciated your strong family connections. My love to the Tinley family.
Shaughn Tinley
January 19, 2002
Mike-
I miss you terribly- we all miss you. I miss your spin on dad's younger years- and I truly miss your words of wisdom. I can only be grateful for the times that I had with you- and I will cherish those memories forever.
Who could forget all of that garlic??
Love from your niece-
Shaughn
Amy Hallowes
January 18, 2002
We miss you so much Michael and think of you nearly every day. Our prayers are with your family and we will never forget you. We were honored to have you in our wedding party over three years ago and thank you for helping to facilitate bringing our two lives together in marriage. We only wish we could have seen you one last time like we had all planned at the end of September, but a traggic day and act of uncomprehensible violence took that away from us and from you and took a wonderful, kind hearted, gentle man away from all of us. We are still mourning, we love you dearly and miss you terribly. May you rest in peace with the angels, because you are one!!
Love,
Jim and Amy Hallowes
Lisa Kennedy
January 16, 2002
Dear Dad, I am writing to you 4 days after "our" birthday. I miss you so much, and celebrating my 30th was not the same without you being there. I know that you were there in spirit, and I hope that heaven gave you the best 57th B-day bash a person could dream of. It still does not seem real to me that you are gone. I think of you daily. I know that you want us to move on with our lives, but it is so hard, as you were such an important person in Jenna's and my lives. Our last weekend together in New York, I will treasure forever. I know that we will see each other again, and that gives me hope. I have a special secret that I want to share with you, but I am sure that you already know!! I love you!!
Love, Lisa
("the older one")
Michael Mead
January 16, 2002
Michael and I worked together for many years at Aetna and Fred.S. James & Co. At one time, he and Mike Tilton of NJ and I were the 3 James Bond Guys. He was a nice man, a good friend, and I grieve for his family.
Robert & Lucy Reitzfeld
January 16, 2002
Please accept our sincerest condolences. We live directly above Suzanne in TriBeCa, and while never having met Michael we never the less share your grief.
Ann Sarafian
January 15, 2002
I did not know Mr. Tinley, but his daughter Jenna is a teacher at our daughter's school. To the Tinley family, please know that the Sarafians are thinking of you and praying that God's comfort and strength will be with you in the days and weeks to come.
Tiffany Widman
January 15, 2002
This is a message for Mr. Tinley's family. I am very sorry for your loss. I work across the street from the WTC site, on South Broadway. The week after the disaster, I found a personal article of Mr. Tinley's on the roof of my building during the cleanup. It is nothing of great value, but I took it home with me and have saved it. I wanted to wait until after the holidays to contact you, so that I would not disrupt your grieving process. Please e-mail me if you would like more information about this. I assure you that this is not a joke of any kind, and I won't ask for money or anything to return the object. My sincerest condolences are with you, and I hope that contacting you now doesn't cause you further pain. I just figured that the item I have may be the only item of his recovered from the site. God bless.
Mary Beth
January 9, 2002
To Michael's family:
I am so sorry for your loss. I am about the age of his 2 daughters, and I cannot imagine the pain of losing a father. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and we will never forget the victims of September 11. God Bless.
Kate Egan
January 9, 2002
Through the brief amount of time I knew Lisa in college and since, I had come to find her a wonderful, caring, refreshing person. She could only be so wonderful with the guidance and love of a wonderful father (and mother of course). He sounds like such a wonderful man! My prayers go out to the Tinley family and for their father.
Teresa Jahn
December 10, 2001
The world will miss Michael.
America Cries
We see your sorrow-
and our hearts cry....
We can not erase your pain
but you do not have to face the anguish alone-for we-
-the American people-
are beside you.
We so desperately want to have the touch that brings you comfort,
the strength that gives you courage,
and the words to lighten your spirits.
And when we are left speechless
may the silence of our nation weave love into your hearts
to ease your sorrow.
May you find healing through our nation's strength as we-
-the American people-
face this difficult time together. Our hearts are with you. Teresa Jahn
Dixon, IL
Natalie Rogers
October 24, 2001
To the daughters: Your dad is a hero.
Jenna Tinley
October 16, 2001
I LOVE you Dad and miss you dearly! :(
Suzanne TInley
October 16, 2001
Here is a picture of Mike and his 2 daughters on their trip to NYC over Labor Day weekend. It was a weekend of shopping, theatre and restaurants.
Debra Schlee
October 4, 2001
My heart goes out to you and your entire family and friends. I didn't know Michael but I'm a fellow Texan, thus feel your pain like it was my own. May you find strength!
Anne Apple
September 30, 2001
I did not know you personally, but worked in the Dallas office & know you were a wonderful man, Michael. My thoughts & heartfelt prayers are with you and your family.
Michael Hein
September 29, 2001
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shocked in Germany. Michael Hein
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